cococandy:


You can date without sex.
Many of you don’t even know the meaning of dating.

lezz:
anyhow the OP puts it , it's still suicide for girls.

Many guys will quickly downgrade the relationship if they know their prospects is seeing or dating other men. Personally, I will downgrade a prospective to fling status of I found out I'm just an option in a variety.

Also it's still unhealthy for a girl after dating different guys you then settle for one. I wonder how they manage that

brownemmanuel43:

Pocopoco, can u face the facts that this day giving birth to girl child is damn scaring? Hell no.

siofra:


God! You're so boring. You sound like a mosquito's fart

Farfalla:

Would you find it "scary" as you say to give birth to a daughter in Norway or Germany? Knowing she'll grow up around Norwegian or German men?

Do you think Obama or Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson, or even Dangote would think it's scary to have daughters?

brownemmanuel43:

We are still in naija ma. When we get their we will cross

Farfalla:


I'm more interested in knowing why it scares you to have and raise daughters in Naija as opposed to, let's say Canada.

What do your sons do while in Nigeria that makes you afraid of having your daughters around them?

Olumighty123:
No be your tohtoh go Suffer am?

SlyfoxxjReturns:


When we are young and have the luxury of time, most people tend to do the exclusive dating thing. if you are fortunate to find your life partner in this period then that’s your good fortune. But as we get older and the need to find a “serious” partner increases and becomes more urgent, most people, especially women, enter a phase of what I call “rapid dating” where they casually see, date or at least talk to multiple men in a short period. It’s not same thing as a fling, a fling is a short, spontaneous sexual relationship between two people with no intention of a lifelong commitment, but sex may not even be involved in this rapid dating phase I’m talking about. It’s just all about exploring options in a dating pool trying to find a serious partner that you connect with and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I know this because I am currently in that dating pool talking to several women in that age group and we all know what it is. Some suddenly stop talking to me overnight and I know it’s probably because they have met the one they want to get serious with. You only know this if you are in that space yourself.

brownemmanuel43:

Thanks for the question my dear.
First and foremost, like I said earlier on, a male child that goes wild will always remember his root, but a girl child that goes wild hardly remember her root.

lezz:
that space, that pool and that idea is wrong.

They are the baggages that mar and ruin relationships later and heighten the idea of available options elsewhere and kills pleasure rewards in committed relationship.

The need for a woman to date multiple men at a time stems from a wrong foundation; a careless youth phase.....

And regret of missing out on your pool of samples/date is always looming.

Divoc19:
So dating means romantic hmmm.
Am learning

cococandy:


During dating, you’re getting to know each other. It doesn’t have to involve sex.

Like the lady said, if you find the person that’s the one, then you can exclude everyone else because ultimately the goal would be to become their permanent partner whether through marriage or some other form of commitment.

Now let me ask. If men can’t date without sex. And men can’t stay without dating. Why are guys expecting women to be virgins or have no sexual experience?
Aren’t y’all confused like this?
Does that make any sense to you?
Don’t answer me. Just think about it for yourself

SlyfoxxjReturns:


Okay. Your opinion. I respectfully disagree. I see no reason why a woman with a limited window to find a spouse should tie herself down with a guy who is not serious or ready just because she must be loyal. This is the same school of thought that encourages women to remain in abusive relationships because it’s “for better for worse”. If you’re already at that age you should know or you will find out that you have to be more selfish in relationships if you want the best for yourself instead of doing stupid love up and down like a naive teenager. That’s why I said only matured minds will understand what I am saying.

Drella:

pocohantas:


You suddenly want to deny your tribe? Is this how you people want to actualize Biafra?

Nawa!

Divoc19:
Interesting.
So, the chances of being romantic with more than one guy is high if she dates multiple.
I personally don't think 'dating' has to be romantic cos still in my time, it's courtship after maintaining a platonic relationship for years. We had time to hangout and still select the best of our guy friends then.
But all these dating thing ehn
Maybe I won't understand.

mystery22:
I thought menopause has caught up with you,why acting like you are in your period..cos like what concerns biafra with the stupid question you are asking....

jarvis4:
At the end of the day the middle go turn borehole
Then you go start dey find tightening cream and soap upandan

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

That is like not putting all your eggs in one basket


Only a mumu guy will accept that " connected but no Internet" method you girls use in pussyfying some simpleton....meaning you girls will be dating and eating his money but he can not browse( connected but no Internet)

If you date me...I am going to smooch and suck the hell out of your Bobby....bang the hell out of your pussy

Drella:


That your platonic relationship is just friendship.No strings attached whatsoever.
Then your courtship is the "dating" we are talking about.That is when you become romantic with the person you select.
Courtship is like advanced dating which starts when you are engaged to him(to me, it's still same as dating!)

The coach is advising to be in a romantic relationship with multiple men

pocohantas:


No mind them. Once they hear multiple dating, they start having palpitations and reminding women their toto would suffer. One would wonder if their pricks are cursed or built to inflict pain and ruins.

Arsenate:

Lmfao, well said. To add to that, of the 1600 chess grandmasters, only 36 (2.25%) are females. That's chess, a game of the smarts.

Divoc19:
I wish they will understand that 'Dating' does not mean furcking.
In my days we use to have platonic relationships/dating with more than one guy.

reddingtonblack:




LOL !! you live next door to me, you owe me furck how much more dating, things are a lot different now, woke age

pocohantas:


Very true. That is why we read many sob stories in Romance section.

Her vagina would degrade when she has two bfs, but it won’t degrade when one jobless 400L boy is knacking it twice everyday and four times on Saturday. Oshey! Totometer.

BRATISLAVA:


LMAO! I needed this!

What won't one read on this forum?

pocohantas:


To born woman is scary because of what she would do with her vagina that doesn’t affect you except for the fact that you lots are obsessed with our vaginas.

But you are not scared of having a son that could be a cultist, rapist, kidnapper, armed robber, bandit, terrorist, ritualist, drug trafficker, etc. Those ones don’t scare you guys because you people have normalized making the whole world inhabitable for everyone. Na toto be una problem.
Pray tell me one thing women have done that men haven’t done 1m more? Train those sons you are not scared of having to be responsible, because if any of them messes with my own daughter, you would bury a child.

cococandy:


You can date without sex.
Many of you don’t even know the meaning of dating.

pocohantas:


Maybe there is something we don’t know na. Anything the black man touches he destroys. Be it a living or non-living thing.

pocohantas:


No o, I need answers. I thought we all agreed women should stop playing victim that sex is enjoyed and beneficial to both parties. When did it suddenly become something that DEGRADES the woman?