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Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Atimjessy(f): 2:42pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind. I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news. I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account. He monitors my calls and contact list. I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations. I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens. I am just fed up. 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid. Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life. 37 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:44pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following boys? 472 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by dawnomike(m): 2:45pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Atimjessy:Enjoy his attention and protection while it lasts... You'll soon outgrow it and by then, you'll appreciate all that he has saved you from. 466 Likes 31 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by MDHelp: 2:46pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Your age please 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:46pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe:What kind of disgusting love is that,the guy is probably caged and unable to do what he wants. You call that love? You are even talking about following girls, what's wrong with that? 15 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:51pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Comradewhy:He understands what young boys of these days are up to hence the over protection.Everything is wrong if he has started following girls at his age 56 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Atimjessy(f): 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe:I am a girl, ma 46 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Atimjessy(f): 2:55pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
dawnomike:My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Atimjessy:ok fine,he’s just been overly protective and I understand your situation because I myself grew up in the midst of four elder brothers that won’t even let me go out alone or join social media,not talk of having Male friends but I’m a big girl now and I now have a better understanding of their overprotective habits,it’s all love and no one will ever love you like your blood.So calm down,it’s a phase that’ll pass 296 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Makes absolutely no sense,even to the extent of not using having WhatsApp or social media,the op is between 15-17 at least she deserves some freedom. The op is even a female,why the attitude towards her by her brother. 4 Likes
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Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 2:59pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Atimjessy:Ignore your friends calling you small girl,they will later envy you when they have tasted all the forbidden things and now feel worthless 252 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nicepoker(m): 3:00pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Atim eyen efik. How old are you. Let's begin from there. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 3:01pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Comradewhy:Social media is the root of all evil,it is where young people learn all sorts of rubbish from.I was eavesdropping on my brothers conversations about oxlade rubbish and they think I have no clue not knowing I’ve watched it on nairaland.Anything I know today I learnt them from social media,so I understand his brother very well 63 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe:So now you think the op won't device another means to access social media,the best thing is to treat her like a sister. Now she will start looking for means to get what her brother refuse to provide for her. 7 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Sammy101111(m): 3:08pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Age matters what is your age 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Patented: 3:09pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
U are probably no more than 15 or 16. He has good reasons for doing what he is doing. It's not always the best method but this world get as e be. This won't sink in now but I will say it Nontheless. Don't envy your friends, don't copy them, follow the advise of reasonable elders, listen to your brother, he cares. Much later you will understand better Atimjessy: 53 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Boogyman557: 3:15pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Holly Gram E b like say dat ur broda 1 COLLECT serious BLASTING from my old KALA.. E b like sey EM left leg don TIRE am to use WALKER.. waiting u go do b sey.. FIND better RAW WEED and put INSIDE em FOOD... u go SEE how EM go change to Mr Nice Guy to u... EM go de smile anytime u SEE am.. OR I FIT STILL LOCK am UP INSIDE 1 of my WEED BUNK for 2months, Na only RAW WEED EM go de CHOP inside my WEED BUNK... I SWEAR DOWN E No go REACH 3days EM go become MAD MAN! just try d 1st ADVISE... PUT better STRONG RAW WEED inside EM FOOD.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by GooodHardDick: 3:23pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Atimjessy: How old are you first? Let's start from there |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by yuping(m): 3:58pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
talk to him and see reason behind all this, a hi l at your age should have atleast simple phone for social media and bank account. But girls your age have abuse this things, so if your brother guiding you or afraid of trusting with use of this things you should talk to him about the ways you are going to be making use of it and how it will be of beneficial to him also when you have it. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by kushercain: 4:01pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557: At least dey try make sense once in a while 90 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by LordIsaac(m): 4:09pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
He doesn't want to start taking care of you and pregnancy. Don't worry, you won't stay with him forever. That thing you'd love to taste, you will have plenty of time to taste it later when you are out of his house. I've never put on the tv and heard: "Obituary! We regret to announce the death of a young girl whose elder brother refused to let her access Facebook...." But, the opposite holds true for those ladies who are left to themselves. I will reiterate, girls require constant monitoring, lest they harm themselves and everyone else by their nature. 93 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by 9182736455O1999(m): 4:27pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Boogyman557:I think her brother is trying to save her from people like you 90 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by 9182736455O1999(m): 4:30pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Iyaebe:you are totally right but the fact that this girl is already on Nairaland 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Boogyman557: 4:56pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
kushercain:Holly Gram MY Gee how u take know... SEE no be say I knw make SENSE or fine.. I be fine GUY and I make SENSE.. JUST dat 2much SMOKING of WEED don make my LIPS BLACK... Even d MAMA CHINELO wey de SELL d WEED, she save my contact as HELL FIRE... BUT I believe by using VASELINE on my LIPS after SMOKING WEED will do ALOTA help .. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! 7 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by flokii: 5:00pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
He is protecting you from those sharp guys in your area before they'll go and ruin your future for you. 6 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by seanwilliam(m): 5:38pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Run away from home jare. Join hookup group. You will be fine. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Atimjessy(f): 6:07pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
seanwilliam:You are just a pervert 20 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Atimjessy(f): 6:09pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
flokii:I know what I want. No one can ruin my live. You men always think girls can't take care of themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by weslay: 6:15pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
He loves you. That's the kind of love young people need now; tough love. He is not your friend or one of your mates, he is not there to make you happy but to guide you. Since you are with him currently, he represents your parents right now. I wish more parents are like him. If they were,most of these girls killed for rituals would still be alive today. Like someone said above, this phase shall pass 56 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by Kobicove(m): 6:18pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
Shey na your brother go marry you? |
Re: Help Me Loosen My Brother's Grip On Me. by 9182736455O1999(m): 6:21pm On Mar 13, 2022 |
seanwilliam:see as you dey make this teenager dey insult you. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
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