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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 12:24am On Oct 21, 2011
says who?
most of the blk women married to white men are nigerian women grin

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by sleekch1c(f): 12:38am On Oct 21, 2011
[s]because they have bigger willies and nija women prefer it big lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed tongue[/s]
that wasnt hard to figure cheesy
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Jenifa1: 1:02am On Oct 21, 2011
^ that's not true.

In fact in Nigeria, you are more likely to see a Nigerian woman with a oyinbo or lebanese man. even nollywood made a movie (white hunters) about it.
but most oyinbo and lebanese women, on the other hand, are not interested in Nigerian men.

why is this?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by lindabon: 1:06am On Oct 21, 2011
sleekch1c:

[s]because they have bigger willies and nija women prefer it big lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed tongue[/s]
that wasnt hard to figure cheesy


Here goes another "stereotyping" . God! I give up
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by sleekch1c(f): 1:19am On Oct 21, 2011
^^not stereotyping. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ a simple fact.anyway I will always pick a 9-inch black sausage anyday over a 3-inch pinkish or reddish one. And for those of U̶̲̥̅̊ girls drooling over whities,goodluck!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by lindabon: 1:29am On Oct 21, 2011
^^^ are your facts based on hearsay or experience. Cause I wont believe you if you are generalizing based on experience.  undecided undecided
My point is that not all black sausages are 9-inch and not all white one's are 3-inch! Its all a myth and Has nothing to do with "drooling".  undecided undecided
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Jenifa1: 1:45am On Oct 21, 2011
sleekch1c:

^^not stereotyping. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ a simple fact.anyway I will always pick a 9-inch black sausage anyday. And for those of U̶̲̥̅̊ girls drooling over whities,goodluck!

please not all nigerian women are loose down there like you are.
in fact, I will go ahead and presume that a 9-inch is not even big enough to fit you.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Lax75(m): 2:01am On Oct 21, 2011
;d
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 2:49am On Oct 21, 2011
publisher:


[size=15pt]People are not really being honest here. The truth is that if a Nigerian guy walks the streets of any Nigerian city hand in hand with his white oyinbo wife,people are most likely going to hail him,and give him respect for conquering oyinbo toto.
However,if a Nigerian woman walks hand in hand with an oyinbo man in any Nigerian city,people are most likely going to assume that she's a foreign based LovePeddler and the white dude is probably her P#IMP".

Unfortunately, Nigerian women make matters worse for themselves. Whenever a Nigerian man brings home his oyinbo girl,the white lady most times is YOUNG and BEAUTIFUL,sometimes FAT,but still young with a pretty face. But when you see our Nigerian women with a white guy,the white dude is most times an OLD MAN in his late 50s or 60s. I have NEVER seen any Nigerian girl dating a 'Brad Pitt' kinda white dude. Even I have encountered young white guys before--they exist. I and many other Nigerian girl are living proof.

Some one tell me i'm lying  grin[/size]

I was agreeing with you up until I got up to the bolded red parts. I will show you a video of a Nigerian girl who is with the type of guy you described. By the way, the sexy oyibo in the video is ENGAGED to the girl.

[flash=450,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLOQ-uXqfN4[/flash]

[flash=450,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLskOqj2H44[/flash]
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Cuddlemii: 5:10am On Oct 21, 2011
To begin with, you are first likely to be attracted to your kind. They are attracted to Nigerian men because they are from the same place. The ones that go for black foreigners do that because they are nearest in meaning to Nigerian men at least they have black skin & going by history or myths, those black men are descendants of slaves that were taken from Africa so their ancestral lineage can be traced back to Africa.

Secondly, Nigerian men are very good in bed that is why millions of women of all tribes from around the world like dating them & marrying them. The other day I saw an Indian babe almost buying the whole food chain of a store for a Naija guy & she kept spending without him moving an inch. Nigerian men have stamina, high libido & know the act well. I heard viagra was made from Buratanshi that is used in Nigeria. Rumor has it that some white or foreign men makes babes skin crawl & some of them smell (God forgive me)

Thirdly, Nigerian men are the best lovers you can ever have forget their games & all the criticism but they are caring. In SA for example, the men there treat their women like crap so they love Nigerian men a lot. But Nigerian men have mothers & believe in tradition or culture so they respect decent girls and sure know how to care for a lady, pamper her, spend on her etc. Some foreigners need to save for 2 years to take a vacation but Naija men can decide to take their wife to Dubai.

However, Nigerian men love kids & discipline them as such they don't spear any expense in sending their kids to good schools so as to be educated. But most foreign men are always searching for scholarships, some even force their kids to become athletes so as to go to school but Nigerian men send their kids to school, pay for the upkeep and all. Other tribes live on school loans and grants. Its only from Nigeria that a child would still be dependent on their parents at 16 & still stay with them. Nigerian fathers can do anything to give their kids the best. They can even go hungry to feed their kids. Some foreigners allow their kids call them by name like "hey yo, Jake gee, whats up homey" but a Nigerian father would teach his son how to greet him, his elders & people as a whole.

In addition, Nigerian men are very interesting people. They are good dancers and they follow the beat. There is just this swag with black skinned men. They don't age fast. They are always young at heart. Nigerian/black skinned men have better yarns for mouth. Some foreign men talk like bolos like they are clueless and dull. Although black men in other countries are sharp too just like the Nigerian men.

On the other hand, Nigerian men are hustlers & go getters. They must survive in the jungle. They are proactive & street wise . They can work 20 jobs, lift things or clean tables to survive while they go to school abroad. They can sell DVDs, clothes, laptops at computer village or whatever as long as they can make enough to feed their family & themselves. They have goals & aspirations. That is why Nigerian students perform very well in school abroad & focus on the good jobs after school because they know where they are coming from & have a target.

Moreover, before now, when a Nigerian lady has any form of relations with a foreign man, they tag them as prostitutes so ladies were ashamed to showcase their relationships but did it codedly but in recent time, a lot of women now marry or date white men. Some families don't permit it. People are quick to judge people who get involved with foreigners. The only advantage that white men have over black men are: 1) Security 2) Stability 3) Consistency

In conclusion, Nigerian men are very religious. whether its christainity, islam, the grail, Jehoval or Idol worshipping. They don't joke with their religion & they acknowledge God or their gods. You would see that no matter how much smoke or drink a man takes, that wont stop his relationship with God. Na them they even move active in church. Not all foreigners even believe in any form of religion.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Relax101(m): 5:44am On Oct 21, 2011
Inked_Nerd:


I was agreeing with you up until I got up to the bolded red parts. I will show you a video of a Nigerian girl who is with the type of guy you described. By the way, the sexy oyibo in the video is ENGAGED to the girl.

[flash=450,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SLOQ-uXqfN4[/flash]

[flash=450,400]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HLskOqj2H44[/flash]


That guy go dey shine that girl thing well. cheesy cheesy cheesy
I get one jamo friend wey like white guys because of licky licky.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by MrsChima1(f): 6:10am On Oct 21, 2011
LMAO@licky licky grin grin grin grin grin grin cry cry cry cry grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 6:23am On Oct 21, 2011
Cuddlemii:

To begin with, you are first likely to be attracted to your kind. They are attracted to Nigerian men because they are from the same place. The ones that go for black foreigners do that because they are nearest in meaning to Nigerian men at least they have black skin & going by history or myths, those black men are descendants of slaves that were taken from Africa so their ancestral lineage can be traced back to Africa.

Secondly, Nigerian men are very good in bed that is why millions of women of all tribes from around the world like dating them & marrying them. The other day I saw an Indian babe almost buying the whole food chain of a store for a Naija guy & she kept spending without him moving an inch. Nigerian men have stamina, high libido & know the act well. I heard viagra was made from Buratanshi that is used in Nigeria. Rumor has it that some white or foreign men makes babes skin crawl & some of them smell (God forgive me)

Thirdly, Nigerian men are the best lovers you can ever have forget their games & all the criticism but they are caring. In SA for example, the men there treat their women like crap so they love Nigerian men a lot. But Nigerian men have mothers & believe in tradition or culture so they respect decent girls and sure know how to care for a lady, pamper her, spend on her etc. Some foreigners need to save for 2 years to take a vacation but Naija men can decide to take their wife to Dubai.

However, Nigerian men love kids & discipline them as such they don't spear any expense in sending their kids to good schools so as to be educated. But most foreign men are always searching for scholarships, some even force their kids to become athletes so as to go to school but Nigerian men send their kids to school, pay for the upkeep and all. Other tribes live on school loans and grants. Its only from Nigeria that a child would still be dependent on their parents at 16 & still stay with them. Nigerian fathers can do anything to give their kids the best. They can even go hungry to feed their kids. Some foreigners allow their kids call them by name like "hey yo, Jake gee, whats up homey" but a Nigerian father would teach his son how to greet him, his elders & people as a whole.

In addition, Nigerian men are very interesting people. They are good dancers and they follow the beat. There is just this swag with black skinned men. They don't age fast. They are always young at heart. Nigerian/black skinned men have better yarns for mouth. Some foreign men talk like bolos like they are clueless and dull. Although black men in other countries are sharp too just like the Nigerian men.

On the other hand, Nigerian men are hustlers & go getters. They must survive in the jungle. They are proactive & street wise . They can work 20 jobs, lift things or clean tables to survive while they go to school abroad. They can sell DVDs, clothes, laptops at computer village or whatever as long as they can make enough to feed their family & themselves. They have goals & aspirations. That is why Nigerian students perform very well in school abroad & focus on the good jobs after school because they know where they are coming from & have a target.

Moreover, before now, when a Nigerian lady has any form of relations with a foreign man, they tag them as LovePeddlers so ladies were ashamed to showcase their relationships but did it codedly but in recent time, a lot of women now marry or date white men. Some families don't permit it. People are quick to judge people who get involved with foreigners. The only advantage that white men have over black men are: 1) Security 2) Stability 3) Consistency

In conclusion, Nigerian men are very religious. whether its christainity, islam, the grail, Jehoval or Idol worshipping. They don't joke with their religion & they acknowledge God or their gods. You would see that no matter how much smoke or drink a man takes, that wont stop his relationship with God. Na them they even move active in church. Not all foreigners even believe in any form of religion.

Although I really like that you're praising our brothers so much, I must admit a lot of those things are generalizations which cannot be applied to every Nigerian man.

Relax101:

That guy go dey shine that girl thing well. cheesy cheesy cheesy
I get one jamo friend wey like white guys because of licky licky.

Lmao at the Jamo girl. Not all of them are like that [unfortunately tongue]
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Cuddlemii: 11:30am On Oct 21, 2011
Inked_Nerd:


Although I really like that you're praising our brothers so much, I must admit a lot of those things are generalizations which cannot be applied to every Nigerian man.

Lmao at the Jamo girl. Not all of them are like that [unfortunately tongue]




Lols. I had to be on their side for once. I am playing good cop for today. Obviously not all Nigerian men possess all those qualities but the question was why do Nigerian ladies like them so I said the sides I know. I mean Nigerian men have mini united nations as wives.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by sleekch1c(f): 12:40pm On Oct 21, 2011
@jenifa
U̶̲̥̅̊ may eat ur heart out U̶̲̥̅̊ pretentious s.lut.I dnt knw wat happened in ur life to make U̶̲̥̅̊ so unhappy,bt I guess U̶̲̥̅̊ re a 'white hunter'.dnt worry L♥√ع,I forsee a 70-yr old lebanese coming ur way soon. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ remain hopeful.anuofia!

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by namfav(m): 12:49pm On Oct 21, 2011
all these black women that want whitemen they need to get real, they are the ones c hasing over pensioners and ruining european families grin

sleekch1c:

@jenifa
U̶̲̥̅̊ may eat your heart out U̶̲̥̅̊ pretentious s.lut.I dnt knw wat happened in your life to make U̶̲̥̅̊ so unhappy,bt I guess U̶̲̥̅̊ re a 'white hunter'.dnt worry L♥√ع,I forsee a 70-yr old lebanese coming your way soon. J̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊s̶̲̥̅̊t̲̥̅̊ remain hopeful.anuofia!

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by sleekch1c(f): 12:56pm On Oct 21, 2011
^^true,and they come here to †̥ε̲ƪƪ us dat races dnt matter.♈ can't they go for d young struggling whities instead of these older ones?

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by MrCork17: 12:59pm On Oct 21, 2011
Nigerian women are African Number gold digger, followed by Ghana Women! (no oofeince) angry

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nymphnode(m): 2:39pm On Oct 21, 2011
Cuddlemii:

To begin with, you are first likely to be attracted to your kind. They are attracted to Nigerian men because they are from the same place. The ones that go for black foreigners do that because they are nearest in meaning to Nigerian men at least they have black skin & going by history or myths, those black men are descendants of slaves that were taken from Africa so their ancestral lineage can be traced back to Africa.

Secondly, Nigerian men are very good in bed that is why millions of women of all tribes from around the world like dating them & marrying them. The other day I saw an Indian babe almost buying the whole food chain of a store for a Naija guy & she kept spending without him moving an inch. Nigerian men have stamina, high libido & know the act well. I heard viagra was made from Buratanshi that is used in Nigeria. Rumor has it that some white or foreign men makes babes skin crawl & some of them smell (God forgive me)

Thirdly, Nigerian men are the best lovers you can ever have forget their games & all the criticism but they are caring. In SA for example, the men there treat their women like crap so they love Nigerian men a lot. But Nigerian men have mothers & believe in tradition or culture so they respect decent girls and sure know how to care for a lady, pamper her, spend on her etc. Some foreigners need to save for 2 years to take a vacation but Naija men can decide to take their wife to Dubai.

However, Nigerian men love kids & discipline them as such they don't spear any expense in sending their kids to good schools so as to be educated. But most foreign men are always searching for scholarships, some even force their kids to become athletes so as to go to school but Nigerian men send their kids to school, pay for the upkeep and all. Other tribes live on school loans and grants. Its only from Nigeria that a child would still be dependent on their parents at 16 & still stay with them. Nigerian fathers can do anything to give their kids the best. They can even go hungry to feed their kids. Some foreigners allow their kids call them by name like "hey yo, Jake gee, whats up homey" but a Nigerian father would teach his son how to greet him, his elders & people as a whole.

In addition, Nigerian men are very interesting people. They are good dancers and they follow the beat. There is just this swag with black skinned men. They don't age fast. They are always young at heart. Nigerian/black skinned men have better yarns for mouth. Some foreign men talk like bolos like they are clueless and dull. Although black men in other countries are sharp too just like the Nigerian men.

On the other hand, Nigerian men are hustlers & go getters. They must survive in the jungle. They are proactive & street wise . They can work 20 jobs, lift things or clean tables to survive while they go to school abroad. They can sell DVDs, clothes, laptops at computer village or whatever as long as they can make enough to feed their family & themselves. They have goals & aspirations. That is why Nigerian students perform very well in school abroad & focus on the good jobs after school because they know where they are coming from & have a target.

Moreover, before now, when a Nigerian lady has any form of relations with a foreign man, they tag them as LovePeddlers so ladies were ashamed to showcase their relationships but did it codedly but in recent time, a lot of women now marry or date white men. Some families don't permit it. People are quick to judge people who get involved with foreigners. The only advantage that white men have over black men are: 1) Security 2) Stability 3) Consistency

In conclusion, Nigerian men are very religious. whether its christainity, islam, the grail, Jehoval or Idol worshipping. They don't joke with their religion & they acknowledge God or their gods. You would see that no matter how much smoke or drink a man takes, that wont stop his relationship with God. Na them they even move active in church. Not all foreigners even believe in any form of religion.
W H A O !
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by fergie321: 5:02pm On Oct 21, 2011
@Cuddlemii I agree with everything you said about a Nigeria man, you said it all just to add that we all know the main reason any black or white girl will go to another culture will be only if she can't find a mate of her culture. This is the main reason you see some fat girl going out with a black boy. I can assure you if someone like Brat Pit turn-up she will go her own culture and dump the black boy.

Most black girls I saw with white men are so ugly a black boy won't even touch them. If she was dam beautiful she will be pursue restlessly that she will give-in and there won't be any chance for the white man to come in. I have live among these people 30 years. If I walk down my high street I'm sure to see them ten out ten the girl will be ugly and fat and if is a black man the white girl will be fat and ugly that a white man will not even desire her anyway. Apart from Naomi Campbell who is crazy about money how many beautiful black women do you see with white men? Naomi only because she couldn't find a suitable man of her own race after trying Mike Tyson and co.

I don't know where the other writer get the information from that there is no difference between a Nigeria man and a white man in bed. Speaking from my own experience many white folks admit to me that they can't Bleep a black woman because her bum is too large that they prefer a woman with a flat bottom because their willy is very small. They told me God designed a black man willy to Bleep a black woman that they have no chance, so a big bottom for a white man is a turn-off for them. They prefer Paris Hilton bottom to Kim Kardashians you can't cheat nature.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 5:41pm On Oct 21, 2011
Jenifa_:

^ that's not true.

In fact in Nigeria, you are more likely to see a Nigerian woman with a oyinbo or lebanese man. even nollywood made a movie (white hunters) about it.
but most oyinbo and lebanese women, on the other hand, are not interested in Nigerian men.

why is this?

Abeg update ursef.Naija women no longer date lebanese men because they say lebanese men are too selfish with money.they prefer dating white men and indian men instead grin

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 5:43pm On Oct 21, 2011
But wait ooo come to think of it, Why e be say most of the oyibo men wey dey dat naija women are always in their late 60s and early 70s with pot belly and on pension.Why is it that young goodlooking white men hardly date naija women shocked

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 21, 2011
Jenifa_:

^ that's not true.

In fact in Nigeria, you are more likely to see a Nigerian woman with a oyinbo or lebanese man. even nollywood made a movie (white hunters) about it.
but most oyinbo and lebanese women, on the other hand, are not interested in Nigerian men.

why is this?

My lebanese friend Farida would disagree with u.She"s a lebanese muslim and she has mad love for blk men and especially african men.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by fergie321: 5:56pm On Oct 21, 2011
@lefuletu I think they have live their lives they just to experience the black woman's thing. More importantly they are mealiness to their white women in any shape or form. They are wash-out and the niaja woman is looking for money to train the battalion her parents can't afford to look after. At least this is more respected then going to Italy.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 6:00pm On Oct 21, 2011
lefulefu:

But wait ooo come to think of it, Why e be say most of the oyibo men wey dey dat naija women are always in their late 60s and early 70s with pot belly and on pension.Why is it that young goodlooking white men hardly date naija women shocked

They do! Did you not see the video I posted? Many of us Nigerian women are open to the idea of being with non-Black/non-Nigerian men and I'm not just speaking in a sëxual manner. In fact, one of my father's white Italian American co-worker is married to a Nigerian!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 6:01pm On Oct 21, 2011
fergie321:

@lefuletu I think they have live their lives they just to experience the black woman's thing. More importantly they are mealiness to their white women in any shape or form. They are wash-out and the niaja woman is looking for money to train the battalion her parents can't afford to look after. At least this is more respected then going to Italy.
GBAM!!!
Na true talk u just throw for here.The main reason that naija women date white men is just for money and yes i see a lot of naija women with very ugly old looking italian men in italy grin

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 21, 2011
Inked_Nerd:


They do! Did you not see the video I posted? Many of us Nigerian women are open to the idea of being with non-Black/non-Nigerian men and I'm not just speaking in a sëxual manner. In fact, one of my father's white Italian American co-worker is married to a Nigerian!

True word but the thing i am saying is that why is it that the white men who date naija women are always old and ugly.I hardly see a good looking white man dating a nigerian woman.why is it that u naija women settle for less? grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 6:14pm On Oct 21, 2011
lefulefu:

True word but the thing i am saying is that why is it that the white men who date naija women are always old and ugly.I hardly see a good looking white man dating a nigerian woman.why is it that u naija women settle for less? grin

Same reason why you Nigerian men settle for the washed up equivalent to those white men. Instead of making assumptions, did you ever stop to think that these women might actually be in love with these men? Why should their age change anything? Not all old white men are out lookin' for a "young thang"--some are actually in search of love and some of those women may actually like older men. You really don't know. Like publisher pointed out, if a Nigerian guy walks the streets of any Nigerian city hand in hand with his white oyinbo wife, people are most likely going to hail him, and give him respect--when you switch roles, then all of a sudden the woman is out to get something from the guy? All of a sudden, she's a LovePeddler and a prostitutë? Its almost as though you all have absentmindedly disregarded that and replaced it with sexist notions. Essencially, it all boils down to the sex of the person dating the white person. Perhaps if you'd stop jumping to conclusions, you might actually learn something. Where do you live by the way?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by Nobody: 6:23pm On Oct 21, 2011
Inked_Nerd:


Same reason why you Nigerian men settle for the washed up equivalent to those white men. Instead of making assumptions, did you ever stop to think that these women might actually be in love with these men? Why should their age change anything? Not all old white men are out lookin' for a "young thang"--some are actually in search of love and some of those women may actually like older men. You really don't know. Like publisher pointed out, if a Nigerian guy walks the streets of any Nigerian city hand in hand with his white oyinbo wife, people are most likely going to hail him, and give him respect--when you switch roles, then all of a sudden the woman is out to get something from the guy? All of a sudden, she's a LovePeddler and a prostitutë? Its almost as though you all have absentmindedly disregarded that and replaced it with sexist notions. Essencially, it all boils down to the sex of the person dating the white person. Perhaps if you'd stop jumping to conclusions, you might actually learn something. Where do you live by the way?

Abeg make we hear word jor undecided.The main reason many of these naija run after oyibo granpapas is for the money and nothing more .Afterall many of us naija men date beautiful younger white girls and the ones who date white gran mamas are very few.But i see a lot of naija women with old looking oyibo men who bald head and pot bellies grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 6:27pm On Oct 21, 2011
lefulefu:

Abeg make we hear word jor undecided.The main reason many of these naija run after oyibo granpapas is for the money and nothing more .Afterall many of us naija men date beautiful younger white girls and the ones who date white gran mamas are very few.But i see a lot of naija women with old looking oyibo men who bald head and pot bellies grin

I noticed that you have a habit of always wanting me to be quiet when I point something out to you. And no, the Nigerian men who date old white women are not as small in number as you make it out to be. Ask your Nigerian brothers in Malayasia who are not working what they do for those Asian women there? Ask them if they are any different from these women you keep talking about!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by fergie321: 6:31pm On Oct 21, 2011
@Inked Ned, lets be realistic here no one grows up saying I want to got-out with someone outside their culture or they want to love an old man. The reason a niaja woman will go out with an Older white man is money period, because the old white man can't do jack in bed. They can't possibly be in love with them. They can have sympathy for them because of the money they have taken off them (felling guilty) not love. The reason you see a black naija man going out with a fat lady is either because of visa or because they can't afford to take a naija woman because of expense, and the fat or old white women is serving the a better purpose in bed. At least util he is matured or have enough money to be counted as a person. Look if you approach a Niaja woman with empty pocket she will run far. At least you 've got to impress first, to encourage her there is better things to come. Then she can listen to you.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Prefer To Date Mostly Nigerian Or Black Men by InkedNerd(f): 6:38pm On Oct 21, 2011
fergie321:

@Inked Ned, lets be realistic here no one grows up saying I want to got-out with someone outside their culture or they want to love an old man. The reason a niaja woman will go out with an Older white man is money period, because the old white man can't do jack in bed. They can't possibly be in love with them. They can have sympathy for them because of the money they have taken off them (felling guilty) not love. The reason you see a black naija man going out with a fat lady is either because of visa or because they can't afford to take a naija woman because of expense, and the fat or old white women is serving the a better purpose in bed. At least util he is matured or have enough money to be counted as a person. Look if you approach a Niaja woman with empty pocket she will run far. At least you 've got to impress first, to encourage her there is better things to come. Then she can listen to you.

Stop being a hypocrite here. What just said, "The reason you see a black naija man going out with a fat lady is either because of visa or because they can't afford to take a naija woman because of expense, and the fat or old white women is serving the a better purpose in bed. ", now is that not the same thing that you all are here complaining about these women? You're here saying that they have alternative motives YET you've clearly pointed out that the men have motives as well. And just because you may not have grown up wanting to date outside of your ethnicity, culture, and age range doesn't mean that other people think that way!

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