Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Tell them before you regret your actions later in life

She should get pregnant before you marry her. No need to tell your parents.

U still wan born for this Tinubu era? No let ur pikin swear for u

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Ask dem but don't tell dem it's ur girlfriend

I’ve seen this topic before. Nairaland.

I don't think it is necessary.
Besides,I have someone with same condition and situation as hers with two kids now.

Consult a gynaecologist, or better still, get her pregnant, let her give birth to the child, then marry her afterwards.

quote me ,no be your parents be the issue.you need to think well about what you are doing,childless marriage no be beans oh,as you get older the women become more misrable in some cases devilish oh.plus unhappiness will nearly kill you as you see other peoples kids.
my advice if you do not have any medical condition yourself,run away now you can

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

If you have a relationship with God then go to Him in heartful prayers concerning it. Let she also do same. Also together go to a specialist doctor for professional specialist advice.
But know that with God there's no impossibility as long as you believe.

Visit a gynecologist together with the girl and seek the professional advice, if you really love her. You can easily preempt your parents' reaction if you inform them, especially your mother.

Kenmatt:


I have a candid advice for you.

For now, stop thinking anything called marriage.

You're still a child.

exactly. u are so intelligent and wise.

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

They do not remove ovaries due to polycystic ovaries. Please find out the truth. Did she have an ectopic pregnancy?

LexngtonSteele:
I might sound a bit ruthless...

In Life, especially these days, don't ever stretch your neck for a spouse / partner.

She wouldn't if the situation was reversed and you have fertility problems.

Pump and Dump her.

I personally know one "useful" girl with PCOS, can't cook, can't clean, mistakenly told me about her medical condition, she just wants a Prince Charming that will pay all her bills and she contributes nothing.

God forbid. I f*cked her and fled.

Correct guy.

Wizpa:

This op want to put himself into a very big mess in this Tinubu regime .

problem no dey finish

public problem

or

private problem

Augustine2244:

Brother,why not seek the professional advice of a gynaecologist together with the girl, rather than your parents, though you can still inform them later.
If she ovulates normally,then she would have no problem conceiving.

He can also tell NLders if his aim for marriage is to have children , as he's brought it on NL

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Guy if you think you love her enough to take the risks, go ahead. If not break up with her now. Leave your parent out of it. She has done well by telling the truth, the rest is left to you

DonEd:
Or better still, get her pregnant while u guys are still dating.

That's if it's ur fear

Best advice so far. Most of our problems is done by our own selves

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Your parents are not the ones that will get married to her but you. The decision is for you to make.

Try give her belle first b4 any other move. This PCOS of a thing can render her childless, worst of it, her ovary has been tampered with. Many are facing such problem.

I'm still worried about why one ovary was removed. Someone can definitely take in with one ovary. No need divulging that information to anyone

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

If I asked if you prayed to God and were convinced she's the right one now, hope you'd not attack me. To be honest, this part is very necessary but people ignore it nowadays. Even if she's not meant to give birth scientifically but God said you go ahead, she'd give you all the children and happiness you want in marriage.

A few months of dating is too small a time to decide on marriage my broda, why hurry. My opinion.

Dump her fast, don’t fall victim

If she’s not brand new forget it

Are your parents doctors?
Seek Medical advice

No, don’t tell the only people that sacrificed their life to raise you. The only ones that’ll stand by you even if you’re in jail for life! No oo, just hide it from them and force them to suffer it all over again when it becomes an issue later! In this generation populated by more women than men, it is the one with heavy duty baggage you saw to start your life with? Kwantinue!!

Exceptional300:
so would you advise I speak to them about it to know what they think?

marriage is your decision, marriage is about love and sacrifice. Those words we use to woo ladies about doing anything for them just to win their hearts is not a joke. Do you love this woman, can you imagine yourself living without her in your life and can you damn the consequences of getting married to her even if probability of childbirth is low ? Those are your decisions to make. You might break up with her and get married to someone else but will you be happy in that marriage or will it be full of regrets ? Meet up with an experienced doctor, maybe a father figure privately and ask him what options you guys have. I'm not trying to guilt trip you but a great percentage of your domestic happiness depends on who you decide to spend the rest of your life with. I wish you the best

Since you are planining of settling down with soon , why not try ejaculating inside her during her ovulation period and see things for your self before making the big move?

Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

People will call you immature, mummy's pet and what not. Nor mind them. Only you will face any fertility issues should they occur. None of the most Naira land ladies here will be there with you. In fact, the will be the ones to also blame you later for not checking well. Or even tell you it is not a must to have kids, that the love you and the lady share is the most important. Love that has no meaning anymore these days.

Reach an agreement with her to get preggy before anything.

With one ovary, assume that fertility is reduced by 50%. Because some women may only have a viable egg from one ovary every month. From 2 ovaries would increase chances that at least one ovary will produce a good egg per cycle/month. 2 ovaries will also increase chances of non-identical twins slightly too. Assuming there are a no other hidden fertility/hormonal issues.

It is not her fault but chances of PCOS affecting the other ovary is increased having had one before. So no delay with having babies if you both are serious.

Also, some ladies can lie for Africa. Ensure that all the problem is solved as she claims. Don't assume it is the whole truth. They can divulge 10% of the truth, so that later you can't accuse them of not telling you before marriage. Check it out with O & G.
Some of us have been there and don't say nobody warned you. I really don't want you to have such a sad experience.

skj1377:
Look for a healthy complete lady. It's cheaper and better on the long run. Love will fade be warned

You are Right...
Love gets diluted over time.
Hence the reason you must consider a lot. Even your old-age should be factored in. He doesn't need a liability for one bit
Ladies never compromise not even the ones from poor & ruined homes

Guy a lady with one ovary and conception no de easy. It takes God's special grace and miracle. I have a close relation passing thru this and ain't funny at all

skj1377:
Look for a healthy complete lady. It's cheaper and better on the long run. Love will fade be warned

That’s why I always tell women that men see marriage as a contract. Thats why they look for wife material aka slave aka mule. The more the say a woman is a wife material, it just simply means she is a bigger slave/mule/mumu.

The man should be able to take up all the financial duties in a traditional marriage with zero contributions from the wife.

If the marriage is 50/50, the woman should make sure the man take up 50% of all household chores and child rearing.

If the woman is providing all or most of the finances the man should take up all or most of the household chores and child rearing.

But what we see is a case of women taking up the bulk of the duties in a marriage. Once they burn out from stress and start looking older, the man moves to a younger prey.

omoredia:
U still wan born for this Tinubu era? No let ur pikin swear for u

It is obvious you are a jerky stuff. You think every is living in abject poverty like you