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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by soccerlite: 12:25pm On Jun 20
Hmm

the girl try fa, she didn't hid it, she deserve appreciation.

Women can be too hidden and crafty

As a young man who has not born before, I will advice you to "let her be" - leave her

The girl will see a widow or man already with a child to marry, so getting a child would not be their main focus

The funds for fertility treatment no be moinmoin and it's brings friction in marriage

You can only inform your parents after you have left her, if they know two of you together

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by komols856: 12:27pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

You don't need to fear anything. Just try to pregnant her. If it works just marry straight after the pregnancy. If it didn't work. Just comot hand.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Teerach: 12:29pm On Jun 20
Your mind can trick you. Only if you understand that everything happens in the mind.
If you ask me, don't go ahead with the marriage cos your mind has scattered everything with fear. All you fear will come to pass. There's no point putting that lady in the misery you are creating with your mind and energy already.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Youlins: 12:30pm On Jun 20
Once you start now, you'll end up telling them everything and it'll be like it's their rite to know everything in your home. All you need is to privately seek medical advice and that's all. But if you love her so so much, you should go ahead with the marriage with a positive mindset that she must bear you children. Speak it and believe it.
Be wise
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Harddiskng(m): 12:34pm On Jun 20
skj1377:
Look for a healthy complete lady. It's cheaper and better on the long run. Love will fade be warned

Most people no go believe say love fit love.

You will see a girl that is AS with the boy that is AS, both of those idiots know o. They will tell you ehn they will use medical science lol. How much do you or fathers have for the battles you want to create in the future with your foolishness? undecided

Op choose your battles wisely sure you have you need to fight it (mentally, financially, emotionally etc). If not drop am oo

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Update147: 12:36pm On Jun 20
Kelklein:
If there is no blockage.. one ovary, as long as it is healthy, is enough for her..

So no fear anything.

But consult a gynaecologist to be sure tho.

How do you know if there is blockage.
My girl friend is having a similar issue, we have been battling with it for years now.
Initially she was not serious with it as she was comfortable with the idea of never getting pregnant.
We are 4 years together now and she has never conceived and not it's raising worries.
In her own case, she sometimes stays for 6 months without seeing her period.

What is her chances of ever conceiving ??

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by horia: 12:37pm On Jun 20
skj1377:
Look for a healthy complete lady. It's cheaper and better on the long run. Love will fade be warned

Please this is inappropriate to say. Persons can live with a medical condition and still be healthy. Surgery is supposed solve the issue. And both Ovaries are not needed for her to be complete in the area of having a baby.

@OP please consult your doctor to inform you about all/any actual or potential complications. If you need to inform your family do so with complete information, and only go ahead with the marriage if you all are okay with it or can handle any complications that may be associated.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by hooklover: 12:41pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Give her belle na to know if she conciebe or not
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by oliverwrites: 12:43pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?
How is this your parents' business? I really feel for that girl. If what you think will happen eventually happen, you won't stand by her. It is obvious.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by TYCO77: 12:46pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?
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What's your fears? One ovary can produce fertile eggs, I think you should appreciate her for her truthfulness rather than exposing her medical condition that has nothing to do with your happiness. What about those that still conceive without womb.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Lino24: 12:51pm On Jun 20
It's understandable that you're concerned about potential future issues, but it's important to approach this situation with sensitivity and respect for your partner's privacy.

Before considering sharing this information with your parents, ask yourself:

1. Is it necessary for them to know this personal information about your partner's health?
2. How will sharing this information benefit your relationship or future plans?
3. Is your partner comfortable with you sharing this aspect of her health with your parents?

It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and intentions. Discuss how she feels about sharing this information with your parents and respect her wishes. Her privacy and trust are crucial in your relationship.

Remember, PCOS and reproductive health issues are common, and many women successfully manage their conditions and have healthy pregnancies. Focus on supporting and understanding your partner's needs, rather than worrying about potential future issues.

When you're ready, have a conversation with your parents about your plans for the future, without disclosing your partner's personal health information. Emphasize your love and commitment to her, and show them that you're invested in building a life together.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by abbasajao(m): 12:57pm On Jun 20
Looking for fruit of the womb can be frustrating expecially when delay for long time.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by just4fun(m): 12:57pm On Jun 20
For me, telling your parents is like asking them whether to marry her or not. That should be your decision not theirs . Like someone suggested, meet a specialist like a gynaecologist to analyze and explain everything to you so that you will be well informed to take a decision.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by luuvlly: 12:58pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
That something may go wrong in the future
I have endometriosis. I had surgeries before I got married. I even told my fiance then that I don't want to get married, because the probability of getting pregnant is small. I have had chemotherapy injection ( zoladex) injected into my stomach every four four weeks for 7months. Yet in all this, he stood by me, called my name and even encourage me that let's get married, we will have our children and God did it two months after marriage. I now have a healthy and playful 2 years 4 months old boy
We would have started trying for another one but money dey yab man.
The summary of the story is that my fiance then believe God in our lives even when I don't have the faith. So pray and believe God will do it.
But there are treatment to this. Both of you can go and see a gynecologist. Money will be spent o. She can do NHIS registration, at least it will ease the cost of seeing a gynecologist and few treatment.
If you know you can't stay in case children did not come, let her know o but I pray God that that it for me, will do it for you. It's well with you.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by HASSANWASIU1999: 1:04pm On Jun 20
As an African man,are you supposed to be asking this kind question,you don't need to tell your parents anything do you know what give bele first and if it work then keep her in marriage bye
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by dayotheone(m): 1:11pm On Jun 20
Why do you need to tell your parent , the most important person to receive the information is you ,

The decision now is to concluded maybe you should go ahead or not , cause after all you will be the only one in that ship , not your parent , cause they are just passengers
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by HydraFeeds(m): 1:11pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?


Let her get pregnant for you before proceeding to inform your parent .
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Myhusband(m): 1:18pm On Jun 20
highvaluewoman:


Then what does?


When the organs of a lady work hands in hands without contradicting themselves


From cervix to uterus to fallopian tube, if those things have medical errors it won't stop a lady from not ovulating well


Another things is egg, if a lady eggs is not active, she might be ovulating on the lowest degree and the sperm won't be able to do it's work



May God help all expectant mothers
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Brrrrrrrrrrr: 1:19pm On Jun 20
Baba no wan find pikin reach babalawo house or make doctor him best friend
Jamahyel:
What is your fear?
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by unite4real: 1:28pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by lomprico(m): 1:36pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

If you want to marry her, marry her! if you don't want to, let her go and stop wasting her time.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Medici777: 1:40pm On Jun 20
Do a research online about possible issues that may arise and draw your conclusion from there
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by MySolace: 1:43pm On Jun 20
eazzzy1:
What would you be telling your parents for? To help you decide if you are making the right decision or to alert them of the probability of never having kids?

It’s your decision to make, not your parents. However, if you think you aren’t doing the right thing and you need someone to talk you out of it, then talking to people who have your best interest at heart is a good idea.
He should b talking to a doctor(specialist).
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by GVTAsiwaju(m): 2:12pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.

Besides, these ladies don't send you ooo... You would think you are doing them a favour but they don't care.

Always ask yasef if I were to be in her shoes would she go ahead?

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by bekpo(m): 2:15pm On Jun 20
What's ur fear? Not being able to conceive? If she's menstruating and ovulating, it's not a guarantee to conceive. U can go ahead with d Union without involving ur parents (if u actually want to marry her d way she's and u have ruled out d idea of procreation).

I dated a lady with same issue but I made up my mind to proceed with d marriage. I cancel d marriage because I discovered she's promiscuous and was dating a married man and two others, one later insulted me.
It's ur decision to take.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by brainhgeek(m): 2:27pm On Jun 20
The decision is ultimately yours.
In those days, I knew my girlfriend had Cyst but I went ahead to marry her. We have an energetic and super intelligent, soon-to-be 5 yr old son now.
What is the guarantee that even if you marry someone who looks healthy and ticks all health checks, that nothing can happen in the future. We only celebrate our current health status and hope on God to maintain or improve on our health tomorrow. Be grateful for a lady who is sincere enough to tell you her situation before you invest your money and hopes on her.
My counsel will be to decide on what you will do and do not involve your parents. You will live in that relationship, not them

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by akanjikokoro: 2:29pm On Jun 20
If GOD is there for you, no problem at all. Marry her with all prons and crons.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Solofresh2: 2:32pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.
The fact that she opened up to him about it goes a long way
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Ezemeiyogu(m): 2:34pm On Jun 20
What happens to impregnating her as soon as possible before any serious marriage plans are made Oga? That should be your first step not talking to anyone. Two specimen are already available. Do the needful! This is something she probably doesn't want people to know, so, don't help her spread it.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by olarent: 2:35pm On Jun 20
Wao, you are intelligent not more than what you have said.
Fiscus105:
You are still mummy pet, that, yet mature for marriage.

The situation you are in, is mostly for you, and you are the one to be worry more and not mummy.


If you are panicking of infertility after marriage, why can't you impregnate her before you tie the knot?


Marry or not! Any decision you want to take, you take it without disturbing the peace of ur oldie.



If you choose decision not to marry, you let her go first and latter tell ur mummy,the reason you let go of her.( That's how mature guy, who is not teen behaves)
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by maasoap(m): 2:40pm On Jun 20
Augustine2244:

Brother,why not seek the professional advice of a gynaecologist together with the girl, rather than your parents, though you can still inform them later.
If she ovulates normally,then she would have no problem conceiving .
Many ovulate normally but still have problems conceiving grin grin grin

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by tochez24(m): 2:43pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.

The moment a woman knows you're a half man or a broke man.... She will brutally leave you for the next guy without apologizes😅😅

Did you think ladies have the time to ask questions about a guy that's not the best for them?🙄

Op can do whatever he wants to do but.... In this life, It's only a FOOL that will settle for less!!!!

Most Women don't settle for less while most men settle for less shaaa

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