descarado:

You are still at the introduction stage. Worst is twin gals adolescence
You will get get greyhair overnight
Ask cococandy what she and her twin did to her parents

AH! People have been talking about twin girls' adolescence being challenging, but I'll take my chances and enjoy every moment. I be confam disciplinarian o. Their mom is a no-nonsense person too.

I'm surprised coco never shared that part of her upbringing. LOL. I will ask her about it. Stubborn woman!

descarado:

Yep, yep. Life is back with full throttle
I was tempted to get another Dr's report
7days chilling but......,I am a good gal

If you feel down sometimes, hit the gym.
Exercise releases feel good hormones.
You understand what I mean sir.

Life back at full speed Additional days would not have been bad at all.. lol

I'll keep the gym in mind, I just hope I would be committed enough to keep it up. Thanks for the tip....very necessary

descarado:

Hugs.
I know where this is coming from.

It's not easy with pregnancies like this. So many complications.

A very challenging experience.
Thank you... I appreciate this.

xavuv:
Sad. RIP to her.
I suspect Some sort of embolism in the mother , but what about her triplet? God knows best.

This!!!

descarado:

Cool. Today is so sunny. Worked the garden and went to the gym.

Had a work related accident almost 3 weeks ago so have been at home chilling after a brief stay in the hospital. Starting work tomorrow again. Wish it continues

Hope you and the kids+ everybody are doing fine over there.

Oh really? I'm so sorry to hear about the accident, but I'm glad you're recovering well. Good thing you enjoyed the rest of your time off before getting back to work.

We're all doing fine here. I've been away for about 4 days or so, busy with family and life generally.

I hope you've had a productive week so far?

descarado:


Amino Acids.
And your name na acid

Bros, you don fail this exam
How una dey?

Haha, I abandoned science a long time ago o.

We dey fine, my sister. Taking care of babies is no small task

descarado:


Amino Acids.
And your name na acid

Bros, you don fail this exam
How una dey?

😀😀 My head don block, sis

We dey fine o. How have you been?

Procreation indeed is a selfish and self-centred act. It's not necessarily a wicked act.

descarado:

I didn't see this.
Thanks to all the hands that helped.
You see, despite all,Nigerians are still good people.

Absolutely, it's heartening to see the goodness in people....people like you.

descarado:

Hey bros, how are u guys.

I wanted to sent you this info last 2 weeks but forgot.

Have you thought about cloth diapers. As long as you have washing machine, toss them in there.


I didn't breastfeed any of my kids. This is what I did. Formula till 2 months, then formula and pap but the pap was rich in dry sea food.

By end of four months, introduction to soup(okro) and what have you by 6 months eat everything.
You can puree avocado( very good oil and fat), mackerel is the best fish for kids. Omega 3 and 6.
And egg. All AA is there.

Things around you that's from naija. Not necessarily all these foreign stuff.

Thank you so much for the information, my sister, and God bless you immensely for all you do. Cloth diapers sound like a great idea, although right now, they already have enough to last about a year or more. Your feeding routine is really interesting—what does 'AA' in the egg you mentioned stand for? I'll definitely discuss these with their nanny.

cococandy:


You’re definitely more than welcome. Your bundles of joy will be nothing but blessings to you and miracles that you’ll testify about in due time.🙏🏽


@bold that’s surely what it is. Once they hear dollar and petrol prices have increased, they hike their prices for even the products they acquired at normal prices. We are our own worst enemies before the leaders.

Amen 🙏🏽 Thank you so much for your kind words and blessings.

Absolutely right about the baseless price hikes; it is unfortunate how economic pressures affect everyone.

cococandy:
It cost this much?

Are you kidding me?

In fact, that's the cheapest I've seen. Some online retailers sell for 30k+. I think most retailers are generally taking advantage of the economic situation though.

Thank you once again, Coco. The babies and I are extremely grateful.

GrandBroz:


So sorry bro, never give up and don't say you are done because you don't know what tomorrow has for you. Everything happens for a reason which only God knows. You didn't know you will have this experience and you didn't know help will come in this manner so your tomorrow is still pregnant and when all this pass and you sir down with maybe the 11 kids you will later have lol you will laugh when you remember you thought you were done with these ones you said is full stop

Thank you so much for your encouraging words and perspective, my brother.

11 kids ke? Besides the traumatic experience, there are economic considerations too. Don't the prices and complaints you see on this thread scare you?

doggedfighter:


Acid, good to read this. Glad to know that our babies are doing well and you too. Regards !

Yes, we are doing well. Thank you, dear

sisisioge:


Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry! It is well my brother. It is well. May God Himself help you raise your babies and settle all that concerns you. Pele. It is well.

My dear Sister, thank you so much.

Amen!!

Esthered:

Good to have you back sir.
I mailed you since June 10, looking forward to hearing from you.

Thank you, Esther. Seen my response yet?

Kendamil 800mg - 27k last time I checked. My girls finish a can in 3-4 days. I have no idea the current price as they got 36 cans for free and so much more (other brands of baby food, diapers that would last almost a year, over 80 packs of baby wipes, clothes, cash gifts from far and near, etc.) since their mom's/my wife's painful and regrettable passing. In fact, a few NLers who may not want their names mentioned here gave them about a million Naira.

Despite God's faithfulness and the surprisingly huge blessings, it's a FULL STOP for me. I'm DONE DONE with the birthing thing.

Klass99:


Genuine condolences! I just stumbled on the news about your loss.

I never know what to say to grieving people but it's okay to hurt, cry and grieve for as long as it takes to start healing. There is healing in tears/crying.

Your heart may question or rage against heaven but hold on, all things truly work together for the good of those who love him and are called by him. You won't see it now but the good will surely manifest.

Thank you so much for your heartfelt condolences, Klass99. Your kind words mean a lot to me.

.

tensazangetsu20:


I am so sorry men. I pray the good Lord gives you the strength to bear the loss.

Amen! Thank you, boss.

descarado:

What am I reading
Hold it together pls if you can. I am speechless.
Can you send your email to me on a dead thread anytime you can.

That's the only coherent thing I can come up with now.

Thank you so much, descarado.

I’ve posted the email as requested.

doggedfighter:


Omg, what did I just read?

Acid, I am so sorry about your loss.
This is sad😭😭😭

When I stopped seeing your post, I just thought you were serving a ban.

I don't really have the right words but I do say just take heart and stay Strong for the babies.

My condolences, Acid.

Thank you so much, dogged. Staying strong as expected.

**

Hathor5:


I am so sorry Acid. Please accept my deepest condolences. I read it two days ago and I couldn`t sleep. Only God knows what you are going through right now and I pray you will find the strength to carry on. It will take a while. Take your time to mourn. I know you will feel the deepest despair on some days but I promise you that you will get better with time. I have also lost someone very close and dear to my heart and it took me what feels like a century to get better but it got easier with time. Much strength!

I hope you have people to rely and lean on.

Thank you, Hathor. Your words mean a lot to me. I'm praying for strength too and hope to share my experiences someday.

Fortunately, I have a few people around to help out in the meantime.

Sijo01:


I'll call you again!
Please be strong for your babies.

Sure, anytime.

I really need to.

Nazgul:

Oh no! This is so sad.

The Lord is your strength bro. Take heart.

Thank you, boss. Really grateful for this.

shaybebaby:

It really shows strength that in your own pain, you found time to give comfort to another.

I'm sorry for your loss, and hope that in time, you will be able to smile again, that the pain becomes easier to bear and that your memories of her bring you comfort.

She is not truly gone, you hold a part of her in your babies, and I truly pray that you all go on to have happy and fulfilled lives that she will be proud of.

Be strong, for yourself and those babies.xx

Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement, Shaybebaby.

Esthered:


Egbon, please accept my condolences.

Please respond to my mail when you can sir.

Thank you, Esthered. I just did.

pocohantas:


Oh No!!!!!
I can't believe I am reading this.
I am so sorry you are going through this, Acid. I don't have the right words. I don't.

I pray you find the strength to pull through. Accept my sympathy. I share in your grief and deeply saddened by your loss. May her soul continue to rest in peace.

Thank you so much for your kind words and prayers, poco. Really grateful for this.

oneman11:
sorry for the loss of your beloved. may the lord console your family

Amen. Thank you so much, bro.

karkinase:

Sorry bro

Thank you, bro.

DAramis:


Condolences to you boss.

May God grant you the fortitude to bear the loss; and strength to take care of your new born babies

Amen. Bless you, sir. I'm grateful.

Blessedpalms:


I came online and saw this. It breaks me to hear this kind of thing o bro. Life is very difficult. Very difficult to understand and very difficult to navigate.

As humans, at a point we feel like we have planned it right only for a challenge which one can not control to happen.
I pray the giver of life and the taker of life gives your wife a peaceful comfort in Life beyond here. I believe their is Life beyond this current existence filled with pain and uncertainties.

I read up there where some said Jesus quickly died at 33. Then it occurs to me that in Numerology, 33 is a very difficult stage. It's also considered a "master number." A number emphasizing the importance of helping others.

But how can one help, someone who is passing through what one can not control?
This thing called life is very strange,

I never thought about this until now. Thank you for the insight, bro.

folake4u:


You're welcome Sir.

Please be strong for the babies.😔💜

I sure will. Thank you once again, folake4u

kkins25:


Oh! Really sorry for your lost, sir. May her soul rest in Piece and may your heart be comforted.

Amen. Bless you, bro. thank you.

Regex:


Bless her soul. Bless you too. I recognise that you are strong and I appreciate it.

Amen. Thank you so much, bro.

Sijo01:



Jesus. I thought you were serving a ban that's why I've not been seeing your post.

My condolences Acidos. May God rest her soul and give you the fortitude to bear the loss.

Thank you so much, Sijo. Amen. I tried calling back but couldn't reach you.

qtguru:


Damn sorry sir this hurts deeply.

It is for real. Thank you, brother.

Eunoiaa:


I'm so so sorry Acid. My condolences.

Thank you, sis. Really grateful

emmaodet:


Acidiosis, sorry bro.
I am really sorry for hearing this.
Sorry for your loss
Chaii...2 kids with you now to cater for.
May God guide you on how to proceed from here on...Amen

My brother,
Amen
Thank you so much, bro

folake4u:


Jesus!!!!!!!!!!!!

Omgggggg Acid. I'm so sorry to hear that.

I will call you later.

My dear, thank you so much. That meant a lot.

GloriousGbola:


I'm sorry for your loss.

Thank you bro.

Seeing the number 33 sends shivers down my spine again. I lost my wife hours after childbirth some 33 days ago. She was 33 when she passed. Big dreams, big things we both planned all seem like they're over, right? But really, they are not. She lived a purposeful life. I'm mourning, ignoring the many "if" and "what if" scenarios—the thoughts won't stop coming if you allow them—and finding the courage to take care of two newborn babies. My point? Don't be too hard on yourself. Embrace the challenges and learn to recognise the blessings. All will be well and, more importantly, remember that good or bad, fast or slow, everything will come to an end someday. Make that a reality check.

ebahorjerry:
Guy during my time in those my mate can't intimidate me 😠dey no born na well. Gentleness & calmness doesn't pay in d shithole call Nigeria, why can't her fight 4her self. It's wrong 4 d parent to take it upon their self

People who say this are actually bullies. Why are you offended by the parent's action? Typical bully behaviour. Asking every child to stand up to bully won't solve anything. Some children do not have the strength and energy for fight, and it's not a weakness.