Probably, heart attack

rip

honeric01:

So a size 10 in the US is a size 14 in the UK? uhmmmm

Yup!

I think you have the sizes mixed up:



Clothing - Single Size Conversion
UK 4 6 8 10 12 14 16 18 20 22 24 26

US 1 2 4 6 8 10 12 14 16 18 20 22

Guys, have you ever had an ex get married? How did you get over it? Gosh, what a girl to do? Please, I need tips ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

I think you should tell her now. I hope you didn't have any intimacy with her sha. You shouldn't have intimacy with people you don't like or wouldn't want to be with. Unless, both of you consent to it.

Eight year ? Nawah ohhhhhhhhhhhhh. I hate the fact that it has been that long. Honestly, I don't think all the things you listed are enough reasons to break up your relationship. Unless, both of you are AS (which can be sorted out) OR SS(no sorting). Seriously, I don't know why anyone would do such a thing to their follow human being. I don't want anyone saying 'it's not every relationship should end in marriage'. Why would you want to break her heart like that ? You know, it's not always greener on the other side. I know you've seen something out there that you want to go after. Just remember, what goes around comes around.

kok:

How does guts to approach translate to "attracting your kind"? does it mean that because a rough, haggard looking guy had the guts to approach will make you fall on your knees and worship him

Well, I believe we are interpreting ‘you attract your own kind’ differently. Well, what I got from that is that, people that approach you are actually your own kind. I disagree on that because; some of the people that approach are not my kind. But, they do approach me (i.e. are trying to date). The bolded part, I don’t understand what you are saying or trying to say.

I think his case might be because he doesn't have his papers to travel back home. So, it could be many things sha.

How is she asking too much? I honestly don't think she is asking too much. How is it that, a man is allowed to say what he wants in a woman and a woman is not allowed? I really don't believe you attract your kind, I know some guys that are way off your list or something you would want in a man but, they still have the guts to approach you. Well, I admire their confidence and that's as far as it goes. Once again, I don't think your friend is asking too much.

What a wonderful story. I know exactly how you must have felt when the breakup thing happened. It is not an easy thing to go through. Of course, the best thing to do is to always let the person go/walk away. But, how easy is it? Especially, when you've spent so much time (years) with them. God, please see me through this trial time Amen.

I think you would have succeeded in turning the table from a woman who hates to a man who hates when a relationship ends!

If you used to get down like 3 times a week you can downgrade to once a week that way there will be no hard feelings.

To me, there is nothing to downpaly. The only reason, I would even get down with an ex is only 'IF' I love him still and don't really want to let go ( which sucks because you are holding yourself down). There is no way you can guarantee that there will be no feelings developed if they have sex once a week or a month. So, it is a sticky situation.

Most guys wont accept that because they will feel it is wrong for one party to dictate the terms of their continued interaction. Which makes sense. Dont you think?


You are not serious right? Dictate ke? As in we are done. What part of we are just friend won't he get? If he wants to get in bed with me, then, he would have to continue the relationship on my terms. As in, I have friends and I don't get in bed with them and he is not an exception period. From what you are saying, it means he wants to be friends with benefits ( as in I don't have anything to do with my life).
What do you think?

At Pennywise
You 've a point. Some of the anger is misplaced and unnecessary however. You should be able to remain friends even when relationships grow cold. Relationships that grew cold are known to come alive again. So, why the anger?

Some guys dont make things easy the way they let go. They should learn to provide soft landing when they lose interest in a relationship.

The pain the girl feels sometimes is not because the relationship ended-usually the signs are always there long before. It is how they were let go. Guys should learn to be smart about this. Vice versa.



Pennywise, you have a point at the bolded statement. I don't think we should be enemies. Infact, I would like my ex to keep in contact with me than not calling me at all. But, what I will not accept is you trying to get in bed with me. Men and women can be evil sha. I know every relationship should not end in marriage. That is the reason why you should make sure you and your partner are on the same page. You can't carry on a 4 years or more relationship with a girl and not expecting her to think it might/will end up in marriage. Therefore, tell whomever you are dating what your intentions are to avoid bad feeling at the end.

^^^^ Nope! Help me out nah

^^^^ Yes those strong cakes. Do you know how?

Any one of those will do. Do you have any?

Amakaone, please can you help me with the Recipe ?

do have a standard, and these standards have to be met before I enter into a relationship at all. It's nothing new either that when you go into a relationship, you tend to find more things out about your partner that you didn't know upfront and you're at crossroads whether or not to keep up with these attitudes.

Before any decision has to be made, you have to study the changes (the new found attitudes) and decide if it's going to affect your perception of the relationship, and also, if you can deal with it with some little bit of patience and time; sometimes, some traits can't be worked on, some can be, but it all depends on who has the traits and how well and fair they are willing to work on them.

Furthermore, you need to check yourself and be sure you're not the one spurring these attitudes[color=#006600][/color], so as not to be guilty of what you're trying to put on someone else, but I agree, everyone needs a standard and I have a high standard my lady has to meet. . . I'm almost a perfectionist, that is if I'm not.


That above is the key and most guys don't know it. You are a wise man/woman

She knows all that too. I guess she doesn't know how to let go. I will let her know all this
Thanks

The boyfriend said she should marry someone else.
They were hanging out before he moved
The girl just finshed her undergrad
She is trying to get into med school hopefully next year

My best friend is in my house for the past two days and I don’t know what to say to her. Her boyfriend just told her that she should be getting married in two years… Or before she goes off to medical school. She asked him “what about you“? He said he is relocating to Naija. He is currently in Naija now. But, the funny thing is that they are still hanging out… Acting like they are still dating. Now that he is gone she has been crying profusely. She just told me this evening that they are still dating even though she wants to move on but she doesn’t know how… So guys what should I tell her?

You are better off anyways! Most times Love is over rated

OK you'll need to chill, She looks really pretty! Her wedding dress is actually very pretty too ( Classic in my opinion), Her make up is good. Ini I hope your marriage will bring you more happiness, success, children, wealth and riches in Jesus name Amen.

How do you make your cake to taste like the one's we have in Nigeria? I need a recipes please

Am from OWERRI! UMUODU

@opokonwa: You are so right! It has nothing to do with age. I have dated a guy that is 12-13 years older than I, and he was full of crab and immature. I've also dated someone who is 4 years older than I, and he adored every step that I take, so it makes me wonder maybe the older one never even liked me to begin with.

@alj"i really cannot think of anyone i know male or female that has dated anyone anymore than 10 years older or younger. does this really happen as often as people say it does or is it just another myth? if i knew a man my age (32) was dating a girl of say 18 to 22 i would regard him as a bit immature perhaps scared of being an adult ( unless she were an exceptional young woman like rhodalyn or hot angel) perhaps i will change as i get older but right now i find it a bit sick."

Hey, I know what you are talking about, I have a friend she is 22, and was dating a 37 yr old man, and ladies let me tell you guys, becso someone is older than you doesn't make him matured, cos this guy wasn't matured from what he did to my friend. He took advantage of her, to extend that my friend is still in shock right, talking about she won't date again. He used her in every form, so you'll should be careful in watever you'll are doing becos this older guys are just using you guys!

My best friend was seeing this Nigerian guy(around 37 years, my friend 22) for almost a year, well after about 8 months, according to her she had a little sex with the guy, she calls it little because, be left the guy under 2 mins of doing the thing because she had an appointment, and the guy didn’t finish what he was doing. Later on that day, she went over to the guy house and he wanted to continue from where he stopped, she said no, and asked the guy to do her a favor down there (aka a head) the guy was like it’s going to spoil her. My friend left the guy’s house because she doesn’t understand how what she hasn’t done before will spoil her. The funny thing though was the guy told her she was over reacting when she was leaving his house. Since then, the guy haven’t called her, and I told her not to call him either, but she feels used being her first relationship… I told her it’s just an experience, and she should learn from that, so was my advice wrong or right?

You guys are crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy that fine girl? una dey compare her with genny? PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wow! J.T. Tom West is dead!!!!!!!!!! May his soul rest in peace.