justwise:

I'm not feeling sorry for the guy cos there is nothing he can do to grow a bigger one, what seems too small to a particular lady may be normal to another, its pointless trying to get him worked out for something he got no control over just as its pointless dumping a gf cos she got a lager kitty, love the person and find other ways to get sweaty.

You are a virgin? ok

Any real reason why this is up for discussion?

LOL amazing how the men are sympathetic towards this Guy and someone is quick to imply that you maybe loose? No amount of tightness will help a 10 year old sized man. If you like be with virgin Mary herself.

Seeing as you're so in love then I will say stick to oral and toys. But doing That for the rest of your life though? Plus you haven't even had children yet. Damn! Worst nightmare there.

This time machine movie on TNT is rather daft
I just thought about that now like the plot is all over the place.

First of all I think it is inconceivable that you'd demand that of him. Deleting his ex from Facebook isn't going to prove he loves You more either. Rather childish if you ask me and you should know that men loathe being ordered about. They see it as nagging.

Now with that bit said I am skeptical with you as well in terms of his real motives. You never said he visits the UK so I reckon he's never been. So I think he has a "thing" for British women. I'd say trust your instincts on this and never fall mugu o!

LOL things like this make me laugh. Seriously? Of all the things you lot could be focusing your energy on?
Why bother getting married in Nigeria anyway? Where the hot sun will wire both of you and the pictures come out with
people looking like xmas goat with all that sweat. Get married here and call it a day.

Let me add YAY! Craig is returning as Bond come 2011. I can't wait. I think he's the best bond since Roger Moore and Sean Connery

cau:

My experience is that ladies who have nothing to offer apart from selfishness, arrogance & ota piapia have the longest wish list.

People are talking of intelligence. How do you assess intelligence?  Is it based on his occupation as a lawyer, medic, accountant or what?
Is  a  rich Lagos banker more intelligent than a skilled but poor herbalist in Oshogbo who could have become a fantastic surgeon if he had the opportunity?

How many ladies here can listen to a man for two hours talking about two great men in antiquity like Mark Anthony & Julius Caesar?
How many would have the patience and interest to listen to a guy discuss the merits of christian eschatology (in non-holy ghost fire and alleluia format)?

I have only seen it among white ladies (middle class I might add).
Our ladies don't verse that much irrespective of their level of education. The number/type of degrees you have is irrelevant

Knowing who's intelligent requires a high level of intelligence too.


This is best comment i have read in recent times.

Many of these girls talking about intelligence, they cant even engage in any meaningful or intelligent debate with a guy.

Everyone here is entitled to their opinion so they can choose whatever they want. Now intelligence is relative like you've pointed out but your post reeks of close mindedness. Have you met all the Nigerian women in the world to know that they can't engage someone so "intelligent" like you in a discussion about Micheal Angelo or Paul Newman? Stick to the Middle class white women you run with. They're a better fit

A good heart. A very rare character trait.

^^ Scary stuff being exposed to blood born pathogens. Good to see things are sorted. Us health care workers have be really careful when it comes to things like that. I guess all those OSHA trainings come in handy. Get better soon!

I saw "Remember me" Wasn't a bad movie at all

Don't be such a cynic about these things. Every human being is different and wont see love and happiness the same way. Surely we all don't share the same views as her.

Oh wow! The age difference is more shocking than anything else. If it were a teenager just like him then I'd understand. Well tell his parents and let them deal with it. He will learn self restraint from this.

I want the last one soo bad!

spikedcylinder:

Wowza! That is hot, Chika.

Yeah that it is. Happy new year Miss

Dolce Vita Persius. This shoe right here almost gave me an o.r.g.a.s.m

What to eat is the million dollar question

ivili:

women are attracted to men that flirt with different women  yet they complain that the same man is cheating on them,that is just lame.

That is life for you. The same way some women choose to sleep with married men and vice versa. Such is life. Live your own the way you want
and don't mind what others are doing.

The both of you don't know squiggly squat about each other. This is why you lot are having problems sorting things out that are not even complex at all.
Get to know each other before planning a wedding or go your separate ways.

LOL! This goes to show that women are comfortable with footing the bills right off the bat. Give your husband to be a chance to get a job. Don't be too quick to crucify him just yet. Relax

OP: it seems you're Just making up excuses for this young man. If all You wanna do is to tell us how He brought you an expensive gift and how he isn't lazy then I wonder why you're telling us to begin with. Keep up with things now and always remember that you end how you start. If you're paying the bills now then YOU'LL always be the one paying it later in marriage. Women like to complain but they're the ones who make their beds. Keep at it though. How so caring of you.

Finished Black Swan finally and HUH? is all I can say is seriously some of these Oscar movies are rather weird
one min the story line is rather normal and the next min I am looking at it like what the heck is going on here?
Seems she's schizophrenic or whatever. Oh well that one totally blew over my head.

Let's all be positive. It happened for Prince William's bride to be right? I reckon both of em share the same middle name: Patience or Aunty Peshe for short.

Gonna watch black swan. I hear it is a good one. Maybe Portman will get that Oscar then?

iice:

Chika, you're one of the few people who liked Lady in the water. . .including myself. I loved it! Has my favorite score

Yeah that was a brilliant one. Saw it when I was in high school.

WackyJ1:

Exactly! Infact you're on point.

I almost asked for my money back but then I thought my time has been wasted and I could never get that back. It was a waste of time, money and gas to drive down there. Heck I must rather watch Snooki on MTV

vescucci:

Compliment. You have good taste. Well similar anyway

Gee thanks! You have a great one too.

vescucci:

This Chika is pretty cool o.

I think I will take it as a compliment? Or should I ask in what context?

Globe trekker is a great show. Makes me wanna travel to a lot of places.

Siena:

Tufiakwa!

Lmao! Mr Siena isn't trying to help out. Be that solid connection this year LOL

Notebook: where Ryan goes I wrote you everyday for a year. It wasn't over. It is still not over!

Titanic: Rose goes put your hands on me Jack. Now that's a woman who knows what she wants.

Tristan and Isolde: Isolde asks Tristan "how many before me?" Tristan replies "None!" And Isolde asks again "And after me?" Tristan goes None! Toooooo hot!

300: where king Leonidas is about to die and you could see the arrows coming at him. He goes "my queen. My love" with despair in his eyes.

Quantum of solace: Daniel Craig (best bond ever! Much respect to the classics) goes into the bathroom where she's sitting down with the shower running. Sits down with her and licks her finger to clean the blood off it. In that moment we all knew he had fallen in love with her.

Siena:

Sounds like God's already punished you, hence the tears and venom. No one's falling for your ruse, so looks like you're stuck in your filthy hovel. Got a plan B?

Lmao! Maybe he can catch a ride in that car you're putting together

The last airbender was without a single shadow of a doubt the most horrible movie I have seen in years! I waited for it as well thinking M Night would totally blow it out the water. The last movie he came out with that I enjoyed thoroughly was the lady in the lake and That was years ago. Dude fall my hand with that.

LOL @ prince of Persia

Mine would be Avatar and Inception interchangeably. Em two were mind bending. Brilliant!