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Career / Re: Nsche Membership by CNN80: 8:41am On Apr 15, 2016 |
I don't get it. Soft landing with regards to what? |
Career / Re: Please I Need Information About MBA (masters Of Business Administration) by CNN80: 2:35pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Google is your friend. I'm serious. A few hours of research will show you the different options available to you. |
Career / Nsche Membership by CNN80: 2:34pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
HI, I want to sample opinions, What is the point of being a member of NSChe if I still have to join NSE in other to register with COREN? |
Family / Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by CNN80: 3:39pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Ok, everybody has finished insulting the wife. E don do. Yemi, talk to your wife. Find out why she has issues about you helping your brother. Tell her that it will look irresponsible of you to leave your brother in his time of need. Then ask her how YOU TWO can assist your brother. Let me tell you my own situation. My husband can be over generous with money. He is not the best money manager. Once a family member or friend says, my guy, I need help, he will jump in head first. I, on the other hand, am more cautious. I will happily give in church, orphanages, etc but if someone directly approaches me for aid, they will get the third degrees more so if they are family. It has nothing to do with stinginess and every thing to do with having experienced people leeching off my parents in the name of family. When we were about to get married, I pointed out to my husband that he had almost no savings. We had worked for almost the same number of years and had almost the same salary yet he had no tangible investments. He had sponsored various things in his family, weddings, business ventures etc. I told him it had to stop. How can you help people when you have not yet helped yourself? You have to pay yourself before you help others. This is basic financial knowledge. It has taken years but now he is much better. He still gives out more than I would like (he doesn't always let me know) but I know he has savings which we can depend on if something goes wrong. And he always consults me before give any large sum of money or household item. Giving away an old phone, iron, electric kettle....go for it. Giving away a fridge.... I better have a say in that. Communication is a wonderful tool. It builds togetherness. Saying that you want to make all the decisions because you are the head of the family does not fly. Once you married her, she became the bone of your bone and the flesh of your flesh. Talk to her, make her a partner in your endeavours and you will be pleasantly surprised at how your marriage will blossom. It will take time but you will get there. I know a man whose family complains that the wife doesn't like the husband helping the family. But they forget that there are two things involved. One, the lady was orphaned at a early age and had to struggle for every thing she achieved. Two, the family members are actually doing okay for themselves. Of course who won't like some extra help but without it they are okay. The wife sees this so she is more concerned with saving for their children because she knows what she went through. Everyone has a story. Find out what your wife's own is, allay her fears and show her that you are partners in your marriage. |
Family / Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by CNN80: 3:22pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Ok, everybody has finished insulting the wife. E don do. Yemi, talk to you wife. Find out why she has issues about you helping your brother. Tell her that it will look irresponsible of you to leave your brother in his time of need. Then ask her how YOU TWO |
Family / Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by CNN80: 12:52pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
[/color][color=#000000]Men, your sarcasm is great. I almost believed you were serious \ MarieSucre: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Is It Advisable To Get Married In As An Undergraduate In 300level? by CNN80: 11:08am On Dec 22, 2015 |
No |
Crime / Re: Cool FM Staff Rapes Ex-Girlfriend In Lagos by CNN80: 3:15pm On Dec 04, 2015 |
None of you were there and yet you have concluded that the girl is lying. Well done judge and jury. |
Crime / Re: Cool FM Staff Rapes Ex-Girlfriend In Lagos by CNN80: 2:32pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
smoby: Guy, are you a rapist? 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Cool FM Staff Rapes Ex-Girlfriend In Lagos by CNN80: 2:17pm On Dec 03, 2015 |
And this is why less than 5% of all rapes/sexual assaults are reported in Nigeria. You say you are raped, instead of sorry, you get a) What were you wearing? b) Why were you in his house/room? c) How can you say you didn't understand his intentions? What? You are only 13 years old? Well, you never shine your eyes well. d) Why are you reporting this small thing? After all, you do it for free with your boyfriend? You are a virgin? No wonder, you have been wasting this thing? e) Are you sure of what you are saying? How can your own father/brother/uncle/cousin/priest/pastor/choir master do such a thing? Abeg go sit don. With the stigma that is attached to reporting a rape and with the way the police force will treat the victims as if it is their fault, I am in awe of everyone that has the courage to stand up and report their attacker. 2 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Advice On Material For Sewing Top by CNN80: 8:11am On Nov 11, 2015 |
Please I am unable to post a picture. I just need the name of the material I can use to sew the top that is not lace. If I go to the market, I need to know what to ask for. |
Family / Re: My Husband Has Finally Fulfilled his fantasy of having a thr3esom&e by CNN80: 1:42pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Why does everyone start with "For the sake of the children". So someone should be suffering for the sake of the children. Personally, if I was the one, the kids are going to Grandma's house, I'm going to a hotel to clear my head(thank God that I earn my own salary) and you had better be ready to go to counselling and a battery of test before you even THINK of touching me again. Maybe a separation away from me will show the dude what he is missing. Is it easy to find a good woman to marry that people are treating it withe the same levity as buying a yam from the market? 38 Likes 5 Shares |
Fashion / Advice On Material For Sewing Top by CNN80: 1:32pm On Nov 09, 2015 |
Hi, I have an native outfit to sew that comes with a george material for the bottom and dark green lace material for the top. However, I can't use the lace. I need something plain made of cotton and unlikely to cause itching. Any idea will be welcome. |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by CNN80: 4:23pm On May 26, 2015 |
ifefunmi: No matter where you go, it's the same set of vaccines the baby is given. 2 Likes |
Health / Re: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by CNN80: 1:19pm On May 26, 2015 |
Please I need some expert opinions. I found commercially prepared soybean powder in a supermarket. It has crayfish, dryfish and groundnut added to it. Do you think I should get it for my baby? I can't make it myself. He's already taking pap but when I put crayfish in it, he doesn't like it. |
Family / Re: My Boyfriend Demands I Change My Church After Marriage by CNN80: 5:24pm On Mar 13, 2015 |
Joy1706: This is from personal experience. Please end the relationship. Your faith IS a personal thing between you and God and if you don't think that his church will satisfy your spiritual needs, then respect yourself and leave. |
Education / Re: Share Your Experience About Your Jamb Exam Today Here... by CNN80: 8:38pm On Mar 10, 2015 |
Hi, how do I find out the address of the jamb centre? It's not written on the exam print out. |
Fashion / Re: Thread For India Wears For Ladies.. by CNN80: 11:21am On Mar 09, 2015 |
Still available. |
Family / Re: Husband and wife at loggerheads, any advice? by CNN80: 10:41am On Feb 19, 2015 |
The wife is currently feeling insecure in her own house and they both need to take steps to rectify this issue. This is why we never refer to major purchases in our home as my own. He should sit down with his wife and they can agree to buy a car for her in a couple of years. Meanwhile, he should ensure that when buying the land, both of their names are clearly stated on the deeds. Not Mr and Mrs Unknown but John Unknown and Jane Unknown. This will show the wife that her husband regards her as an equal partner in the family progress. Hopefully, as time goes by, the husband's caring attitude will once again show the wife that he values her. 6 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Thread For India Wears For Ladies.. by CNN80: 6:25pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
I can be contacted through cnnuba@gmail.com. |
Fashion / Re: Thread For India Wears For Ladies.. by CNN80: 12:32pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
I have salwar kameez materials for sale. Pls see the attached file. If anyone is interested, let me know.
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Education / Re: Can Someone Please Solve This Mathematical Problem by CNN80: 8:53am On Jan 30, 2015 |
olusolaj: This solution works if the question specified that all the students have at least a ball or boot. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Can Someone Please Solve This Mathematical Problem by CNN80: 12:32pm On Jan 29, 2015 |
No of students < 30 Exactly 3/4 of them own footballs, therefore no of students is a multiple of 4 i. e 4,8,12,16,20,24,28 Exactly 7/8 of them own football boots therefore no of students is a multiple of 8 i. e 8,16,24. If no of students = 8, 6 own balls and 7 own boots. This means that one person doesn't have boots. The 6 that own balls can be made up of all the people that have boots or 5 that own boots and 1 that doesn't. Meaning at least 5 students own both. Using the same logic If no of students = 16, 12 own balls and 14 own boots meaning at least 10 own both. If no of students = 24, 18 own balls and 21 own boots meaning at least 15 own both. I think there might be a part missing from the question. 2 Likes |
Fashion / I Need A Tailor by CNN80: 10:09am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Please help. I need a good, imaginative tailor around Festac axis. Any suggestions? |
Family / Re: My hubby want me to break my sim by CNN80: 7:08am On Dec 08, 2014 |
TonYzeallY: If my husband had made the mistake of trying to test my respect and submissiveness before we got married, we wouldn't be married now. Is he an exam invigilator? Why didn't he do his homework before proposing? Please, marriage is for matured people. if you want to play games, go back to primary school. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My hubby want me to break my sim by CNN80: 6:36pm On Dec 03, 2014 |
Famouspecky: Why does he want you to break your sim? If it is because he doesn't trust you, then you shouldn't be marrying him in the first place. If he's worried about you being disturbed by people who won't respect your marital status, then he should break his own too. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: Will You Allow Yr Kids Keep Friends With Children Of Divorced Parents by CNN80: 8:09am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Onila, Onila, Onila......how many times did I call your name? Stop trading insults with people still living with a mentality you are not able to grasp or make sense of. It is the equivalent of arguing with a Chinese person about Yoruba culture...the chances of him grasping the richness is very remote. As for me, while I am a practising Catholic, if I see a woman in a marriage where she or her children are being abused, I will call her an idiot and tell her to take action. If I see a man in a marriage were his wife is sucking the life out of him, I will advice him to take action. If said action is divorce, que sera sera. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I think my wife is cheating on me. by CNN80: 2:24am On Oct 01, 2013 |
chibansky: I AM YOUNG AND HAVE A GOOD JOB, JUST FEW MONTHS OLD IN MARRIAGE NO KIDS YET, MY JOB TAKES ME OFF MY HOME FOR TWO WEEKS. Questions, seriously How old are you two? How long did you know each other before you got married? Now let us get down to business. I'm married. And I have a life apart from my husband. When he comes home and I am engrossed in whatever I am doing, he DOES NOT act like a petulant child and insist on my undivided attention. Let's look at it from a man's perspective. I assume that like most Nigerian men, you like, no adore, football. Are you trying to tell me that there has never been a time you have been totally engrossed in a game on TV to the point of ignoring everyone around you? On to the next point. You DEMANDED? Meaning what? Because you are who? Even when I was still living with my parents, they never demanded. And my mate will be demanding. What rubbish. Didn't you ever learn to ask politely? And even if she ignored you, you couldn't go and calm down? Really, how old are you? In anger, you spent the night away from your matrimonial home. Again, how old are you? In fact...... And then she does the same thing. How old is she? In fact, you two fit each other. Then you come back, find out she is doing tit for tat and your oh so matured response is to send her away. Nigerian film. And after thoroughly acting like a ..........(fill in the gap), you want advice. Are you sure you are ready for the institution of marriage? Marriage is about communication. And I see no mention of it in your story. Go home and talk with your wife, not to her. |
Fashion/Clothing Market / Salwar Kameez (Indian Bollywood) Material by CNN80: 8:35pm On Sep 29, 2013 |
Very unique designs. Please check out the following listings. I can't upload pictures. http://amuwo-odofin./salwar-kameez-look-like-a-bollywood-star-iid-547214952 http://www.tradestable.com.ng/lagos_mainland/clothing/Salwar_Kameez__Look_like_a_Bollywood_star__126859.htm?last=1 Contact me. You won't be disappointed. |
Health / Nordica Or Olive Branch Clinic by CNN80: 3:12pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Which of the clinics would you suggest for ICSI/IMSI and why? Please this is a serious issue. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by CNN80: 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2013 |
So the man can remarry but the woman must remain single? I must have been reading the wrong bible. Virgin Finder: |
Family / Re: Do Women Want Equality Or Superiority by CNN80: 8:59pm On Sep 02, 2013 |
edie_mafio: u have spoken ur mind, unfortunately it doesnt really work like that..insecurity is a very big problem to a lot of people.he will deal with it in his own way, just like anyother problem.it is not for u to teach him how to do so.dont give him a reason to suspect u, d only way to gain his trust is to b 100% submissive,never mind dressing like s.ex worker n keeping male friends out of office and strange call n all that..u need to accept ur fate if anything goes wrong.. Are you for real or just pulling my legs? I'm honestly wondering. |
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