AN AMERICAN PRESIDENT ONCE SAID", tHJINK NOT WHAT AMERICA WILL DO FOR U,BUT THINK ABOUT WHAT U LL DO 4 AMERICA"
THAT SHOULD BE OUR ATTITUDE.I BELIEVE NIGERIA CAN ONLY BE MADE BETTER BY NIGERIANS AND WE CAN NOT IMPACT THE MUCH NEEDED CHANGE FROM D"WEST" IN OVER QUEST FOR SAFE HAVENS.AMERICANS INITIATED THE CHANGE THAT TRANSFORMED AMERICA AND SO IS EVERY OTHER ADVANCED COUNTRY OF THE WORLD.

our generation need a change of attitude and a complete reorientation!!some of us know that their are more upportuinities in developing countries than there is in deveoped countries[color=#990000][/color]

onyinye2:

I mean seriously what good would it be to bring us all back to Nigeria? Will things magically change?

who ll change the government

onyinye2:

Will there be jobs for us? Will we be paid for our jobs? Will there be a place to live? Can you answer any of these honestly?

Honestly i really mean every word of what i said about reorientation,In Nigeria progressive youths thing of creating jobs!!
The Governor is in deed tellling us the truth

I wish u luck friend and pray your search ll be worth the time.Its good to know ur roots.There may just be some untold stories and its not good to live in assumptions and imaginations for a life time.whatever is the outcome of the search,I encourage u to embark on it

u beat a girl when u dont ve any other thing to offer to earn her respect.If u have a psychological/intelectual control over ur woman,u dont ve to hit her to earn her respect.

pls i ve to run now
I ve a meeting i should be in in 10 mins time
takia ok?

nooo
for what now?
it feels going meeting u again
ope u re pushing fine?

syren how u dey?

@Syren
How u dey
sorry my sever went bad the last time
@topic
d personality of the girl is key here
most girls ve been tru it at one time or the other just that there is no physical evidence to it.for those that ve "kid" not "kids"I think their heart is made of gold and should be treated kindly

@ Topic
Yeah I think I beleieve!
it depends on the individual
Personal experience
Action:[/b]whenever I want to play,I play the hard guy
[b]Result:[/b]I get laid and take off

[b]Action:[/b]Whenever I am in love,I play nice guy coz i dont want to loose the damsel
[[b]b]Result:[/b]I never get laid

What a world!!![i][/i]

syren:

HI doey , nice to hear from u again. I'm not so good at the moment, feeling a little bit down, the job isn't going great either, problems with my contract and other things. But i can't complain too much. it isn't terrible either.

And how are u dear?

Its not usually easy at the beginning but i m sure things will strengthen out with time.
Remember to take things "one -step-at- a-time"
I m good,just that I ve on a little pressure but I m sure I ll come over it in a few dcays

@ Syren
Baby how u dey?
been kind of busy lately, how was ur 1st day in ur new job?

davidif:

trust me, education in nigeria is useless and absolutely worthless. You wouldn't know until you come over here.

I m sure u re not a serious person!
[i]useless and absolutely worthless[/i]This is unbelieveable!!!
I'm sure u re not properly and adequately informed.

I wonder what all this is about!
this in no "government"where there is power sharing formula.once there is mutual respect and understanding,the whole thing sorts itself out!

syren:

No, i start on monday, so i have the weekend to prepare myself.

I know people in the company so it shouldn't be too bad.

thats good news!
I m so happy for u!
is this ur first job or u had d experience b4 now?

DeepZone:

Because he's an early man.

may b

syren:

That's good and thank you, all the hard work paid off

Now it starts all over again but atleast i'll enjoy it.

so tell me
have u resumed?

HCH3COO:

Why marry him if you didn't think he was competent?  Your ego wants you to dominate a man?

The question of dominion doesnt even come in here!
nobobdy marries anybody to dominatehim/her
marriage is all about compromise,mutual respect and understanding there is no hard and fast formular"50/50,70/30,10/90"noo it doesnt work like that!u most know your strong points and compesate for each others weakness.

Hanniball pls take note!"understanding[b][/b] "is the key word

beutifull!
good to hear about ur new job
congrats!!

hi syren!
How are u today?

@syren how are u today?
feels good to hear u ve got a new job.
congrats!

@Okija
I feel deeply for 4.No doubt the fundamental and values of marriage have been eaten deep by the monster of divorce.This is caused by the fast and negatively impacting effects of civilization and poverty.Why would a woman want to marry just to part with a 50% of her "huzzys" whatever and mortgage the life of her children to unhappiness and bitterness.

I think you really have to get the fundamentals right,we are Africans and we ve our marriage values.Once u build a marriage on the right foundation,it ll sure last ur lifetime.I ve seen more marriages work in my life time that i ve seen them fail.get the basics right and u ll live in paradise on earth.
marriage is fun!

syren:

;aaahhh it's so nice to be appreciated. D

I guess i just told u what u already know.
I ll b off in a minute,dont forget to get some rest,its getting late

@Syren
I sure know u ll agree with me

syren:

I like your way of thinking.

Thank you,we are just being real

I can help but fall in love with d logical reasonings behind ur posts.

syren:

I know but if you slow down you get left behind, I always like to stay one step ahead y'kno

Yes!its good to alwways b 1 step ahead but u dont achieve that these days only by working hard.U get there faster by working intelligently,this way u achive more result with less effort.I m sure u agree with me

syren:



oh, that bad huh? That's ok technology can be a pain sometimes, i kno.

A real pain but i ll get it over with,iits just time,

syren:

Lol, i'm feeling better now atleast and had some fun 2.

Good to hear!u know in life we need to take 1 step at a time to keep our head up.
Its a new,dont forget to slow down once in a while

syren:

Did you get the correct email address?

Yeah i did,but ve not really send u a mail,having issues with my internet configuration.Cant even log on to massenger now, its that bad

syren:

Hi doe82

how r u? Nice 2 see u online again.

I m good,How was ur w/end, ope u had enough rest and fun.real nice to meet u

Nautillus:

Dude. . . . come and marry the chic in Naija. . . .

If you cheat oh her . . . .she complains . . . .her family will calm her down and bring her back

If it happens again . . . . and she complains . . . .You can marry a second wife after her to calm her down

If she cheats on you and you catch her in the act . . .You can throw her out and marry someone else

& the beauty of all this is that . . . . in all the above situation . . . .You don't HAVE TO PART WITH A DIME . . .

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This forum ll never seize to amaze me!!

ok,that ll b nice

syren:

I really wish I could I'm not even feeling well, but I just have to keep going.

Baby take care of urself as health is paramount in all we do.If u breakdown whatever u were doing another will take up so whats is the essence of going tru all these stress.

syren:


Very true, a lot of parents don't think about that, don't even care at times all they think about is how much they can't stand their partners and how to get as far away from them as possible. Not only in marriage but outside of it too.

got some personal questions but i dont think nairaland is the best forum for them

syren:

I really wish I could I'm not even feeling well, but I just have to keep going.

Baby take care of urself as health is paramount in all we do.If u breakdown whatever u were doing another will take up so whats is the essence of going tru all these stress.

syren:


Very true, a lot of parents don't think about that, don't even care at times all they think about is how much they can't stand their partners and how to get as far away from them as possible. Not only in marriage but outside of it too.

got some personal questions but i dont think nairaland is the best forum for that

syren:

I've been very busy sha, even now I'm just waking up from my nap, I'm exhausted.
Always nice to hear from you tho, hope all is well

I can understand!just take it cool and slow down sometimes to take care of urself.Feels good meeting u again!!

syren:


@ topic
Come to think of it, the term "broken home" can be very disheartening for children to hear. It has a very nagative stigma and they know they're looked down on at times and automatically seen as dysfunctional and problematic, so they feel ashamed and negative emotions arise from that so I'd say it's both internal and external factors from the home and outside world.

THATS WHY EVERY SINGLE ONE OWE IT A DUTY TO THEIR CHILDREN UNBORN TO MAKE THE RIGHT MARRIAGE DECISIONS TO SAVE THE INNOCENT KIDS THE STIGMA AND THE MENTAL TORTURE THAT GOES WITH THIS KIND OF SITUATION

Unique-wun:

firstly re u gay
nothin wrong but i think u remjus obssessed with him
maybe because no one has done d same for u before

[color=#990000]maybe u re in love
i don't know[/color]

LOVE KE?

AEjiro:

And what's so wrong in being gay?

Everytin as long as we re still african wit our good head on our shudas.

How man go dey shit ^{*i can't even say it*}

EVERYTHING BLACK OR WHITE,CHRISTIAN OR MUSLIM[color=#990000][/color]
THIS IS INCREDIBLE