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My mechanic suggested that I should change my back brakes, which I did. Now my brakes are worse. I'm told that the master brake is bad. My car model is Toyota Avensis 1 Like |
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Buy STC30 and take. |
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engrsyer: you're so silly 9 Likes |
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screw you! ...for feeling like God's gift to her after microwave! |
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I read through every comment and I want to appreciate everyone of you that took time to comment on my previous post, most especially the people who reached out to me personally. Some were quick to judge, someone even wished that my baby was born 'slowpoke'. God will not let your wish come true. I admit to my mistake, i regret and I ask for His forgiveness and mercy, and I know He will grant me. I tried to talk with him but he maintained his stands. He said he was clear with me that he cannot father a child now. I will keep the pregnancy and I trust that God will see me through. As of now I have severed all links with him. I need to hear from people who have gone through this path, how did you handle it, cos right now I have a lot going on in my head, I hardly sleep and when I do I have bad dreams. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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Hi guys, I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now. I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things. I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old. I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock) What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future? 5 Likes 1 Share |
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divinelove: Op ur man is a financial illiterate, he needs to b educated abt hw money works.Thx |
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bluuu: ^^ exactly my tot.y would he make sure he finishes ur savings.looks lik he doesnt want u being financially independent so as not to feel u r a 'challenge' to him which implies domineering. evaluate ur relatiinship if he s bossy or not. I think so too. But its sad. He's not bossy but I think he feels threatened that I had some money saved and he doesn't. |
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jaz: the question is do u want to marry him cos if so, ur pastor is not obligated to deny both of u saying healing must come first. its not biblical nor is it godly. if the church is the issue go to another church or do court and traditional wedding. Thanks. |
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ifegy: He gives them a date. And the date elapses and he gives another. Sometimes he refers them to me. Yea I'm not obligated to wait but I feel for him too. And won't it be like I never loved him if I leave? |
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bukatyne: You are welcome Yes, his family is a closely knit one. No they didn't pull resources to train him, his parents did. But yes, they've been there for him otherwise. Planning our home, yes! |
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bukatyne: Thanks for the correction. His reason for not assisting me was that he had things to do. He listed them out. However, he ended up not doing just one out of a list of 4 things. I know for sure he didn't want to assist and he wanted me to use my savings. I have taken pains to ask him what business he would love to do. We've costed everything, but once he gets his salary, he always comes up with one story of lending his siblings money, which he promises to get back and then one story will come out. Either they paid back in bits he couldn't save or he ended up picking their wares for the money and most times at exhorbitant rates. I don't want to be involved in that one. Thanks so far for your advice. |
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I hope I won't be diverting the thread but I'm prompted to share my story. I'm in a relationship with a guy, all the while he didn't tell me he was HIV positive until the night before we were to go for tests as demanded by my church's marriage committee. On on part I felt betrayed and angry because he didn't tell me all the while. On the other hand I feel pity for him because it could have been anybody. When my pastor asked him why he didn't tell me all the while, he said he was believing and is still believing God to heal him. Because of this, the marriage has been put on hold until he is healed. But the problem now is that since she kinda rushed everything and told people, everyone keeps asking me why the delay. I have lied and lied and I'm tired of telling lies. Obviously people know something is wrong. Recently his mum asked me why I was delaying? I don't know what to say again to people, including my family. |
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torkaka: initially we found it difficlut to deal with it but as time went on every one accepted it (infact we hardly remember her health condition) and now she is happily married. LET YOUR FAMILY KNOW! EVERY OTHER THING WILL FALL IN PLACE. Is her husband HIV positive too? |
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bukatyne: @OP: |
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lareine: Is it true that most guys don't like it when their women have more money than they do? This is my observation. I told my fiancé about my savings. Something cropped up which he had promised to help me with financially. Suddenly he declined. When I asked why he said I should use my savings. This is money I have saved for 2 years. He doesn't have any savings even though his salary is 6times mine. He made sure he helped me spend the money and was even asking for more just to be sure I had nothing left. I feel so bad, that he should be encouraging me to save. Besides. He wants to know when I'm paid salary and how much? How I spend money etc. I have decided not to let him know about my finances any more. Hope I'm doing the right thing? Thanks. I have and will still tell him. |
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Is it true that most guys don't like it when their women have more money than they do? This is my observation. I told my fiancé about my savings. Something cropped up which he had promised to help me with financially. Suddenly he declined. When I asked why he said I should use my savings. This is money I have saved for 2 years. He doesn't have any savings even though his salary is 6times mine. He made sure he helped me spend the money and was even asking for more just to be sure I had nothing left. I feel so bad, that he should be encouraging me to save. Besides. He wants to know when I'm paid salary and how much? How I spend money etc. I have decided not to let him know about my finances any more. Hope I'm doing the right thing? |
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byvan: @Op,you sound like my friends when I was dating my hubby.They kept hammering on how I don't ask him for anything and how he can't even offer to give.Mehn I was one proud lady,I can't beg because am too proud to.I was so in love with my man that their criticisms about him makes me laugh.Seeing the way he helps his friends and family was all I needed to know that my guy was just using his head. You rock! |
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chikeorji123: This friend of urs what's she into? meaning a student or workingclass?..and how old is she?.... she's a working class. |
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Hi Guys, What could possibly be responsible with my friend. All her life, she ends up dating men who find it difficult to spend on her. Well, one could excuse that, but now she's engaged, yet the man in her life would not still spend on her. I feel this is wrong, because if it goes on this way, she may end up being the bread winner of the house. And she's not the demanding type. Your comments, please. |
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@ OP,you haven't said how you got yourself in this situation. Are you sure you d're not a schemer? People who rise to the top thru hardwork cannot have all his colleagues envying him or talking at his back. Are you also sure you do not backstab in order to get favoured? Cos if you do, perhaps the person you claim is spearheading may have found out and told the others. About your former friend, why is he or she "former?" What have you done to win your friendship back? You need to check yourself first! Goodluck! 1 Like |
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belabela: @ Poster Thanks so much for the link. It really helped. God bless you. If u have more links on this issue or any other u think may help, pls be kind to share. |
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Guys, I need your help. A friend of is trying to locate ger father. The only information her mum gave her is that he owned a hospital called Emiloju hospital. The hospital is a storey building and her supposed father owned it and lived upstairs.Any1 in Osogbo that can help? |
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![]() ![]() Irrespective of how most Nigerians dislike him, for messing with our own, I want him to win, so he can come marry our Goldie. |
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For Arsene Wenger to amit that for Chelsea to sign you up, it means you're a great player. Chelsea, I duff my hat. Mikel, I'm prouda ya. Bad belles go n hig transformer. |
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I would ask him to proclaim a fast and prayer and be genuinely involved. With God, all things are possible. When JEHOSHAPHAT was King of Israel, 3armies ganged up to fight Israel. King JEHOSHAPHAT was afraid because he knew he could not handle these armies. What did he do? He proclaimed a fast througout Israel and God heard them and caused the enemies of Israel to fight amongst themselves and they all died by their swords. God can do it again. See 1Chronicles 20 4 Likes |
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I love Nigeria, God bless Nigeria. |
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some people on nairaland are just the devil's advocate. In fact to them there's nothing wrong in the devil. If you talk say devil bad, na him be say you don condemn devil. And how can you for heaven's sake condemn the devil. Some are outright dumb. Watchout now. Person go soon talk say I call Tonto devil. I just tire. |
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