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Black mamba are identify by the colour of inside their mouth not body..

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Ohibenemma:
Of course! To every man his own. But planning within one's means is great wisdom.

Yea, you have a point, but would the disappointment have been so great had the expenses been within their means? No debts?

debt or no debt. it was not the couple's fault that the wedding flopped. it was circumstance beyond their wings. the disappointment probably would have been the same. after all even if the wedding was a success they still would have paid so they paid anyway

observer88:
Getting a covered hall for your events is your most important lesson learnt here? Funny lesson that is.

that is my own lesson. pick yours and move on. I have known from my teenage years that borrowing especially for frivolities isn't wise. are you just learning that ?

this is a fiction right? the most important lesson learnt here is always get a covered hall for your event. what were the food vendors watching that they allowed the food to get socked ? of a school no classroom? even if you hadn't borrowed the story didn't add up
I have a better way you could have ended your story

Ybaby:


Oh I get you. I am talking here about raising legendary men.

Making sure that acorn reaches his Oak tree potential

I am not talking about raising an employee - addicted to salary (not bad) but I am too ambitious to want just that for my egg

I am talking about raising a mudafcuking money making machine - A Trump!

A man similar to my husband - I am talking about raising a liquid metal, an indabosky, a lion...... an eagle

A man who society relies on.

A MAN, men rely on Okunrin meta, Akikoju Okunrin, Okunrin Ogun - a man industries come out of - a Rockefella!!

I am raising legends - if my son was to become the president of Nigeria - I will still think he can do better

Why?

He came from the groin of a legend - top notch quality sperm (my husband) - my job is to show him the possibilites and keep his self esteem up then back him up with money.

I am mummy - I am raising legend men!


So sorry if I was not so clear in the original post bear with me - I sometimes think we all think alike. Thanks for bringing me back to earth.

I like you, really. you are so thinking same way as I do.

Hathor5:


Have you considered that your kids individual talents may not align with STEM subjects?

What if they feel passionate about music, art or sport?

What about their preference and calling and ultimately happiness?

Mastery is the result of blissful dedication.

if they lean towards any of those, no problem. I understand the place of interest and talents. but now that they are young, I help them towards seeing the power of STEM. I allow my toddler play piano and he loves football crazily. I just want to build a whole child who had choices and empowered with skills

Ybaby:


Yes to be a provider. What is wrong with that?

We all work out of some sort of necessity - he is a child that just earned $500 not standing in the sun but from the comfort of his home, from his skillset.

There are grown men in NG who have not earned $500 this month (N207,000) this young boy will earn it in 4 days and move on to other gigs.

He is strengthen his money making muscles and I love it.

The advantage:
his wife and children will respect him,
he will never have to ask his pregnant wife for transport fair
his wife will never tell him she regrets choosing him and not her rich ex
and many ugly thing I have read on NL

A man needs his wife's respect like humans need oxygen - if you have a son - pls help him strengthen his moneymaking muscle early - do not baby him when it comes to earning.

Ire o

you are correct, we must not babysit beyond when he or she is supposed to whether male or female but mostly male as they seem to hold more responsibilities in the family circle and the society. money making skills must be introduced to a child at a tender age. my intention is to ensure that at age five and six, my boys ( i have two of them)are already IT geek and having full understanding of STEM topics. the future is STEM.
it is never too early for a boy to earn money, as long as it is legit. it prepares him for manhood

there is no one working manual for every male child, you just have to spend quality time with your male child to understand His personality and what rightly works for him. you may have 5 boys from one mother and still need to deal with each differently.
Although there are some basic rules that could help shape a male child into a better adult and a man.
such as: teaching them to have confidence in themselves, their dreams and abilities.
give respect to people irrespective if race gender or age.
teach them to build and value positive relationship
teach them the place of family in society
whatever religion you believe in, pass on to them by teaching them the rules of their believe while still respecting their stance. teach I said and not indoctrinate. indoctrination makes a child lost his right to reasoning and logic
give them formal education to at least university level
push them to acquire skills from a very young age that are in vogue. for example, I have introduce the use of laptop to my 2 year old and I allow him build his own interest around it.
a father figure in a male child's life is Paramount. single mother can get an uncle , friend or a colleague to stand in if the father is missing in action
be a role model. the possibility that your male child will turn out just as the father is higher. that's why I don't get tired of talking my hubby into modelling right attitude. not because I care so much, i do care really, but for the sake of my boys I won't stop talking.
why? I know my boys will gear towards wanting to be the man dad is, than wanting to be the woman mum is.
please note boys are boys and not female. do noe effeminate a male child. it kills every bit of what makes him a man.
who is a man ? topic for another discussion

11thGoldTREE:
the Moniker that opened this post is actually saying what he thinks. We need to put alot into perspective before we start writing Epistles

what could possibly make a man not buy diaper for his newborn? well, I responded based on what the op wrote. he said the father is acting or acted that way because the child is a girl. my response was from the perspective of the writer. what perspectives are you suggesting?

since he hates girl child so much, he should have married a fellow man like himself to birth his kids for him.
He is even lucky to have kids, a dose of double sex for that matter, yet he is complaining. There are people with all girls children, and people with no kids at all who will climb Everest to have what he has. He needs slaps so he can get back to default setting.
I have a neighbor just like him, who sees female kids as potential prostitutes, therefore he doesn't wants female kids. he has two boys. my argument is, if a boy sleeps with a prostitute, he is no different from her. even the bible says you are one with whom you share your body.
secondly, female kids as well as male kids have equal openings to negativism and positivism nowadays: addiction, abuse, education, jobs, career etc. just raise your child well irrespective of the sex . a boy child as well as a girl child not raised well can equally cause you the same amount of pains and tears just as they can equally bring about the same amount of happiness and pride if nurtured rightly.
thirdly, if a couple birth a sex type either of them do not want, the woman, not the man should be the one to be annoyed. after all, the man determines the sex. so he should kill himself and not be annoyed with the mother or the child.
women, too should start asking men to produce the sex of the child they want.
if he can't drag his ass. stop letting them make you pay for the job they failed at.

missyblissy:


It is very normal for babies to poo after every feed as my daughter did when she's was one or two months old. I use like 7 diapers or more. As long the poo looks like eguisi and It is not watery. Baby is fine. Please please please when it comes to health of your baby call a doctor to assist you on what to do. Do not I repeat do not give baby any herbal medicine or drugs without proper instruction from. Your doctor. Babies are really fragile. Nine months journey no be beans nobody loves your baby more than you.

Thanks for the reassurance.

angeltolly:


Baby can poo after every feeding, it's nothing to worry about. It's not jedijedi and Yes it's normal

The frequency or times a baby passes stool is not a problem as long as it's not watery. Normal poo looks like Egusi in color and texture

paediatricians says Some babies can pass stools up to 12 times daily which is perfectly normal

thanks. yes, it looks like egusi.

someone help , please. my baby is four weeks old. he passes gas a lot and I can tell this gasses are painful with the way he stretches his legs and feet and sometimes cry afterwards.
secondly, he poops after every feed. he is basically on breast milk . could it be something I am eating ? my mother in-law said it is jedi-jedi that I should get campfra and put in water for him to drink. I have been reluctant to do that.

thirdly, he seems he has stomach pains as he stretches and every time as someone who is in pains.
should I be worried and go see a doc? my main concern is the poo after every feed and the painful gas he passes frequently.

thanks

I guess i will just take this post down. The insults and embarrassment are quite demeaning and can push one to suicide.
I haven't received anything from anyone neither has anyone reached out. Thank you all for taking your time to read. I guess i will look else where. Tough times don't last. It wouldn't have come to this, but prior to lockdown, we rented a new apartment and that took every dime we had. Our intention was to use the remaining months to work and gather money, but the lockdown hit.
I withdraw my pleads and no longer seek help.

Angeline75:
In the month of September 2018, u posted on a particular thread that u discovered u were pregnant and u were contemplating whether to keep the baby or abort it. Now let's assume u kept the baby. It means u should have put to bed by mid 2019. If it happens to be another pregnancy I don't understand how it will be due in the month of May. Last time I checked pregnancy takes 9 months. And again, I don't understand how ur toddler is 2 yrs base on my calculation

We didn't keep it. My doc said it was too close because i did two major surgeries. Took in August last year again. I only have one toddler. If i have anything to hide won't agree to post with old account.

mikkyjagga1:
Would love to assist with something, send me a mail if you can.
Would be nice if someone can verify also!
Cheers

Have sent you a mail. Thanks

madampresident:
Once you're verified, I ll send you a token. Remember to cc me.

I have logged in with the old monika

I have logged in with my old Monika, please someone should help me. As i speak currently i have no drop of food stuff at home. And attending to my toddler has been by grace. No amount is too small. I have barely eaten this morning with no hope for the next meal. My hubby is also trying to reach out to his friends, but then everyone seem to be in the same boat.

roseb1:
After logging out from this new Monika, click on login. Look down. U will see reset password. Enter the email u used in creating ur old Monika. U will be sent a link to that email where u can reset ur password

I have done it. It was not easy, goggle has to verify because was using a new device for the mail.

Have a time set aside for them and gist and gist. Tell them stories about your culture, your parents your growing up day. Just anything that will help them know you better. I do not know anything about my patents other than they are Nigerians. But I am building the connection with my kids

lusciouslyon:
bored and depressed are two different things

Boredome can lead to depression. I have been there before.

please help a novice, his much is the least someone could start with ? another question, how do I get my national ID card? thank you, in anticipation for a response. please do quote me

internationalman:


I said average, maybe you are not among the average

you obviously do not understand the word you used. "average Nigerian man" simply means your everyday Nigerian man. it is used to refer to every man who is a Nigerian it us not a caste or class word

jaybeyblu:
Thanks@shizzle11 i have called off the wedding! I was astonished as you are now when I met him, and as an Ibo lady also this was new and strange to me, I have racked my brain trying to figure out why would he be like that ( I even nicknamed him ancient of days ) because though he is a well learned man in his field of occupation, his reasoning is something else.so backward when it comes to marriage issues and relationships,I tried to convince my self that when he moves out everything would be ok maybe because he is not so exposed and lived all his life there, the last time we had a heated argument I told him that he was under a spell,he told my sisters that I abusedhim and told him that he was under a spell. he was so pained by that statement.. My brother trauma no be small, I even went for counseling in my church (that was early last year)and the pastor advised me to carry on with the wedding that it is their culture and I should just bear it that I can't change it. That the place my guy is from it is their tradition. I noticed so because those around him full grown men are still living with parents having kids there, but recently, most of them are getting their own places small boys around him including his younger ones have all moved out except him.

I know is been years, just want to know, did you marry that same man? If not, are you married now ? Is he ? Is he still with his parents? If you didn't marry him, any regrets from you?mjust update me, please. I actually did learn a wisdom from your story.

I was once exactly in this situation. Cs, fibroids, pregnant when baby was 9. We were agitated and the first person we talked to advised us to terminate. We did, but it has remained one of our biggest regrets. We always wish we kept it. Although I got pregnant again, but in always wish I kept that one. Who knows , that child could have been a blessing to us. Please keep it against all odds. It might look awkward, but you will be glad you did.
Cheers!

this is how you people create problem. and to think that some openly gave up their number to be added to such demonic group is alarming. what will two bored people discuss if not had w to commit adultery and say horrible things about their spouse?
people get bored whether married or not. want to fight boredom? pick new interest and hobby. learn a skill or trade. attend classes or workshop and get involve in some charity work in your locality . in all you do, going on to join some already depressed people will only keep you down and lead you into some actions you will regret.