If u read my story write from the beginning you will know i started at where i stop. Do u want me to tell what is not existing just because people are eager to see the end.
Why dont you go to sleep perhap your eyes are decieving you.



And to you no one is perfect.

A week later, i was with my boss( his friend) in my office while i was busy chating with an India friend,he(my Boss) saw it and ask me who was that i told him jokingly that he(the India) is the i love and the one am getting married to. He (my Boss) took the duplicate of the picture and went to show it to his frnd.
A week later, he came to my office with a lady and start introducing her to every one around. he pretended as if he doesnt know me till they both left. I called him the following evening and accused him of not introducing her to me as to hear his reply will be, but he said he's so sorry that next time she comes around he will do that.
By hearing this, i decided to ignore him and he also did the same.
a couple of month later when i finally found the one that really cares for me and he saw the changes in me, he has been trying to come back to me but i didnt give him chance.

BUT my people guess what!! THERE IS PROBLEM AGAIN IN THIS MY PRESENT RELATIONSHIP AND THIS TIME IS THE SISTER TO MY BF. She is a frd to my boss, her brother is really taking care of me but she dont want us to be.
Its happen that the brother doesnt stay here in Nigeria but he do come home on regular basis bcs of me.
She is a person that we all staff doesnt know what is in btw her and my boss and they are not having an affair, whenever she detend on anyone in the office, my boss will never utter a word even though the staff is on their right.
She bang into my office this morning and started calling me names and warn me not to go near her brother, now the brother has been calling me and am affraid to pick his call.
PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmn, simple advice u no wan listen. evry body is giving the best advice that can be very useful to u and ur friend or u want ur frnd to get herslf into false marriage so that she could always crie at you in her matrimonial home evry minute of her life.
the time will come that you will ignore her and leave her to her problem, when even your own husband will say he didnt want to see her in your house again that she is disturbing you. beside the best way to help ur frnd is to do whatever she do even if u've tried ur best in convincing her and she refuse to listen to you.
Afterall she was the one that introduce the guy to you, what if there is an intimate problem btw both which she can not disclose to any living soul.
God knows you tried ur best. leave the both to their fate and let them face their problems themselves. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

kissing is something i love most before anything could happen.
Its make me feel romantic and from there, anything can happen.but if my bfrd doesnt kiss me that means he is not ready for me.

This is my qoute 4rom my experience. i didn't download or copy it anywhere. If only u can go to the post i sent to nairalanders on tuesday, where i said "ME, MY LOVE LIFE". Am yet to see the reply of nairalanders. PLS dont ignore my post, i need ur suggesion.

3weeks, jump into it and jumped out. tut he was the rite person but ,
cant even xplain

ME! MY LOVE LIFE
When I came into this world I found out it was loving and passion.
I woke up very early this faithful day only to find out that I was dreaming.
I got to the office some minute later, guess what! I thought my dream is about to come true and this is what I’ve been expecting before I dreamt of it.

He is a handsome young man, have the good qualities a responsible man should have and most of all he is a nice and gentle man, he doesn’t flirt around. I knew him as a friend to my boss and ever since he has been visiting, he will just say hello to me and give some token amount of money when he’s about to leave.
He came directly to my office on that lovely Friday, he said he’s been looking for me and that he will like to see me before he leave. Unfortunately we didn’t see before he left. Since then he didn’t appear till I fell sick and went for two weeks leave. The following week he came to my office and said he was aware that am not strong, he gave me some money to take care of my self. I’m confuse that I’ve already fell in love because the way he was staring at me shows me that he cares.
My boss called me and approaches me on his behalf; I was very happy bat I didn’t let carried away. I made some inquiries about him.
THE RELATIONSHIP BEGIN
He collected my phone number likewise me, I called him in the evening (I was too forward) we chatted and I make sure I was not fooled .I enjoy being with him, I found out he is the kind of man I’ve been longing to meet. He do call me every night in sort I felt I was on top of the world, though I continued with my investigation by knowing who he really was, I found out he didn’t flirt around and ever since I’ve been visiting his house, I never come in contact with any lady and I didn’t see the sign of him having anyone as at that moment. There is something that has been bothering me, he never open up to me.

THERE IS A PROBLEM
Few months later, we started all over with misunderstanding and quarrel, I rarely see him once in a week and if he visits my office he will never interact with me. Sometimes I do call him to pay him a visit in his house, in most cases he will tell me he’s not at home that he is busy with his business partners, at times he will ask me to wait for him in his house and he will never show up until I leave for my house.
If I call him to complain, he will tell me am disturbing him and that am giving him problem. He said it was because I see him and that he will not respond to my call till he wishes to see me. I became worried that I never concentrate on whatever I do at home and in the office. My mother found out the changes in me and I’ve not been receiving calls unlike before. She asks me what is going on but I pretended to be alright.
I found out he doesn’t have time for women that’s why he is yet to marry. Whenever I call him, he is always busy at the office. I find time to call him late in the night but he wouldn’t pick my call, later he told me he don’t pick late night calls.

It was after all these I brought the little story to Naira Landers. I’ve got my money and we have nothing in common until last week when his friend told me he is not feeling alright and that the sickness is very serious, I pretended not to hear him but he (My Boss) insisted on me calling him.
To be continued

Hmmn i'm good about it but when it comes to smone i luv and i believe am on my right, we can keep it 4 days or weeks but onething is that my b/f do said am sturborn where as he doesn't know i felt bad too and i know how to find my way out.
he doesn't know i do hide my no n call him,i listen to his voice till am satisfied and then i end d call. but when i found out the matter is prolonging, i give up.

My dear Love, I've always hoped you would loved me the way i do but issue showed me that you have no feelings for me. You never create a chance for me in your heart, I wonder why i have been fooling myself to the extent that i thought I’ve found my real love, my life partner, the one have been longing to meet all my life. I wonder why you have refused to tell me you don’t love me, you may think it will hurt me but remember the adage which says "THRUTH ARE BITTER” yes it is but I have to adore it.
You make me feel like no one cares for me, a caring man is a man that love is woman because with love you can do anything to show how much you care for your woman and caring is not all about money, when you show your support financially, morally, socially, religiously and many more.
If i may ask "What is Love?" You can never define love the way i do but only the way you feel, you describe love the way your heart felt for your partner, how strongly and deeply you felt for Him or Her, how sincerely and genuine you have willed Him or Her into your heart.
Clearly, love is the more workable of the two. You can be in love while carrying on any of your day to day activities. You can't safely engage in sex while involved in such. Eventually one will reach a physical limit to sexual activity, whereas with love, however one wishes to define it, such is not necessarily the case (largely because it's more of an abstraction than a physical concept).



Love! Love!! Love!!!, only few know who you are, how cherishable you are and how pampered you have been to those who really know what love is. Some fall in love at first sight, some are in lust and lost, some are in love of sex, some are in love of beauty, some are in love of stature and posture, some are in love of character, some are in love of wealth and so on.
Can anyone tell me who is really in love among all?

hmmnn, i can remember my first kiss when i was in my final year in secondary school about 18yrs then with my so called boyfrnd.i reject it in d first instant but he insisited so i carry on because my frnds in the hostel do tel me their xperience about kisses.
i felt romantic,mine was more than butterflies it was as if we both are in the sky. i love it so much that i didnt let off the guy,all the features in me arises and start praising God because i never xperience it before.
Since then every relatioship i heard, i demand for kiss and if he doesnt i wont allow such guy to stay long with me because am addicted to it. My presence boyfrnd do complain that his lips are always swollen whenever we kiss.
This is the first thing i like in romance before any other thing could happen.

hmmnn, i can remember my first kiss wen i was in my final year in secondary school about 18yrs then with my so called boyfrnd.i reject it in d first instant but he insisited so i carry on because my frnds in the hostel do tel me thier xperience about kisses.
i felt romantic,mine was more than butterflies it was as if we both are in the sky. i luv it so much dat i didnt let off the guy,all the features in me arises and start praising God cos i never xperience it before.
Since then every relatioship i heard, i demand for kiss and if he doesnt i wont allow such guy to stay long with me because am addicted to it. My presence boyfrnd do complain that his lips are always swollen whenever we kiss.
This is the first thing i like in romance before any other thing could happen.

Hey, olumighty nawa 4 u o, always in luv. this time with someone older than u.
i guess Femi & kamoru don here about this. Before u fall into sugar mummy's trap.
this message 4rom Brash b d c.

Love is an emotional word, you say it only when you mean it.
 2 me i feel romantic when someone i realy love tell me he loves me.Not by mouth but by heart. As a lady u'll know surely know when a guy truely love u.

as 4 me; i need luv, caring, honesty, trustworthyness, romance and financial support. not all d time but at times u wil need ur partners support.
if u re not d type dat demand 4 money onseveral occassion.

Luv is not a crime,only if u re with ur right partner. I mean d one who God ve chosen 4 u,evry one on earth has its own life partner who God created purposely because of u.Having a boyfrnd is a normal existing in the life time of we ladies b4 getting into d hand of ur real man.
I believe there re some conditions and terms which God want u to go through b4 getting ur real man in order to cherish him and see d comparism btw a boyfrnd and the man HE as chosen 4 u.There is ayoruba adage which says" TWO HUNDRED AND ONE IS THE BOYFRND OF A LADY,WHILE THE LAST ONE IS THE REAL MAN.
Luv is not a crime, when u re with d chosen one no one will tell u b4 u know he is d right man 4 u.[color=#000099][/color]

2 Busta, i realy luv ur qoute ,its makes me feel on top. now i know d landers cares. i luv u

seun; thanks a lot, his in my office right now telling me he has a surprise 4 me.i wish its all about my money.
when its come to loving,i normally turn to a complete fool.

mariaa: thanks 4 ur comment av been trying to ignore but i found it difficult to do so.moreso whenever he pay a visit to my office, he sound loving and caring.

Am seriosly in luv wit dis guy and he av no time 4 me,he spend 23 out 24 hrs wit bizness evry blessed day.
Even at weekend he's always occupied wit bizness patner.
funniest part, he knows nothing about me, av been told on several occassions dat ladies normally quite relationship wit him.whenever i call him,if he doesnt bang d phone,telling me he is very busy,he wont pick my call.
And if i decided not to cal him,he will cal me neither. whenever i cal him to complain,he start begging me to d estent dat i wil be unable to talk. he told me he's gettin married very soon but am scared i cant get married to him and i luv him so much.he is one of the richest and i never demand anythin 4rom him.he has not been spendin on me but at times he send money into my account.
He told me he is very broke and dat i shld assist him,he said he wil pay me back as soon as he come back 4rom his traveling.i withdrew all d money in my accnt without telling him its my last penny,he came back and only say thank u without talking about d money. i was told he was testing me and since then i av been trying to sit him down and talk with him but all to no avail. MY DEAR LANDERS PLZ I NEED UR ADVICE, I CANT AFFORD TO LOSE HIM.

hi girl, dis is anormal feelings dat can happen to any lady out there but i guess u think about it very well b4 jumping into it because he may be cute and gentle but after falling into his hand u may be d saddest lover girl on earth.

u can try ur best with an easy tips as a lady (u know a lady knows how to get what she want by all means).u can be a closest friend to his sister without letting her know ur mission to get d latest information about d guy.get his phone no,call him and tell him sweetest tip,not a luv tip and be very careful till he finally show his xpression.do not let him know how u feel for him,try 2 control ur feelings.

and moreso be careful on each discussion u make with his sister. try to find out wether he truly luv u b4 u jump into relationship with him.
cheers