All this talk!The Igbos were slaughtered! It was genocide! We shall go some day!NOBODY! talks about the silent thousands slaughtered by the Igbos in places like the midwest. or those killed in the east in reprisal attacks because they were unfortunate enuff to bear Muslim names. a lot of etsako/akoko-edos and  people of the like were butchered in the east cos they were believed to be "abokis".when Ojukwu's cohorts invaded the midwest didnt they kill innocent civilians?If you do not know, I know.I lost relations to both sides.we suffered too at the hands of the nigerian "liberators" too.when they shelled towns long abandoned by the biafrans.these people suffered the worst of injustice.cos they didnt ask for the war and today they are forgotten.they are the silent victims nobody remembers.let's face it nothing's to be gained by secession.we'd all lose.I'm from the south-south and i know that with all the screams for secession we'd have it rough.so enuff about biafra.like biafra would have survived without the oil region.were the efiks, ibibios,ekweris,ijaws etc really that enamored with the biafran dream? pls, lets have done with all the insults and tribal slurs.are we as diverse as India?Or the US?why are we so quick to point out our differences,as reasons we can't live together?yet we depend on resources from each of these regions to survive.Why do we keep treading this path of tribalism and ethnicity that our fathers trudged?that was virtually what caused the war and today hear yourselves talk.So how are we different from those clowns who have led us to this sad pass?If we still see ourselves solely as Igbos or Yorubas or whatever?like the Egba man will ever trust the Ijebu or the different Igbo groupings will ever unite.secession won't work.that's my opinion.I believe-nay-i know!- my life has been bettered by the wealth of experience garnered from my friends from different tribes all over the nation.if you all think you can make it individually on your own you had better  think again.

very simple because single boys don't love

Na married men alone dey love abi?

These boys are still crying and whinning over spilt milk
how pathetic, Biafra this Biafra that.

Simple statement of fact that the was not against the igbo people as a whole
but against their selfish dictator that decieved them into a war that was obvious they couldn't win.

40 years later some faceless cyber biafra foot soldiers come here to demand an apology.
Don't you know the way to Gowons house to press your demands. Huh

Bunch of lousy goons !!!

ha ha ha.funny thing is half of these guys didnt experience any of the abuses o.na hear they take ear hear wey dey dey foam 4 mouth so!

@ Bluetooth
No mind them.
The Igbos are very level headed but whenever e come to Biafra matter dem go one tear shirt.
kuku call police make dey arrest Gowon!It was WAR!!!!!!!In a war people die.move along!
na so black man be. una type go continue to blame the white man for your condition a thousand yrs after slavery. .

o pls enuff! the igbos didnt kill anyone in the war? i lost relations in my state-the midwest,then- to the biafrans.wen they over ran ososo.Gowon is an asswipe!but enuff of the ''we-were-specially-selected-to-be-wiped-out-crap!it pisses me off wen igbos talk about how marginalised they are.what about the minority tribes who have no voice?why are we not whining?we live with marginalisation!so no ndigbo should tell me about the M-word.

Its the new way of things.you should learn to go with the flow.what i find really baffling is that these girls get  their fingers burned and then turn around and start playing the victim!a girl is dating a married guy.she knows he's married .knows there's absolutely no chance he's gonna live his wife 4 her.then she hangs in there yr in yr out.until the guy finally moves on.then she'd tell you how evil men are.how she gave the best to that r/ship and got dumped.ask her if the dude ever promised marriage or anything of the like and she would say , well, it was implied or (this one kills me!)she loved him!then she'd now blame YOU for her own mistakes.

Yesterday was quite an eye opener for me. I was hanging out with some friends all married men and I was the only guy there who had no val. They all had chicks hanging on to their sleeves and their wives were at home. Now these are young pretty girls who should be running things with a dude like me not those balding guys. Of course after they have been used and dumped you can be sure that I will never go near any of them again, then they will start to complain that they cant find husbands. It's so annoying!

Sorry bud. welcome to the brave new world!

What does it matter?
And I think I think it's wrong to sneer at people who want to maintain their virginity til marriage.
Virginity has absolutely nothing to do with a successful marriage.
It would only matter if you let it.
As well I think all this judgmental attitude towards non virgins should stop.Not all of us believe in religion.
There should be freedom of expression.After all is so called salvation not by grace?The way some folks sound on some of the posts you would think either condition is a disease!
Men abound who are players, with virgin scalps under their belts yet they are lousy lovers.
And you have men who were virgin before marriage who have never dropped the ball when it comes to satisfying their spouses.To every man his own.All are welcome at the table.Virginity or the lack of it, only matters if you mind.If you don't mind it doesn't matter!

from everything I've read here.its alright for a man to sleep around but not so for women.the reason?men pay bride price,are allowed to marry many wives so dq dv they can call the shots when it comes to exramarital affairs."its the way the world is"."we're been realistic"it sounds rather specious and its downright hypocritical.like all the arguments for slavery and apartheid.if it hurts a man that his wife cuckolded him.why shouldnt a woman feel just as bad.why say."women pls dont do it, it hurts us".but we can do it and say "ah well,that's how the world is".
pr100(hope am right)life is a risk.remember the chinese proverb;he who deliberates fully b4 taking a step in life will spend his whole life standing on one leg.take the plunge!be a man

@ujujoan
I'm new here really.I'm still trying to figure out how this stuff works.I can't help been amused by PR100(or something of the like)I'm a man.Unmarried.I find it hard to understand wot he's driving at.His logic is absolutely blinding .notto by force now, if u can't trust a(ny) woman perhaps u should switch to men.doesn't it take 2 to tango?bros'm good women berekete out there!

All her burdens are borne by her husband: she falls sick, the man pays the bills and runs helter skelter and bears the burden to ensure she's well. And then, she freely fcuks another goat who has zero responsibility over her many burdens and woes?

ha ha ha