Kobicove:
Shey na your brother go marry you?

She is mid teen, marriage is not the most important thing to her right now

Atimjessy:

I know what I want. No one can ruin my live. You men always think girls can't take care of themselves.

Your bro is just trying to protect his baby sis from male sharks.. Just be careful and close your legs till you come of age cos it's a cold world out there.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

But tell me the truth,are you having sex with the guy helping you out,I mean your neighbor son, the way I deh reason now, you go don bang day guy well we'll,,,

dawnomike:
Enjoy his attention and protection while it lasts... You'll soon outgrow it and by then, you'll appreciate all that he has saved you from.

or be traumatized by the experience

9182736455O1999:

see as you dey make this teenager dey insult you.

na wetin she wants be that nah.
Person Dey protect her she Dey complain , how many people get that kind of opportunity

Atimjessy:

You are just a pervert

mumu , shey you know wetin pervert mean ?

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens. H
I am just fed up.

What do you REALLY need whatapps and Facebook for?
No go read your book, if I was your brother I'll buy 100 books for you and you get to give me a book summary every week.

Your brother is doing the right thing! 20 years from now, when you have kids, you’d thank him a million times!!

Comradewhy:
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

what kind of stupid advice
is this.

Comradewhy:
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

It's useless advices like these that get listeners into trouble.

You want him to leave his brothers house and go where?

You don't think he would have left if he could?

@op, as long as you're under his roof and he's feeding you, then do as he says.

Q.E.D

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Your brother is being protective. This understandable based on the way young girls these days behave. You are still very young. Stop being rebellious. Earn his trust ,let him know by your actions that you are not irresponsible.

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

Lol..u want to unleash d oloshoism in you...be thanking that ur brother for not allowing that spirit of olosho manifest in u...better read ur book and ignore ur useless friends calling u small girl..

Comradewhy:
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

In other words, as long as you are in his house, eating his food, his house, his rules

If I were you I will concentrate on school to make sure I finish high and pass jamb at a sitting so that you can get out of the house fast WHEN YOU HAVE ADMISSION

Iyaebe:
He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following girls?

love how? If its killing u, or rubs u of ur peace & healthy self esteem, it's not love. Don't u ever mention love again. D lad doesn't feel loved. His brother is a narcissist.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Ur friends o ly want u to spoil with them.
Value ur brother he ment well for u.
If they call u small gal tell them no problem.
Those gals are evil amd want to spoil u

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

But you are a small girl... Even your friends 'mocking' you are in the same boat with you. They think they know it all, meanwhile they know nothing.

Just be patient, sisi. It's a phase that will pass. We are all in a hurry to grow up, and eventually when we do, we miss those days when the only things that bothered us were what matching clothes to wear and how to pass Jamb.

Your brother loves you and is trying to protect you from the wicked ways of this world. I don't particularly agree with his methods because we are in a digital age and you should at least start learning how to sieve the wheat from the chaff, but truth be told, he is trying to protect you the best way he can. Terrible things are happening to young girls today, so the onus lies on you to prove to him that you will not abuse any freedom given to you, and you will always remain obedient, focused, responsible and level headed. When he trusts you enough, he will relax his hold a bit.

Don't mind your friends. You'll thank your brother one day.

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram


MY Gee how u take know...



SEE no be say I knw make SENSE or fine..


I be fine GUY and I make SENSE..


JUST dat 2much SMOKING of WEED don make my LIPS BLACK...


Even d MAMA CHINELO wey de SELL d WEED, she save my contact as HELL FIRE...



BUT I believe by using VASELINE on my LIPS after SMOKING WEED will do ALOTA help ..



LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

Stop spamming threads with your nonsense. Like, seriously, it's not funny and has never been funny.

newdawn2017:
love how? If its killing u, or rubs u of ur peace & healthy self esteem, it's not love. Don't u ever mention love again. D lad doesn't feel loved. His brother is a narcissist.

What is the meaning of this word?

Exkandayee:

But tell me the truth,are you having sex with the guy helping you out,I mean your neighbor son, the way I deh reason now, you go don bang day guy well we'll,,,

You are a pervert. People like you is why the brother is afraid for his baby sis.

haggai247:

What do you REALLY need whatapps and Facebook for?
No go read your book, if I was your brother I'll buy 100 books for you and you get to give me a book summary every week.

Lmao

The brother might succeed in depriving her from social media but he can't deprive her from physical connections, which usually happens during working hours. Person wey one spoil go spoil no matter how you cage the person. Maybe the brother has noticed some promiscuity traits and wants to protect her from randy guys.

Comradewhy:
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

This your advice is funny... Find somewhere else to stay? Haba ! Will you accommodate her?

Ishilove:

You are a pervert. People like you is why the brother is afraid for his baby sis.

pussy must be bang,,,,shut the fuucck up, and don't mention who you don't know on this forum niqqa or bitch

Probably doesn't want you to get caught in the ongoing corrupt trend destroying our generation, but I think there are other ways to do that aside making your life miserable.

Speaking to him would help.

This is the mistake youth are making nowadays thinking they are matured enough to care for themselves.
Your brother had probably seen things outside that may endanger your life if he gives you the freedom and he’s not ready to lose his darling sister.
So try and understand that it’s just a phase that would soon pass away.

U wanna chill with the big girls.......u wan rush grow up......u better listen to ur bro.....he knows what's best for u.......ur friends will surely abandon u when kasala burst........sha use ur head.......

You are probably eating his food so he dictates the terms.

Your brother na OG.

He has done some things to other people's sister.

He is just scared karma is lurking around.

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

The society…and the internet is too rotten…if he let you out….You might end up in tinder (please do not go searching for what is tinder)