Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Facebook and WhatsApp should not be your problem at your age think of better things to do with your life

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

All teens envy adult life and freedom


When you finally get that freedom you are agitating for, you will thank him for all his protection by your mid 20s when eye clears

Even if I know that the brother is just trying to protect his sister, caging most times doesn't end well. Because, these kids become so attracted to the things you are shielding them from. And they can find it in the wrong way.

Besides, when she is released from the cage to university, she might let loose because she is now free.

Brother should try to manage other means like communication and making her understand. Free her a bit but set boundaries. Completely caging here may be counterproductive.

Iyaebe:
He loves you deeply,when you come of age you’ll understand better.Hope you’ve not started following boys?

Virgin

I agree.

ImaIma1:
Even if I know that the brother is just trying to protect his sister, caging most times doesn't end well. Because, these kids become so attracted to the things you are shielding them from. And they can find it in the wrong way.

Besides, when she is released from the cage to university, she might let loose because she is now free.

Brother should try to manage other means like communication and making her understand. Free her a bit but set boundaries. Completely caging here may be counterproductive.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

kid, that the best thing he's giving you. just relax ok, everything will take it due course

Atimjessy brother, if you’re here, go through her comment section. Prick don dey hungry am so you need to be more stricter

My advice, it's better you calm down your nerves cuz i pray wetin happen to my junior one no happen to you.

Peace ✌️

kushercain:


At least dey try make sense once in a while

No mind am,raw weed at work cannot make him say sensible things

kushercain:


At least dey try make sense once in a while

No mind am,raw weed at work cannot make him say sensible things

Tundex911:
My advice, it's better you calm down your nerves cuz i pray wetin happen to my junior one no happen to you.

Peace ✌️

What happened to your junior one?

MoneyMustBMade:


Small children of these days
U wan spoil, ur brother was now trying to save u but u no wan hear don't worry soon e go clear for ur eye when u have access to all this u will understand reason why his doing all this.
Only if u will understand the damage social media has done to teenagers in this generation

The matter is serious one, I'm also battleing with one here, not even my biological sister but a neice.

Her mother is good to me which happen to be my causin. We are both living with one of my male causin where I'm currently doong my IT, which happen to be said girl uncle.

There is a guy here whonis family friend, not related living with us, not quite long when we start living in with them not up to two months, I discover that the said closesness to this guy is getting too much, I called on my little sister to observe if she sees anything between both of them, but she said she didn't observe anything.

The day the matter matter will bust out, my cousin is not at home, only me, his children, wife, and my little sister with the this guy and the girl, everybody have gone to sleep except me and this guy in the sitting room and there was not light, this girl went to stool behind this guy in one conner in dark house, I just notice that something was moving juat as if a rat is disturbing around, behold it was someone's leg I saw.

When I call her name, she answer and I ask her what is she doing there? She reply that she is watching WhatsApp status on his phone, I said status you don't watch when everybody was around, is it at this dark time when everybody have gone to sleep is when you have the tine to watch status on someones phone.

What if you uncles wife come to sitting and met both of you in that kinder place, do you know what it wiuld cause, or if you uncle heard about it, do you think he is going to take it easy with you?

And to the said, he will very disappointed in him, cause he never believe he could do such.

Since then, this girl have turn me to be her enemy.

The ways she always react to ne at home is something else, and I have warned her that if she allows the mater to bust out, she would hate herself.

A 15yrs ikd girl for that matter.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Your brother messed up alot of teenage girls in the past. It's guilty conscience that's worrying him plus the synergy of karma.

You are in your mid teens...who are you receiving money from? Have you tried earning your brother's trust by working to earn money yourself?

SeriouslySense:
I agree.

People should learn that caging never achieves the desired results. It's just delaying the inevitable.

9182736455O1999:

see as you dey make this teenager dey insult you.

They called my niggar a pervert.

Putin in Nigeria form...

Comradewhy:

Makes absolutely no sense,even to the extent of not using having WhatsApp or social media,the op is between 15-17 at least she deserves some freedom.
The op is even a female,why the attitude towards her by her brother.

How I wish I had someone like your brother when I was your age....wasted lots of hours some useless stuffs

Your brother is trying to protect you, the world is tough out here, and social media makes it more tougher.

I'll advise you to listen to him, and don't follow bandwagons. They lead nowhere.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

You are still a kid, dear, appreciate the protection he is giving you.

It's a wild wild world out there.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Mid teens meaning you are like 15 or 16 most and you feel caged cos you are not allowed on Facebook.

Tell you what? I made my first million at 18+. But didn't get to be allowed to buy a phone until 21+.

Instead of concentrating on things that will enhance your life Facebook gossips is what is important. I guess your brother knows you too well.

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

Facebook or whatsapp na office abi school that that have to envy your friends.

Be a good girl and face your life, those are not things that is supposed to bother you.

He knows you cannot control the obsession and hence stopped you from using it.

Comradewhy:
That is not care that is stupidity from your brother,if you are above 13 why then Is he treating you like a kid.
Tell him you despise that attitude,if he doesn't agree with you then leave his house and go get elsewhere to begin your own life.

Dispise when you get your own sister, if you like make she go dey live for brothel from age 2.

Later when she became what she will become, you go still come here post say you don't know how it happened

You envy your friends because of Facebook and what'sapp?

I was 17 in the university when my cousin caught me on extracool with my Alcatel colored screen he had tried my no to come open the gate, it was busy on his end, He just sent an SMS ' Drop that call now and come open the gate' ha mogbe

He spoke to the person I was talking to, (my friend a guy) both myself and the friend laughed about it, years later he told me he still had the guys no.

He later talked to me and said he just wanted to be sure who I was talking with, didn't want one thirty something year old to be deceiving me lolll.

If he says no Facebook and no what'sapp obey him simple, at least he didn't stop you from having a phone. Hes being protective and I don't blame him, just obey him that's all.

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Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

Don't listen to people that have no positive impact in your life and tbvh you're actually a small girl. Focus on your education and get skills you've got interest in and you'll be thankful your brother was strict with you later in life. As long as he caters for your needs, don't listen to people. If not for business and some important communication, I would have uninstalled WhatsApp and as for Facebook, that's the least important app on my phone right now so trust me you don't need them and you're not missing ANYTHING.

Atimjessy:

I know what I want. No one can ruin my live. You men always think girls can't take care of themselves.

Very funny young woman.

You be better thank God for your brother

I'm not here to answer such questions ok, though I just give out my advice to her and if you think it's your problem kindly face it by yourself ok

Peace ✌️

dalass:


No mind am,raw weed at work cannot make him say sensible things ;DWhat happened to your junior one?

Atimjessy:

My friends are always mocking me and calling me a small girls. I don't just like the way he monitors me.

your brother wants the best and means the best for you.

Trust me those your friends mocking you will surely push u into wahala if u allow their mockery enter your head. U better break away from them.

The WhatsApp & Facebook are nothing but serious distractions. U are a teenager for gawd sake! what have u achieved in life? Even me, As i am an adult this social media still distracted me from achieving a lot.

Better to pay now and play letter.

What else u want to do on WhatsApp & Facebook. Upload your young beautiful pictures, view likes and read comments for hours. Feel high on top of the world. What else?

Atimjessy:
I just signed up on nairaland today so I can just pour out my mind.
I have been coming to this site for almost a year now because this is where I get latest and trending news.
I live with my brother who cares about me a lot but he has been too strict with me. I FEEL CAGED! Can you imagine I don't have a Facebook account, I can't use WhatsApp, I don't even have a bank account. If someone wants to send me money, I usually use our neighbor's son account.
He monitors my calls and contact list.
I only use e-mail because he said I will be using it for future registrations.
I envy my friends a lot. I'm in my mid-teens.
I am just fed up.

My dear, he meant well for you, so far you had an email, which he told you himself is for future registration, my dear listen to him, and tread with caution about disobeying him,


does he even know you are here

Ishilove:

Even common English you can't write. It is only sex that full that your coconut head. Ori agbon

Who English epp,is not paying my bills,but I know you got the message

Exkandayee:
pussy must be bang,,,,shut the fuucck up, and don't mention who you don't know on this forum niqqa or bitch

You are a compound FOOL, it's people like you that lead small girls astray later you will open that your SMELLY FOUL mouth to shout olosho, I bet you are still living off your parents but will come to faceless forum to insult your elders OLUKU.

Kudos to your brother. When you’re an adult you can start complaining so we’d take you serious.
At 18 you’ll be responsible for your actions and inactions but at this naive age of yours someone is responsible for your misbehaviors.