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Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Toktee(m): 11:52am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu:That gender is very useless.... take out that unsafe borehole in between their legs and see how useless they are. I pity who prioritise that hole. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by poweredcom(m): 11:52am On Jun 10, 2022 |
womenareapez: Baba you are here again hahaha lamblast them for me How can a sensible woman be In a legal relationship and still go ask for money from ex Shameless creatures 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Nobody: 11:52am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu: Since you've tried to talk her and still no positive outcome, try to report her to her mom if she is still alive and if she is not, report her to dad then wait for another occurrence even if it takes to studying her chat or downloading the account statement. If such happens again, take your kids for dna if you can afford it. Once you are clear about the paternity, you should give her a last stern warning. During all this time make sure you love your wife and try your best to satisfy her. That doesn't mean you should kill or overwork yourself. Just do your best. If nothing change, fill for divorce and learn from it. Southern Kaduna are wonderful people who hardly cheat on their husbands. Just don't conclude yet. The guy might be a lovely person to her. Women rarely abandon true love. Don't kill yourself because of any woman. Do your best and leave the rest. In the situation your best is not appreciated, silently walk away 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Franklinshaddy(m): 11:53am On Jun 10, 2022 |
There is no any advice you guys can give op just let him sit and think for himself this one that is saying his children look like his late dad and if your wife is collecting money as small as 4k from a man hmmm that means e done reach extend |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Upworkwriter007(f): 11:53am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu:Start communicating with your ex, and start showing signs of being unserious about the marriage. Women don't change except their's a treat to their marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by adecz: 11:53am On Jun 10, 2022 |
❎❎❎❎❎❎❎ ⏩⏩Southern Kaduna women are notorious for their promiscuity and sleeping around.. You should have asked us for advice before tying the knot. She has now proven to be very irresponsible and disrespectful to you her husband. She has no respect for you. It's better you issue her an ultimatum to stop this behavior, failing which you count your losses and end the relationship if you don't want to die early or develop hypertension, stroke, diabetes and heartbreak..❗️❗️❗️☹️☹️☹️ 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by mistijude: 11:53am On Jun 10, 2022 |
When a guy had good sexual experience with a lady,such a lady hardly forget such guys.She can even got married to a billionaire, she will still want to go back to him for another taste of it. I will take God intervention and extra discipline for a lady to forget a man who rubbished them sexually.May God help you sir to deal with this situation 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Sterope(f): 11:54am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Both of you need to sit down and trash out this issue. On the difference of tribes, you have not mentioned anything that points to tribe being the reason for her attitude. Ibadan girls can be as bad or better or worsem E take heart sir. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by chatinent: 11:54am On Jun 10, 2022 |
That's why I don't do long distant relationships. Your wife is prolly cheating on you. You even had to beg her. She even visited the man while pregnant. It's the guts for me. You are too gentle. It's bad you noticed this while courting but ignored it. If I notice my wife keeps in touch with her ex, let alone asks him for money, it's over. She wouldn't even dare because she knows I am very open to her and her needs...and I try to create time for her. I avoid my exes like a bug so I don't tolerate it. But man, create time for your family. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by 00FFT00(m): 11:54am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu: Oga, your wife, or rather, the woman who used you to escape spinsterhood, has no respect for you. Obviously, she came from a culture of self-indulgence and lacks the basic prerequisite of matrimony, which is trust and respect. She's obviously emotionally involved with the other fellow. At issue is that he did not find her worthy enough to become his spouse, or he was already occupied when they started dating. They are still dating. You were a backup plan, but the show must continue. But the problem is with you. You obviously know the truth, but understandably, you do not want to confront it. That woman will never change. Decide to live with her behavior or call time on it. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by babyfaceafrica: 11:54am On Jun 10, 2022 |
bukatyne: 1. Many are afraid of loosing all their emotional and financial investments 2. Some it's age, they are in 30s and 40s.. Don't know how to start again 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Olasimpson: 11:55am On Jun 10, 2022 |
burritto: Your words are too heavy for that man, if only you understand what he's passing through now. I will only advice the man. If the woman persists in calling the man and asking him for money do yourself a favour by divorcing her or go for a DNA. Women find it difficult to forget someone they once fall in love with. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Pakwel(m): 11:55am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Guy do pertanity text. Then if e come out say nah your pikin warn her say you go leave her. If she continue. Leave her 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by haryodehjia(m): 11:55am On Jun 10, 2022 |
shortIGBOman: Southern kaduna and you proud.. You eyes go soon clear man. The least of women you can trust is southern kaduna women 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Omoluabi16(m): 11:55am On Jun 10, 2022 |
your wife is simply irresponsible. She still has not gotten it into her head that she is a married woman not some 18 year old hustling money for data sub. these are issues one must thrash out before jumping into marriage. No man or woman should continue any communication with an ex before or after marriage. Simply move on! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Maverick777: 11:56am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Channah1: scientist all over the world have been trying to discover how long a human can live without a brain, please dear contact them and give them your real age.. you'd most likely turn out an ungrateful and discontented liability to whomever is unfortunate enough to wife you! imagine how senseless you just sounded... 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Rhozabeth(m): 11:56am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Wow! To be honest, i just pictured myself in your shoe roght now and i can tell u for free that i don't know how am gonna handle that situation! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Nobody: 11:56am On Jun 10, 2022 |
DBestDoc:My opinion too 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Confirm4real(m): 11:58am On Jun 10, 2022 |
I strongly doubt if that Doctor ex isn't knacking your wife. Also those twins might not be yours... You're in already since you tolerated it from the unset during your courtship and went ahead with the wedding. Abi na now you wan divorce her Oga carry your cross o, you were blind folded by love. We always neglect little things during courtship that later hunt us in marriage. Abi na me go tell you make you divorce your wife ni...
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Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by danikool: 11:59am On Jun 10, 2022 |
It's not painful cause if it was you would have solved it. its a thing of choice either she chooses Family or her EX, i dont understand why that should go on. Guy for your sanity its better she goes back to her Ex so you have peace of mind separation isnt a crime 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Sweetvie: 11:59am On Jun 10, 2022 |
Seriously I do wonder y she will still be in contact with her ex when she is married When she knw her ex is so good and rich y did she break up?... Man u need to hustle more I mean, she is only after money mayb u ain't giving her enough... I think u will need to do DNA test for those kids u can't trust her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by ncdegreat: 12:00pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
I don't want to give a public counsel or opinion on this for some reasons. I wish you can chat me up on Facebook "Comr Nelson Chijioke Omeke" then I will privately contribute my counsel to you. |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Advancedman(m): 12:00pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
kapelvej: Correction : People don't change male and female alike but women don't know God as well as very unreasonable. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Originalsly: 12:00pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu: Bro ... get your children tested. Most likely... the doctor been married and your wife been.... and continue to be his side chick.. and possible baby mama. There is no talking her out of this .... her mouth will say all the right things ... none of which is in the heart. Your focus now..... are the children yours? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by andyanders: 12:00pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Even the twins belongs to the man and not you. Too bad for weak men. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Tunagee(m): 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
GreatChizzy: They may not necessarily stil be bleeping, maybe she feels inadequate with finances. However her action is totally wrong. Once you are married, it should be over 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Skmoda360(m): 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Cyphar:There is huge sense in what you post bro. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by splashbaby(m): 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Arkhanmu:You have lost total control of your wife and family. The monetary aspect plays a key role in everything. See let me tell you something about women and money... Some women by nature are just insatiable, no matter how much you spend, they love the freebies from their close male friends to satisfy that greed which comes with compensation, usually sexual favour. The connection of your wife with the ex is huge and to break it will depend on the kind of relationship you enjoyed together. Still you have to make a very strong case about this situation, past relationships in marriage will wreck it quickly. I employ you to involve someone you both respect greatly... Not within your family or hers... They will worsen it. An outsider you both hold in high esteem, preferably someone with high repute in the community. Before all these, do a DNA test only if you are sure you own those kids else just walk away from the marriage quietly...Quietly without any notice to her or any family members and start a new life. The guilt will kill them all and kama will work fast for you. But if you scatter everything with fight you will loose many things and you will be left in jeopardy (I Don go spiritual Ooo) 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by CheapHomes1: 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Cyphar: Shege...you wan give this guy hypertension 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Gunayo(m): 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Channah1:keep quiet. A LovePeddler is a LovePeddler no Matter the money and love showered on her she will still go back to her vomit. The op said he has been trying in his own little ways to meet up with the families needs but you guys are never satisfied. Give them money, they will say he is not good in bed, give them sex, they will say he is poor. What did you guys want for goodness sake? If she is with the doctor, she will still do the same thing when she come across a more satisfactory giver. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Still Asks Her Ex For Money by Bamzyriches451: 12:01pm On Jun 10, 2022 |
Damn! See one of the reasons I dey fear to talk about marriage 2 Likes |
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