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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by madridguy(m): 7:18am On May 27, 2023 |
Bro leave story. There's nothing spiritual about someone liking her mother. nosa2ekundayo: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by madridguy(m): 7:20am On May 27, 2023 |
I don't rule anything out but this matter at hand has nothing to do with spiritual. CaptainFM1: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nobody: 7:22am On May 27, 2023 |
EKONGKING: Una no get culture abi? All these city marriages self |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Karemarealty288(m): 7:57am On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: She is enjoying it now, cos she is the only one amongst her four sisters still in her marriage. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by sorepco(m): 7:58am On May 27, 2023 |
That was a stupid statement... taylor89: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jessylaurel(f): 8:02am On May 27, 2023 |
diogo23: I didn't read. Read it aloud for me ode!! |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Stevven(m): 8:12am On May 27, 2023 |
You were too late 🤣😞🤣 |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Govocrete: 8:12am On May 27, 2023 |
Since you didn't ask her to leave the house, change your locks and patiently wait for her return. Let her learn some lesson, by doing these: 1. Don't call her while she is away. 2. Allow her to stay with her mother until she is on her knees begging to return. 3. And when she decided to return, tell her to stay a month longer. On you part: You need to take the position as the head of your family and not your mother inlaw. If your wife and your mother inlaw that are the ones paying your bills. You need to stop accepting her gift. 2 Likes
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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Popeonah(m): 8:13am On May 27, 2023 |
Bro, thank God that you are free now. She was you problem and not the mother. If she did not tell her mom everything, she will not intrude into things in your house 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Savechild23: 8:23am On May 27, 2023 |
From now onward, have a plan so if she comes back, she either stick to the plan or she fvk off! |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by WantsandMore: 8:30am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom:But your wife is right even though she's not correct, you've to apologize and find a way, a subtle means to cut off the moms conttrol over your household or endure ...all the best. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by MrFly(m): 8:33am On May 27, 2023 |
Nebes:Nigerians and spiritualism. i tire o |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Chechem: 8:39am On May 27, 2023 |
It all of these, what about the kids. Where are they? With you or with their mom... Please, make una take care of the innocent kids. Na that one concern me pass... |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by sorepco(m): 8:43am On May 27, 2023 |
U are highly ridicoulous. These are no lions as such but domesticated and tamed ones. Go into a forest and meet a lion and try to tame it! These ones were emasculated.... He should not go abegging the inlaws. There are boundaries to be set for such families... GoodbutBadguy: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by tunde4top(m): 8:43am On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: He is a peace keeper.. lol. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by mayowascholar(m): 8:44am On May 27, 2023 |
Best advice. Wawelexy: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Advision: 8:45am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: You have no business scolding your inlaws, very disrespectful. It's your elderly family members that should talk to them if any issue and that should be a big issue. If you dont like their influence, keep them at bay. Tell your wife you don't want family member visits. If she is such a sweet soul as you claim, she should not be so hard to manage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Niceiroko: 8:45am On May 27, 2023 |
thesicilian:i. It's easier said than done the nerve is here now God is your strength 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by v2: 8:47am On May 27, 2023 |
Just find out where she is. If in her parents house, good. Just leave her there. She will come back on her own and before you allow her back in the house, put your foot on the ground on the subject that the rubbish has to stop. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by GoodbutBadguy: 8:57am On May 27, 2023 |
sorepco:Easier said than done! No comment bcs You not married you can't correct wrong with wrong. His wife doesn't confide in him any dramatic move from him will make things worse, the best he could do is to win his woman's heart again. The wife herself will set boundaries bcs women hate anything that will harm their source of joy |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by fm7070: 8:58am On May 27, 2023 |
You have been a chicken in the last 11years. Now you are a man. If you like, go back as a chicken. To be a man is not a joke. You must be strong, firm and assertive. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by prof22(m): 9:09am On May 27, 2023 |
Boss, there should have been rules set in place from the beginning. Before una marry sef. You dictate the roles anybody play in your home, when I say anybody I mean anybody outside you and your wife excluding the children. All family members, spiritual father/mother or friends falls under anybody. If you had set the rules, there would have been limit to which any of the anybody can put mouth in una matter. Mine is 6years and everybody respect boundaries. No unannounced visitor…earlier in our marriage, my siblings called me one evening around 7:00pm (two grown up men) they decided to pay US a surprise visit. Bros we are at the gate, which gate I replied, I opened the door and saw them, I went downstairs to meet them and I told them bro, you didn’t tell me you guys are coming around, surprise visit bah? I took them to Omotara around UI to lodge them, next day when they checked out, they came to the house. Note: they have a good rapport with my wife, infact I got to know one of them hinted her but my rules should not be broken by me. So you think her siblings will pay us an unexpected visit? No. You must have pretended to be cool with her mom in your life and now you are tired of that. She’s too attached to her and that’s a big problem. The useless woman nor get husband? Is she jobless? She should leave her daughter alone. Las las if her home break the same mother will use it to abuse her if they have a fight. Don’t allow people closer to the grave to make lifelong decisions for you even religious leaders. I hope you sort this out peacefully but be prepared for the worse too. I wish she could see that her mom is not in her future. If her grandma had scattered her moms home will she be in existence ? This is just pure nonsense decision made by your wife. 22rockbottom: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 7arrows: 9:20am On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If u decide to give me 100£ then I can seek for ur attention. So pls dont get it twisted. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by udemzyudex(m): 9:31am On May 27, 2023 |
superCleanworks: Don't say it again |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Divay22(f): 9:36am On May 27, 2023 |
LEGALSER:You think divorce is that easy abi And what makes you so sure the other woman he would marry won't do more than this 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by ogbe88(m): 9:42am On May 27, 2023 |
frozen70:This lady is always on point. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by CHoccolaTE: 9:54am On May 27, 2023 |
OP even said he is an introvert, meaning he has minimum people skills and tendency to be over sensitive and misinterpret people's actions. If you like end your marriage because your wife stood by her mother after you insulted her, you think women outside are better abi? E go clear for your eyes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by CHoccolaTE: 9:56am On May 27, 2023 |
Divay22: No mind am. Gen zee girls wey their eyes dey red? He don't know warris goin on |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Towma(f): 10:03am On May 27, 2023 |
Advision: This is actually very sensible advice, you should have talked your wife and told her to talk to her mom instead of letting your emotions take control and speaking rudely to an elderly person. You seem to get along very well with your wife for saying she is a sweet soul, why didnt you communicate with her instead of keeping grudges all these years and then blowing up on her mom? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by VULCAN(m): 10:03am On May 27, 2023 |
Here we go again. The "what if the roles were reversed crew." Whenever a man complains about something in relation to a woman their one-size-fits all solution is to switch the sexes round. Very unimaginative creatures Also, I laughed when I read the second paragraph. So after just one warning the mother will release control over her daughter that she has been exerting for 30+ years? The naive give the most foolish advice ever. Because they are unable to grasp the psychology of human beings and just operate from a superficial perspective of life. FYI, if the man persists in his attempts to regain control of his marriage he will lose it as MIL doesn't mind helping to crash it rather than lose her grip over her daughter. The only way to avert this is if he defeats MIL spiritually. sisisioge: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by SweetDipBenny(m): 10:05am On May 27, 2023 |
Y wait 11 yrs U should've done dat a long time ago |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by DJInfluence: 10:24am On May 27, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:I see your point, while valid to some extent, I don't agree with it fully. It's never too late to confront her. It will be more challenging to change the current state but not impossible. Now that he has done it, maybe he can keep the momentum and the MiL will learn to keep away from his family biz. |
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