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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by CaptainFM1: 9:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
wisdomkid: If the next best time for him is now, then there's no need for him asking us for advice. He's a slow poke to be planting a tree after 20years. He probably will wait for another 20yrs to water it, then another 20yrs to add fertilizers. His actions will come every 20yrs. His problem is probably spiritual. They've put "horse reins" all over him. The strap probably broken after 11years. They will now use a chain and Tinnubu logo to shacked him for the next 20yrs. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by DaveHarry(m): 9:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
Guyman01:I know how |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:48pm On May 26, 2023 |
Elewokun: in my world, its the power of the 3 Ms ...My house, My family, My rules... and mother in law is irrelevant to these rules! linearity: wisdomkid: drsibz66: IMHO it is too late... if wifey left the family home and sided with her mother, after letting this madness go for so long, then there is not much that can be done. you cant let someone run loose for so long and after 11 yrs (of being broken) try to change that person's ways. she is more comfortable (in that marriage) listening to her mother than listen to you, thus why she left. if after 11yrs together, your wife puts more value on what her MOTHER says than what you say, then you might as well move on! this woman obvioulsy has no respect for her man or what he says/stands for. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by ThatCEO: 9:48pm On May 26, 2023 |
sisisioge: After 11 years, he has more than earned d right to say whatever. Those so called elderly, wen dem don fok up n u put them in their places, dey will never address what u said, they will say u insulted fhem. I have been there too many times, anybody go collect. No b me n u go dey do diplomacy. Na d guy mumu, I for than scatter that table tey tey. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Kobojunkie: 9:51pm On May 26, 2023 |
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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 9:52pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: YOUR AN IDIOT. YOU LEFT YOUR WIFE TO BE CHALLENGING YOUR PARENTS. I TELL YOU NOW, YOUR WIFE IS THE MAIN PROBLEM. ALSO, MARRIAGE IS SHARING, LEARN TO ENDURE YOUR WIFE FAMILY IN YOUR HOUSE AS YOU WOULD YOUR OWN PARENTS. PROVIDE THEM WITH SPACE AND CREATE A SPACE FOR YOURSELF AWAY FROM THEM, SO YOU GET TO SEE THEM ON YOUR OWN TERMS. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Yoighaman(m): 9:54pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Bro, I ended a relationship with a nice lady in the US because her mum was domineering, I just knew she would want to control my home and I sadly walked away, it was a painful decision. Pally, you shouldn't have waited for 11 years, but better late than never; don't expect it easy, she and her mum would fight back and either of two things might happen. 1. Your marriage crashes or 2. Your wife and her mum become estranged. Whatever the outcome, may it be in your favor. Best wishes. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by isabi2lof: 9:56pm On May 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: He won't answer you , they're always painting themselves as the saint in any failed relationships . He's the Saint Michael in this story . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 9:59pm On May 26, 2023 |
isabi2lof: HE SIAD HIS WIFE IS SWEET SOUL, AS IF NA ONLY HIM GET HER. IS IT ANIMALS THAT RAISE SWEET SOUL THAT YOU MARRY? JEALOUSY, WICKEDNESS AND GREED. HE DONT WANT TO SHARE ATTENTION. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by westlius(m): 10:01pm On May 26, 2023 |
hammerT:You are the bigger idiot for insulting some1 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 10:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
westlius: VAGABOND, WAS I TALKING TO YOU? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by prophetfire: 10:02pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:Well I don't know if you have the balls to go the whole mile like I do. If you do have the balls, I'd tell you to call their bluff. If your so-called wife doesn't return, to hell with her. That's me. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 10:03pm On May 26, 2023 |
prophetfire: REHEARSED MADNESS! THIS IS WHAT I WAS REFERING TO EARLIER. DEM DONE DEY PRESS HIS MUGU BUTTON |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jaxxy(m): 10:04pm On May 26, 2023 |
Okealaaye: and what if she doesnt come back? cos she may not come back. Truth is in marriage u don't take decisions like a dictator. U have to carry everybody along and respect those that should be respected. u must are ur mother inlaw as ur mother b4 u confront her or else u will address her like a total stranger. this applies to ur wife confronting or addressing ur own mum also. anything aside this will lead to problems unless ur wife has been carried along or is helpless under u. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by westlius(m): 10:06pm On May 26, 2023 |
hammerT:Biggest foool 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by diogo23: 10:06pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:When you suppose to stop it you over look it now it will generate a very big issue |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by isabi2lof: 10:08pm On May 26, 2023 |
hammerT:Don't mind him , I can't watch anybody talking down on my mom, if there's anything my mom is doing and you don't like it , you can tell me about it , I will be the one to find a way to go about it . The kind of complaints coming from married couples these days , it's not encouraging at all , can't people filter what they read online . People like creating problems where there's none. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by prophetfire: 10:09pm On May 26, 2023 |
hammerT:Using emotional blackmail on him. Nonsense. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by vickydevoka(m): 10:10pm On May 26, 2023 |
taylor89:Mother way die better . Women are wahala by nature |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 10:11pm On May 26, 2023 |
westlius: Y U NO JUST SAY BABA BLESS ME, MAKE I TAKE SCHNAP BLIND BOTH YOUR EYES? ABI U NO WAN SEE BETTER THING? 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by diogo23: 10:12pm On May 26, 2023 |
sisisioge:Why are you talking nonsense? The woman is destroying to their marriage He need to tell her the truth, if his mum do the same thing she will be cautioned |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by westlius(m): 10:12pm On May 26, 2023 |
hammerT:Abeg grow up |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by vickydevoka(m): 10:12pm On May 26, 2023 |
Wawelexy:Me no go send 1 naira. Send waitin!!! Make she come use me shine 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Better late than never |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by imam07: 10:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:leave her. Let her go. Wife like that can't never change again. Her eyes will soon open. Her mama is her husband. Does she has a father? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by FlipModeSquade(m): 10:16pm On May 26, 2023 |
Nebes:This here is the very reason Africa is a Sh1thole.. No body got sense to solve issues.. Everything na spiritual.. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Olarewaju89: 10:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
[quote author=22rockbottom post=123386212]Good Evening, I got married 11years ago, my mother in-law has always in the picture of everything in our home and has total control of my wife. My wife cannot object anything she says even when I, as her husband challenged it. 90% of the major issues we had as a couple were caused by my mother in-law. After 11years, I decided to confront her to stop controlling her daughter and stop interfering in our marriage and home. I confronted her and my wife left the house. Her reason for leaving the house is that I disrespected her family. more details later That's what am facing right now. My mother in law scattered my marriage. It really pains me ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Waffarianman(m): 10:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
Okealaaye: It's not easy to let go I know of things like this he should just use wisdom on matters on ground |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by fof1: 10:19pm On May 26, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Means What? He should let it be Forever? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Waffarianman(m): 10:20pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: My brother have personally handled issues like this some yrs past and all went well. Please just apply wisdom and you'll be alright last last |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Ingocof(m): 10:22pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Why waiting for 11 years before doing the needful? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Olarewaju89: 10:25pm On May 26, 2023 |
bantilosha: You are right bro. |
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