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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by tsdarkside(m): 11:46pm On May 26, 2023 |
why the hell would you want to quarrel with your wifes mother....?? you will always loose.... you dont know that.... ![]() ![]() better go apologize to her mother,even if the mother was wrong,than comin on nairaland talkin rubbish.... can you fight your own mother and win....?? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by iamjavadem(m): 11:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
Story, I know men who put their feet down after 10 years of this and still triumph. It's never too late, just make sure you maintain the energy, they will bow last last. superCleanworks: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by tsdarkside(m): 11:52pm On May 26, 2023 |
iamjavadem: life is not always only about winnin or who is right.... their are situations you just have to let slide.... |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by superCleanworks(m): 12:03am On May 27, 2023 |
iamjavadem: i have already wished him GOOD LUCK. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by godofuck231: 12:34am On May 27, 2023 |
That a man , first she should go to her sons house ,one woman is enough IED to defuse , having another, a mother inlaw is like defusing a redundant IED with a Mercury switch mixed witha gravity switch |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by bigiyaro(m): 1:01am On May 27, 2023 |
CondenseMilk:of cause she does, such women usually teaches thier daughters how to use sec as a weapon against men. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by nosa2ekundayo: 2:19am On May 27, 2023 |
madridguy: No one can really tell.but It can turn out to be spiritually orchestrated.. Grow up sir. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by NwaliE01: 2:34am On May 27, 2023 |
Good morning in the evening of your marriage. Pray, pray, pray. Prayer changes things especially in this kind of matter. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Truvelisback(m): 2:37am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom:Ur mother-in-law don't have a house of her own? 😏 |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by purehustle101(m): 3:11am On May 27, 2023 |
Na see finish dey cause all these things... A strong man will never be at mercy of any woman, get another wife or gf and focus on your hustle. no let woman stress you for these life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by TrainPark: 4:07am On May 27, 2023 |
Wodu89: You are looking like the fool now.. already jumping into conclusion with insults without waiting to hear even the "complete one side" of the story talk more of the complete picture. Are you saying there no bad people? Is it impossible fir a mother inlaw to be bad? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by akpunda86: 4:18am On May 27, 2023 |
bantilosha: My man I pity the guy I'm in same dillema but mine is sister in-law,my wife left my house 4 months now,me beg her Lue lie,I can't beg cos I no do anything but coming back my house is after 2 years.thats the penalty for cheating bro I no lie you I'm cheating now,from consolation to romance |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Kobojunkie: 4:22am On May 27, 2023 |
TrainPark:Go to page 4 to find OP'S confession that he acted irrationally in this. ![]() If you have read at least 5 of these sort of stories on Nairaland you should at least be able to spot the general pattern, almost fixed, of many of these sob stories. When an OP comes in claiming victim and lampooning others, know right there and then something is amiss and it is almost always that the storyteller is not being honest. If computer programs are intelligently able to identify these patterns why not human beings? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Kobojunkie: 4:26am On May 27, 2023 |
akpunda86:You cheated on your wife and she left you and you continued with your cheating? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by akpunda86: 4:38am On May 27, 2023 |
purehustle101:.confirm man I don move on wify begging to come back now islate till after 2 years,if my girl friend carry belle she will become the second wife cos she left house on her own |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Karemarealty288(m): 4:48am On May 27, 2023 |
I set the boundaries from the very first day my wife entered my house, cos I notice that same family domineering attitude of her family. Till date they dont get involved in any of my issues... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by chatinent: 4:53am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: You are also wrong to have spoken rudely to them. I think she feels you have no regard for her parents so she sees no reason to regard you! Two wrongs don't make a right. You owe them an apology the same way she owes you an apology. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by shineeye1: 5:24am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Good riddance to bad rubbish. You never had a wife for 11 past years. You were just a prisoner in one of the embassies of some crooked in-laws. Embrace your freedom or kiss it goodbye - the choice is yours.. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by drnoel: 5:37am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: You mean after 11 years your wife still thinks more about her mother than you? Then she can stay where she went to. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Kobojunkie: 5:42am On May 27, 2023 |
Karemarealty288:The Kain women wey dey marry your kind, na wa! ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by GoodbutBadguy: 5:42am On May 27, 2023 |
Exceed15:The bitter truth is that OP lacks human management if he marries 1000 babes it will always result in this. And this matter doesn't worth a divorce ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Mccall88(m): 5:58am On May 27, 2023 |
I have same challenges after a year of my marriage, my wife sis start detailing for my wife telling her how to runs her home negatively , as a guy man I firstly challenge her in spiritual aspects before take it in physical rhymes, at the end she gave up and left us alone till now she’s scared of me like a beasts. #Modify where u dey wen the thing first dey happen? You act fact immediately u smell a rat cos marriage na everlasting school institution, no lose guard. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Charly68: 6:10am On May 27, 2023 |
What you can't confront,you will never conquer . You have done the needful and surely the woman and her daughter will see the reality. Never bother your mind for telling the truth . It may be bitter but that is what we all need to be freed from bondage .Enjoy your life as you await their next reaction. If your wife chooses to remain with her mother forever ,then see it as a deliverance and enjoy your peace . Don't let marriage become a land of bondage for you. Our lives on earth are too short to be wasted on needless troubles 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by FireUpNow(m): 6:10am On May 27, 2023 |
Let her go and don't beg her. Though you waited too long in holding your ground. Las las she will be someone else baby mama 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Reference(m): 6:29am On May 27, 2023 |
udemzyudex: Abi oh. Wen excavator dey .... ![]() |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by obama99: 6:41am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Don't bother yourself, you're on your way to your freedom. Don't chicken out easily it'sany be a little bumpy but surely your freedom is just some days or week ahead. It's very painful foe a man of over 11 years of marriage not to be able to control his family. Don't call her , let her be and send her message never to return to your house again. They will be the ones to beg you. Let your ego be a little bit refreshed. Meanwhile for every true man here in this platform we have all passed through that stage one way or the other and that's how we got our respect from our inlaws. That's when you're called a man. Shut whatever person you need to shut up on the other side to gain your freedom. I got mine after telling my brother in-law not to step my house again. I called my mother inlaw and told her that " when you give someone a goat, you also give him the rope" so mama I have married your daughter pls allow her to concentrate otherwise you will see her next week in your house. She didn't like it and she doesn't have to like it but she got the message and since then things changed. Abegi relax yourself 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Reference(m): 6:42am On May 27, 2023 |
Perhaps the next criteria will be for men and women to marry from families that actually have things doing. Can't imagine anyone who has a job, profession or business that will have the time to snoop around his or her married children consistently. Most will be glad to rid themselves of the children that have bothered them for decades and perhaps inhibited their personal aspirations to certain degrees. Don't marry from indolent families. It rubs off. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Reference(m): 6:46am On May 27, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well it cuts both ways. Will any woman like to marry the in-laws, the man's 'domineering' family as well..... |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by frank317: 6:49am On May 27, 2023 |
Lol.. 11 years toto still de do guy? Na wa |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jaxxy(m): 6:56am On May 27, 2023 |
ThatCEO: if u never had the right or balls b4 u can never earn the right just because u think her daughter has lived with u for 11 years. Her daughter obviously lives with him because of her mum not because of he was in control of the situation like he wants to change now. He will only rock boat and the peaceful situation or system his family has been in. Did he not envisaged his wife would revolt against his attacks on her mum? some men think it's my house my rules bt when ur married its our house not ur house. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jaxxy(m): 7:08am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom: ur inlaws can't come and stay in ur house for 1cmonth or 2 without ur consent and ur wife must respect ur decision after both of u discuss issues and come to an agreement on this. it also shouldn't be a unilateral decision that u make cos ure the man, hear her views and reason with her. Now after doing this and they want to come again which isn't ok with u and there is no special ir important reason for this visit ur wife has to understand the reason for why u need less intrusion. However if they must vist to please her then u could agree on a lesser duration of their stay or smtn. Basically ur wife isn't a sweet soul if she can't agree on issues with her husband and communicate this to her parents bt it all depends on how u communicate these issues with ur wife. as it stands she doesn't agree with u on any of ur decisions so how is she a sweet soul? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Microwhy: 7:15am On May 27, 2023 |
22rockbottom:One thing with people like you and me is that we act after much thought. Sometime its best to react as e dey hot. My wife sister that came around just for 5 weeks destroy the marriage we both managing though we're still together but we will obvious separate soon. My mistake is same as yours, I tolerated the sister(s) for sometime before I change am for them but its too late now and my kids would have to experience staying without their mother. I will be taking the custody which we've both agreed on. So I'm indirectly saying whatever I said to you to myself also. |
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