Samantha124:
But you guys are missing something here, let's be honest here... I father can no longer be financially supporting a daughter that is no longer a virgin.

Because immediately she starts sleeping with men, she becomes their responsibility, unless she's working and is able to provide for herself.

Imagine a girl that's sleeping with her boyfriend anyhow going to her father to ask for money for sanitary pads, when she has a man that's been drilling that same hole she needs sanitary pads for.

Immediately a girl becomes sexually active, then her mother should become her father's only responsibility since she's his wife and the one sleeping with him... Unless the father still insist on sending her the money.

Is that the way things work in South Africa, your parents stop taking responsibility once you start having sexual affairs? Wow what a world we live in…

Samantha124:
But you guys are missing something here, let's be honest here... I father can no longer be financially supporting a daughter that is no longer a virgin.

Because immediately she starts sleeping with men, she becomes their responsibility, unless she's working and is able to provide for herself.

Imagine a girl that's sleeping with her boyfriend anyhow going to her father to ask for money for sanitary pads, when she has a man that's been drilling that same hole she needs sanitary pads for.

Immediately a girl becomes sexually active, then her mother should become her father's only responsibility since she's his wife and the one sleeping with him... Unless the father still insist on sending her the money.

Nonsense talk. A man is only responsible when he comes to take her away via marriage. not to say the man can't or shouldn't spend we every now and then.

Samantha124:
I just beat you at your own game..💪💪🤣🤣

Boshego bjo bobotse...🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

The second sentence, what does it mean??
And this ur language sef, how on earth will two consonants follow one another in a word??
I am sure the revised edition of ur language would not have them follow each other like that. So u re using a strong sepedi for me when u have not even taught me the elementary...kwantiniu.

Samantha124:
But you guys are missing something here, let's be honest here... I father can no longer be financially supporting a daughter that is no longer a virgin.

Because immediately she starts sleeping with men, she becomes their responsibility, unless she's working and is able to provide for herself.

Imagine a girl that's sleeping with her boyfriend anyhow going to her father to ask for money for sanitary pads, when she has a man that's been drilling that same hole she needs sanitary pads for.

Immediately a girl becomes sexually active, then her mother should become her father's only responsibility since she's his wife and the one sleeping with him... Unless the father still insist on sending her the money.

Babe I beg to disagree with you on this one

Samantha124:
And when I say most Nigerian men can't reason logically, they'll be saying I hate Nigerians...

Papa, the truth is bitter and your insults just prove that I'm right..😂😂😂

Is that oloshoic reasoning part of you guy's culture in South Africa? Asking for a friend

Another jollof brother who's head is only filled with insults is here..🤣🤣🤣

But you guys are funny.

triangulation:

Is that oloshoic reasoning part of you guy's culture in South Africa? Asking for a friend

It meant good night.

Most of you Nigerians know nothing about your cultures because you allowed Christianity and Islam to demonize and destroy your cultural values.

I'm sure the only things you know very well about your tribe are those adages...

tonicyril:


The second sentence, what does it mean??
And this ur language sef, how on earth will two consonants follow one another in a word??
I am sure the revised edition of ur language would not have them follow each other like that. So u re using a strong sepedi for me when u have not even taught me the elementary...kwantiniu.

It's every African man's duty to provide for his woman... Our forefathers used to do this, so why are you guys now running away from your responsibilities?

If you want a submissive woman, you must provide for her, simple!!!

Intrepid01:


Is that the way things work in South Africa, your parents stop taking responsibility once you start having sexual affairs? Wow what a world we live in…

Samantha124:
It meant good night.

Most of you Nigerians know nothing about your cultures because you allowed Christianity and Islam to demonize and destroy your cultural values.

I'm sure the only things you know very well about your tribe are those adages...

Alaye kilosele gan-an??

Why u dey enter me anyhow na..

I am not even religious so to say..why you dey enter me anyhow??

Then what do you have to say about those African men who are cohabiting with their women?

Do you still expect a father who also has a woman/wife at home to be financially supporting someone who's living with a man and performing wifely duties to that man?

sslcrypt:


Nonsense talk. A man is only responsible when he comes to take her away via marriage. not to say the man can't or shouldn't spend we every now and then.

Because I'm very sure that I know about my cultural values far better than you know about yours..💃💃💃

I'm sure if I ask you another question now, you'll say it depends on the family again..😃😃😃

tonicyril:


Alaye kilosele gan-an??

Why u dey enter me anyhow na..

I am not even religious so to say..why you dey enter me anyhow??

Samantha124:
Because I'm very sure that I know about my cultural values far better than you know about yours..💃💃💃

I'm sure if I ask you another question now, you'll say it depends on the family again..😃😃😃

Oya ask na.. ask

So you don't want to back down without a fight?🤣🤣🤣

tonicyril:


Oya ask na.. ask

Samantha124:
So you don't want to back down without a fight?🤣🤣🤣

Well, u re the one still attacking you know, I haven't started attacking you

Since I'm the one attacking you, maybe I should leave you to get some peace of mind.

tonicyril:


Well, u re the one still attacking you know, I haven't started attacking you

Samantha124:
Since I'm the one attacking you, maybe I should leave you to get some peace of mind.

No, trigger the second bullet out...

I dare you..

Samantha124:
It's every African man's duty to provide for his woman... Our forefathers used to do this, so why are you guys now running away from your responsibilities?

If you want a submissive woman, you must provide for her, simple!!!

Nope, stop changing the context, you weren’t referring to a wife-husband-father thing, “you said once a girl start having sexual affair”…sexual affair isn’t restricted to married people I believe. Boys and girls start having sex from ages 12, 13 and above now. Does that mean their sexual partner should be the one footing their bills at that age too? A man is only responsible for the financial responsibility of his wife.

As long as you act like an adult by doing things meant for adults, then take responsibility like an adult.

Intrepid01:


Nope, stop changing the context, you weren’t referring to a wife-husband-father thing, “you said once a girl start having sexual affair”…sexual affair isn’t restricted to married people I believe. Boys and girls start having sex from ages 12, 13 and above now. Does that mean their sexual partner should be the one footing their bills at that age too? A man is only responsible for the financial responsibility of his wife.

Samantha124:
You guys be drilling them like they're boreholes..😂😂😂

And when we don't drill at all or drill you well you'll be complaining of not being sexually satisfied. What does that tell you? Of course, it means that ladies also enjoy the sex as much as guys do. So, why should a guy take up the responsibility of providing for you

Isn't it the duty of an African man to provide for his woman? Answer this please..

Jman06:
And when we don't drill at all or drill you well you'll be complaining of not being sexually satisfied. What does that tell you? Of course, it means that ladies also enjoy the sex as much as guys do. So, why should a guy take up the responsibility of providing for you

Samantha124:
Isn't it the duty of an African man to provide for his woman? Answer this please..

It is NOT the duty of a modern man to provide for any wife within the context of modern marriages.

Are you not an African man?

Jman06:
It is NOT the duty of a modern man to provide for any wife within the context of modern marriages.

Finally I'm free and I can torment you...

Tell me about the Yoruba traditional wedding ceremony... What are the cultural practices that the family must perform for the wedding to take place?

tonicyril:
No, trigger the second bullet out...

I dare you..

Samantha124:
But you guys are missing something here, let's be honest here... I father can no longer be financially supporting a daughter that is no longer a virgin.

Because immediately she starts sleeping with men, she becomes their responsibility, unless she's working and is able to provide for herself.

Imagine a girl that's sleeping with her boyfriend anyhow going to her father to ask for money for sanitary pads, when she has a man that's been drilling that same hole she needs sanitary pads for.

Immediately a girl becomes sexually active, then her mother should become her father's only responsibility since she's his wife and the one sleeping with him... Unless the father still insist on sending her the money.

U are not well.

Samantha124:
Are you not an African man?

I'm a global man. The world is a global village!

Lolest... So you're now denying your ethnicity just because you're trying to run away from your responsibility?🤣🤣🤣

Jman06:
I'm a global man. The world is a global village!

Samantha124:
Lolest... So you're now denying your ethnicity just because you're trying to run away from your responsibility?🤣🤣🤣

No, I'm only changing with trends.

But you're still an African..🤣🤣🤣

Jman06:
No, I'm only changing with trends.

Samantha124:
As long as you act like an adult by doing things meant for adults, then take responsibility like an adult.

You can’t transfer your financial responsibilities to your boyfriend or a guy simply because you’re in a sexual relationship. If your parents are tired of their responsibilities then they should marry you off.

Samantha124:
But you're still an African..🤣🤣🤣

Modern African man

It's every African man's duty to take good care of his woman.

You can't be claiming someone as your woman, but still expect the father to be taking care of someone who's now a woman and has got a man claiming her as his.

Since you'll be drilling her, then it becomes your duty to buy her sanitary pads or tampons for those rainy days...

Intrepid01:


You can’t transfer your financial responsibilities to your boyfriend or a guy simply because you’re in a sexual relationship. If your parents are tired of their responsibilities then they should marry you off.

Common sense is scarce nowadays.