I married my husband about five years ago. Before I got married to him there were three of them that were going after me. My husband was the least person I had expected to get married to of the three people.

Apart from the fact that he was a lit bit older than me, he was not the trendy type and he looked timid and native to me so I wasn’t even considering him at all at that time. If somebody had told me that I would later marry him I would have denied it.

However, of the three people that were after me he was the one that appeared serious as at that time. He proposed to me and told me that he didn’t want an affair with me he just wanted to get married to me.

The other guys on the other hand never proposed to me all they wanted was to have a go at me and then move on and considering the fact that age was no longer on my side and with the advice from my mother, I eventually agreed to marry my husband. When we eventually got married, I did everything to transform my husband from the timid and native guy he was to a trendy fashion man.

I made sure I changed his entire wardrobe and bought him trendy clothes so he would look presentable as my husband. Everything has been fine with us until I had my second baby over a year ago. My husband just changed completely from the loving and caring man that dotes over me to a complete monster.

He started out by keeping late nights and coming home drunk. Then I noticed that he was no longer interested in having sex with me. My husband that will always find any opportunity to engage me was no longer interested in sex; the whole thing took a turn for the worst when he stopped talking to me in the house. I don’t know what I did to offend him because as everything has been fine with us before now.

It was at this point that I noticed he was having an affair outside. When I confronted him, he didn’t deny it, instead he told me that if I was not happy with the situation of things I should pack my things and leave after all I wasn’t planning to marry him initially that he practically begged me, so I can as well leave if I am tired. It got up to the extent that he picks the calls of his girlfriends in my presence calling them pet names like baby, sweetie and all that without regards to me.

The straw that eventually broke the camel’s back was three days ago when he brought his girlfriend home. I took my baby to the hospital and when I got back, I noticed his car was parked outside. On entering the house I found him with the girl cuddling on the settee I didn’t know when I threw my baby down and gave the girl the beating of her life for daring to come into my home.

He has called my people to say he is no longer interested in the marriage. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this and I have been begging him to tell me what I did wrong but all he keeps saying is that I never wanted to marry him in the first place, but all that is past and I have been a faithful and loyal housewife to him so why all these? Please my people tell me how to go about this before I run mad because my husband is behaving like somebody that has been bewitched or under a spell.

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hmm

This is what happens wen u marry because age is not by ur side anylonger or u marry out of pity... Na ur fault be that

TTC .... Do the maths

In the entirety of your story, not once was the word LOVE used. You never loved him, but AGE was on your side and that is the only reason you got married.

I feel no pity for you.

take him to synagogue he needs deliverance ;(

Ok am done reading, let say u grew to love the man u ar married to, and from the begining u were nt inlove. You ar a loyal and faithful wife,please remain that way. Your husby is in a serious infatuated relationship and u feel like breaking his head for such behaviour but i say dont. He is not in his right frame of mind right now and its obvious u dnt want to leave ur matrimonial home, woman be prayerful and dnt give him more excuse to berate u further. Y fight wit a girl he brought home....,she is nt worth it ok. Pls distract ursef from al this mess for nw, just focus on making ursef happy, takecare of ur kids, prove to ur husband that u didnt marry him out of choice bt for the fact that u also love him, pls no dulling take ursef out for a treat no old ursef. Be the person he once loved, love ursef and hopefully he would comeback to love u. IT MIGHT BE HARD FOR U TO BE PATIENT SINCE U ARE THE VICTIM, BUT BE GOOD,PATIENT AND PRAYERFUL. Pardon my poor spelling

A case of mugu just got wiser

He is acting funny

Then you should laugh because your husband is a ''CLOWN"

lol

chineloSA:

He is acting funny

Then you should laugh because your husband is a ''CLOWN"

You went too far!
Itz obvious he's nt acting normal at all,you would have taken dz issue to his family members so dat dey could at least talk to him.
But alas,u beat up his supposed girl friend,u went just too far.

Pls dnt run mad yet.

@op ur husband is acting funny? why dont u refer HiM to yabaleft?
shout out to all dos dat didnt read wat op wrote.

WTF... I hate poo talks like this!

Kill him

That's combination of Jim Iyke & Basketmouth

Person don cook otumokpo for am

Leave him be. He'll come back to his senses and if he doesn't then he's not worth your tears.

Sos

You have a choice , either stay or leave.

He don eat efo prepared with punny water.

Now that sucks... Hoes walking around as men these days.. But then you never loved him. You made it a case of when the variable is not available the available becomes variable... That niggah just got wiser

Obe idi ni eleyi o ... Pastor's prayer is needed

If he's "Acting" funny! "Act strange

.all the space bookers before me, una well done oo!!!

By the way, I believe you should try to get him to talk to you first, try to have a heart to heart discussion on this issue, on what the problem is, set the mood and let the timing be perfect and get him to sit down with you and discuss

If this doesn't work then take this issue to someone he respects, someone he reveres much.... be it your pastor, a family member or whoever and also someone you trust will be able to talk something serious into his head

From your story, he has lost respect for you by his actions (calling his gfs pet names in your front!!! chei!!!) And violence won't help you get the respect back.
He might just be acting childish, maybe he's bored of you and wanted to start "sampling" justifying his actions with "u never wanted to marry me in the first place" his way of saying "I wasn't even your first choice"

There also might be someone putting ideas into his head also, do you know what his friends are like? Collegues in office

Komolop cholop

Lots of kids just polluting this thread just for the fun of commenting. Quite irritating.

[b]It must be So hard for you right
now. your having to look at the
future with the strong possibility
he will not be a supporting role in
your future. Honestly, As Hard as
It sounds. Your gonna have to look at the future if he pursues this to
the end. the faster you can
convince your self you and your
child are the priority ad not this
relationship the better off your
gonna be, The sooner you let go of what was and start working on
the what will be.

Every one gets knocked off their
feet by life at one point our the
other. the reason is "it's just your
turn" How long you sit there and
reflect on all the could of, should
of, would of, life goes on with out your participation. If you can get
your mind healthy, your emotions
healthy, your finances healthy,
your child cared for, If this
relationship works or doesn't
work you will be in better shape.

If you sit the on the ground to
long, reflecting on the pain of the
relationship failure and do not put
your house in order, you can end
up with a pile of problems
regardless of if your relationship works or doesn't[/b]