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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Obidikejr(m): 9:57am On Mar 28, 2016
pacino26:
The day you willingly take that leap and wait for her by the altar, just know she's coming with all the pre-programed junk you can think of.

God created man and rested but after eve, neither God nor man has known rest.

There's no formula!
brother there is nothing like how to live with a contentious woman, i just cant man. if i marry one (God No go gree) lol, there is 3 things that will eventually happen.
1. hang myself one day
2. become a wife beater
3. become micheal scholfield (prison break).
and i am most definitely sure no.1 and 2 is not an option. i will just silently escape the marriage, 24hr later send her a divorce letter. dash her the house join.. if i dont do it silently and she knows she might need the services of a babalawo

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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by torqque7(m): 10:02am On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
when IT was dishing the insults you didn't quote it.na me you dey quote.hmm?
Lol no now he didn't dish insults he was just generalizing, even at that I didn't see any direct insults,oya no vex u don chop cake finish?oya take biscuit join smiley

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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by merxi55(f): 11:28am On Mar 28, 2016
GodnGold:
Op,pls don't write this type of thing again.
as in ehh! what kinda write up is this? if your own wife is contentious which by the way i doubt if you have one, then you relate or treat her in like manner, don't come up and start teaching others how to run their homes,dont put problem in people's relationship or marriage,people like you wont even do this cos you'll want the best for your own home. it is only a foolish man that will give heed to such crap cos it wont solve any problems rather compound it,every woman is born with conscience,if you treat her like a queen,she will make you her king. please give your write up 'a food for thought' not pouring fuel in a fire. do to your woman what you want her to do to you ,its a two way thing! thank me later!
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 11:42am On Mar 28, 2016
Tallesty1:
At least twice? I disagree.

A perfect gentleman is the one who knows when not to be gentle.

Hit me once and I will reset your head.
Bro, you have a good brain.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 12:30pm On Mar 28, 2016
mamajaz:

See your head, you think you know it all abi ? Go and ask how daddy listened to mummy's tutelage before they made it work. ...but you guys want everything free in free town nowadays.
You don't want any body to cross the lines you have drawn and eventually you most times mislead the whole family 'cos of your peer- oiled ego.
How I wish most ladies could look away when you guys are at it and let you toe the path you choose, but we can't just look away 'cos when you kill arogidigba tan you can't finish the tail self, not to talk of the whole shark.
hahahaha you need help more than i thought, maybe just because your dad lead his family in many wrong direction which your mom had to correct and also maybe the male figures you grew up around were air heads who needed to be monitored and directed by the females bc the lack good sense of judgement and critical thinking in decision making doesn't mean other males are like that dear, sorry you had it like that. Now i understand better, most of the aggresion are from paternal issues and the environment you were raised in bc if dad did his job very well your perception wouldn't be this tainted, take care.

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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Funkadict(m): 12:37pm On Mar 28, 2016
yvelchstores:
A man will read this n think to himself, " this is how my silly wife is" then goes home and gets angry at her for no reason causing a fight. Op, this thread, what effect will this thread have on relationships?

I mean no disrespect ma, but, are you a contentious woman? Because as far as I'm concerned.....there is nothing in the write-up that can make a sane man go angry at his good wife for nothing.......#justsaying

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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by pacino26(m): 2:22pm On Mar 28, 2016
Obidikejr:
brother there is nothing like how to live with a contentious woman, i just cant man. if i marry one (God No go gree) lol, there is 3 things that will eventually happen.
1. hang myself one day
2. become a wife beater
3. become micheal scholfield (prison break).
and i am most definitely sure no.1 and 2 is not an option. i will just silently escape the marriage, 24hr later send her a divorce letter. dash her the house join.. if i dont do it silently and she knows she might need the services of a babalawo


Hahahahahaha the Scofield part got me o. My dear you won't know how lucky you're till you get married.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 28, 2016
postmann:


grin grin grin
That's as original as it gets.
And for all honesty, it's only a mild prose that sits right at the bottom of my list of self written compositions.

Are you the ex governor's ex wife?I heard That's the person who wrote the piece.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mamajaz(f): 2:32pm On Mar 28, 2016
icedbeatz:
hahahaha you need help more than i thought, maybe just because your dad lead his family in many wrong direction which your mom had to correct and also maybe the male figures you grew up around were air heads who needed to be monitored and directed by the females bc the lack good sense of judgement and critical thinking in decision making doesn't mean other males are like that dear, sorry you had it like that. Now i understand better, most of the aggresion are from paternal issues and the environment you were raised in bc if dad did his job very well your perception wouldn't be this tainted, take care.
I understand your type while I wouldn't push any abusive words to you or your parents, your response and the way you address other people's parents, sibs and accomplices goes a long way to describe you or your background or your cliche of friends.
At your age, I know you are not likely "abiiko" but "akoigba".
So, I will invite you to visit my home, take a glance at my husband, my child and the lovely first degree family that raised me, you will turn everything you see to prayer points for your life and generations to come.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by postmann: 2:45pm On Mar 28, 2016
lolaed:


Are you the ex governor's ex wife?I heard That's the person who wrote the piece.

A simple apology would have made your day a tad better. It would have lifted your spirit a little higher. You would have been a better neighbour with a better sense of humour.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Funkychic(f): 4:13pm On Mar 28, 2016
Tallesty1:
Ma!
Ok nah....kontinu, diaris God oo
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 5:18pm On Mar 28, 2016
mamajaz:

I understand your type while I wouldn't push any abusive words to you or your parents, your response and the way you address other people's parents, sibs and accomplices goes a long way to describe you or your background or your cliche of friends.
At your age, I know you are not likely "abiiko" but "akoigba".
So, I will invite you to visit my home, take a glance at my husband, my child and the lovely first degree family that raised me, you will turn everything you see to prayer points for your life and generations to come.
:-)well i can't deny you of your fantasy so sweet dreams.No one prays for mediocre my dear, If your fam is the "lovely first degree family" as you claim, it will reflect subliminally but the fact is its not, thanks for the invite but i don't want to see the mediocre lifestyle soaked in bitterness which you decide to sugar coat. Pray for divine emancipation, may your generation enjoy life like my grandparents did so that same bitterness devouring you will elude them and may your hubby's tank(if a man was really blind or dumb enough to marry or manage you) of endurance never run dry...
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 5:47pm On Mar 28, 2016
Funkadict:


I mean no disrespect ma, but, are you a contentious woman? Because as far as I'm concerned.....there is nothing in the write-up that can make a sane man go angry at his good wife for nothing.......#justsaying
hahaha bro if a man after reading op's write up says "this is how my stupidd wife is" that means the wife is a contentious woman, the only type that this thread tends to upset bc they don't want the hubby to comwe across this info and he's most likely to react after realizing what he married. I pity the guilible men that turn out to be wimps or p***** whooped.
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mamajaz(f): 6:11pm On Mar 28, 2016
icedbeatz:
:-)well i can't deny you of your fantasy so sweet dreams.No one prays for mediocre my dear, If your fam is the "lovely first degree family" as you claim, it will reflect subliminally but the fact is its not, thanks for the invite but i don't want to see the mediocre lifestyle soaked in bitterness which you decide to sugar coat. Pray for divine emancipation, may your generation enjoy life like my grandparents did so that same bitterness devouring you will elude them and may your hubby's tank(if a man was really blind or dumb enough to marry or manage you) of endurance never run dry...
Congrats to you on your low life reasoning. It's a huge reflection of the home you are building or the one you will build.
A man that can trade words with a woman he has never met like this is nothing but a sour, brainless, jobless and dude. May God empower your wife to tarry in the upper room for you or else you turn your life and home to World War III.
Now am done with you, I can't stay biting a mad man in the street, if he bites once I run or people will think we are both products of 'Aro". Pele, afofun gbe mu
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 6:26pm On Mar 28, 2016
mamajaz:

Congrats to you on your low life reasoning. It's a huge reflection of the home you are building or the one you will build.
A man that can trade words with a woman he has never met like this is nothing but a sour, brainless, jobless and dude. May God empower your wife to tarry in the upper room for you or else you turn your life and home to World War III.
Now am done with you, I can't stay biting a mad man in the street, if he bites once I run or people will think we are both products of 'Aro". Pele, afofun gbe mu
lol is that all? Hahahaa
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Dheartless: 7:17pm On Mar 28, 2016
Bibors:


It is said that the more issues people handle, the more mature they become. Going for a divorce will be an easy way out of the situation but devising ways to keep your sanity while you work on the relationship is the reason for the thread. Some persons have called OP a Narcissist and a reasoning person would also know that such a person falls into the group of persons to be managed properly.
In life there are various schools of thoughts and they are all right in their eyes so whatever makes you a better person is OK .
I didn't have to finish reading your post .
why would I wanna manage a nagging wife ?
why should I ?
let me answer for you .
1: so on the news it will be published that my wife killed me in my sleep.
2: so I can snapped and beat my wife
3: so I can pretend to be happy and die young.
aren't the above answers the end state of most marriages with issues ?
"especially the marriages that involves a contentious wife ."

incase you're christain that thinks divorce is not the way out of a dead marriage .
bibile says "it is better to live on the roof top than with a nagging wife ."

guy, there's no maturity in pretending to have a marriage .

all you wrote in the op is trying to be a gentleman when It's not even required , why will I carry burden in my head and mind just because of a nagging wife , o boy keep forming perfect and matured but I prefer to keep my peace and life , no time .

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Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Dheartless: 7:19pm On Mar 28, 2016
Obidikejr:
brother there is nothing like how to live with a contentious woman, i just cant man. if i marry one (God No go gree) lol, there is 3 things that will eventually happen.
1. hang myself one day
2. become a wife beater
3. become micheal scholfield (prison break).
and i am most definitely sure no.1 and 2 is not an option. i will just silently escape the marriage, 24hr later send her a divorce letter. dash her the house join.. if i dont do it silently and she knows she might need the services of a babalawo
that's my guy grin
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 7:22pm On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
and you need to be incacerated.many of you cannot behave like normal men except you're treated like animals first grin

Remove the log in your eyes first before you see the spec in another persons eyes.

Spineless talkative wimp


Next
Because i just came back frim a ban, i'll just ignore you. Obviously you're seeking for attention, fvck off my mentions aite
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 8:08pm On Mar 28, 2016
favoured234:

See who is who is talking..

I think we can talk about English Language when you have graduated from putting up lists,
Write a real article and publish it in a journal with I.F up to 0.99 then I will be able to trade words with you
"Lists" are written in Hausa? Has she put a "real article" before? #swerve
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 28, 2016
postmann:


A simple apology would have made your day a tad better. It would have lifted your spirit a little higher. You would have been a better neighbour with a better sense of humour.

story
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 10:04pm On Mar 28, 2016
Bamsupremacy:
Because i just came back frim a ban, i'll just ignore you. Obviously you're seeking for attention, fvck off my mentions aite
iwo jebi.you for nor respect yourself grin tongue
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 10:10pm On Mar 28, 2016
torqque7:

Lol no now he didn't dish insults he was just generalizing, even at that I didn't see any direct insults,oya no vex u don chop cake finish?oya take biscuit join smiley
Stout nko? wink

And asun tongue grin

I no dey chop mende mende.e dey cause Jedi Jedi. tongue

I nor want develop phenese for my anus tongue
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 10:11pm On Mar 28, 2016
ezelos:
. Why can't you do without insults? Won fi si e ni?
lobi Google lere
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by torqque7(m): 10:43pm On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
Stout nko? wink

And asun tongue grin

I no dey chop mende mende.e dey cause Jedi Jedi. tongue

I nor want develop phenese for my anus tongue
Lol shey u be man Abi woman?make I know first b4 we go talk stout and all the asungrin
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 10:44pm On Mar 28, 2016
torqque7:

Lol shey u be man Abi woman?make I know first b4 we go talk stout and all the asungrin
proudly transexual cool tongue
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by torqque7(m): 10:53pm On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
proudly transexual cool tongue
Transexual ke...lol from man to woman Abi kini?in this nija so or outside? shocked
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 10:55pm On Mar 28, 2016
grin grin

What's wrong in been transexual tongue grin
torqque7:

Transexual ke...lol from man to woman Abi kini?in this nija so or outside? shocked
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by torqque7(m): 11:01pm On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
grin grin

What's wrong in been transexual tongue grin
Didn't say anything was wrong o grin ;Dbut personally me sha am straight, I like holes that came naturally not rods,but ain't got a problem with anyone's sexuality thoe but nija u know is not a fan..oya answer what I asked joor
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 11:03pm On Mar 28, 2016
torqque7:

Didn't say anything was wrong o grin ;Dbut personally me sha am straight, I like holes that came naturally not rods,but ain't got a problem with anyone's sexuality thoe but nija u know is not a fan..oya answer what I asked joor
I'm a man grin tongue
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by torqque7(m): 11:07pm On Mar 28, 2016
mrwonlasewonie:
I'm a man grin tongue
angryoya pay me back my cake and biscuit.. :Pand pay with interest o lol..u are man and u were sounding like a woman who is fighting for other women?
Re: How To Live With a contentious woman by mrwonlasewonie: 11:41pm On Mar 28, 2016
torqque7:

angryoya pay me back my cake and biscuit.. :Pand pay with interest o lol..u are man and u were sounding like a woman who is fighting for other women?
is that why you're angry grin

Oya smile let me see your dimples tongue

Btw how do women sound? grin

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