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Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by manikspears: 12:01pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
fancy4eve: allow the guy,dem dey tell am now he dey form cee-c i can say my own back.it will soon be clear to him that there is more to life than money.the guy no dey shame,woman go pay 80% and you go bring 20% and you want to have a say in the house....how?we wey dey bring 90% dey hear am sef let alone 20%.a woman will always be a woman that is how God made them. ps if you die in a woman's house they will pass your corpse through the window. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:01pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
khiaa: just do to prove your integrity |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 12:03pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
@op if your issue is whether or not you should go ahead without the blessings of your mum and risk your relationship with her Truly no one can answer that . You are an adult and can do as you please . You see in Africa children are programmed to obey their parents ... disobedience is believed to attract supernatural dreadful events . Especially when it comes to choice of marital partner . Truth be told if everything goes well ...people will wait until it goes south just so they can say ehen I told you so . If it goes wrong they will say ehen I told you so . If it goes right they will say ...( Well your guess is as good as mine ). I now understand were you are coming from . The decision is yours . Only time can tell . But one thing is for sure whatever happens ...those who love you will always be there for you . 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Safiaa(f): 12:05pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:When have I stated anything about gender equality? This is the problem with you men, you think every woman you encounter is a feminist. I’m clearly not nd never will be. Yes I live in the Uk and so what? Black women this, black women that. But you forgot to mention that you’re a black man who has no atom of shame to carry your big self into another woman’s house to play houseboy. Can you really call yourself a man though? Your fiancé has to be one of the three. Desperate, unattractive or severely lonely. Sorry, because no woman with standards would settle for someone like yourself, just saying. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 12:07pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
manikspears:u get bad mouth oh, so na window dem go pass him corpse......I know dat guy is not from d east, na yorubas nd idoma dey behave lyk dis. Enjoy dear while it last 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by David160(m): 12:07pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:bro don't marry dat woman |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:07pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
victorian: lalasticlala you caused this and you know that. dear, my fiance and I would be going for court marriage okay. I'm not a gold digger. only black people reason this way, I'm not surprised. there's nothing wrong in a man footing a woman's bills, but you think there's something wrong in my fiance/wife to be footing some of my bills. she cares for me, same way I care for her. my birthday is coming soon and I have high expectations! sorry dear. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by manikspears: 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
JayPeeOham: very obvious ,he is just looking for people to support his is miserable intention |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:09pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
fancy4eve:my marriage is going to last! stop wishing me bad please! I'm from isoko in Delta not Yoruba |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 12:14pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: I think you should quit now . Just put your phone off and go do something else . Just go do something else for a couple of hours . Listen to your mentor if you have one . Stay away from Nairaland for now . Chill . Relax . 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:14pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Safiaa: only black people especially broke ones reason this way. my fiance is beautiful, neither is she desperate or lonely. I was the one who proposed to her, not she proposing to me. something you don't understand is; wealthy people mingle with people of their standards. our families have been doing good for a very long time even before her dad was appointed as commissioner of transportation in 2015,while my dad is an SA to the Governor. actually your opinions don't matter because my fiance is civilized and doesn't have this backwards mentality. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 12:15pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
tobianthony: this guys want to give me heart attack. I'll listen to your advice.. I'll ignore all comments |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: Guy as a fellow isoko man ...this your statement and your posts just confirmed a stereotype that most women believe about us . I urge you to just unplug from the internet . You won't gain much from the cacophony of comments here. PM me if you need to talk . 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Safiaa(f): 12:19pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:Of course you proposed, you want the lifestyle lol. Trap her quickly with pregnancy so you can secure the money bag, you hear . If you’re doing so well, how do you have the audacity to move into a woman’s house? To spend her money, and let her take care of you? Are you a woman? Please carry yourself commot, I could never in my life. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by victorian(f): 12:19pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: Lol, I didn't say u shouldn't marry her o I only advised don't expect her to take care of your bills all throughout your life. Cos if that's your expectations, hmmmmm Hmmmmmm Hmmmmmm Lol, you are in for a bumpy ride later on She will marry you, she will have kids with you but when she is done and tired of you. She will simply kick u by the curb , collect her kids and fling you out of her house. Cause the kids, will then be all that matters and precious to her. Truth is bitter.. Ogbeni, that's the truth. Hml in advance. Best of luck . |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fpeter(f): 12:20pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: Shame on you. You need to get yourself a job, you're with her simply because of her money. what tribe are you from that you shamelessly moved into a woman's house and you're happy to admit that she will pay for the wedding, i guess the 20% you intend to contribute is your presence only. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by fancy4eve(f): 12:21pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:common on, I Neva said it will not ohk, am only gvn u my opinion cus I hv a younger bro lyk u nd if I should get 2 know dat he is tinkn about marriage it will b a No No from me. I know am not d one going into it, but marriage is a life tym stuff nd not relationship |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by manikspears: 12:22pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
fancy4eve: never,the boy can't be from yorubaland,his issue would't have gotten to this level..................by the time his yoruba mum gives him a resounding slap he will go back to factory settings ,dont test yoruba mums o,they can make you question who your actual parents are.they were the ones who composed "nobody test me" for MI 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Safiaa(f): 12:24pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:I think I know who you are. But I will just watch you and observe Lool. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Beey(f): 12:25pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1:if you read that post, there were question marks used for a reason, it was meant to be questions because I don't know you.What caught my attention was you saying your fiancée is rich & she'll be footing 80% of the wedding bills.So I wondered, what will you be taking care of.Now that you clarified you are financially stable, it's your wedding too.What will you be doing while she pays 80%.But you obviously didn't like this.Paul okoye & Lola have a 6 year age difference.She's older.At the end of the day it's between the 2 of you.Sounds like you've been living together already so you know each other to a good extent. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by khiaa(f): 12:28pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: What's funny is the girls seek what you have in your woman in men, yet they call you a gold digger, the men call you a gold digger yet they wish they had a woman who loved them and is rich like yours. It's all about envy, jealousy, and hypocrisy. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by 2day6(m): 12:31pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1:your name said it all the upset girl. uno get sense at all. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by khiaa(f): 12:31pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: You can read my topics and know that I am in the USA, I'm not Nigerian though. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by Amarabae(f): 12:32pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
"she is rich, the house we are living belong to her, she has provided 80% things for the marriage, She has spent on me a lot, I can't afford to leave her " You sound like a gold digger who is after her money . Tomorrow you guys will be calling ladies gold diggers. You may go on with the marriage but if you want to enjoy it, get a job and start paying your bills. I know why I am telling you this. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by ladyverere(f): 12:39pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
FromZeroToHero: Utter lies. My Mum's friend is older than her husband with almost 10 years but you won't know looking at them. The man is late 60s now the woman is in her 70s but she is so feisty looking. She has always been beautiful. So it depends on genes, how she takes care of herself, her health inclusive and the kind of man she is married to. Nigerians with our of date mentality. President Macon of France married his primary school teacher and today she is his first lady. Listen Op the ball is in your court. You aren't going to be married to your mother but to someone else. You may meet another lady if you are foolish enough to leave your fiancé but mark my words, you will never meet another who would love you completely the way your fiancé does. Explain to your Mum and if she refused to give her blessings then go ahead. You are now an adult. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by slywind2000: 12:41pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Arondizuogu: love you mean? |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by unusualfavour: 12:56pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
manikspears:Bro, this is "matters of the heart" if you can't drop an honest opinion (stating the pros and cons) why not let it slide. As you can see, he is troubled which is why he asked for help and you are making it worse. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by VictorRomanov: 12:57pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
prechbills1: Did I say you re poor? Your emphasizes was more on the ladies wealth and she's gonna sponsor 80% of the wedding. Saying you re inexperienced is not an insult. At 24 I believe you know little about life and women. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by VictorRomanov: 1:07pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Comprehension is a serious problem. I believe you as a lady should be in a better position to advice him. It's no a mentality issue. It's the reality. We live in a society where the idea is for a man to provide for his family and somehow, this idea has spread across everyone one living in this society. If a woman is the bread winner of a family because of change in the husband's circumstances, eg: loss of job, accident etc, that's understandable. But if a capable man who is able lets his wife become the bread winner of the family he should be ready to let her make the decision he is suppose to make. It is just natural. Someone cannot be feeding you and you'll be telling the person what to do. It's not done. I am only telling him so he knows what he's getting into. I never said it was wrong for him to marry an older and richer woman. Every decision has consequences. He should be aware of the consequences when he's deciding. 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 1:09pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
lalasticlala delete this thread. |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 1:11pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
fpeter: shame on you too to admit that you can move into your husband's house. you better go and work hard and drop this mentality. men deserve to be pampered |
Re: My Mom Doesn't Want Me To Marry My Fiancee Because She's 5 Years Older Than Me by prechbills1(m): 1:11pm On Apr 12, 2018 |
victorian: you don't know what you're talking about |
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