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Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by X0012(m): 10:32pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Na was oh TheArchangel: |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by ruzell86: 10:37pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
@saucecode, is this really your moniker on these posted screen shots? Pls, you need to disclaim it. Lol I'm yet to believe it though, with all your vituperations against this person? You guys almost derailed the thread. 11 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Auladimeji(m): 10:43pm On Apr 10, 2020 |
Those ladies abusing and opening each others secret,please keep it coming. I'm jobless thus,I'll read everything ![]() |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Nobody: 12:11am On Apr 11, 2020 |
cococandy: Asin, I can't stress this enough. I don't like people depending on me neither do i like depending on people. Same reason i never support a woman abandoning her financial comfort zone / job because of love. I can't be begging for what i should be able to afford on a regular day. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Nobody: 12:15am On Apr 11, 2020 |
frozen70: People underestimate feeding expenses, but that's like the core area where you lose money without traces. Atleast I know what is spent on rent and school fees, i can bet that most families cannot adequately account for how much they spend for feeding. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by foreveryoung1515(f): 1:30am On Apr 11, 2020 |
teach her how to be prudent. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Sixfeetbelle: 2:00am On Apr 11, 2020 |
freecocoahubby: For you to drag someone's diary out when in an argument shows how uncouth you are. You have stooped lower than dignity can save you. 9 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Sixfeetbelle: 2:07am On Apr 11, 2020 |
OchoL: They aren't. In page 1, he fired back at another lady by dragging her diary post here. Diary section that isn't accessible to guests was now made accessible because of his crassless comment here. Mtcheww. I can bet that's why he was banned. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by pocohantas(f): 3:43am On Apr 11, 2020 |
The fact that someone is not suffering or as ugly as you want, automatically translates to being FAKE. If you had so much going on in your life, OFFLINE, you wouldn’t have so much time and zeal to keep up with the lives of others ONLINE. What I find amusing is the fact that, it is mostly guys doing this. 99% of angry/vindictive NL trolls are males. Yet we keep hearing how females are their own enemies? Ain’t falling for that shît. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by pocohantas(f): 3:53am On Apr 11, 2020 |
To the OP, wasteful is indeed relative, but when someone uses money meant for the family to fund her own personal lifestyle- then it is a problem. We can say “talk to her”, but I like to think you have talked to her. Maybe you should consider not leaving such money with her. Outsource the shopping to someone else. Does she work? Maybe she doesn’t understand what it takes to earn some money. I remember my former boss would look at me some days and say, “Take your salary, divide it by 21 working days and ask yourself- have you earned today’s wage?” It sounded harsh at first, subsequently it was funny. My teammates and I started using it to tease ourselves. However, I did take my salary, divided it by 21 working days and I realized the organization is trying for me. I have to try for them too. I also realized that when I dash someone 2k, I have given the person my 1day salary. I also realized, if I decide to go buy FentyBeauty foundation, it would cost almost my 2wks salary. I had to spend wisely, not impulsively. That is what working should do to you (if you have sense). It shouldn’t make you undermine your man’s spending habit. It should make you appreciate it and know what fraction of his salary you were using to buy irrelevancies. ...But If you don’t have sense, life would handle you. Last last, life would handle your wife if she refuses to learn the basic act of frugality. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Ishilove: 5:08am On Apr 11, 2020 |
'Interesting' thread. Y'all take Nairaland too seriously. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Ishilove: 5:09am On Apr 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:Kponkwem! 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by frozen70(f): 5:20am On Apr 11, 2020 |
truthsayer009: Yes, that's why if you have a wife that is not prudent or economical, let her take feeding let the man take the rest Give her one month, food will no longer waste |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by ednut1(m): 5:25am On Apr 11, 2020 |
U didn't date or what |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by apotek: 6:30am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Ishilove: Hmmm..hmmm..hmmmm... |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Veryfoolishboy: 7:06am On Apr 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:oh baby baybeiy. My love Someone said you are doing giveaway |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by HarunaWest(m): 7:13am On Apr 11, 2020 |
MariaAngeles:Shut Up mine isn't wasteful..Some women are just wasteful period. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by terrezo2002(m): 7:28am On Apr 11, 2020 |
merieam16:Don't say this to your husband. It is a dangerous statement. For the fact money is in abundance doesn't mean you should spend anyhow 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Arsenate(m): 7:38am On Apr 11, 2020 |
ericsmith:Poco is really not as smart as she or her fans think she is. She writes some stuffs and I'll be like "bleeehhhhh" ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by FromZeroToHero(m): 8:15am On Apr 11, 2020 |
My brother it depends on her upbringing. I once have a neighbour that the entire family don't eat left over if they cook moi moi on Saturday and maybe it remains 3 pieces. Instead of putting it in fridge or warm it they will throw it away. So if you marry a girl from such home it will be difficult for her to adjust. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by femi4: 8:35am On Apr 11, 2020 |
samworthyever:Give her money per week, if she misuse it, nothing for her till the following week Ensure that she make a list of what she ll be doing with money every week |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by pocohantas(f): 8:48am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Why would any sensible person decide to troll me or anyone at that? You wanna lose your e-peace and moniker? I wasn’t joking when I said I am Kwin. Stay your lane... 14 Likes
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Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by SocialJustice: 8:50am On Apr 11, 2020 |
samworthyever:I'm sure you saw the signs but you still went ahead to marry her. Don't disturb people's peace abeg. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by Omoluabi16(m): 8:56am On Apr 11, 2020 |
SocialJustice:loool. na was for you |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by SocialJustice: 9:00am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Omoluabi16:But it's true, he should go sort himself out. |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by AFONAMARO: 9:03am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Vyolet: Hello Her Royal Majesty, the Queen of England. What exactly would you be buying monthly with ₦50,000? You guys talk like we're not living in the same country 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by joinnow: 9:14am On Apr 11, 2020 |
samworthyever:Buy Total woman hard copy Read one chapter to her every night and when you get to the part that emphasis need,want and budget use highlighter highlight ..... 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by joinnow: 9:17am On Apr 11, 2020 |
Cococandy How are you people coping over there? |
Re: How Do I Handle A Wife That Is Wasteful. by cococandy(f): 9:22am On Apr 11, 2020 |
![]() Or is it my dependent housewife status (which is not a bad thing BTW) but I’m also working menial jobs.I can’t keep up. That one will stalk himself into a premature heart attack. I rarely come across NL ladies who are bitter on such personal level towards another person even if it’s towards the guys. They focus on the topic and hash it out. only a handful of ladies display such behavior. ![]() pocohantas: 11 Likes |
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