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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by shedy03(m): 1:26pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?
How should u go about what?
Shey the dedication is done, dey your own joor.
Let her go find d money to spend on neighbors.
God bless the child u dedicated.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by cray91(m): 1:26pm On May 11, 2020
Bros You Have Tried your best! don't kill yourself cuz of any woman! your child should be priority and even God in heaven sees if you had more you would do more than that
Don't even let any woman press you down cuz they don't think with their head
they hardly bring to the table and still wanna be calling shots
i repeat " don't kill your self for any woman" they don't deserve it
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by topstone4: 1:27pm On May 11, 2020
Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

Apologizing will only make her take him for granted again and again. A man should know when to put his foot on the ground

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by FirstbornWds: 1:27pm On May 11, 2020
DortmundGirl:
Naming ceremony is not like wedding. She should pay for it if she wants it to be a big event

Even weddings aren't meant to be done lavishly. The people coming to eat and drink won't be there to pay the bills after D-day? You spend according to a reasonable budget, regardless of the course.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Evercurious(f): 1:29pm On May 11, 2020
Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...


Op, DON'T EVER TRY THIS. DON'T COS SHE LL TROUBLE YOU WHEN ANOTHER OCCASION ARISES. ARE YOU READY TO START WHAT YOU CANT CONTINUE? TELL HER TO ADD HER OWN MONEY TO MAKE IT WHAT SHE WANTS AND MAKE SURE YOU WATCH HER CLOSELY ESPECIALLY HER FRIENDS. RUBBISH

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Ekakamba: 1:29pm On May 11, 2020
Bola146:
Tell her to use her own money too, why is she angry if she couldn't provide to celebrate her own baby sad Just be watching her

One African Special for you.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Karleb(m): 1:30pm On May 11, 2020
This kind of things shouldn't come online.


It normal. Let her vex. She'll come around last last.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Kingrefreshed: 1:31pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?


Borrow money from her next time.

Me and you know youre not paying it back.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by wonder233: 1:31pm On May 11, 2020
She should go and kill herself
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by chaloskyx: 1:31pm On May 11, 2020
why are you bothered you made the right decision by cutting costs for the dedication in light of the current economic meltdown. However, what you should be worried about if that you probably married a woman who might wreck you financially, as she is the type that is more worried about what people would say than your own personal convictions.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Inferno001(m): 1:32pm On May 11, 2020
topstone4:


Apologizing will only make her take him for granted again and again. A man should know when to put his foot on the ground
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Bro there are subtle ways to achieve same result you just said...i run a home and I know how tasking it is for we men but not everything needs to be done with anger..him not exceeding his budget already implied putting his foot down..all I'm saying is con her into understanding and making peace bro...wisdom is profitable to direct...cheers
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by agentzico: 1:32pm On May 11, 2020
Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

please OP listen to this. Any contrary view is recipe for civil war. Biko!

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Suzie1(f): 1:33pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.


How should I go about this matter please?

This is strange. Are you really worried about this or you're afraid of the woman you married?

What else is the meaning of marriage again if the married can't solve little misunderstanding between themselves instead of coming online.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by PrimadonnaO(f): 1:33pm On May 11, 2020
Lol. Party people.

Shey child dedication is supposed to be between the couple, their baby, the church ministers and God... stating that you’ve brought your child before God to fulfill His divine purpose.

Must there be a party for everything?

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by eyinjuege: 1:33pm On May 11, 2020
It is what it is.
You did the right thing by not overstepping your boundary.
It's too late to change anything now anyway, so just let her know this.
Perhaps you can throw a proper 1 year birthday party, if you're buoyant enough.
Tell her to start savinng towards that too, so you can both pull resources together to do a party for your child.
Don't bother to do one if you can't afford it or if she can't also afford it.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by nath34(m): 1:34pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?
Promise her the next Child dedication party will be better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X2i0PdttvU4
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by TOPCRUISE(m): 1:34pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?
If you spend much and cash runs out will she spare you of insult? Infact that is when you will hear the mother of all insults.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by GboyegaD(m): 1:35pm On May 11, 2020
GreatResearcher1:
stfu. nothing to sit an old cargo down for. op should file for divorce. that hoe is a beast

On top another person matter? Don't bring your frustrations to fore in other people's matters.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Evercurious(f): 1:36pm On May 11, 2020
janedonez:

Sit her ass down and explain to her that this period calls for prudent spending unless she is ready to live with a man is will be a chronic debtor.
Child dedication isn't the last in celebrations in a family. More are to come, so celebrations are likely to follow


Woman wey don born pikin, naa small pikin she be? No be she suppose to dey make sure say her husband no spend unnecessarily for this period. Sit her down ,my ass..

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Wickedtruths: 1:36pm On May 11, 2020
Inferno001:
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Bro I'm not saying he did wrong by spending within his budget... See ehn this Is a win win for him because party is over and he didn't exceed his budget now the second win will be to make her feel she's right and pet her into understanding your situation...him also getting angry won't make the home peaceful o...sometimes we need to stoop to conquer and making her feel she's right, he wins both ways

You are a very weak man and people must be riding roughshod on you. Not everyone is destined to suffer that. He has absolutely nothing to apologise for. Is it wrong not to waste money? Let her do her worst. Apologise for not wasting money on mere celebration? Your advice is a foolish one.

No wonder you were complaining about men being an endangered specie. You are very weak with poor judgment.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by MansoryMX(m): 1:36pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Nor answer ooo, make she vex if she wan vex. Tomorrow when money nor dey to buy baby food na she go first open mouth insult you..

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Kalusam(m): 1:37pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

My dear brother, I am not a prophet of doom but the current situation things are not going to be easy on people generally so this is a time to have more food as that is the most important thing needed to survive. At a time when many people are not been paid salaries and others are losing their jobs, one need to spend wisely. You don't need to explain further show her your account balance let her see for herself, it is difficult for some people to be convinced one doesn't have...spend wisely this period o, so that the same people you spend for will not come later and call you a fool that cannot manage money well.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Nobody: 1:38pm On May 11, 2020
Bola146:
Tell her to use her own money too, why is she angry if she couldn't provide to celebrate her own baby sad Just be watching her
You are welcome to brotherhood.
We love you cool

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by mohammibb: 1:39pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?
nothing to say, sebi you have done the dedication, she will get over.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Breadfruit: 1:39pm On May 11, 2020
You cannot make your wife see reason with you. But you can put your penis into her vagina and discharge. Well done. When Nairaland angry children destroy your home, you will learn.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by yommen: 1:40pm On May 11, 2020
Bola146:
Tell her to use her own money too, why is she angry if she couldn't provide to celebrate her own baby sad Just be watching her

Imagine! How some people (not only women joorr) think ehnn.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by lilyheaven: 1:41pm On May 11, 2020
I can't believe this, she needs a slap to reset her brain, ,this lockdown is affecting her psychologically.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by ishitinyourmouf: 1:41pm On May 11, 2020
u converted an olosho to a wife. now face it
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by mainstreets(m): 1:41pm On May 11, 2020
Why are some women like this? When we did our baby dedication, we had no reception for guest. My small family unit had our normal lunch at home after the service. We were very happy.
Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by GAZZUZZ(m): 1:41pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Uncle you don't have any problem.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by Evercurious(f): 1:42pm On May 11, 2020
Inferno001:
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You're right about him not accepting her excesses and I think my first line suggested that...what I was trying to say up there is him finding peace after the naming and not slating him for following his budget...now the naming is done, she's upset and the reasonable thing to do is find peace...don't advice a man to ignore his wife when you don't stay in his house or know how they live....

It's not about ignoring her. Why give her high hopes when you know it isn't realistic? Why?
Oga that woman isnt meant to be a kid. So she she be treated as such.

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Re: Child Dedication Online: My Wife Is Angry I Didn't Spend More by frozen70(f): 1:42pm On May 11, 2020
rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

I hate it when someone that doesn't contribute to the family yet doesn't appreciate one's efforts

If you wife is a house wife, start thinking of what she can do to contribute after nursing her baby so that she will feel the pinches of running a home

And if she is already working, let her take some decisions because she will get a bigger share of the cost involved

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