THX jare (sbc)!

No, its not a joke and i'm obviously looking for someone who actually knows what i'm talking about (was raised by a single mom).

Is is the likelyhood that a senior might find love again or that i'm getting invoved that might be funny?

PUHLEAZE,
my fingers are still crossed for, something good!

possibly he might be to blame but, he's the one who's here for help.

Besides, he's got a tonn of advice already to help him out if he's the one with issues.

Males, right from childhood are forced trained to be made of stone.

"stop crying, its just a toy. Be a big boy now, like your Daddy"
NOTE- Junior has never seen Daddy cry. Mummy on the other hand cries when watchin a movie, when she's saying goodbye to him on the way to summercamp, when the potatoes are burnt black,

"why are u cuddling the teddy bear? that belongs to ur sis, urs is the wailing fire engine"
NOTE- Sis becomes able to deal with caring and sharing by playing with a life-like toy with whom she has imaginary convrstaions and the begginings of a r/shp. Boy drives his car repeatedly into a wall ( like most r/tshps l8r in life)!

Men are consequently brutish and non-communicational; not becos they want to but, we never cried or had emotional cars.

Its a wonder a few dudes get it right, cos i'm still stuck at the shiny, new fire engine phase.

Candidly, i'm surprised i coulnd't find anyone saying the Brotha should simply ask the wife if she's happy. Its a tough thing to say to the father of your children but it might be easier for her to open up if he asks her after a quiet day together of saying nothing perhaps.
A relationship is supposed to be two ppl working together to keep each other happy! She should work as hard as it seems you're willing to.
Not to water down the value of prayers but, hands on, grime-under-the-nails work is needed here andd not really a 7 day fast.

if she says she's happy, tell her your're not. And if she's not really interested in working with you through it, then maybe she needs a break- a short holiday from the whole 'family'.

A frustrated life together just doesn't seem worth it to me.

Previous posts take me time to compose trying to avoid all typographical errors but I'm doing this straight out cos its that important!

My mum is over 50 and she's been seperated from my Dad since forever (about 15 years). She's not waiting for him to come back.
"We can only be good friends if he ever comes back into our lives"
That's what she says, when i tease her about it.

I'm 26 with an older sister whose 28 so we're both independent.

This dream guy is supposed to be responsible, well-to-do; not because of financial responsibilities to my side of the family but he shouldn't expect to be carried financially either. ( i.e - NO YAHOO GRANDPA's)
He simply must be a firm beliving christian, at over 50, he should have his faith figured out, right?
Divorcee, Widower; it doesn't matter as long as he's got both feet on the ground.
Its safer if he's without baggage like ex-wives and baby mama's and concubines and secret brothels, Please be sorted out with a real desire to spend quiet days with a lovely woman.

Before y'all ask, She/ my mum doesn't know about this so we're gonna have to cross that bridge when we get there.

Why am i doing this? Cos i dont want her alone anymore, cos i know how it feels to be alone and even though she says she's alright- i doubt that's true deep down.


So if your father's Mr. Right (no Mr. Right now's), or if you're The One drop a post- lets see if there's hope for Seniors Searching[color=#000099][/color].

bn followin d thred bt 1st post!

im 23, hottt dude and NEVA bn in a serious rltnshp, no questns on sex tho!

caffei, whteva, ure a smart guy- let it come 2 u naturally(dating i mean) then find another thread to talk abt other stuff on ur mind!