I would advise you call the wedding off. These are signs dat he is getting tired of you already. Mine is just like yours.I meet a guy sometimes in June last year startd dating in July,got engaged in December.Relationship ended in May. Before we startd dating he saw it dat I didn’t ve a flat stomach,he cared less.Afterwards it became an issue.He wanted me 2 do exercises and all dat.I was too lazy to kip it up.He started having flat bellied ladies as temptatn.I neva felt comfortable with my self afterwards.I tot I was ugly in his eyes as he hardly complimented me.Since I could not cope with the exercises and some other flimsy excuses,our months relationship with both families involved crashed like a pile of cards.

The fact is,if u go ahead with marrying him,u will always feel less than ur self.Marriage is being ones self dou with another person.Wait and u will see sm1 dat will appreciate u 4 every good,bad and ugly dat u re.

i do not know much but i know i love you- by lionel riche

he never believed me,tot i was too childish 4 me,didnt see me as submissive and all dat.was really tough bt in all life goes on

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Pls wats d address for the dragnet.cos i cant seem to be able to open it.thanks

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lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Fellow,nairalander,i wrote the Operator maintanance Technician (OMT) OF CHEVRON in febuary and i am yet to recieve notification for the 2nd stage,Has any one in d house been callled. Kindly reply me via my personal email usher2yor@yahoo.com

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wat if d ugly girl is pretending,and d beautiful one is jst herself.if u marry d ugly one and found she is a pretender you will be loosin in both ends.i will advise u talk d creator(God) about this before makin ur choice.good luck brother.

Nothin is accidental under the sun

a girl who beats up her mother wuld surely be beaten by the chilfren,wen se grows old,dats 4 sure.

D best 2 b is 2 b frugal.i ve always liked pple that kw how to manage resorces.Im like that too.Always countin my gains before undertakin any project.PPLe like us neva get broke.instead we serve as savin grace to others especially in our places of work.so its gd.keep it up all nairalanders with this kind of spirit.These days our type is really rare.

if she is now born again and she truly loves this new guy who knows her story and still loves her
i would adise her to stick with him and go ahead with the marriage
this can only b done if her first boy friend is not born again and is not willing to
but as it is right now,
if she still loves him (d former guy) and is willing to go back she can go back and tel him to formallise their marriage
she shouldnt go back because of the children


being pregnant for someone is NOT a yardstick to marry the person.

At 14? Go grab your maths textbooks and worry about algebra.

Solve the following questions if u have nothing to do - https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-123534.0.html

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lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

more guys than chicks.cos most girls believe life ends in their husbands homes ad as such really dnt want to aspire too high.cld b anoring at times wen u re in d misdst of girls and all dey discuss is guys ,guys, gosh.



Abeg i prefer d males company.

@ almondjoy, when I read your write up I was . It's like u were describing my husband and myself to a 'T' . My friend just left my room a few mins ago after eating the food my hubby cooked for me and she was amazed at how good the food was. I hardly cook and he cooks like 98.9% of the time and enjoys doing it. He also serves me breakfast in bed. A 'casual' chauvinist friend of his (that once asked me out before I met my husband) that once came to our house was so 'shocked' that my hubby does the cooking that I thought the guy was gunna have a panic attack. Finally he was like ''wow, 'A' really loves u oo''. Honestly, its really weird. Please don't tell me your husband's first name also starts with an A and ends with E cause I'd be so spooked out that I'll just . . . . . .

@ topic, He is the master of surprise. He surprises me in the loveliest ways e.g he picked me up from school on the weekend and when we got home he was like "Babe, I heard you last week when you said u wanted to eat 'this' so I made it for you". At times I shed tears of joy when I see how much he does to make me very happy and satisfied. He's very open to me, very sincere and honest. Its touching the way he's very generous and kindhearted. He's been so good to my family. He's so forgiving and selfless. The way he babys me so much. I can't remember the last time I cut my nail myself or applied my nail polish myself cause he does them for me. If he sees me combing my hair he'd be like "Sweetie come here let me comb it for u" . The way he calls me when we're apart or send me lovely texts. The way he always shows me love irrespective of the person/people around. The way he admits when he's wrong and apologizes. He is very understanding and patient- he knows am still very young and that am still learning. The way he takes wonderful care of me and looks out for me. The way he calms me down. His jokes- some of them can be corny at times and the way he laughs while telling them makes them even funnier . The way he calls me so many sweet names and not just one. He's cute and has the sexiest eyes I've ever seen.

How could I forget how happy he was when finally, he was ' 100% sure' that I was his. I'd never seen him that happy before. He was sooooo happy and danced so much. Everyone was 'infected' with his happiness. He laughed and said, "now, your family can't tell me to give them back their daughter cause ure mine forever. Obim, I'll always love and cherish you till I die and I mean it from the depth of my heart. Its a vow Ive taken before my God and in my heart. Please never forget that cause I never will". He smiled but I was busy crying, tears of joy that is . He was really sweet while we were dating but now his love for me gets deeper and sweeter day by day. E.t.c. Oh, and the way he makes love to me or when we eff. . . . total bliss. I totally love it. So nutritious, enriching and satisfying . Also, I love doing my best for him cause he deserves it. I baby him a lot too and the very few times I cook, I make sure the food is mucho delicioso. I look up recipes on the internet and surprise him with the food. Am so happy that I know he loves me cause though friends and family tell me that, I already know so deep down in my heart cause he not only tells me he loves me, but he also shows me deep and sincere love.There's no doubt that he's the best in the whole wide world. I'll forever bless God for giving me a man like him .

Whew!, I know its very long but I can't help it . Enjoy.

i hope i get a man like yours to marry.im happy 4 u.

I see it as a nice thread cos so many pple fall victims.Scripturally abortion is bad(murder) no matter the condition one finds herself financially or otherwise,pls know that abortion is not a way out.Joyfully carry d foetus until delivery,learn from the mistake and look unto God for sustanace and care.Naturally it is not easy bt it is achievable.

na true lalk.

I have neva read it anywhere dat there is a laid down rule for proposing.It could be through any medium.The bottomline is dat Love exist between d two of them.Ur Friend would not have reacted in that manner.abi she nor know say husbands scarce