CFCfan:
GBAM! You couldn't have said it better.
14 'Likes' for your comment.

kandiikane: Anyhoo.....


*brings in blanket and a pot of icecream.


Where do I sit?

biolabee:

This your food fetish..... and u are a slimmie o

realking: PLS DONT BE OFFENDED. I REALY NEED A MATURED LADY TO MARRY. HV TO PUT JOB SECURITY AS A CONDITION because OF MY MEAGER SALARY. AM IGBO BY TRIBE, 29YRS, LIVES IN ABUJA BUT PRESENTLY IN MINNA. PLS 27 TO 33YRS AND GOD FEARING WOMAN IS WHAT I NEED.

carmelion:

Are you for real?Like seriously? Smh. Please, we do.

carmelion:

^^^Guys are usually guilty of this,they follow you bumper to bumper like their life depends on you. All of a sudden they stop calling,leaving you in the dark,wondering what went wrong.

ichidodo: Chai. This thread is something,though i have not been uncharitable wit any lady i have met but i must confess that my perception of what do ladies really want from us has been myopic to mention a few. I want contribute my quota for a saner society, so from now on i am goin to be a Good boi also spread the word to my colleagues at work and watering hole (local bar). A journey of a thousand miles start from single footstep. Again wonderful insights from Daily news (big big fan) and carmillion (secret admirer).

DailyNews: pls n pls, if u know u dnt want a girl for good, that u just want to satisfy ur randy mood or u just want sex, pls dnt deceive d girl,

DailyNews: Come on guys grow up, sex is nothing if u groom urself well to understand that sex is in fact, nonesense that tarnishes conscience, religion aside, how do u feel after sex? Most guys confess that they feel guilty, empty, angry, rejected, and so many other negative feelings, so y indulge it so randomly with no justifiable reason

nbright: To those ladies that keep saying that they want to futher their education, want to be financially independent, etc etc... What is wrong if u continue ur schooling from ur husband's house?... My elder sis did the same thing, she has 4 kids (2 boys & 2 girls).. And she's not even up to 35yrs old... When she had a misunderstanding with her husband and she came to our family house, the husband drove down that night to our house to plead... She started with him when he was in a single room, she wash the toilet when it's their turn (it's a compound house)... This is very important to the ladies, yes it's good to be humble, but still use this Bible passage that I love to quote Be ye wise as a serpent and as gentle as a dove ... It shall be well with us...

eimuhb:

Because It won't be easy working, schooling, doing chores and taking care of the children. It's either you get a maid (not forgetting the fear of being impregnated by your husband if the maid na girl) or you plead on your husband to help you out with chores (and if the demand should increase, he will tell you you're leaving your responsibility and start keeping late night) or lastly you not working (then your husband might nag about you not contributing to the welfare of the house and threatens you to stop your schooling).
Sefini.....

Maya2pretty: D 1st reason that makes we women desire a relationship is companionship, no matter d money we acquire, d heights we attain, d children we have, we still need that man that'l look at us wit deep admiration, that we'l run 2 when we r sad, angry and even excited, what of d lonely cold nights (like dis one) being single is depressin sometimes, it hurts when there's no one u have an intimate attachment to, emotionally, physically, psychologically, mentally and what have u. It hurts, alot, sometimes

nbright: I find that HARD to believe @bolded

Maya2pretty: it's ur fundamental human right to believe whatever u want to believe, it's funny how guys feel they understand women better than d women themselves, do u think single female billionaires r happy bein single, y do we have d cases of sugar mummy and sugar son so rampant in our society? no offense but I cant even start to argue, am not in d mood now

Maya2pretty: It's traumatizin to me when I feel so single and alone, yet there r alot of guys flockin around me, d one dat wants relationship, d one dat wants marriage and even d one that wants a fling, few seem very suitable but there's no connection wit anyone, no spark anywhere, no feelin developin, dat passionate feelin is not comin at all, I wonder what my soul mate is doin that he hasn't found me yet

Maya2pretty: I wonder what my soul mate is doin that he hasn't found me yet

nbright: and ladies also feel they understand guys more than the guys themselves too.... They always think any guy that talk to them wants sex... U assume wrongly about us and u expect us not to return that favour?...

Maya2pretty: It's traumatizin to me when I feel so single and alone, yet there r alot of guys flockin around me, d one dat wants relationship, d one dat wants marriage and even d one that wants a fling, few seem very suitable but there's no connection wit anyone, no spark anywhere, no feelin developin, dat passionate feelin is not comin at all, I wonder what my soul mate is doin that he hasn't found me yet

nbright: My mum took care of the kids for her while she was schooling, though she do visits on weekends, if he threatened to stop ur schooling, ur dad is there to help out, ur dad can then talk to him as an in-law.. I addresses this late night issue last cos some women are funny... My sis major complain is that once the husband closes from work, he comes straight home, the husband doesn2 drink neither does he smokes...

nbright: We all have different destinies (so they say), maybe urs is to toaste the guy... Just give it a try... Don't go all out, just drop subtle hints now and then... I watched 24 yesterday (season 2).. Michelle kinda asked Tony out but in a cool manner... BUT WHY CAN'T NAIJA GIRLS ASK GUYS OUT SEF ...

nbright: and ladies also feel they understand guys more than the guys themselves too.... They always think any guy that talk to them wants sex... U assume wrongly about us and u expect us not to return that favour?...