Guitarlife, I'm really disappointed,honestly speaking.

U fall my hand very well.

So assuming jidegal didn't tell u to close this thread, u will still be ranting?

Jidegal thank u.
At least what an adult sees sitting down small children will not see while standing.

Try and cultivate the act of acting the man in a situation.
U r yet to enter into serious relationship. U will meet challenges. The only thing that will differentiate u from boys is how u handle ur challenges.
U will marry and hv kids. That too is complicated.
If u can't briddle ur mouth in a non issue like this, I wonder wha u will do when u become a husband.
Run ur wife down at any giving opportunity?
Invite outsiders?

Like I told u earlier, u are starting off on a bad foundation.
Still,its ur life.

Make I comment before una close the thread .

Guitarlife: Thank you for schooling me Thank you for schooling me

Keep coming with the wise cracks mate. Keep blaming everybody in the world for your problems except yourself.
Your girl is a gem,such a pity you don't know the value.

Dantedasz:

Keep coming with the wise cracks mate. Keep blaming everybody in the world for your problems except yourself.
Your girl is a gem,such a pity you don't know the value.

Hey pal, Top of the morning to you. I have noted your point so stop being so unfriendly. Haba ! You nor know me before nah. Thanks for your time and priceless advice .
Have a great week ahead.

Dantedasz:

Keep coming with the wise cracks mate. Keep blaming everybody in the world for your problems except yourself.
Your girl is a gem,such a pity you don't know the value.

dont mind him.i hope d girl finds someone better.he already has this wrong orientation about girls.

Dantedasz:

Keep coming with the wise cracks mate. Keep blaming everybody in the world for your problems except yourself.
Your girl is a gem,such a pity you don't know the value.

Priceless gem indeed! Is he her father? He foots outing bills, buys gifts and yet you still expect he greases your palm with crispy Naira notes! Aha! olojukokoro omo. And when he politely says no, she attempts to pull an emotional Houdini on him.

Nigerian logic: If he buys me asho-ebi, gives me pocket money, ergo he loves me. Disgusting leech!

There is nothing wrong is geting others perspective at least they are not married


Meanwhile guitarlife what is your conclusion

Don't let anybody intimidate you jaawe

Those calling you stingy are the same ones that will turn back and say women are equal to men - so why should the lady be leeching off you

You've gotten some good advice but it seems you want to play to the gallery and be seen as the pliant good guy

Yes it is true that girls collect stipends monthly from their aristos.. I have friends who did the same and guess what they did not marry.

Don't make this girl make you lose focus

Na today

^^Exactly...this girls will come out and start shouting "gender equality" but they are the one depending on men, reading ladies little girls comments calling the op stingy...shame on nigerian girls...is the op the girl father? That he will buy asho ebi for her? For goodness sake they are NOT even married yet talkless of knowing both of their parents(introduction) ...let's say the op gave her asho ebi money what support is she doing for the guy?

^^^^

Hahahaha.... bros na so we see am

olu_kenzo :


Priceless gem indeed! Is he her father? He foots outing bills, buys gifts and yet you still expect he greases your palm with crispy Naira notes! Aha! olojukokoro omo. And when he politely says no, she attempts to pull an emotional Houdini on him.

Nigerian logic: If he buys me asho-ebi, gives me pocket money, ergo he loves me. Disgusting leech!

Good,but the question is -Why has the OP deleted all his initial posts INCLUDING the title of the thread if he truely and sincerely believes what you guys are saying?

Dantedasz:

Good,but the question is -Why has the OP deleted all his initial posts INCLUDING the title of the thread if he truely and sincerely believes what you guys are saying?

Hey bro, I told you this was not supposed to be on front page. I had no choice but to delete sensitive comments out of respect for my babe don't you get it?
@biola I have made up my mind on what to do. Its unfortunate most people see this as trivial but I have met a few on here who have helped me to assess the situation from a balanced point of view.

Guitarlife: Hey bro, I told you this was not supposed to be on front page. I had no choice but to delete sensitive comments out of respect for my babe don't you get it?
@biola I have made up my mind on what to do. Its unfortunate most people see this as trivial but I have met a few on here who have helped me to assess the situation from a balanced point of view.

So you sincerely think the best way to respect 'your babe' is to table her case on a public forum that has over one million members?
A situation in which you could have called her aside and explained your dislikes of her monetary demands on you.
I am learning a lot about modern day relationships from you man.
If you have an issue with 'your babe' the solution is to table the matter on the social media so that she gets shagged by every Tom, Deak and young Harry. Brilliant!

Dantedasz:

So you sincerely think the best way to respect 'your babe' is to table her case on a public forum that has over one million members?
A situation in which you could have called her aside and explained your dislikes of her monetary demands on you.
I am learning a lot about modern day relationships from you man.
If you have an issue with 'your babe' the solution is to table the matter on the social media so that she gets shagged by every Tom, Deak and young Harry. Brilliant!

This is your opinion and I respect. So can you try to respect mine ? The circumstances surrounding each person is peculiar. I do not have to justify my decision to you which I am not but I just wanna help you understand that we are not all the same and whatever works for you may not work for me. Whatever you think is right I might consider despicable so let's learn to respect other peoples differing opinion and decison which in this case is my resolve to table this on a public forum.

Guitarlife: Hey bro, I told you this was not supposed to be on front page. I had no choice but to delete sensitive comments out of respect for my babe don't you get it?
@biola I have made up my mind on what to do. Its unfortunate most people see this as trivial but I have met a few on here who have helped me to assess the situation from a balanced point of view.

Its not a trivial matter bro believe me.. I was where you are a coupla years back ..so I know how u feel

Good u have a way forward,, dont be intimidated

;Dewooooo.

Continues eating my fufu and afang soup.

Guitarlife: This is your opinion and I respect. So can you try to respect mine ? The circumstances surrounding each person is peculiar. I do not have to justify my decision to you which I am not but I just wanna help you understand that we are not all the same and whatever works for you may not work for me. Whatever you think is right I might consider despicable so let's learn to respect other peoples differing opinion and decison which in this case is my resolve to table this on a public forum.

Good man, I respect your right to table this in the court of public opinion. Its your right,but you got to understand that once you come public with your issues,you have also lost the right to choose the kind of responses you will recieve.
I bet if we invite 'your babe' to the forum to give her own side of this matter-the tori go change and develop k leg.
All this whinning over these minute sums of money are because you are still a student,take it from me in a few years when you are standing on your own two feet you will look back to this incident and laugh it off as a learning curve. Trust me.

I have been following this thread,and i asked myself what your girl saw in you,is she dating because of your masters programme?because you have nothing upstairs.imagine your girl asking for the CHEAPEST shoe in naija.2k shoe?for where dem dey sell shoe for adult 2k,yet guitar for wetin still brought her conversion here and no one saw anything wrong in it.i wish i knew her in person.kai

Mrs mansson: I have been following this thread,and i asked myself what your girl saw in you,is she dating because of your masters programme?because you have nothing upstairsmimagine your girl asking for the CHEAPEST shoe in naija.2k shoe?for where dem dey sell shoe for adult 2k,yet guitar for wetin still brought her conversion here and no one saw anything wrong in it.i wish i knew her in person.kai

To add salt to injury, this is his virgin girlfriend he may want to marry tomorrow.
Oh God, why I no be dis your virgin girlfriend, na boot I for use kick you out of my life. No time for stingy mora fukas

Chillisauce:

To add salt to injury, this is his virgin girlfriend he may want to marry tomorrow.
Oh God, why I no be dis your virgin girlfriend, na boot I for use kick you out of my life. No time for stingy mora fukas

LOL! You wan use boot kick me out ? Mmmmhhhhh! For the umpteenth time, its not about this instance alone. I posted this cos it had become a recurring decimal. What I wrote is just a tip of the iceberg don't ya get ?

Guitarlife: LOL! You wan use boot kick me out ? Mmmmhhhhh! For the umpteenth time, its not about this instance alone. I posted this cos it had become a recurring decimal. What I wrote is just a tip of the iceberg don't ya get ?

Why u come dey rush delete the tip for the iceberg na.

Hehehehe...breeze don blow.

My God, these people are a joke. Even if the money is 5cents, the man says he does not have, nay, his priorities are not asho-ebi for now. He man refuses to feed your materialistic frivolities and he suddenly becomes a bad guy?

Intact I think he should be careful with her and anyone with such myopic and selfish worldview. Think about it, what happens if (God forbid) OP is no longer financially capable?

And again that dumb logic again! she's a virgin, he's broke, its his fault he is a bad guy. Let's kill him. haha.

It talks like a leech, looks like a leech, ergo its a damn leech! Leech, bloodsucking leech!

Chillisauce:

Why u come dey rush delete the tip for the iceberg na.

Hehehehe...breeze don blow.

He is a very silly small rat.from the way he talks he has no business dating anyone right now whether na virgin or not.i was amazed at some peoples comment saying is guitar her Father.what happened to true friendship.cant someone keep assisting a friend if he/she is in a position to do so?their is a uni mate of mine that i still assist till tomorrow,but thank God she just got a Job and her days of suffering are over.there were times i was so tired of her constant begging but did i bring the issue here to NL?.is guitars own different because their is a tag on her called "Girl friend".then people started blaming her parents.for what now?who was there when her mum said look for the remaining one else where.a girl who has kept herself despite the high immorality in naija is definately from a good home.Guitar can you boldly tell your Girl that you brought her issue to NL because of 8k.2k shoe?kai that girl is suffering oh.my baby's school shoe cant even be bought for 4k.guitar please send her number to my fake email.pekorol@yahoo.com.Abeg make i nor carry guitar problem for head make i sleep

Mrs mansson:
He is a very silly small rat.from the way he talks he has no business dating anyone right now whether na virgin or not. i was amazed at some peoples comment saying is guitar her Father.what happened to true friendship. cant someone keep assisting a friend if he/she is in a position to do so?their is a uni mate of mine that i still assist till tomorrow,but thank God she just got a Job and her days of suffering are over.there were times i was so tired of her constant begging but did i bring the issue here to NL?. is guitars own different because their is a tag on her called "Girl friend".then people started blaming her parents. for what now?who was there when her mum said look for the remaining one else where.a girl who has kept herself despite the high immorality in naija is definately from a good home.Guitar can you boldly tell your Girl that you brought her issue to NL because of 8k.2k shoe?kai that girl is suffering oh.my baby's school shoe cant even be bought for 4k.guitar please send her number to my fake email.pekorol@yahoo.com.Abeg make i nor carry guitar problem for head make i sleep

Will you buy me an italian shoe, and a suits I want go for an interview

tintingz: Will you buy me an italian shoe, and a suits I want go for an interview

Oh sure.am a philanthropist nau

Mrs mansson:
He is a very silly small rat.from the way he talks he has no business dating anyone right now whether na virgin or not.i was amazed at some peoples comment saying is guitar her Father.what happened to true friendship.cant someone keep assisting a friend if he/she is in a position to do so?their is a uni mate of mine that i still assist till tomorrow,but thank God she just got a Job and her days of suffering are over.there were times i was so tired of her constant begging but did i bring the issue here to NL?.is guitars own different because their is a tag on her called "Girl friend".then people started blaming her parents.for what now?who was there when her mum said look for the remaining one else where.a girl who has kept herself despite the high immorality in naija is definately from a good home.Guitar can you boldly tell your Girl that you brought her issue to NL because of 8k.2k shoe?kai that girl is suffering oh.my baby's school shoe cant even be bought for 4k.guitar please send her number to my fake email.pekorol@yahoo.com.Abeg make i nor carry guitar problem for head make i sleep

Actually she was asking for half of the money. 4k. That is €20. OP wants to get his own suit first.
Those days in school, we give our friends when in need(boys, girls). Doesn't matter, no strings attached, but these days..maybe because he has not tasted the Pomo, so he kinda pissed

OP, no mind me o...you still my guy but try and give without thinking of getting back. Start giving back to the society.

Mrs mansson:
Oh sure.am a philanthropist nau

Oh good...and I need a HP laptop for my upcoming presentation I will send you my account number to your mail box

Chillisauce: Actually she was asking for half of the money. 4k. That is €20. OP wants to get his own suit first.
Those days in school, we give our friends when in need(boys, girls). Doesn't matter, no strings attached, but these days..maybe because he has not tasted the Pomo, so he kinda pissed

OP, no mind me o...you still my guy but try and give without thinking of getting back. Start giving back to the society.

do you read the op posts at all?

He's still a student like the girl and he still depend on his parent on financial needs, why can't some girls understand this or should he go and carry ak47 going from one bank to another to satisfy his girl needs?

Mr. Guitar abeg don't let any lazy girl suck you dry, concentrate on your study you shouldn't be bothered about your lazy girlfriend.

tintingz: do you read the op posts at all?

He's still a student like the girl and he still depend on his parent on financial needs, why can't some girls understand this or should he go and carry ak47 going from one bank to another to satisfy his girl needs?

Mr. Guitar abeg don't let any lazy girl suck you dry, concentrate on your study you shouldn't be bothered about your lazy girlfriend.

Ma friend, move to the side make I see road.

I had previously ignored this thread because the poster can be very rude to me for reasons best known to him but I have to say this.

I am as "Independent" as women come. I always have been.
I advocate for contentment and people to live within their means.
I am not comfortable with her requesting for money for Aso ebi because personally I don't like to follow the crowd especially when I can't afford it and she should learn that now.

However, I will be a hypocrite to say I never received anything from my husband while we were dating. I will call him and request for ice cream and pizza, he will buy and bring, sometimes he will load my phone, once he gave me his own phone to use when I lost mine till he was able to buy me a new one. Does that make me greedy? I doubt.
And this was vice versa, he could call and ask me to help pay his subscription and I would never ask for the money back, He would also request some items when I travled.
If Guiterlife needed money for suits and he was short wouldn't he ask her? If I can help out a friend, what about the person I plan to share my life with?

There is nothing wrong in asking for help or receiving it, anyone who thinks he or she can do it alone in life will die of pride.

Again, I clearly do not accept going with the crowd, she doesn't have ase obi money she shouldn't do.

Should dating folks help each other out YES, what I don't endorse is dating someone solely for material gain.

Chillisauce I'm sorry but I have to call you a greedy phool.If I can ask when you were a student,still depending on your parents financially and your boyfriend demand 8k to buy a shoe,would you have given him.I even doubt your greedy arse could boast earning 5k personally through your own means.It is ambition less girls like you that would go and read food and nut in the university despite knowing the situation of the country,expecting a man to come and save them in the future and then start shouting gender equality.
And if the money was as "small" as you said and she wants to be wearing 2k shoe,why can't she also indulge her greedy bottom self in some petty business to be able to afford a "small 2k shoe".
Giving your gf money is not the problem but when you think it's a norm and our duty to fund your petty wants which you can afford if not for lazy and overdependent attitude aand talking as if if you are not in a relationship you wouldd die of hunger,then you are not ddiff from a hoeee

@debrief ask a student money for a suit.someone that can't even afford 2k.
That's the problem I have with naija babes,financial assistance mostly go one way with them and they start calling you stingy when you don't have the money or their wants are not in your priorities.
@guitarlife don't be intimidated by anybody here;you did the right thing as you are still a student.Maybe when you are financially stable and working you can then cater for are NEEDS and then maybe some of her WANTS.
She seems like a great girl and I'm sure it is greedy bootoms like some ladies here that are are friends that are just telling her things

Thorgan: Chillisauce I'm sorry but I have to call you a greedy phool.If I can ask when you were a student,still depending on your parents financially and your boyfriend demand 8k to buy a shoe,would you have given him.I even doubt your greedy arse could boast earning 5k personally through your own means.It is ambition less girls like you that would go and read food and nut in the university despite knowing the situation of the country,expecting a man to come and save them in the future and then start shouting gender equality.
And if the money was as "small" as you said and she wants to be wearing 2k shoe,why can't she also indulge her greedy bottom self in some petty business to be able to afford a "small 2k shoe".
Giving your gf money is not the problem but when you think it's a norm and our duty to fund your petty wants which you can afford if not for lazy and overdependent attitude aand talking as if if you are not in a relationship you wouldd die of hunger,then you are not ddiff from a hoeee

Thorgan: @debrief ask a student money for a suit.someone that can't even afford 2k.
That's the problem I have with naija babes,financial assistance mostly go one way with them and they start calling you stingy when you don't have the money or their wants are not in your priorities.
@guitarlife don't be intimidated by anybody here;you did the right thing as you are still a student.Maybe when you are financially stable and working you can then cater for are NEEDS and then maybe some of her WANTS.
She seems like a great girl and I'm sure it is greedy bootoms like some ladies here that are are friends that are just telling her things

Hungry girls want to turn their struggling boyfriends to ATM. Imagine asking a student like you for aso-ebi money, knowing fully well he does not work. Not textbook money o, aso-ebi money.