ileobatojo:

But you are excessively angry at her for not marrying the guy now that the reality has finally hit her which I don't agree with. I'm fine with apportioning her own part of the blame to her but she cannot take the whole blame for this while the guy is pitied. He deserves no pity because he masterminded and orchestrated this manipulative situation. He should not have put her in this position in the first place! Coercing someone that doesn't want you to marry you with money is not a good foundation for a marriage especially when the relationship is not smooth! Use your money to buy as many runs girls as you like, but when it's time to marry, look for your own true wife that loves you and you love her back. This marriage would be built on deceipt and there will be consequences to pay in marriage for one or both parties.

My sister could never be in this situation but if she were, I would personally pay him back his money than ask her to marry him.

pickabeau1: See abuse flowing on the abused thread...

Guess its that time...

#pmstinz

alutacontinua: Th truth remains any single lady dt goes thru this thread would think twice abt marriage. The things i've read on this thread, if I were in a relationship, i'm sure i'll av to sit him down and interview him again all over. That's just how scary this thread is!


@vure, try and clear your head, okay From what you've written, I still don't see abuse. I'm sure i must have told a guy before that i'll kill him if I see anoda lady near him, even when I can't hurt a fly (don't mind my username, it's just cover-face). Dose tinz are mostly said jokingly sometimes. At the same tym, don't shut your eyes to obvious signs of abuse! Age difference is not a guarantee for abuse, of recent, i was with a guy >10yrs older than me nd not for a second did I eva think he'll dare lift his fingers on me (it ended for some oda reasons). So dearie, you need to get objective nd dis is one situation where u wanna use ur head nd nt ur hrt. Good Luck!



@kenyatta, i'm really happy for you. All thanks goes to God. Pls, kip us updated abt au tinz go, there are pple here who care abt you! Stay good!

vivianc:

Pls define excessively? That you are defending, would someone say you are excessively defending her?
This is my stand, she should have said something before now, then lead the man on for years.

Having stated that, how is the man manipulative? He is not a 50yrs old man going after a minor. In Nigeria, its normal for a man to be 9 or 10yrs older than the wife. Its common here for you to see 24yrs olds marrying 34yrs old. What actually is the man's fault here? Did he hit her, abused her? Or defiled her?

So its ok to call the man manipulative and an abuser, and not call Vure a gold digger?

kenyattamoore:


Thankyou!

kenyattamoore:


Thankyou!

ileobatojo:

Isn't it manipulative to coerce a woman to sign her entire life over to you by paying for 4 yrs of her education? What kind of Shylock deal is that?

Chillisauce:

How you doing

bukatyne: Kenya,

How far?

Any show/update?

kenyattamoore:

I am good and Thank God that I am alive but I think I might be pregnant,feeling fever but not sure .I hope not

Phema:

Babe, how far? [b]Have you poisoned the "beast" [/b]yet?

What's up with your friend in China? What is the plan? Please update us.

kenyattamoore:

Chillisauce:

The real abuse women don show! Bu hahahahahaha

Chillisauce:

Chillisauce:

kenyattamoore:

I am good and Thank God that I am alive but I think I might be pregnant,feeling fever but not sure .I hope not

2s£xy:
Omo girl free me... Which one be ur own? Haba... She deserve it. Shuo. No b d same thing Vure wan do another guy so? Which kind rubbish talk u dey spew?

if una no like guy, no even think of collecting his 1kobo, no even accept to date am. It's selfishness in the part of most girls out there.


abeg no make me vex o because that girl nearly make me hate women, I mean all women. Fact!

I have said it before, i use it so that people can learn na which one b ur own?

U no wetin? Tell Vure make she dump d guy... Tell her make she follow another dude just like that. All this wey she dey yarn na story. She done get another dude wey she love. I pray make d guy no do anything stupid.

kenyattamoore:

I am still waiting for my air ticket,next week tuesday.I will let you people know when I travel.Thanks all

Phema:

Pre gini?? Mbanu, nothing can stop our plans! It bera just be fever oooo. Infact, it is fever.