~Sauron~:

1 Corinthians 11:3. . . . .
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

LadyT:

The level of stupidity on here right now is too much. I didnt realise Nairaland had so many potential wife beaters.

davidylan:

how has Christ treated you? Slapping you around and treating you like second-rate slaves?

Engineer96:

Men build the house while the women build homes. So it is your responsibility to build your home.
That your husband slapped you simply because you told him to take to take his bath must take into cognisance the mood he was in when you said what you said and how you said what you said. You should have done your home work properly to know these things.
From here, you can infer that your non-understanding of your husband and how you approached the issue brought about every other thing that followed.
You can resolve the problem following the same route ie know how and when to approach for apology.
Advice yourself from from the foregoing.

spikedcylinder:

You don't say.

agabaI23:

Chei okwu na uka atogbuela nwanne m nwanyi!

Ebony-Silk:

How can you not know by the rate they call women slut and abuse other people's mother?
If you value your mother, you'd respect other's mother.
If you don't value your mother, there's no way you'd value your wife.

Sometimes a=b=c.

luvinhubby:

 STB-McCANN, one of Nigeria`s biggest marketing agency has the following words as their company slogan " TRUTH WELL TOLD". Go and shower may mean something else with a different tone. It`s not as simple as some see it.

C2H5OH:

Quit preaching to the wrong crowd, biko.  If you respected your father you ought to know better than telling him he stinks.

C2H5OH:

Quit preaching to the wrong crowd, biko. If you respected your father you ought to know better than telling him he stinks.

C2H5OH:

Sorry jare, that last video didn't pop up

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-Sk3cNRA-Y&hl=en[/flash]

~Sauron~:

Well. . . . .I thunk there's a punishment if you go against his laws.
The wages of sin is DEATH, no??

LadyT:

And so?

even if she screamed it at him can he not scream back at her.  And tell her not to be so rude?

Must he dish her TWO slaps? what next a kick to the pregnant belly or will he go in for the choke hold?

Iranu on top of capital oshi

**osisi:

so he has a right to slap her?
You and I have been in many family threads and you know well that I preach submission to the ridicule of other ladies on nairaland.
I believe in a woman loving and submitting but the man must love her as the Bible says.
What we have here is abuse.
That is a totally different matter.

C2H5OH:

Sorry jare, that last video didn't pop up

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-Sk3cNRA-Y&hl=en[/flash]

**osisi:

didn't even bother with the clip,shows how deranged the poster is.
a cobra and a chld is supposed to be entertaining.
see how random it was

C2H5OH:

terminating pregnancy ke? I didn't even realize the kind of woman we are dealing with here. You would kill a baby because your husband swiped you? Na wa o. Utter selfishness.

davidylan:

this thread is one reason i am eternally grateful to have been born male, is this what i would have had to put up with as a woman?

dellynash:

My Husband Has Not Been Talking To Me For Three Days Now Please Help Me

Hello Nairalanders, im in serious stress and i need your advice, [b]my husband slapped me twice when i was lying on bed because i asked him why he is sleeping without taking his bath, i got so angry and insulted him,  he  has not been talking to me for three days now.I over reacted and said some unpleasant things to him cos i never expected him to ever slap me as he use to say when  we were dating that he can never lay his finger on a woman, what annoys me most is that  im pregnant and i don't expect him to slap me in this condition. Now he will not give me food money, he will not talk to me he sleeps and turns his back on me, i feel like telling him im sorry but something tells me not to, he has a very stiff heart, i think of terminating the pregnancy and quiting the marriage, he has a tough heart and im afraid i may not be able to live the rest of my life with him, he is not willing to apologise for slapping me please Nairalanders help me handle this matter.[/b]

**osisi:

didn't even bother with the clip,shows how deranged the poster is.
a cobra and a chld is supposed to be entertaining.
see how random it was

Exactly. Whats the relevance of the video with this thread?

davidylan:

that's not because Christ is deliberately punishing you, its simply because you are no longer under His protection. The moment you sin and fall out of grace, you are on your own . . . dont blame God for whatever happens to you out there.

ibkaye:

Jeez, you people are seasoning the OP's statement, there are many ways to say something, s[b]he did not say she said he 'stinks', she said that she asked him why he was going to bed without having his bath, that could mean many things e.g.[/b] he usually haves a bath before going to bed and on this particular day he did not therefore she now asked him why not, or maybe he did smell at that point in time and was asking him why he did not take his bath. This is not his DAUGHTER asking him but his WIFE, c'mon now, aren't spouses supposed to be free with each other, simple question she asked and he gave her two rounds of right hand of fellowship, can you imagine?