Does she think Germans are superior to Nigerians?

Her man is probably one of those who stay at home all day while their wives provide the meal at the table.You really cant expect such a man to say anything if his wife provides the bread in the family.

Katy86:

Oh my man is not a lazy man like you.
He is working hard every day so that we do not need to take any money from social

if their father is a nigerian, they r nigerians too. .

and btw, germans will remind them every day that they arent pure race germans. . .u can cancell their roots from their mind but u cant change the color of their skin.

i would really like to hear your man's opinion. . .
the way u speak abt him, he really sounds like wimp. . . please dont take it as an offence.

if i compare your man to mine. . . well i've to say, urs dont get balls in hes boxer.
ich will mich nicht streiten, nur Meinungen austauschen. . .ok . . Smiley

for exampe: do your children speak english? how do they communicate with your husbands family ( on phone ), do your children eat african dishes? do they know african music? . . .

from what i read in your posts, i assume that your children get an horrorpicture of their fathers country. thats what makes me a little bit sad. i feel u r only talking abt the bad sides of nigeria, forgetting abt the good things.

i think, if u dont let them know this important side, sooner or later they will totally loose the connection to their origins. it doesnt matter where they were born and brought up. it is part of them and its urs and your mans duty to teach them and let them know, "hey my boy, theres a big world outside germany and your daddy was born in a wonderfull country called nigeria. this is how we celebrate brithdays and christmas in nigeria, this is what we eat, this is our music etc." . . .your children will thank u both one day. .

Katy86:

Oh my man is not a lazy man like you.

He is working hard every day so that we do not need to take any money from social

Whatever katy but what i am saying is stop castigating your boyfriend in a public forum.Whatever the differences u have with him iron it out with him in private and wether you hate his food and his culture is no business of ours.

Katy86:

The children of course they are listening to us when we are speaking english, but they do not learn it from us. I think you should learn a language from native speakers and not from people who can not speak the language percet by theirselves.

How they communicate with my boyfriends family?
Hmm, sometimes my man call our older son to say hello on phone. Hello wie gehts? And that is all. The boy do not feel good on telephone because he do not understand them.

I mean the English language will not help him to understand them. He must learn their kind of English to understand what they are saying. I often have problems to understand them on phone.

My older son is difficult with food. He do not like everything. He hate food with to much pepper and he hate his fathers food. He can not eat this. He is more like me

My younger son. He eats everything, even when very much pepper is in it.

I think this is like this because my boyfriend never cook that kind of food with our older son. The younger one he grow up with that.

They do not hear African music. My man and the children prefer American rapmusic.
I do not like both of it.

questions that need to be answered
1:Do Germans regard mulatoes who have a non German parent and a German parent as a german
Answer: No
2:Do Germans regard non white german citizens as real Germans?
Answer:No

You see katy your country regards ppl who are non whites as savages and the only true German is a blond haired blue eyed person.

Your country ppl will never accept your kids as true Germans because they dont have blue eyes or blond hair

no doubt your own parents might dislike your children but i can tell you that your husband"s family will accept them as nigerians.This shows how open minded we are.Mixed ppl also experience racism in Germany the same way as full blacks,asians and arabs.When your kids grow up they will understand this.

Katy86:

For the Nigerian grandparents their are just some white bleeping children which their son make for the German paper. Oh do not try to hide the truth!
How often I have heard that the Nigerian family ignores or insult the mixed children as bastards etc.
You live in your own world and you do not want to see the reality.

is there little truth in it. . . Undecided . . .?
i mean it's not a secret. foreigners bring children into the world just for their own interest.
u might be a victim of such pregancies?. . . Sad

my nigerian family has never spoke this way abt their children. . . rather they treat them like kings!

~*Mamken*~:

u know, the main problem is, that the nigerians who live abroad give a wrong picture abt their life in europe.
some never tell them the dirty job they got to do for just few euro or how they have to manage to pay all the bills.
what they do, is to travel to africa every year and show them their  cool dresses ( from kick textil discount ) and make them believe its a designer jeans or shirt, or the the fake big rings and chains, watsches and so on. . . they show them dollar dollar dollar ( wich they worked a whole year to save ) , thats it. People in africa think, life in europe is very easy and we pick money on the floor so why we shouldnt share with theM

we never get such problems, coz my man always told them how life really is in europe. . .and if they dont believe they should try their luck and a way to travel, as he or many others did.
perhaps your man also give a fake "truth" to hes family. . .

esteduca:

I have some african friends living here in Italy that send monthly money to their families at home.
This because even with the worst possible job they are focussed to help the family at home, who is much more broken then them in Europe. So I believe that for somebody the dream to be in Europe is still a golden dream, and I can somehow justify the acting of relatives.

Katy86:

I think you never traveled to Germany in your whole life and you do not know any German.
Of course the answer of both question is YES.
My mother is not a blond with blue eyes women. She is dark, with brown hair and brown eyes but nobody of our German people thinks that she is not a German. Everybody can be a German. We Germans are mixed people.
So my mother is not accepted here too You do not know anything.
My family love my children so much. My parents would die for both of them.
For the Nigerian grandparents their are just some white bleeping children which their son make for the German paper. Oh do not try to hide the truth!
How often I have heard that the Nigerian family ignores or insult the mixed children as bastards etc.
You live in your own world and you do not want to see the reality.
Remember earlier in this thread i said nigerian men who date european women dont do it for love but for money and visa and that is why many of them have wives back home in africa even though they are married to white women abroad.See you even agreeing with me on this even now even though u disagreed with me earlier on this thread.Not only africans who do this but young asian girls also sell themselves on the internet to any willing whiteman who would be ready to sponsor them into the USA or europe.There is no love relationship involved with an african man and a white woman.I have a good job over here in the states so hence what do i need a white woman for? Many of my colleagues who go about with white women are in it for material gains and good u agree with me on this and by the way there"s no harm saying your nigerian husband is with you for German visa.Let me get a good laugh on that.

One question for you:

You are calling them Nigerians, so are they not Germans for you?

~*Mamken*~:

u know, the main problem is, that the nigerians who live abroad give a wrong picture abt their life in europe.
some never tell them the dirty job they got to do for just few euro or how they have to manage to pay all the bills.
what they do, is to travel to africa every year and show them their cool dresses ( from kick textil discount ) and make them believe its a designer jeans or shirt, or the the fake big rings and chains, watsches and so on. . . they show them dollar dollar dollar ( wich they worked a whole year to save ) , thats it. People in africa think, life in europe is very easy and we pick money on the floor so why we shouldnt share with theM

we never get such problems, coz my man always told them how life really is in europe. . .and if they dont believe they should try their luck and a way to travel, as he or many others did.
perhaps your man also give a fake "truth" to hes family. . .

Katy86:

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How often I have heard that the Nigerian family ignores or insult the mixed children as bastards etc.
You live in your own world and you do not want to see the reality.

One question for you:

You are calling them Nigerians, so are they not Germans for you?

Ms. Potato:

Mamken, so right on point (but however, some Nigerians really do make alot of money in another country. I know some) but however yes, you are right on point on that. The problem is they show off what they have in their country but truth be told they are suffering like poo in another country and it has given other Nigerians the wrong impression of a foreign country and when people like us warned them not to come, they took it offensively.

Mrs.Chima:

Many of them believes that life is much better on the other side than where they are so they will do whatever they have to do to make it to the other side only to realize that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Many of them commit such crimes or some of them honestly paved their way to the other side but however they do it to get to the other side will not change the fact that what you put out in the universe will come back to you ten fold.

I do not know how Katy86 baby daddy feels about her but I do know if I was to draw a pie chart the smallest pie is the amount of African men who travels outside of home for Love. I may be wrong or whatever but I tell the women always check for the citizenship cards before getting with them. I am not saying that all of them are crooked but let be real and know that too many of them are.

I warned one girl offline and she didn't believe me when I told her that the guy she was talking to crooked as hell now she is learning the hard way. Again, I am not saying all of them are like that but too many of them are crooked.

ain problem is, that the nigerians who live abroad give a wrong picture abt their life in europe.
some never tell them the dirty job they got to do for just few euro or how they have to manage to pay all the bills.
what they do, is to travel to africa every year and show them their cool dresses ( from kick textil discount ) and make them believe its a designer jeans or shirt, or the the fake big rings and chains, watsches and so on. . . they show them dollar dollar dollar ( wich they worked a whole year to save ) , thats it. People in africa think, life in europe is very easy and we pick money on the floor so why we shouldnt share with theM

we never get such problems, coz my man always told them how life really is in europe. . .and if they dont believe they should try their luck and a way to travel, as he or many others did.
perhaps your man also give a fake "truth" to hes family. . .

so i'll assume he isnt even though you opened a thread the other day celebrating a drug dealer who you said your friend is dating.

Remember earlier in this thread i said nigerian men who date european women dont do it for love but for money and visa and that is why many of them have wives back home in africa even though they are married to white women abroad.See you even agreeing with me on this even now even though u disagreed with me earlier on this thread.Not only africans who do this but young asian girls also sell themselves on the internet to any willing whiteman who would be ready to sponsor them into the USA or europe.There is no love relationship involved with an african man and a white woman.I have a good job over here in the states so hence what do i need a white woman for? Many of my colleagues who go about with white women are in it for material gains and good u agree with me on this and by the way there"s no harm saying your nigerian husband is with you for German visa.Let me get a good laugh on that

lmbao you cracked in the head, lol
A nigerian family will never discriminate their own children on account of their being mixed or being albinos.We dont think about the colour of our skin and colour does not portray a big role like its being done in your country.Take for example the history of your country how Hitler kdnapped blond blue eyed white kids from scandanavian countries and murdered thousands of jewish and gypsie babies because of their dark hair and dark eyes.No doubt you collecting all these rubbish about nigerian families refering to mixed kids as bastards because this is what your nigerian husband told you.Jeez this your guy is up to something and from what i see its something sinister.He"s just telling you alll these lies to lower down your guard so he can use you and dump you.Smart man i would call him.