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Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by TableLeg(m): 1:08pm |
LilNetty: How old are you? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by aestake: 1:09pm |
LilNetty:You're the fiancé and she's your fiancée. Court wedding is mainly to help process japa..nothing else in Nigeria wrt losing properties to her. Nigerian system doesn't punish men much, even if you get another wife or side chick. Lastly, any union that won't allow you make or contribute to a decision should be avoided. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by integrity16(m): 1:09pm |
To the OP! All I see here is her parent trying to protect your fiance their daughter. Understand them from their position, if you were to be in their shoes. And traditionally, the brides family have the final say as regards the wedding date, if your pick your date and the father of the bride does not agree, there won't be any wedding cuz you are the one going to marry from their family. If your wife agree with your no court wedding, allow her to discuss with her parents, that should solve it. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:10pm |
Oghene86:Why should something happen to you ? What if their daughter starts misbehaving? What is the man's insurance too? Double standards? 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Wainey: 1:11pm |
Bigmouth3:Na our greedy politicians deh enact laws. None of them go enact that kind law. The thing no go even pass first reading. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by 2tec(m): 1:11pm |
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Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Smartgeek(m): 1:11pm |
tiswell:You're welcome.
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Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Oghene86: 1:11pm |
Bigmouth3: Misbehave how, if you have proof of misbehave you take her back there are dissolve the marriage |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by okrote4real: 1:11pm |
LilNetty: So why are you scared? You want to abandon her tomorrow abi? That's even the recognised marriage |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by solreb: 1:12pm |
LilNetty:They are right |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by airsaylongcome: 1:12pm |
cutecommend: Registry |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 1:13pm |
LilNetty: That's a bad family to angry with your parents. That's very disrespectful, use your head 💯 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by solreb: 1:14pm |
LilNetty:They are right. What are you afraid of by going to court to legalize your union |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by sonofsteven: 1:15pm |
LilNetty: Introduction, yes They are to give you the date and reason being that they will have to inform the elders and know when they will be available for it so as not to suggest date that will inconvenient them... no be them dey marry na you dey come to them... Regarding this court marriage, guy if you don't stand your ground, I promise you, you go regret the marriage, because you will be controlled Stand your ground, no marriage, do traditional and lock up if them insist on no traditional, tell them no marriage, or sue them to court, tell court say it's either they allow you marry in peace or they take their daughter and give you the baby Taaa.. show strong head, with this moves wey you go put up, them go know say you be hard nut to Crack and see as them go hide voices when you marry... never dey soft on ur inlaws during marital periods, do them like say you dey do them a favor in marrying their daughter... no show the said lady love at all Do like say you wan break up Use your sense else them go use am for you 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Deepspirituals: 1:16pm |
LilNetty:Stop Disturbing people with this . You already said you don't want to object to .. meaning you made your decision so what is the meaning of your questions again Oga.. Abeg shifts. If you are a man you should be able to know say na inside Trap Dem wan put you as long as that Marriage dey. Why Court is a must . Na Court born u , abi wetin concern court with Marriage and Love. Go for Church and traditional that is all. Oga Simp U hear 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 1:16pm |
Mikespecialone:It is well oOoOO, where's the property documents? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by EmekaBlue(m): 1:17pm |
Dont you intend to love/marry/live with her forever |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by solreb: 1:18pm |
LilNetty:Ideally it is the family of the bride that organises wedding and so they are right for choosing the date. However, you and your wife must be on the same page be agreeable to that date. Your family has little say on the date but for they can seek for compromise |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Shikena(m): 1:21pm |
Too much wahala on top what? Call their bluff. They don't trust you and that won't change. You are plunging into regrets. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by olaJako(m): 1:21pm |
Brother man, that court wedding shouldn't be a problem to you. If that is all that matters do it. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by solreb: 1:21pm |
adamma24: I disagree with you. It is the bride's family that organises both introduction and wedding. In developed countries the bride's family bear the entire cost. So, if they now decide on a date, it is for your family to seek for a compromise as it is their right. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Funkybabee(f): 1:22pm |
It's the family of bride that pick date and what's scaring you about court marriage. U have skeleton in your cupboard? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by solreb: 1:23pm |
Mikespecialone: She is right in the eyes of the law. It is the spouse that has the say when it comes to the burial of their partner and not the children. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:24pm |
Confirmedzombie:Mumu dey worry you Why should it always be incase the son dies,na you wan Kill am ? Why should an African man be tamed from having a second wife. What if the first wife becomes too comfortable and starts misbehaving because women tend to when they have any atom of power .okay let's say that's the woman's security and insurance, what about the man's insurance ? So he should go into a marriage with both hands tied, he can't have a second wife or have an affair ,he can't inherit the woman's property because obviously an average nigerian wife has nothing. He is required to die first too Haba .this western way of marriage will kill you all. What happened to our traditional marriage ? A woman that is loyal will get more than that from the husband but if she is disloyal, you throw her back to the street. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Calylove: 1:24pm |
That is cool. That makes the marriage legal by law. Are you afraid of something? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aordaTsyy2M |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by LoveJesus87(m): 1:25pm |
LilNetty:of course na d bride family dey decide wedding dates |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:26pm |
Backlinker01:What of the man's security |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:31pm |
BeigJawnson:Stupid men everywhere What do you mean by love wholeheartedly, those that continue yo divorce daily ,didn't they and they're wife love each other wholeheartedly? What do you mean by take the bull by the horn.are you betting against you ? Why should an African man be tamed against having a second wife ? If you bring g Him peace, why should he look outside ? What of the man's security if the woman starts misbehaving? Answer me ,what is the man's security if the woman starts misbehaving? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by LilNetty(m): 1:32pm |
Smartgeek:I can foresee authority from my wife and family … even for the wedding she insisting I will be the one to take care of her fathers outfit for the wedding |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:33pm |
being:What gives protection to the man too?have you ever thought of that ? Because most times the woman comes in with nothing and can divorce you anytime |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigmouth3: 1:34pm |
TableLeg:What does that have to do with anything?you want to size him up ? What have your old age done for you ?even fools get old |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by LilNetty(m): 1:35pm |
Cmanforall: Am not marrying her because of pregnancy, she’s 28 and am 30. I got to know the parent’s behavior recently , it’s the bride mother that is insisting on everything, |
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