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Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by LilNetty(m): 1:37pm |
vivaAfrica:she said that the way they have been doing it for their extended family that are male that the same thing must be done to me …lol |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by kunle75(m): 1:37pm |
LilNetty: Don't do it heaven won't fall bro. They're wicked, that's a trap 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Walz001: 1:38pm |
nothing wrong in court marriage broo Except theirs plan B It's for good of both of you on the long run Asking for advice about your private life is risky sometimes because as you get a positive advice the negative also follows So I will advice think about it deeply and pray about it Anyone that will suite you is what you should go for but if need be on the case of you both traveling then you still need to do it Rethink my brother No one can or should take your decision post in a marriage except you |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 1:38pm |
BeigJawnson:Culture vary |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Blendy77(f): 1:40pm |
LilNetty: Check the profile of those advising u, am sure majority are still single. Whats the difference between a court and church wedding? Its same certificate Federal Govt of Nig) , same conditions of marriage n same divorce process so why are u afraid ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 1:43pm |
laivwire:Don't forget we have + Customary Marriage +Islamic Marriage +Christian/Court marriage They are all legal, |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Ezini(f): 1:43pm |
Healthrelatedjo: In other words the guy would not want a lasting marriage unless court injunction binds him to it? If otherwise why is he jittery about court marriage |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Ginalex(f): 1:45pm |
LilNetty:It's a no-brainer ![]() |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 1:47pm |
Wainey:Badman spotted, Barman give him a chilled bottle of Orijin 🍻😁 |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Cmanforall: 1:51pm |
LilNetty: Then do what you want. If she's insisting on court wedding, you stand your ground. Let her not start detecting what happens in your home 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Akinpresident: 1:51pm |
Sonnobax15: Hakimize ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Abeg explain well if en no understand what you mean. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by habakukjss3: 1:52pm |
LilNetty: You are a weak man. You said you don't want to object to their wish yet to want advise from us. What sort of advise do u want? To encourage you to go on? Ode! Weakling |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Starz825(m): 1:52pm |
LilNetty: Na wa ooo |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Cmanforall: 1:53pm |
LilNetty: This family are really giving you trouble, even before the actual wedding. This could be a sign to hold on till your fiancee delivers. Personally, I don't like seeing young couples suffering due to limited advice from experienced older men(couple) |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by adamma24: 1:53pm |
solreb:[b] Bro..First it is both families that organise wedding...second we are not like other organised countries...because they do not pay bride price...I do not know where and how you come to the conclusion that only bride family organise wedding.. but dat ur assumption is wrong... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by travelzcruix: 1:54pm |
The way we go about marriage in Nigeria, it's getting to a war Zone. Guess who carries the chunk of the pressure. The man! If you are not ready to craze small, don't even reason marriage for Naija. Mother in-law palava, who is to come visiting, bla bla. Money fight. Tufiiakwa. Billing ontop this my small change, e better wait o. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Cmanforall: 1:55pm |
LilNetty: Let her keep her name. Is she from an influential family? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Moniya4Real(m): 1:58pm |
Story! So, you are blind to all what the fairer sex have been doing after separation or whatever. Be mindful of the fact that even those guys that were served breakfast thought exacky what you are thinking before it happened to them.[ quote author=EreluRoz post=131743687] Be mindful of the kind of advise you give concerning marital issues. Some people actually want court wedding to make the marriage bond strong as both party will ensure they work together for the progress of the marriage knowing fully well the implication of the court if their marriage is broken. [/quote] |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by LilNetty(m): 1:59pm |
solreb:for the introduction I was told am the one to pay for the decoration, part of the feeding and they are insisting that I will be the one to pay for the ALAGA |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by jadyclem(m): 2:02pm |
lawrenzooo:He's not at their mercy, the reverse is the case because he can choose to walk away and leave the girl with the pregnancy if he do chooses. The problem with such a family where they compel the man to do their bidding is that they may not stop after the man might have married their daughter. They'll control his life and make him miserable. He's in a very advantageous position to tell them what he wants and withdraw if they show themselves to be problematic. A marriage that starts with disagreement and threats may not go well. The red flags are obvious for him to see 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by id4sho(m): 2:07pm |
LilNetty: What's ALAGA? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Malawian(m): 2:08pm |
LilNetty:Change ownership of all your properties to your mother secretly. then go ahead with the court wedding. Be like Hakimi for he has shown us the way. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Smithwilliams826: 2:17pm |
LilNetty:You owe nobody guy. Tell them to take care of their daughter and the child then. Last last, pikin go still wan meet with him papa. |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Lordsonn: 2:17pm |
I did court wedding because my family always want to carry property of dead relatives and dictates to the wife of the deceased and children. I like it that way |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Abee79(m): 2:25pm |
No gree for her. She wan trap you! *Follow me for more relationship advice 🙂 |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by stainzvill(m): 2:25pm |
Do traditional wedding first |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by bluebay(m): 2:29pm |
Uncle, you have upper hand here. Tell them no wedding then if they looking for court wedding. Don't fall for that |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Olufemiolaolu(m): 2:31pm |
LilNetty:No big deal in it. Why are you tensed about it? |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by jeffizy(m): 2:31pm |
I noticed there are a lot of arguments indicating that both the poster and the cheerleaders on front page are lacking the maturity and understanding needed to be in marriage. First off, if you're not a dubious lover, why are you scared of having a court wedding? Secondly, you are taking their daughter who you have impregnated already and you still want to pick that date for them to give her out via introduction? As the lady, she should be scared of these red flags in you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by BeigJawnson(m): 2:32pm |
id4sho: I never said culture doesn't vary. . |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by Bigsteveg(m): 2:33pm |
LilNetty: That is your red flag |
Re: My Fiancée's Family Is Insisting On Court Wedding by jeffizy(m): 2:33pm |
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