Lekan239:
same way my inlaws where insisting for court wedding after we have done traditional and white wedding. I no even answer them... me I respect everyone, but I no send anybody

OG👍

Sonnobax15:

Death trap bruh.....

Don't fall for it...........Even tho their reasons behind it doesn't hold water in this part of the world,still, don't be a victim of it.....

If at all if you end up falling for it, make sure you Hakimize the whole situation......Cuz that gwnder and TRUST are two different lines apart that can never ever meet....

A word is enough for the wise...

In recent times, I am bothered about your posts. Are you that hurt or you just decided to join the band wagon of wailers on here?

To the topic, what is the fear in holding a court marriage?

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

Why are both families trying to decide date at the expense of the husband or wife? You and your girlfriend should give them your date.

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

Run bro

I have a way bigger experience than yours.

Don't get into marriage where you will be controlled by bride's family or any third party. That she is pregnant is nothing to be sacred

It's seems that you are not sure about marrying her, you stated that you would have aborted the wedding if she was not pregnant. Secondly, most wedding placed more expenses on the bride family.... they are usually responsible for reception which gulps money, don't forget you are the one that is going to BEG for their DAUGHTER hand and you still want to dictate the date to come. Well, due to cultural differences it may be okay for some people but for me it's the bride family that will decide the weeding day in consultation with the groom's family.

Mikespecialone:
The last woman my popsy date, carry popsy go do court wedding even though she no born for popsy, now popsy die , she travel comot go another country , we won bury popsy for the house wey him build , she no gree , she say na only she wey be the legally married wife get the authority to bury popsy and that’s if she comes back in 5 months later from where she go , make we carry the dead body go mortuary. Court Dey tell us say we no get access to our popsy properties except that woman wey do court wedding with popsy .... Think twice brother , court wedding might favour and it might not favour you

This is were you appeal the case.

Every member of the groom family are all entitled to the desesed groom. But the wife and children take first, then the groom's parents, then the siblings and extended relatives.

go for mugu your name na sorry

Nothing is wrong with Civil wedding bro...take your wife and go do Civil wedding. I heard a story of a man who refused to do Civil marriage with the wife bcus he was so rich believing the wife will come take his wealth, years later the wife is way richer than him,in fact he is now depending on the wife. He now ask the wife to follow him so they go do Civil wedding the wife told him she will do no such thing with him anymore. My advice is dont make it look as though she is after your wealth

LilNetty:


When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

It is well but let me ask, of what benefit is changing of name sef?

Just don't fall in their trap. Wish you all the best

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice.

My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

What do you mean by saying you don’t want to object & yet you want to move on? The two can’t work together, only one. Either marry her legally or walk away.When you were having good moments, didn’t you think that pregnancy was a possibility? Stop taking advantage of women, then dump them because you don’t want to be responsible. If you can’t marry her, then don’t engage in intimate acts with her.

adamma24:


In my own opinion either you are rich and comfortable or the babe is an evening newspaper...that said...there is nothing wrong with court wedding...its just have to be the decision of the intending bride and groom to be....not the family...maybe the bride people wants her to secure her place in the eyes of the law ( legally ) through court

The thing here is if and when you guys get married...your bride family will be the one dictating what goes on in your marriage... through your wife.

You cannot abandon her now..cos she is pregnant for u...just stand firm in your decisions ...only this will overcome any and everything

Question. Are you a lady because your name suggests so? If you are, it’s sad that women are their own enemies. How do you call another woman evening newspaper? I wish people would know that this life is by grace. Some marry young & then struggle with infertility, another marries at 40 & conceives immediately. That things have worked in your favor is not because you bribed anyone.

Run o!






Once u see a lady buying noodles and egg, wearing oversized slippers and big polo.... Don't toast her, she is on duty🤷🤣😂😂

You should be the one dictating ur wishes and how u wan to run ur show. As far as u have fulfilled the traditional rites, u are married. But if u must use court or church, get an lawyer that specializes in matrimony law and get a prenup.

I am afraid we may not be able to influence your decision because you have gone neck deep in tampering with the seemingly normal way of marital process.

Because you got her pregnant before wedding you can't back down easily from their demands.

You are trapped bro, for asking this question I believe you are already looking to listen to them.

A real man will stand his ground regardless but this is easy to say if you are very wealthy and influencial.

LilNetty:


When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

It is the responsibility of the bride family to choose the wedding/marriage date because they are the host and the ceremony usually take place in their place.

patorial:


It's is so for rich groom families, because if a man dies, only a marriage certificate can prove that she is marriage to the supposed spouse.

By the way, Registry wedding and authenticated church wedding are the same,because both are recognized by law.

The traditional wedding you people rush to do, is not even recognized by law.

Therefore the Government does not recognize your wife as wife if you did just a traditional wedding.

Whatever you are smoking must be strong.

You impregnated their daughter, what do you expect? The family to trust you wholeheartedly? Bro doing court wedding is the only way they can have rest of mind that you won't abandon their daughter or have the intention to make her your baby mama. Na you dem know trust z na why them dey insist on court wedding.

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

lol.. seems you are obviously not man enough.

As for me I wouldn't even bothered on lavishing any money on wedding. I'll have to marry a very brilliant emotional intelligent lady, that understands wedding is not the focus. I'll only invite both families with very few friends to my wedding that's all.

Dont try it. I am regretting mine.

LilNetty:


When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name.

Let her hold her name, with time she will be the one to request for it.Women are sentimental beings.

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice.

My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

Why are you afraid of court wedding, you get ulterior motive

Besides, court wedding isn't immune to crash

id4sho:

Congratulations, more babies in Jesus name 🙏

Amen 🙏 thanks boss

Are you a Billionaire or Billionaire pikin ...she is pregnant are you doubting the partenity of the unborn child ...if those are factors you can have a nuptials agreement despite having a court wedding that states the terms and conditions of your union.

LilNetty:


When they ask me I told them I will do it later after the marriage they said no that they must do all at once and they told me if we won’t be doing it that my wife to be won’t be changing her name .

Lol I just know say na them. The neighbours from the rising yeast. Na always those types of threats them Sabi and to separate the child from u throway somewhere while the girl go enter street again. This one done fall enter to their mouth already

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

You don enter one chance. Better cancel this marriage now and save this wedding money you're trying to spend because you guys are still going to part ways even if you decide to go on with the marriage.

Op must be a problematic person.
Why are you scared of court wedding?
I wouldn't marry someone i can't share my property with if that be the case why you are afraid.
The moment you choose to marry a lady, everything you own becomes her own. So if i still don't see her in that light, why marry her?

I see so much wrong with this your marriage.
No unity. You don't even trust or have a sound communication with your partner if not some of your fears would be long gone.

I'll advise you pause. Do you really want to marry this woman? Do you truly love her? Then court wedding is nothing. If you can't share what you have with this lady or don't even trust her, then why marry her? But if you want her to be a part of you, swallow some things.
Choosing wedding date and all... How is that an issue for you? Let them choose and let you know. You provide the money and if it's an amount that is too much, discuss with them to reduce.
If at this point you still don't trust your woman, then i wonder why you are marrying her. Marriage is for life. Not for kids

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice.

My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

Can we know why u don't want to do registry marriage?..

Olufemiolaolu:
No big deal in it. Why are you tensed about it?

*Tensed* got me laughing 😃 😀 😄

francotunsco:

Dont try it. I am regretting mine.

🤣🤣🤣🤣..I wish VN dey NL.I need to laugh small..
Why are u regretting urs sir?

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

Hmmm..Then go there and sign customary certificate papers. After all, all na court marriage 🤣🤣🤣
Seek a legal advice though.

LilNetty:
At the moment there still a conflict between my family and theirs as regards wedding date. They are insisting that the family of the bride will be the one to pick the wedding date.

lies 😂. Guy, man up o. Tell them we will see. Tell your fiancee that if she's the one that wants to marry you or you the the one to marry her. Just sit down fingers crossed. If they tell you this is the day, tell them you won't be chanced that period if they ask why tell them that's it.

wanho:
It is the responsibility of the bride family to choose the wedding/marriage date because they are the host and the ceremony usually take place in their place.

they are not. They don't have the right of any sort.