vanitty: YES. CAPITAL YES
I don't plan on raising insecure female children.
My female children are definitely equal if not better than any random male they meet during their life's journey.
Do you think female bosses think they are inferior (or whatever the opposite of equal) to their male subordinates
Just raise your kids to have respect for everyone not just their male counterpart. Please don't train those poor kids to think they can be stepped on by any man. A husband + wife relationship is totally different

Meristem: Most feminists I know are either unmarried or divorcees. Check their lives. they wear dis i-dont-need-a -man toga until well into menopause then they start looking for ANY man to "make their lives complete" . Publicly dey apperar strong by insisting d sexes are identical.secretly, they envy their more decent peers who are having fun in their marriages, not engaging their men is a supremacy war as if dat was necessary. if dey heard dat women are getting killed in conflicts dey protest. yet if man=woman and man=legitimate target, why not woman? Lwkmd

luckgames:
I have more respect for married woman than unmarried woman
I will respect a married lady that is 25 yrs old than 40 yrs old unmarried females

WhiteOne: So Nigeria People see the White Culture only from the distance ?
How come? If I walk the streets of London, Dublin or Austin Texas, Nigerian on mass, they have been there, since 30, 40 or even 50 years.
They work along side white people, their children go to the same school and universities, some of them are even are married to white folks or have Obama like grand children.
They are not back in the village back in Nigeria and do not have access to the main road.
C’mon Nigeria, not all your people are Oga’s with a Harem or Dogs.
Even, if you think about it, believe Now are days Nigerian might be just mix’ed.
When reading about this beautiful culture you guys had a good social system of doing things and managing them, well.
When it all did went wrong?

stagger: I do not think the issue here is equality. The relationship between a husband and a wife should be complementary; not based on equality or superiority.

I do not believe myself superior to my wife and vice versa. We all have our roles. Even though I can cook, I simply hate going to market and when my wife came into my life, I had relief in that area. In the same vein, I have a tendency to spend money unwisely. Her coming into my life has changed that. Similarly, she tends to panic and gets easily ruffled by bad news or tense situations. I am more composed and do not get ruffled easily. So I balance her out in that area.

For instance, I naturally fix all the gadgets and stuff in the house. But there was a day I bought a new hurricane fan and was having problems assembling it. I decided to put it off till night and went out. I came back home and met the fan assembled and working; done by my wife. Did that make me feel inferior? No way! I was happy because my wife showed herself to be a helpmate, which is their roles.

She washes for me, cooks for me, and gives me great sex, which keeps my mind and body in a very good tune to focus on my major role, which is to provide for the family.

That is what it is. It should not be a question of "I can do this better so I am superior to her/him". This is where society has missed it.

olamide123:

And how do you intend achieving this bit? By giving your sons better clothes? By making your sons go to better schools? By telling your daughters than their brothers are better than them?

I am here planning to bring up my children to love and RESPECT every human irrespective of their sex, religion, age, sexual orientation and race ( i taught my younger brothers this and honestly I envy their girlfriends ) While you are busy planning to teach your

Boys that they are SUPERIOR to EVERY female and your girls that they are INFERIOR to every male. Sweetie I wish you all the best doing this, but those angels deserve better, trust me.

See why we need to pray for our children right from conception. May they not come across children brought up in the way the OP plans to bring hers up

some-girl:


A ridiculous mentality.
The reason why some women would rather be co-wives than be single.

Your "respect" may as well increase with the number of children a married woman has.

WhiteOne: So Nigeria People see the White Culture only from the distance ?
How come? If I walk the streets of London, Dublin or Austin Texas, Nigerian on mass, they have been there, since 30, 40 or even 50 years.
They work along side white people, their children go to the same school and universities, some of them are even are married to white folks or have Obama like grand children.
They are not back in the village back in Nigeria and do not have access to the main road.
C’mon Nigeria, not all your people are Oga’s with a Harem or Dogs.
Even, if you think about it, believe Now are days Nigerian might be just mix’ed.
When reading about this beautiful culture you guys had a good social system of doing things and managing them, well.
When it all did went wrong?

Theblessed:
If all the ladies on here are not feminists - I am a feminist with a "CAPITAL LETTER",ok?

So now, what's the hake?

Actually, some of us have a literal understanding, meaning/interpretation of what the movement is all about. Feminism is about recognising, respecting the existence, rights and, appreciating the contributions of women in society - so what's wrong with that?

Theblessed: Now let me open your eyes a little bit about this ideology - Feminism did not start today, ok! It started long ago in Ancient Isreal.

It started in the Bible when Zelophehad's 5 daughters (Mahla, Noah, Hoglah, Milcah and Tirzah) asked Moses to give them their father's inheritance after all Isreal where allocated their own inheritance and the 5 daughters of Zelophehad were deprived because, they were all women as their father had no sons - how could that be right? Numbers Chpt. 27 v. 1 - 11.

As a result, the girls cried out to Moses, and Moses sought the face of God and their God answered positively but with conditions (that on marriage the land goes back to the their father's family) - for our God is a fair, just and Righteous God!! Numbers Chpt. 36 v. 1 - end. Now, go read it all.

You see, this is the bit I've never heard any Pastor, Bishop, Pope, or Layreader preached about in our Churches - have you?

And one would ask, why don't they preach it?? Because, they don't want our eyes opened in that way/area!!

lastpage:
You dont need to start a war or a movement to point this out, even the uneducated men of the 19th century are ware of these things!
It is when you turn it to a gender-war that you loose focus!
Dont fight for what you already have, it is called foolishness!




Now, l am very happy for you on one thing, you agreed that "God is fair, righteous and good"!

That being the case, could you ask yourself: Why did God PUT A CONDITION TO THIS INHERITANCE? If he did not put a condition to the inheritance of the families with male children, why this one?
Did l hear you say God is no longer fair, just and righteous?

Truth is that "that is how it is and that is how God intends it to be: The Husband is the HEAD/LEADER of his family, and that includes his wife!
If God, in his "fairness, justness and righteousness", did not treat them as equal but rather put "a condition" to their supposed equality, how come you feminist think you are wiser, more righteous or fairer than God?
Why did the Bible even refer to women as "weaker vessels", to be treated with "gloves"? Does that not indicate that though not equal, women are "unique and special"?

As about respecting the rights of women to work or earn income? That is a forgone conclusion, l bet even you work for a living?

Accepting and respecting the "contributions of women to society"? Contributions of men or women to society is there for all to see and whether others respect it or appreciate it is a function of how relevant and effective such contributions are! NO NEED TO FORCE IT!

A lot of women are inventors, pioneers and pace-setters in many fields (Pick up any historical book on invention and you will see their names alongside the Albert Einsteins of this world) so what else does "feminism" hope to achieve if not chaos and family breakdown due to its confrontational attitude?

I still repeat, you dont need to fight for what is inherently yours except you have an inferiority complex!
Women who have achieved a lot or anything meaningful in this world "dont fight" for recognition, it goes along with it.

Take Oprah Winfrey for example, does she have any reason to fight for equality with any man?
She is already accomplished and well respected for her achievements, it is the empty barrel women that scream and fight for recognition because they have nothing to show for it, except ofcourse, their lousy mouth and aggressive attitude!

And that wont take them anywhere except misery-land!

Lastpage!

BTW: I think you love attention but your post still makes sense and would get you the required attention, without those "screaming and indecent font-size" or is it just in your nature to scream?

Busy_body:


The end result and ambition of every woman is geared into getting marrried and remaining married until they die putting aside their own needs, passion and self, even if it means dying at the hands of one's husband, AND YOU CALL THIS A BEAUTIFUL CULTURE.

A society whereby a man can beat his wife with reckless inpunity even till the point of death and the Police would not intervene and her folks would plead with her to stay put and manage to avoid bringing shame on the family, AND YOU CALL THIS A BEAUTIFUL CULTURE?

A society that looks down on single women, divorcees, bastards, women who don't give birth to boys etc, AND YOU CALL THIS BEAUTIFUL huh?


I could go on and on and on, bbut will rest my case. . .and say whatever floats your boat Missy.

lastpage:
You dont need to start a war or a movement to point this out, even the uneducated men of the 19th century are ware of these things!
It is when you turn it to a gender-war that you loose focus!
Dont fight for what you already have, it is called foolishness!




Now, l am very happy for you on one thing, you agreed that "God is fair, righteous and good"!

That being the case, could you ask yourself: Why did God PUT A CONDITION TO THIS INHERITANCE? If he did not put a condition to the inheritance of the families with male children, why this one?
Did l hear you say God is no longer fair, just and righteous?

Truth is that "that is how it is and that is how God intends it to be: The Husband is the HEAD/LEADER of his family, and that includes his wife!
If God, in his "fairness, justness and righteousness", did not treat them as equal but rather put "a condition" to their supposed equality, how come you feminist think you are wiser, more righteous or fairer than God?
Why did the Bible even refer to women as "weaker vessels", to be treated with "gloves"? Does that not indicate that though not equal, women are "unique and special"?

As about respecting the rights of women to work or earn income? That is a forgone conclusion, l bet even you work for a living?

Accepting and respecting the "contributions of women to society"? Contributions of men or women to society is there for all to see and whether others respect it or appreciate it is a function of how relevant and effective such contributions are! NO NEED TO FORCE IT!

A lot of women are inventors, pioneers and pace-setters in many fields (Pick up any historical book on invention and you will see their names alongside the Albert Einsteins of this world) so what else does "feminism" hope to achieve if not chaos and family breakdown due to its confrontational attitude?

I still repeat, you dont need to fight for what is inherently yours except you have an inferiority complex!
Women who have achieved a lot or anything meaningful in this world "dont fight" for recognition, it goes along with it.

Take Oprah Winfrey for example, does she have any reason to fight for equality with any man?
She is already accomplished and well respected for her achievements, it is the empty barrel women that scream and fight for recognition because they have nothing to show for it, except ofcourse, their lousy mouth and aggressive attitude!

And that wont take them anywhere except misery-land!

Lastpage!

BTW: I think you love attention but your post still makes sense and would get you the required attention, without those "screaming and indecent font-size" or is it just in your nature to scream?

luckgames:

We don't look down on women, who don't have have boys -- old school
In the developed countries we see cases where the husband kill his wife and some wives killed their
husband
There are issues of domestic problem all over the world, so stop playing
In Nigeria if you beat my sister we have a major problem dude

lastpage:
You dont need to start a war or a movement to point this out, even the uneducated men of the 19th century are ware of these things!
It is when you turn it to a gender-war that you loose focus!
Dont fight for what you already have, it is called foolishness!

Now, l am very happy for you on one thing, you agreed that "God is fair, righteous and good"!

That being the case, could you ask yourself: Why did God PUT A CONDITION TO THIS INHERITANCE? If he did not put a condition to the inheritance of the families with male children, why this one?
Did l hear you say God is no longer fair, just and righteous?

BTW: I think you love attention but your post still makes sense and would get you the required attention, without those "screaming and indecent font-size" or is it just in your nature to scream?

[size=16pt][b]Obviously, you lack knowledge and understanding of the Scriptures. Also, you're uncomfortable with the truths hence, the above! I suggest you read and re-read your Bible properly, ok!

You see, God had already decreed the conditions guiding land inheritance to the twelve Tribes of Isreal prior to Zelophehad's daughters outcry to Moses and the subsequent Test case, ok! He decreed that, each Tribe 'MUST HOLD ONTO' land allocated to them - it must not swop, it must not exchange and certainly, must not sale (paraphrased), gorit?

So, what God did was to provide for the girls (until they get married) - where non was given/provided for them in the first place. If they marry within their own Tribe, land would still remain in the Tribe however, if they married into other Tribes they must not take the land along, with them. So, what's wrong with that?

From your attitude here, I could see your kind would have kicked them/their mother out of their father's inheritance and took it all for yourself as the case in some part of Africa/Nigeria.

People who do this kind of wickedness think they'd escaped God's wrath but I have news for them - 'where can you hide from his presence?'. Remember Jonah, he thought, he'd ran away from God but did he?

Secondly, as for 'your loving attention and screaming' too bad! And what can you do about it? If you can't beat them join them - that's what I say, ok!

Is it because, I refered women to the authority supporting their fight for equality and their rights, is it why I became and attention seeker to you? It's all well! You know what? It's called knowledge, and knowledge they say, is 'POWER' - not attention seeking, ok! So, don't mess with a smart lady that knows her game!

The way I write is my style and not yours - and there's nothing you can do about it therefore, it calls for tolerance or quit out of here!!![/b][/size]

stagger: I do not think the issue here is equality. The relationship between a husband and a wife should be complementary; not based on equality or superiority.

I do not believe myself superior to my wife and vice versa. We all have our roles. Even though I can cook, I simply hate going to market and when my wife came into my life, I had relief in that area. In the same vein, I have a tendency to spend money unwisely. Her coming into my life has changed that. Similarly, she tends to panic and gets easily ruffled by bad news or tense situations. I am more composed and do not get ruffled easily. So I balance her out in that area.

For instance, I naturally fix all the gadgets and stuff in the house. But there was a day I bought a new hurricane fan and was having problems assembling it. I decided to put it off till night and went out. I came back home and met the fan assembled and working; done by my wife. Did that make me feel inferior? No way! I was happy because my wife showed herself to be a helpmate, which is their roles.

She washes for me, cooks for me, and gives me great sex, which keeps my mind and body in a very good tune to focus on my major role, which is to provide for the family.

That is what it is. It should not be a question of "I can do this better so I am superior to her/him". This is where society has missed it.

luckgames:

You mad as hell? single Some-Girl NO RESPECT FOR YOU
Hello dumb a?? B?
Please respect my opinion
I am not telling you to accept my opinion
I believe One man to one woman in a relationship
If you agree to be a co-wives good for you B
People cheat,

Theblessed:

[size=16pt]
Secondly, as for 'your loving attention and screaming' too bad! And what can you do about it? If you can't beat them join them - that's what I say, ok!

Is it because, I refered women to the authority supporting their fight for equality and their rights, is it why I became and attention seeker to you? It's all well! You know what? It's called knowledge, and knowledge they say, is 'POWER' - not attention seeking, ok! So, don't mess with a smart lady that knows her game!

The way I write is my style and not yours - and there's nothing you can do about it therefore, it calls for tolerance or quit out of here!!![/b][/size]

ronkebp:

This is too much!!! something is wrong somewhere!!! Last page!!!! you too talk!!! .

jennykadry: LMAO, So in other words, women should be raised inferior

All I owe my daughters in life is to teach them how to respect everybody and husbands more. I am not raising no daughter of mine to feel inferior when she stands beside a man and take any form of abuse from men.

It is this una type of mentality that is making women stay in abusive relationships this days because they were brought up to think they cannot make it farther than men.

Tufiakwa.

ogugua88: No, they're not equal, as in, they're not the same. One does need the other and vice versa, however. Keys and locks are not equal, but the key has no purpose if there is no lock. A lock will remain closed and without purpose if there is no key. Tada.

Meristem:
na people like u go destroy did world. de process don start wit satanic filisofies like urs.
by bible standard d man is the undisputed HEAD of a relationship(for single digit IQ pple like u, thats the LEADER) So where did ur bible refer to u as the NECK? Now i know y many marriages are headin for d iceberg!

WhiteOne: Have you heard the words assimilation and association
French assimilation and association far back 1800-1900 in Africa?
There are lot of Nigerian all over the developed Countries
Some time you have to ask yourself? This Dude or lady have lived here for over 30yrs
The state of being assimilated; people of different backgrounds come to see themselves as part of a larger national family.
as•so•ci•a•tion
Noun: 1. A group of people organized for a joint purpose: "the National Association of Broadcasters".
2. A plant community defined by a characteristic group of dominant plant species.

Are you aware of the London Riots?
There is not much assimilation and association going on.
And even some of the 2 nd or 3 rd generation is classified with an immigration background.
There might be a lot of disappointment going on with those people.
That brings me back to Mr. Obama in the White House.
Sorry, what I have seen is shocking, broken family with no men in the home, parents working 24/7 to make a living, divorce, ect.


Sometimes, I feel like cry out, where is your shame, where is your partner, men and woman alike, what are you doing to your children, “why” oh “why” you take the bad habits, the arrogance of us and make it your own, if we hardly do it.
People are running to church praying for a good wife or a good husband, praying, crying, shutting and even screeming to god, and, then you hear, oh, I had somebody and I send him or her packing, because of he/she was not for my likeness or he/she make a mistake.

some-girl:


Your assumption.

In which of the above sentences was your point made? I seem to have missed it