cibilola: My prayer is that none of my kids will meet or get married to poster's kids (male or female). I am no feminist and I also firmly believe that my husband is the head of our home. I will bring up my kids to value and respect others and there shall be no favouritism whatsoever because one happens to be a girl and the other, a boy.

tpia@:


can you explain this part because i dont get what you're trying to say.




and you repeated it here:





were you raised in the village by any chance? Just curious.

or is it your method of communication which is suspect.

tpia@:
@ topic

why not save this drama for your boyfriend?

do your personal preferences really concern anyone else?




as per equality- equality in being considered fair prey for any female the opposite gender to work their wiles on, to me, isnt necessarily something to be envied or attained for that matter.

learn the meaning of apples and oranges. Both are not the same even if they're fruit.

taryour:


well tpi@ if d only reason u av cone on this thread is to correct my english mistakes den goodluck to u cos odas av read n understood so i dont know how or y its difficult for u to understand. I wasnt raised in a village and even if i was,do u av a problem with that?

tpia@:
^are you female or male?

taryour: hello guys dis is my first post on nairaland and i want advice from u guys as regard my girlfriend.she is jst too stubborn please will like to know how to handle such situation so that she can listen to me at all times

taryour:

i should b asking u dat question cos i indicated i am female but avnt indicated.

tpia@:
<<loud silence>>

tpia@:


female by choice or female by God?

tpia@:
yes, you're a rabble rouser just like i thought.



explain this:



(I have a ) Stubborn girlfriend



https://www.nairaland.com/276584/sturborn-girlfriend#3925417


are you seun by any chance, or just one of his the usual touts around here.

silly question, i know. Isnt the answer obvious.

taryour:



u realy got me laffing here. Let me explain to u well, this account by d name taryour was formerly used by my cousin who is male since i ad a little problem opening a new account for myself i decided to use his snc he was no longer intrested in d account,all i did was change d sex from M to F. As u would av noticed dat post as been there snc years back,so y not check d recent post from ,my fear of dilevery n downwards. But if u still think oderwise dat am male den goodluck to u ooo.

maclatunji: tpia@, what is happening this evening ehn? Oya can you spare Taryour the harassment and provide superior argument. This thread should not degenerate to a fight between you and taryour.

tpia@:


wow, all this explanation is for who exactly?

myself?


sweetie, concentrate on fooling the others, not me.

yall are gaining something from it, no doubt.

tpia@:
yes, you're a rabble rouser just like i thought.



explain this:



(I have a ) Stubborn girlfriend



https://www.nairaland.com/276584/sturborn-girlfriend#3925417


are you seun by any chance, or just one of his the usual touts around here.

silly question, i know. Isnt the answer obvious.

neyostica:
@poster you are wrong, lets break it down
in the classroom: men and women are equal
in the office: men and women are equal
in politics: men and women are equal
in the society: men and women are equal
in marriage: man is head while woman is helpmate, so not equal

armyofone: OP,you try
drawing us back into stone age...do it gently sha.

taryour: Many atimes av heard some women claiming equality with men. Its a sin and we cant reverse God words that A MAN IS D HEAD OF A WOMAN. it is only an insane woman dat will claim equality with her husband. No reason wotsoever makes us equal. As mothers do we intend training our female children into beleiving they are equal to their brothers and the male they meet in life?

Richvkunt:


OP,
Very nice theory,though I doubt if any woman puts it to practice in any relationship.
Of course I know that women can never be equal to men,and I am sure that deep down in their hearts even the most rabid feminist knows this,however the question is do women who post theories like this actually practice what they preach?
OP,in your house are you really totally submissive to your husband in body and soul?
Do you actually run to your husband for decisions on every problem in your household like a good submissive wife should and accept these decisions without any input.
Finally,on a personal note,what if Daddy decides to bring in a second wife today,will you accept this decision and welcome this woman into your home because your husband is the head of the home?

Richvkunt:


OP,
Very nice theory,though I doubt if any woman puts it to practice in any relationship.
Of course I know that women can never be equal to men,and I am sure that deep down in their hearts even the most rabid feminist knows this,however the question is do women who post theories like this actually practice what they preach?
OP,in your house are you really totally submissive to your husband in body and soul?
Do you actually run to your husband for decisions on every problem in your household like a good submissive wife should and accept these decisions without any input.
Finally,on a personal note,what if Daddy decides to bring in a second wife today,will you accept this decision and welcome this woman into your home because your husband is the head of the home?

Richvkunt:


OP,
Very nice theory,though I doubt if any woman puts it to practice in any relationship.
Of course I know that women can never be equal to men,and I am sure that deep down in their hearts even the most rabid feminist knows this,however the question is do women who post theories like this actually practice what they preach?
[b]OP,in your house are you really totally submissive to your husband in body and soul?
Do you actually run to your husband for decisions on every problem in your household like a good submissive wife should and accept these decisions without any input.

taryour:

am glad my hubby is also a member on naira land so he knows all abt me.
i was raised to b submissive to my husband just as my mother was to my father n my grandma to my grandfather and dat is why dey remain in thier husbands house till date. So it will be unwise of me not to follow their steps.

On d issue of a sencond wife, no woman would ever be happy to allow such,so God helping me i will not give my husband any reason wosover to look outside not to talk of bringing in a second wife. I am legally married n av kid for my husband so for dat reason alone we are stuck togeder till death do us part. No woman prays to share her husband with other women. But if dats d way God wnts it den who am i? Althoug it will realy hurt me to my bones.

Richvkunt:


If what you are saying is true,your type of woman is rare.
You are the true epitome of a submissive African woman who knows her role in the marriage unlike all these fake feminist wannabes.
I believe your husband cherishes you and loves the way you have instilled the true African culture of the place of men ,women and boys and girls in the minds of your children.
May you and your husband have a long lasting marriage.