Exponental: Why r u guys accusing d hubby. Refer 2 d post below

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she caused it as a result of her not being home always and neglected him to concentrate on her banking career. There was no additional statement 2 back d lady up except 4 her job.
I want 2 conclude dat she left ALL in d hands of d maid (which she neva needed). She shld av at least not make her hubby feel lonely. Money is good but its not all abt money. She needs 2 agree on terms with her hubby or get a divorce.
Pinshi...pinshi!

tzars: The man is a lazy man. I'm tempted to believe that it is the wife who sponsored the wedding. If the man was working he wouldn't hav the time to mess around. A dog is a dog any time any day. Let the wife get on wit her life and forget the old cheating baboon.
Thats my submission.

mimima: having a maid of 20yrs at ds stage of their marriage is wrong.and besides the man is irresponsible.is he jobless?cos he should at be in his office between 8am and 5pm.

Funseeka: Permit me to derail this thread…

The truth is that men are like dogs that eat all rats. Too bad, but they can’t help it; that’s the way they are made. The game is, don’t tempt a man with sex, cos there is 99% chance he will fall. Too bad; again that’s how he is made. Most guys think they have self control but the truth is that the best control is to stay away from the temptation and not that you won’t fall if the “opportunity” presents itself. Especially, when he can chop and clean mouth.
Women think that men cheat when they are out of love or pissed with their girls. It a NO. Sex for most men has nothing to do with love but that overwhelming desire to Bleep. Sometimes you want to run away but your legs will fail you until you ‘’chop’’ that, then you come to your senses and start to cry. No wonder he forgot to use condom. For a woman, it’s difficult to understand.

The man may have tried to keep himself but failed. As we speak, he may not be proud of what he did but the power of sex usually impairs a man’s judgment. It is easier for the man to control himself when hez getting a good dose of sex from his wife or girlfriend; talking from experience. Don’t think your man can cope just because he said, sure he believed he could. Help him by saturating him with sex, otherwise he will fall even when he tried not to. Off course women do not know that many great men fell to that little hole between a woman’s legs. Great men conquered nations and lead countries, only to fall so cheaply to a woman’s pussy. Sampson where are thou!

So lady banker, count you losses and take your decision. If he shows remorse, then it’s genuine. Help each other to get over it. And put measures in place to avoid reoccurrence. I am enjoying my marriage and sometimes feel I am the only one who got it right.

Ileke-IdI:


Shattap there lol

I get you about Nigerian men. . . . such a pity for our Beautiful Nigerian women living in Nigeria

Mynd_44:
Don't generalize jorh. All Nigerian men are not the same

The truth is that men have more options. Men protect themselves and what they want while women leave it to others to protect them and live in perpetual assumption. Women wake up.

O.D.B.:
What kind of useless Job will insist that you can't get pregnant? Do they tell the guys who work there not get their wives or girlfriends pregnant?

flash_it: Madam don't leave your husband oooo! Why do we have abortion clinics? Take the wayward housegirl there and remove the bastard she's carry. Sit your husband down and talk sense into him if he does not listen take it into the bedroom and f*ck his brains out! Divorce is not an option neither is quitting your job. Abort that pregnancy first and then speak with your husband. If possible ask the doctor to tamper with the womb! If you don't fight for what you have you will lose everything. Don't play nice!

flash_it: Madam don't leave your husband oooo! Why do we have abortion clinics? Take the wayward housegirl there and remove the bastard she's carry. Sit your husband down and talk sense into him if he does not listen take it into the bedroom and f*ck his brains out! Divorce is not an option neither is quitting your job. Abort that pregnancy first and then speak with your husband. If possible ask the doctor to tamper with the womb! If you don't fight for what you have you will lose everything. Don't play nice!

KINGwax: saint of nairaland, here u come again. Alwys playin d better side...there are some circumstances dt will make u do d wrong thing so tell d fool d truth. What kind of a foolish job will not allow u be a woman and still u talk like it's all good. The man might be a cheat like me but still won't be able to go dt far as to let d lady knw. Have u come to think it cld be aborted without d wife knwin? But here, d man aint givin a fucck anymore!

KINGwax: saint of nairaland, here u come again. Alwys playin d better side...there are some circumstances dt will make u do d wrong thing so tell d fool d truth. What kind of a foolish job will not allow u be a woman and still u talk like it's all good. The man might be a cheat like me but still won't be able to go dt far as to let d lady knw. Have u come to think it cld be aborted without d wife knwin? But here, d man aint givin a fucck anymore!