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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by sdbaba: 9:10pm On Jun 24, 2012
boomssey: Hmmmn!u knw u av a point bt wot if d hobby had tld d gal 2 abort n she stubornly insistd on kipn d damn bele nko?u knw som gals dnt rily giv a hoot,wot dey wnt is wot dey wnt no mata wot.she mite b tinkin she culd b d sec madam u knw or even d 1st since d original madam neva get bele.u knw d ways most of dis househelps tink.once u giv dem an inch.

Are you talking from experience?
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Tatian(f): 11:15pm On Jun 24, 2012
Bank and their stupid policies. So unfair , they take your whole life and make you commit to the bank. Rubbish
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Goldieluks: 11:21pm On Jun 24, 2012
The man is a dog, confirm.
And i also blame the woman for keeping a house girl,when there's obviously
no child/children, for the house girl to cater for, and the wife is also a lazy
woman for not being able pay attention to her new home,all because of some useless time taking bank job.

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by MrCork17: 11:36pm On Jun 24, 2012
Goldieluks: The man is a dog, confirm.
And i also blame the woman for keeping a house girl,when there's obviously
no child/children, for the house girl to cater for, and the wife is also a lazy
woman for not being able pay attention to her new home,all because of some useless time taking bank job.


sweeery Goldie. Pelase can we mate? smiley
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Theblessed(f): 11:49pm On Jun 24, 2012
[size=16pt][b]Africa's oppression of women would never end.

Their oppression of women is streamed across every fabrics of society - from Religion to Employment Laws and Company Policies - women are marginalised and controlled all the time because, there are no Laws to protect them.

Could they place these slavish rules on a man? Obviously, not!

In some Churches women are abused - they have to undergo some medical examinations before their weddings e.g. some Churches ask for pregnancy tests before any white wedding could take place in the Church and I ask, where in the Bible did God say it must be done this way before a wedding could take place?

Imagine so called men of god violating peoples Human Rights and offending the 'Will of God'. Imagine, a Pastor climbing down the Pulpit and automatically, assume the role of a Gynaecologist and Obsterician, put together!

And I ask, who made him the judge over peoples behaviour.

With regard to Employment Laws - there are no protection whatsoever for women. One wonders, how we have more rights abroad than we have in our own country - What a shame!

Hey Lady, my advice is, get out of that 'selfish and inconsiderate silly marriage' now else, you will have another pregnancy issues to deal with, and get the 'blame' as well! After all, you'd been in the marriage for only one year and not much investment of your time and life had gone into it - so move on!!!

You are an 'Independent Woman' - Count your losses and move on!!!

I suggest you go and buy this song 'Destiny's Child - Independent Woman' and play it every time - to help boost your confidence that is already blown apart and re-enforce the idea, you don't need a man to be a woman and that you can achieve, whatever God said you can achieve without a man. Go do it, now!!!!

Why are there pressure on young women to get married and when they do, they get the blame from foolish philandering husbands not putting their 'Willy' where it should be - 'in their pants and keep it permanenly 'fixed there' until their wives returns.

What nonsense is this?

Is it compulsory one should marry? And when they eventually get married, it is full of heartaches - what nonsense is this?

Give it all up! You're are better off without the looser!

Give it up and do your best to get yourself out of that hell-hole of a country.

Imagine him now blaming you, as if he's not aware of your profession before he proposed to you and said 'I do'. Everyone knows that Banking job is so stressful, except your stupid husband - what a joke! He should be happy that he married a woman with a career who tries her best in the marriage.

Give it up baby, give up! You're better off without him, trust me!!!

Take the courage and switch your gear - he does not deserve you![/b][/size]

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by cosby07: 12:57am On Jun 25, 2012
Left for me ave said it before and I will say it, I cannot date or marry a banker, 80percent are 1st class prostitute evev d women dat are married. Atleast I know how my boss @ his friends treat some of dis banker girls all in d name of they want to meet their target, foolish girls after dem go sey dem no see husband. Good for her focus on ur job, your husband no dey important
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Nadoson: 7:04am On Jun 25, 2012
Evry body r corect wit there ways of ideas but one thing is sure.!
*Divorc may nt b d best uption cos dia r many singl ladies out dia lukin 4 husbnd 2 tok of 2nd hand as a wife.
*Sendin d maid pakin may nt b option cos a Dog is Dog no mata wot, do u blv dt d man cn stl go out 2 luk 4 ha 2 contuniue 4rm wia he stopd if his woman is nt dia.
*d Banker tekin in d child might bring a vry big problem in future if d child hapuns 2 b a boy cos he wud b termd as d first SON in d family wch d banka might nt lik 2 hear or 2 tok of admitin it.
To me, i blv dt both of dem made a mistake & wich can neva b reversd & it is 80% cloz for one 2 fall victim 2 wen temtetion coms. So We shud advice ha 2 call ha husband & tok 2 him as wif on hw 2 resolv d isue b/w demsefs.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by drfomsky(f): 7:51am On Jun 25, 2012
I don't understand why a man would stoop so low for a housemaid!

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by hiltino: 8:14am On Jun 25, 2012
question: Misleading Front Page Topic : Banker inpregnates house-girl and blames wife for absence

is the man also a banker?

Read well Mr man.... The Topic is "Bankers Husband" impregnates.....and not Banker. cant you read?.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by hiltino: 8:17am On Jun 25, 2012
Mr..Cork:


sweeery Goldie. Pelase can we mate? smiley

angry
Mr..Cork:


sweeery Goldie. Pelase can we mate? smiley
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 25, 2012
Lexusgs430: There Are only 3 options open to her
1 Divorce
2 Quit her job to save her marriage
3 Stay in Job, keep her marriage and damn the consequences

gbam
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by ochukoccna: 9:35am On Jun 25, 2012
This thread went to 7pages with most of the females supporting their sister without hearing the man's side of the story
He's jobless, she's paying the bills and all kinds of thrash is what I've seen
Not that I support the dude's actions
Even the OP took off after dumping her story on NL
So much for justice undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided

N:B
Thanks to all NL ladies for giving the discerning more than a sneak preview into how you guys reason wink wink wink wink wink wink
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by ocheejemb: 10:04am On Jun 25, 2012
I think she dodged the bullet on this one. It would be hard but she should leave the man. Or risk being second wife to the housegirl...the housegirls child will always and forever be the man's first born. He obviously doesn't deserve her, and this his excuse is just poor.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by ocheejemb: 10:06am On Jun 25, 2012
cosby07: Left for me ave said it before and I will say it, I cannot date or marry a banker, 80percent are 1st class prostitute evev d women dat are married. Atleast I know how my boss @ his friends treat some of dis banker girls all in d name of they want to meet their target, foolish girls after dem go sey dem no see husband. Good for her focus on ur job, your husband no dey important
Because every banker works in marketing....get over yourself...does a banker want to marry you sef?
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by faraic: 10:21am On Jun 25, 2012
how will he feel if his wife was impregnated by her boss

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by Sotty05(f): 10:23am On Jun 25, 2012
We all know d economic situation in nigeria,there's no such tin as house wife again cus that won't foot d bills especially wit d current scourge of job insecurity.

the man is selfish and a fool for blaiming her.its not by alws being close to ur spouse that wld make him not cheat,the ones that choose to behave like dogs wld cheat no matter d consequences.

she should pray about d issue and make her choice wisely as it pertains to fidelity issues too.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by dontsin: 10:41am On Jun 25, 2012
[b][/b]Come to think of it, It seems the man is idle/jobless. because if the man is actually working where will he have the time to commit such atrocity. This is a learning point for ladies that are desperate of marriage. Please if the guy does not have a job pls dont go into marriage. Regards.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by steffans(m): 10:51am On Jun 25, 2012
thers no big deal in working in d bank...but am sure wen d woman comes back..before action will start...d wife will complain she is tired and she "cant go there" cuz i dnt see why d husband cant wait 4 her to come bck 4rm work...well some women dey cause dis thngs 4 dem selvs...i bilv if der was undasatnding..in schedules and sex tym...dis mess wunt have happend undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by ohioleh: 11:32am On Jun 25, 2012
i suggest you quit your job immediately and find something less time consuming to do ,save the rest of your marriage jorrr...you dont know what it like to go on without sex as a man!trust me its not easy ooh...its definetly your fault,dere are ways to go about it without geting pregnant!step up girl

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by tort(f): 12:42pm On Jun 25, 2012
THAT MAN MUST BE A HEARTLESS MAN AND A PUBLIC DOG.IF HE CAN BRING HIMSELF DOWN AS LOW AS SLEEPING WITH HIS HOUSE GIRL THAT MEANS HE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON HIS WIFE.THE EXCUSE HE IS GIVING IS NOT ENOUGH REASON FOR HIS ACTION.WHY DID HE ALLOW THE WIFE TO WORK IN THE BANK IN THE FIRST PLACE.HE DOES NOT LOVE HIS WIFE AT ALL.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by flesh01: 1:35pm On Jun 25, 2012
they shld make the house girl a second wife tongue
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by sdbaba: 5:52pm On Jul 05, 2012
How far na? How this matter come end oooHHH!

The wife still dey abi she don pack comot and house help don become madam?

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Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by acidtalk: 9:55pm On Jul 05, 2012
sdbaba: How far na? How this matter come end oooHHH!

The wife still dey abi she don pack comot and house help don become madam?

The last I heard, the banker (wife) went to the husband's mothers place and one thing let to the other and she insulted her mother in-law calling her a witch that she(the mother inlaw) instigated her son to impregnate the housemaid.

Don't know how true it is, but heard a softsell carried the story and promise to keep updated gist on it.
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by sdbaba: 10:39pm On Jul 05, 2012
acidtalk:

The last I heard, the banker (wife) went to the husband's mothers place and one thing let to the other and she insulted her mother in-law calling her a witch that she(the mother inlaw) instigated her son to impregnate the housemaid.

Don't know how true it is, but heard a softsell carried the story and promise to keep updated gist on it.

Thanks for the update... pls I want to know where this matter end put abeg. Pls keep updating the thread as you have more info please
Re: I Impregnated Our Maid Because My Banker Wife Was Never Around. by acidtalk: 5:52pm On Jul 17, 2012
sdbaba:

Thanks for the update... pls I want to know where this matter end put abeg. Pls keep updating the thread as you have more info please


You don see Aproko man abi.
Make I give you the adress and name of the wife office make you go get update news from her?

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