Pweety4me:

I don't know, i don't actually understand their attractions neither do i support it but i try not to discriminate

I once had this lecturer who is a lesbian during a session we were speaking about gender & sexuality we look @ homosexuality, and since she is lesbian she talked to us about herself and how she thinks she is born 'gay' because she grew up around very straight people & @ the age of 5 she was already trying to kiss girls.

There is also an idea that lesbians are just waiting for the 'right' guy to come along.

You know what i really couldn't care less, i think they are all confused.

edicolove:

It is one thing to allow Jega finish the elections. it is another thing to excuse his complete failure. the guy failed, period. please dont excuse him or you will just be another condoning Nigerian and you will loose all your rights to a better Nigeria. The guy was too over confident and full of himself thinking he can run the course alone and prove he is a hard nut. he doesnt have to prove anything and he must learn to work with the people around him. he has no choice. if he sees anything wrong, he can deal with it. but to try to work alone is incompetence and bad leadership and it would lead to a failure of the entire elections and Nigerians will never forgive him.

damola1:

moving,

akkeem:

Jaga has accepted resposibility. Please lets give this guy a chance to conduct a free and fair election in Nigeria!

GudLion:

Jega has the damn blame. The man is not serious, how can you call off an election and fix new date without due consultation and considerations. The man is simply spontaneous and will end up conducting the worst election in the history of this great country. When the wind blows we shall see the anus of a fowl,

aanumama:

Inec is a total mess.

maxtop:

both !!! it is annoying that after spending tax payers money that way, inec can still come up with studip excuse. i wonder when they will they will get it right.

anfanio:

Ifecotag,
Let’s stay focused here and talk about the issues you brought up before jumping into politics. Nigerians want to better themselves in all areas of life, so people move from villages into towns and cities. The same applies to Nigerians that immigrated to other parts of the world, however when there are no BASIC INFRASTRUCTURES, what do you want them to come back to?
To use your words, when the ‘educated and uneducated’ come back home to use their acquired ‘skills and knowledge’ they get frustrated over lack of electricity, good roads, and other things taken for granted overseas. Nigerians are hard working and enterprising people if given the right environment to excel.
If the necessary infrastructures are in place you will be surprised to see the return of Nigerians in an unimaginable numbers.
‘Why is it that some Nigerians are very insensitive and ignorant to the environment, people and culture they find themselves in?’ You are wrong on this, it is the leaders in Nigeria that are very insensitive and ignorant to the environment, culture and the people they lead, they are opportunists without vision for the country.
‘Badmouthing’ Nigeria, the way I see it, is not a bad thing; it’s a statement of fact. When things are not working or are sub standard we say it’s bad, yes situation of things in Nigeria are terrible or bad. I don’t know where you have been, it could be good if our comparison is to Haiti, Somalia and Sudan (my sincere apologies to those Nationals) but if we have to choose a western country, bad is an understatement. I’m not going to tell you the infrastructures and the way things work in Nigeria are wonderful when you and I know they are not. Don’t let us fool ourselves, we can disagree on the words or the presentations but the conclusion is the same.

Ifecotag:

I mean no offense to anyone out there. But after my adventure to some countries and coming across Nigerians(educated and uneducated) there including those that have lived there for years.

Why is it that some Nigerians are very insensitive and ignorant to the environment,people and culture they find themselves in?  Must you work tooth and nail and sacrifice your dignity, badmouth your home land and Africa as whole to be accepted by westerners who will always look down on you one way or the other?  

How about using our skills and knowledge we acquired wherever to develop our homeland and Africa where people see you as the same?

Please I would like some honest answers from Nairalanders. No calling of names. Highly analytic approach to this thread would be very appreciated.

Peace out.

Pweety4me:

Where is your sense of humour boy!i picked one out of your words & added a celeb BIG DEAL!

Pweety4me:

What ladies? u need not jump into conclusions mr boy, plse make sense ok!

Pweety4me:

I guess u won't like Nicki Minaj much then

endmoll:

Body odour
Ego

tashanja:

Yeah, the fakeness is getting just too much; especially fake hair - from the high fashion model to the ground nut seller - they are all doing it, and most not even bothering whether it suits them or not.

Some worst cases dey oo, kai sometimes you no go even fit shout - e fit be like say monkey dey carry long hair waka

Ujujoan:

What are you? The devil's advocate?

He had many chances but he ruined it . . . he intentionally deceived her! He lied to her and used her to satisfy his sexual urges when he's in Nigeria, while playing perfect hubby to his wife out there.

A relationship where the other party is a pathological liar is destructive. Abeg love doesn't work that way.

If he actually married for papers then why didn't he discuss it with his GF before he went ahead to do it

My ex wanted to marry a white woman for papers but he discussed it with me first . . . . he gave me a choice to either stay or leave. That's respect/love!

MRbrownJAY:

You are absolutely right about the deceit but we all know how 9ja men and women function. Men will do whatever it takes to make that dough because that's what will keep the gf happy back home regardless of what he does/did (a BB here, Gucci bag there etc)
Also, unless she was patiently waiting with her legs tightly locked (which we can see by her actions that its highly impossible) then we have nothing to talk about in that area but to simply say: we all make mistakes.

MRbrownJAY:

You are absolutely right about the deceit but we all know how 9ja men and women function. Men will do whatever it takes to make that dough because that's what will keep the gf happy back home regardless of what he does/did (a BB here, Gucci bag there etc)
Also, unless she was patiently waiting with her legs tightly locked (which we can see by her actions that its highly impossible) then we have nothing to talk about in that area but to simply say: we all make mistakes.

Ujujoan:

Why is it that once someone talks about a bf abroad people just assume there were gifts involved

And even if there were, what the heck is the big deal

People sef!

MRbrownJAY:

Is it just me or does OP sound desperate to get hitch?! (hello, body clock alert!!!)
Ok let's analyze this RAW:
First you think that dating someone for 6yrs was wrong BUT we can clearly see that you didn't know jack shiit about this STRANGER.

Second he ask you to wait for him but you were in such a hurry to get married that you left . . . I guess you had your body clock in mind.

Third only to meet a new guy that you have NO CLUE ABOUT and claim to "fall for" within a month, yeah right!!!
Haven't you learn anything from the past 6yrs?!

Fourth You would have normally "jumped out the car" when you heard he was so young (you even said you couldn't cope with it) but since you are SO desperate to get hitched with just about anyone, you continued this charade.

Fifth AND TO TOP IT ALL, while you are with this spring chicken, you are MEETING and CONSIDERING some 40yr old divorcee, damn how desperate are you?!
Here is a clue: if you keep on searching, while dating this young guy, it means he is NOT what you seeking for, so do yourself and him a favor and let him go.

As for the icing on the cake, you wrote: "it is so painful AT MY AGE to lose out just like that". Honey, I am sorry to say that thinking the way you do, you will probably NEVER find happiness!

Let me be the bearer of bad news: the fact that you don't have the discipline/time to focus on ONE PERSON and truly get to know them (desperate people tend to act this way) will end up in A) never truly knowing who you are dating B) ultimately marrying a stranger C) end up a miserable bitter wife when the honeymoon period is over.

ogugua88:

After finding the artificial finger nail, you still proceeded to eat the soup?
[/quot Did you fall down with your head when you were a kid? There is no way i can eat the food with such discovery.