hi guys,, i can't be confused cos my brothers re malabos,, so i always get the rite infos @ d rite tym, unical's post UTME form isn't out yet!!!!!!!!!!!, i'll kip u guys updated as soon as i get the msg.

No mai dear u haven't,, its jst dat wat took u 2 him in d first instance isn't there anymore das y u wnt 2 move 2 another bank acct, i dey fil u jor,

sis, das d best thing u could do 4 naw,, or can't u see dat d more u re helping him d more he relys on u, i dnt even think u ve any idea about wat he has been using d one's u gave 2 him in d past for?, @ least if its a financial problem,, the two of u should sit down talk and plan on how to solve d probs nd even talk about how much is involved, plzz do not blame urself 4 anything,

Ve been in such situation before,, Even when my parents took him as their own son,,, his own mother doesnt want to see me, nd i was pretending to my family that everything was fine, though it got to a point whereby i had to tell my mum about his mum's behaviour, nd dat was wat leads to our breakup,, cos my own mum too started misbehaving towards him, so plz talk to ur mum b/4 ur girl changes her mind,

sis. it ain't easy @ all,,, cos am presently in 1 rite now, even wen we both reside in lagos,,, there is still this distance thing going on in our relationship,,, i do the communication thing the most,, send him mail, try to be the faithful,, patience, girl,, but he still complains alot, so i think understanding is the main thing in a distance relationship,, if the both parties understands each other,, there won't be a prob. @ all.

Why would u put all ur heart on a guy, wen u no dat he can hurt u at anytime?. to be sincere i think u would ve seen the sign coming but ur luv 4 him was too strong dat u can't leave him even wen he impregnated ur GF. babygirl u screwed things up urself. Plz stop thinking abt him nd move on wit ur life

Wat re u still waiting for?, do you want ur girlfriend to hear from her first or from u?.

my dear jane, people may curse u but GOD loves u, wat u ve 2 do now is to run away 4rm ur husband and his entire family including his brother, cox wat u ve just done is a bis taboo.

I don't think u really no ur girlfriend cos if u do u will no her likes and her dislikes, when she's saying yes and no, And most especially her friends. Since u guys have dated for 4yrs, U re suppose 2 be her best friend to no her other friends.

My own contribution is dat, he fit be say the guy don do one bad thing to another girl before and the girl con swear 4 am, And na the swear con dey work through another person. Cos if no be swear or juju, How person wey u say u want marry (Bite, stab, and want blind ur eye) Even before the marriage and u still marry am. My people na this kind thing oyinbo they call WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND . Wetin he just need na one kind spiritual prayer, And i hope say GOD go see am through the divorce AMEN.

I dnt believe dat guys like u still exist. i can rilly feel ur pain, But all u ve to do is pray 4 her so dat GOD will 4give her 4 hurting u nd not curse her b/cos of the love u once shared.

Re u sure he is not seeing any friend 4 an advice?, Because after cheating on u he comes home to tell u, nd later ask 4 4giveness. In my own opinion i think he loves u, But there's someone advising him against u. so dear sister, if u love him talk to him, no the people he mingles with, and i tell u, nightclubs will become his worst enemy, nd "u" his best friend.

My dear sister it's not the end of the world, All u have to do is to thank GOD that someone told u is married nd had a baby boy, If not u would ve been d one giving birth to dat baby. before u will realized is married nd it would ve been too late.

maybe she is no more interested in the marriage dats y she's just looking 4 a way 2 get out of it. or else who is she keeping the figure 4 if not you. And if u say she is now staying with her mother, Then u suppose 2 no say no way 4 u again cos na the mama they put fire 4 everything if not she go ask 4 more grandchildren or tell her pikin to go back to her husband's house. .