@poster
You need to undertake an exhaustive research on this one, because u are not even 20% correct. Most nigerian women i know and come across everyday, hardly ever go anywhere without their wedding rings on, they love to flaunt it even when they arent enjoying their marriage. But most nigerian men are guilty of this. End of discussion!!!

This calls for a celebration so dont do anything silly. I had a neighbour friend who got pregnant 3months after the birth of her first daughter. She went behind her husband and aborted the baby. Her husband never forgave her, labelled her, a murderess even when she gave birth to another daughter, 18months after the incidence, he says the aborted baby probably didnt want to wait long before coming into this world. He must have been a boy, a son he had always wanted, this he always retorted whenever they quarreled.

Hunk A:

I've been searching to see if i can find a family where a child will say "i love my daddy just the way he behaves",but i've found none.its a pity though that most african children just live wit a man who has no daddy aspect in them.it hurts real bad especially when the crown it wit wicked acts towards our mothers who do their duty so well.i know cos i'm a victim n stil live wit it as i write.i just hope our fathers will pause n think just4a minute before they act cos u r just deepening the barrier

Me i love my daddy ooh, i love him just the way he is, even though he makes me angry atimes.
Whatever your experience with your dad leave it in the past and create a wonderful relationship with your kids or when they come around, you will benefit from it as all the hurt you feel will melt away.
best wishes.

honeric01:

She needs a younger man who would wash her panties.

Chei!!! This woman is in trouble. She really needs to mellow, otherwise,

na2day?:

turn to a brawl? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLL! who will lose that fight? most likely not the guy

na2day? so you would beat your wife blue black, if it eventually turns into a brawl
shame on you, is she not the same person you claim to love and marry for better or worse.

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Are they not naturally born as maids?

Who delievers the children?

Who breasts feeds them?

Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?

At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?

Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . .


Boy it is no fault of yours. If only your mum had discarded u right from when u were in the womb, u wont be such a disgrace to her, and every other female in your life.

If your wife slaps u, just turn and walk away and her conscience will prick her till she apologises. Please do not slap her in return, because it could result into a nasty brawl.

If your wife slaps u, just turn and walk away and her conscience will prick her till she apologises. Please do not slap her in return, because it could turn nasty brawl.

It is normal, and i have seen cases of 15 months after child birth.
It has a lot to do with breastfeeding and hormones, so do not despair, but you need to
be cautious so as not to be pregnant again soon, as it is not 100% percent prevention .

@poster

After reading your story, i feel really sorry for you and your kids, but i know that nothing is impossible
with God. Keep praying and convince her to go for counselling, you dont have to join her accept your
presence is requested. Do not assume she wants a divorce, until u know there is no hope of redeeeming your marriage, absolutely.
I wish you all the best.

PEAK milk is the best,

Let me speak for myself, sincerly i actually cant remember the last time ( in years) that i took any other brand,almost 7 years now , it just dawn on me.

@Hoodwing,

OOH DEAR BOY, HOW SHALLOW, LIKE I SAID.

@Hoodwing
CONSCIENCE u meant to say!!!

Why would it prick me? Your heart gets broken in bits and pieces, all u do is lash out at ladies? Instead of licking your wounds in private, u show us how shallow you are. Dont you know how 'REAL MEN' do it. You dont go buying recharge cards and expect more, whatever u give so shall u receive.

op,
I think u have been hoodwink. why generalise?

Next time u meet a lady, check well. Yet u say ladies are parasites, and you dont stop calling them.
U are worst than a parasite yourself, insulting everyone who see how foolish you write.
if u dont know what to write, then dont.

My dear are u sure u are not the problem here? If out of ten u find eight uninteresting then
maybe u should check yourself. See if u hanging with your types or the right kind.
U just might be surprised.

Hey poster, u have totaly lost it.

Coming out out to say u now love her husband means u have been envying ur sister and do not wish to discontinue this act of yours. Mark my words, if your sister finds out about this, she would forgive her husband
but u she would never forgive.

U have betrayed your sister's trust just only two months on training, u go sleeping with her husband.
What u have done is an 'ABOMINATION'. Get down on ur knees and ask God for forgiveness and detest from this act u have entangled yourself in. May God forgive u and not visit u in anger.

I dont think it is possilbe. A friend of mine tried being friends with her ex but it just didnt work. Each time they were together, the guy kept bringing their past relationship into the picture, the constant reminder eventually lead them to having sex, and only made her see reasons why the just being friends thing could never work. Later on, she told him off, but he made sure he destroyed her present relationship with a promising suitor.

I think a man should give his wife allowance especially if she is a house-wife, there is nothing wrong in being a stay-at-home mom. Somewhat they must reach an agreement, he either gives her allowance or she gets working. But every parent knows that bringing up their children without major outside influence like e.g Nannies, Care-givers or even Househelps is priceless. That aside, it helps the man in a way, knowing how much he sets aside for his family gives him a clear start, without having his wife piss him off, each time she needs money to take care of some basic things.

i dont think u should leave ur marriage, talk to ur husband when he is in a good mood. Not immediately after another episode of insults, and if u have spoken to him severally and he still insists on insulting them  even with ur children present, then u wud have to try ignoring him till he realises u are not speaking to him and when u see he is ready to make-up then u can tell him ur feelings once again. explaining to him the effect it would have on  your children growing up,  they may end up insulting the both of u, thereby becoming rebelious since it is tradition to do so. kids tend to imitate adults especially when it is their parents. whatever goes around, comes around u know, .he should know this. Dont go insulting his parents because it would only aggregate issues, i wish u all the best.

i dont think u should leave ur marriage, talk to ur husband when he is in a good mood. Not immediately after another episode of insults, and if u have spoken to him severally and he still insists on insulting them even with ur children present, then u wud have to try ignoring him till he realises u are not speaking to him and when u see he is ready to make-up then u can tell him ur feelings once again. explaining to him the effect it would have on your children growing up, they may end insulting the both of u, thereby becoming rebelious since it is tradion to do so. kids tend to imitate adults especially when it is their parents. whatever goes around, comes around u know, .he should know this. Dont go insulting his parents because it would only aggregate issues, i wish u all the best.

well they should be allowed into the labour room. if it wud make them appreciate the women folk better then it wud be a plus for women.

what an abomination, i pity their generation. they are either both sic k or crazy. Their father and husband should not only send them packing but should cleanse and rid himself of their existence.

hello i am kinda new to this forum, this actually my first post, hope i got right

Hi am new on nairaland. My name is gloria, i hope to have a blissful time here. Seun i hope i posted this on the right board. Im kinda new here, i guess i would be forgiven. Lots of love to all nairand users.