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Family / Re: Girl Set Ablaze By Nurse Dies by JisolaMar(f): 1:21pm On Aug 05, 2013
And the girl died....I wept bitterly loudly when I read this in last Saturday Punch...i could not help it...
and then this..the poor girl finally died.....i cant stop sobbing....so sad!
i hate people who malteat children... may they get what they have sowed....

I think about this i cannot fully imagine the lil girl's agony...the evil woman must have stripped her naked b4 she doused her wt kerosene and set her ablaze for the effect to be so horrible...HA!..Eeyan n'ika!

if only the girl's mother had the means to cater 4 the child herself....
Women...pls get a job..a vocation, a trade, some thing doing so that u can fend for urself and ur children...dont av more children than you can fend for...
Nairaland / General / Re: Nigeria Parables And Slangs by JisolaMar(f): 5:38pm On May 16, 2013
make me sef post sthn:

at all, at all na im be winch. ;
Crime / Re: Mother Slashes Daughter With Blade For Wasting N100 by JisolaMar(f): 3:09pm On May 02, 2013
Pure wickedness @ its height!
This goddam woman shld be arrested.
Celebrities / Re: Picture Of Ras Kimono And Ogechi (His Daughter) by JisolaMar(f): 2:30pm On Apr 24, 2013
^^^ @ ninja4life, i 4got to add that this isnt a thread its a rope tongue tongue
Celebrities / Re: Picture Of Ras Kimono And Ogechi (His Daughter) by JisolaMar(f): 2:28pm On Apr 24, 2013
ninja4life: NAIRALANDERS PLS HELP ME! I AM NEW HERE PLS CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW TO COMMENT ON A THREAD AND ALSO IS THIS REALLY A THREAD OR WHAT IS IT CALLED TANKS FOR UR ANSWERS IN ADVANCE.
NINJA4LIFE

NLanders, abeg, how new can someone who registered on December 14, 2012 & has 8 topics + 13 pages of posts be
Properties / Re: 3bedroom Flat To Let @ Medina Estate Gbagada For 1yr by JisolaMar(f): 10:22am On Apr 23, 2013
still on?
Properties / Re: 2br Flat @ Medina Estate Gbagada, 500k X 2yrs by JisolaMar(f): 10:20am On Apr 23, 2013
still alive!
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by JisolaMar(f): 8:18am On Apr 09, 2013
Cherechy: It baffles me when I hear guys say they are trying to put one or two things together before getting married. In d case of those still in school or studying it's understandable but in d case of a grown ass man, working and lives on his own I don't get.
This in my opinion is jst a useless excuse to buy time. A guy that is ready for marriage will get married, regardless of financial status. After all, shoemakers and okada pple marry everyday.
Like my sis will always say, no story has ever been told of a couple dt got married and now died of hunger. Once there's life, there's hope.
The money u spend on Mr Biggs chicken can buy one pampers, the money you use to hang out with ur buddies over d weekend, can make soup and stew, its all a matter of priority.
Some guys are working, their girlfriends too, yet they'll see they are not ready to settle down. I wonder the mansion they want to acquire or the car they want to buy!
Start small and move on from there. U want to write ICAN, who says marriage will inhibit you? What pple don't know is that there's a blessing that comes with marriage. U get married and all of a sudden, things start falling into place.
Please and please this long courtship of a thing should not be encouraged.
*drops mic

God bless u, sweet! kiss
Romance / Re: Long Courtship Is Bad Business By Funke Egbemode by JisolaMar(f): 4:35pm On Apr 08, 2013
bukatyne: What do you call long courtship?

There is no blanket for all cases.

I meant my fiancé when we were in 100L,

Whether we like it or not, we must date for at least 5yrs (4yrs in school and 1yr NYSC)

let's say we are extremely lucky and we get jobs the day we get our NYSC discharge certificate. Then, we would work at least for a year b/4 we can get married... that's 6yrs. (If there is a delay for one or more year b/4 getting jobs, it increases our courtship years more.)

We were lucky and got jobs 1year after service... We are currently in year 7 and will get married in year 8 by God's grace.

There are however some obvious time wasters especially when both or the man has started working before they meet.

IMO, what you described above is not entirely courtship. Which 100L guy proposes to a lady? It is actually dating which then progressed into courtship.
If you notice, the OP was refering to ladies & gents who were/should be ready for marriage and not students, who obviously still have more important things than marriage to settle.

Courtship starts when a marriage proposal is made and accepted. Then, you begin to plan your futures together and generally prepare for the wedding ceremony(ies?). Anything before then will just be friendship (as i would rather call it), dating, boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, etc.

I agree wt the OP that if a man doesnt propose in 52 weeks and u dont c seriousness/commitment/what could be impending him, then u shld take a walk...that's why as ladies we should try as much as possible not give in to 5ex demands...usu it makes u love up, think we av given so much & not easily c the danger signals...

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Family / Re: How Often Do You Talk To Your Parents? by JisolaMar(f): 1:05pm On Mar 20, 2013
I hardly call my folks :. ...sometimes when i seee their calls & i'm not in a gisty mood...i just put d phone on silence...i dunno; just not a cal/phone person.
I tried to make it a weekend routine but i soon got bored out undecided

My father still caled me yesterday & today and i didnt pick....he has sent a message instead...maybe i'd cal him when i get back home today...
the irony now is that i hardly cal my in-laws too and they are complaining to high heavens esp. my MIL & sis-in-law.
Career / Re: What Is The Fate Of A Mild Stammerer At Job Interviews by JisolaMar(f): 4:15pm On Mar 19, 2013
InvertedHammer:

Avoid any question that involves saying crocodile or hippopotamus.
my bro, its not just crocodile or hipopotamus; even my own surname gets stuck in my throat a lot of times. Oh ! i hate introducing myself those days....i used to stammer so badly...

lately, i am overcoming it. Two things have really helped.
1. more public speaking.
a. My local parish had a lot of ministers transfered lately and i have found myself on the roster to minster a no of times..even last wek tuesday...
b. I have taken up more roles in my office that reqires speaking publicly. i actually used 2 shy away from it. Incidentally, i noticed that the more i talk the better i get at it...
2. confidence in my achievements/subject matter of discussion
Politics / Re: Oga At The Top: NSCDC Defends Obafaiye by JisolaMar(f): 11:56am On Mar 18, 2013
What did u expect? Like Oga @ d top, like foot soldiers....smh undecided
Education / Re: Tinuade Okoro Is Ghana's Best Graduating Medical Student by JisolaMar(f): 11:42am On Mar 18, 2013
Congrats girl!
Go Tinu! Go Tinu!! Go Tinu!!!
Politics / Re: Reasons Why "My Oga At The Top" Jokes Must Stop. by JisolaMar(f): 5:11pm On Mar 15, 2013
chiboy11: Lol

I like the tops these babes r rocking! Where can i get my own MOATT tops....

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Music/Radio / Re: Omawumi Vs Tiwa Savage, Who Sings Better? by JisolaMar(f): 3:56pm On Mar 14, 2013
tunapawizzy:
omawumi ofkes

helloooo.....do u mind & did ds just read like im been picked on
I wonder when some NL users will recognize agreement/allianceembarassed
Music/Radio / Re: Omawumi Vs Tiwa Savage, Who Sings Better? by JisolaMar(f): 3:35pm On Mar 14, 2013
Barbar2ndey: i've bin hearing diz 'my oga at d top'..wetin e mean sef?
https://www.nairaland.com/1224567/hilarious-photos-oga-top-nscdc/3

my dear, Try d link above...dazall..
Music/Radio / Re: Omawumi Vs Tiwa Savage, Who Sings Better? by JisolaMar(f): 3:15pm On Mar 14, 2013
Omawumi, by far
Music/Radio / Re: Omawumi Vs Tiwa Savage, Who Sings Better? by JisolaMar(f): 2:58pm On Mar 14, 2013
tunapawizzy:
I DONT WANT TO PICK ONE NOW THEN MY OGA AT THE TOP WILL PICK ANOTHER ONE dazz orl

Pick one first na..or waittt! waiitt! dazall...i cant shout o... grin grin grin

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Forum Games / Re: How Many Dots Can You See? by JisolaMar(f): 3:27pm On Mar 08, 2013
35 (blacks + whites)
Romance / Re: Things Women Want In A Man by JisolaMar(f): 3:22pm On Mar 08, 2013
Richfella: 3 Things Men Want from a woman:

1.) Órgasm
2.) Food
3.) And 'Shut the fvck up'.

Mr Richfella, i really wonder what u r Now im beginning to c ur true colours.
Were u not the one, abt 2 or 3 days ago advocating that women/girls can sleep with al the men they want and yet we shld still call 'em Mother Mary and not d sluts they really r
Crime / Re: Two Teenagers Molest Their Sister To Death In Delta by JisolaMar(f): 3:19pm On Mar 07, 2013
hay sal: D best punishment z 2 take dem 2 ALUU community or beta still pass dem 2 a gAy...... ;DD best punishment z 2 take dem 2 ALUU community or beta still pass dem 2 a gAy......

I really second u on the Aluu part.....ba5tards!!!...i feel overwhelmed with such rage....
Oh! poor little girl!
Parents, pls keep ur eyes on ur lil ones....these ba5tards can be everywhere

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Romance / Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by JisolaMar(f): 3:04pm On Mar 07, 2013
shymexx:

Most people don't really care about cooking skills especially if you're the busy type and if you've lived by yourself for a long time... Cooking skills is kind of Af-nish(Africanish).... Heck, how do you expect someone like me who has been living by myself since I was 16 to care about cooking skills when I rarely even eat at home?? I don't even care about homemade foods, to be honest... grin

Dude, wait till u taste homemade meals.... smiley
Politics / Re: Benin-ore Road Kidnap May Have Been An Inside Job. by JisolaMar(f): 10:11am On Mar 06, 2013
So what is Greener line doing about the fact that they cannot rule out their drivers being an accomplice to this act ?
i shudder to thnk that this is my route and i ave taken Greener line Siena bus Warri-Lagos a no of times!
oh God my protector!
Celebrities / Re: Ayo Adesanya Tries Removing Tattoo, Says It’s A Sin To Have It by JisolaMar(f): 4:01pm On Mar 04, 2013
Somebody shld better advise this woman not to wound herslf in the name of tattoo-removal....
it is well o..
Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo & Kenny Rodriguez At Her Movie Premiere by JisolaMar(f): 2:45pm On Mar 04, 2013
I think they look happy & great together...and Uche is definitely looking better since getting married....
the hubby seems 2 love her a lot too...
yeah..dont ask me..i av d ability 2 deduce from pix.... grin
Music/Radio / Re: Damino Damoche Shot Dead At LASU Gate by JisolaMar(f): 2:37pm On Mar 01, 2013
Okija_juju: My take on this;

He was most likely a cult member.

This hit was definitely carried out by a rival gang as retribution for a sin he must have committed in the past.

I am surprised that he wasn't packing a gun himself as most marked men do.

Final year cult members who have a history are more likely to be killed.


Reminds me of a case in Rivers State years back when a final year student was killed immediately after he finished his defence. He had anticipated it and had stationed his crew around the hall, but the guys who came for him where hellbent on closing his file that day.. Got hit in the leg with a pump action and then was slowly and painstakingly hacked to pieces.



MORAL LESSON: The wages of sin is surely death.. There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof is destruction.

Okija-Juju! wink
Nairaland / General / Re: Is Time Spent On Nairaland Worth It? by JisolaMar(f): 4:47pm On Feb 28, 2013
I bliv d time av spent here av been worth it....information + entertainment in an entertaining way.....grin
pardon my tautology...
Food / Re: Useful And Handy Uses Of Salt !!!! by JisolaMar(f): 4:17pm On Feb 28, 2013
[b][/b]Test the freshness of eggs in a cup of salt water; fresh eggs sink; bad ones float.
8. Add a little salt to your boiling water when cooking eggs; a cracked egg will stay in its shell this way.
9. A tiny pinch of salt with egg whites makes them beat up fluffier.


Salts & eggs seem 2 av a lot in common
Family / Re: Two Wonderful Experiences You Had As A Teenager.... by JisolaMar(f): 4:50pm On Jan 29, 2013
Symphony007: I'm still a teen so i hope this thread is brought back sometime in the distant future for my contribution.
There r teenagers on NL I feel so old !
Education / Re: Your Best And Worst Secondary School Subjects? by JisolaMar(f): 4:51pm On Jan 25, 2013
asala1: Best: Maths, F/Maths and physics.
Worst: Biology (hated those practicals) and Geography (heated those lumbering in zaire bullshit)
hello Sir, how did u remember lumbering in zaire....that's even d interesting part of geography...
Education / Re: What Was Your Nickname In School And Why? by JisolaMar(f): 4:23pm On Jan 25, 2013
Edoblakky: They called me wahala because I was full of troubles.
hey bros, u stil nairaland? wink.....
Family / Re: Is Anything Wrong With Marrying Your First Suitor? by JisolaMar(f): 3:20pm On Jan 25, 2013
m-ployer:
Do people stil have suitors now? I mean a situation where a man appears from nowhere and proposes to a lady
my brother, i tire oshocked shocked

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