i'll kneel and stylishly, just an expression of love(respect) not in surrender. I only surrender to Baba God.

yeah Selena, but the deed's already done. So what's your advice?

@poster, u are so damn right!

I have this friend who met a guy she thought would not have a thing for her since according to her, he's smoking hot and all the chics were clamouring for him. It turned out he liked he, there was chemistry and before she knew it, they were in love. But she'd lied to him she was 4years younger than she actually is. He's principled and she fears if she tells him the truth he'll freak out and may dump her or might never trust her. My advice is that she should tell him now and face the consequences, if he dumps her for a little white lie, he ain't worth the trouble. What d'you u think?

@ Chibu I don't know where to start with u. Are u a Cross River or uta_afang in Cross River? First of all Eman mi ke obio Efik means my folks are in Calabar not that I'm in Calabar. Do you understand GOOD english or should use your atam language? Tinapa for your info is not a failure, it was only handed over to a failure your atam man who did not know what to do with it. Small Marina Resort under his nose he can't handle. It's unfortunate there was not enough time for DD to kick start and stabilise Tinapa before handing it over to your atam man. What's the fight with properties NRC, Metro etc. Isn't it obvious that your man has no idea of his? Why are u not talking about the celebrated Calabar Carnival, the cleanliness culture DD has caused Cross Riverians to imbibe admists other laudable projects Donald has achieved in CRS. It's a shame on u and your atam people. Go ahead and deny you are not atam. You talk about Dansuki, Ekpo Okon and the rest, what do u know about leadership? These people doff their caps for the same man you re castigating irrespective of their differences. My dear try hard as you may you can't stop Don's shine. He's way outta you peeps' league. He's the Don, he's a genius.

well well well, it's her choice. But I think it's an awful thing to do. I want my wedding all classy, why would I use my hands to spoil it. It's not a wise thing to do.

@ flashfast1, trust me it definitely was beefing n they did that 2get to me. Obviously they didn't like the fact that we were close.
@ ayettymama, he hesistated, then asked me which way I was going, he seemed confused, but I assured him it was fine, he could go.

There was this seminar I attended. Somehow, I picked a permanent seat which I sat throughout the seminar.

There was this guy, good looking who did the same, he always sat infront of me.
During the course of the seminar, we got acquainted, we would discuss, have lunch together during break.

Then this day, we were strolling from the seminar gisting towards the road to board a bus when these two girls drove by and offered to drop him off. Dem no even send me, na so dem carry the guy waka o!

Just keep your face clean always. By that I mean wash your face at least thrice a day with preferably an antiseptic soap.
Do not scrub face as this worsens the pimples. Use a face towel in place of sponge.
As much as u can, do not pick them.
The above will help u look better but note that pimples has no cure! Good luck!

People should stop the hating of their successful countetparts.
Work hard and leave the position of 'the masses!'

My advice 2her is this:
change your bank account. When you get paid, give your mum £500, u need to save money too. I know its a hard stance but u need to take it and stop crying. U can't take all that responsibility at your age and with both parents alive. They need to step up to their responsibility. It's just not fair how she treats you. And pls from the 400 that's yours make sure u take care of yourself, look good n attract a good man who'll deliver u frm your mum.

But most especially try prayer, it sure works!

I have been in this relationship for 4years now. I have come to know the guy very well but I don't think I want to spend the rest of my life with him.

We have compatibility problems e.g he's laid back sort of and I'm more upbeat.

He doesn't trust me(though he will never admit it) and it's even worse now that we are far apart. He calls me on the average 5times a day, mostly to know where I am and with who. And when ending the call he'll say 'I love u' and I must respond same else,

He also has a temper. He would flare up at the slightest provocation e.g he calls and I don't pick or my friend picks. I've been so embarrassed at his outbursts. But he has never laid a finger on me and when I talk to him about it he'll change for like a week or more and revert to his old self.

He likes me a lot I think and friends tell me it's love. But I want to opt out because I don't think I can live with that. I have tried breaking up with him before but he cried like a baby to my brother and his brother too kept calling me to pls settle with him.

I want to break up with him but without hurting him or having him cry back and he's not a baby, he's 35. I'm 31 and I need and settle down and in a home I'll have peace. I have been faithful to him and as long as I'm with him I can't see anyone else.
Pls I need sincere advices and not abuses on him nor myself. Thank u.

congrats guys!!

@ Kushe
What's wrong in watching too mush Grey's Anatomy?
Are you denying the fact that our hospitald are beyond standard?
Oh pls!

Wait a minute. Wasn't it same D'banj that was rumoured to date Ini Edo or was it true? So after Genny who next? Rita or Stephanie or Uche? By the way where's Uche Jumbo?

All of you on nairaland that will just be opening your mouths to talk carelessly, may it not happen to you that uare face to face with death and u even miss dear ones in the process. The trauma alone is hard to deal with.

But people will just be writing anything that comes to their minds. Sure some hearts are stonedead.

My dear Adebayo, I know that feeling, may God help you thru it so u donst continue in depression. U'll get thru it.

light and darkness don't agree. This is why you don't like him. Get born again!

first of all I regret clicking this link but sad I'm already here.

Ok, I saw Yar'adua, he's frail, bedridden, can't open his eyes, he's on life support, bla bla bla.

I guess that's what we expect from Bishop Oyedepo then we'll hail him.

Lemme ask, of what use will this information be to you?

In all honesty, I NOW think it was best Turai kept private her husband's state of health. Why? Cos you are truly not concerned about his well being, u just want something to debate on.

It's just not fair how we all are going about our president's state of health. Can we empathise for once? Can we show love and respect to our leaders? Can we criticise constructively for once.

Maybe if Yar'adua were your uncle or better still your father or even your husband and you were at the receiving end of the heat, you would've thought better.

If you will not pray for nor support his family through this trying period, won't u at least let them be?

There abideth these 3 thing, FAITH, HOPE aND LOVE but the gr8tst is LOVE. Show some love Nigerians!

;d!