stariobran:
so it's thanksgiving mode here I guess. I picked my letter to resume on monday 22nd for production enhancement. .....I think I had one of most frustrating experiences....something I can't even recount....but I'm thankful it worked out well

TreyHunt: I hear sperry hv strtd up wit medz.

tonididdy: championship manager 2014 and tennis 3D

tonididdy: championship manager 2014 and tennis 3D

sifo:
2 people have done medicals with Sperry. One last week and another yesterday and they are just d ones I know of.

cc150615:
Hmmmm midich, where u been hiding?

TV01: Greetings all.

I should have probably touched on the following point first.

When my thoughts first turned to marriage, my first question – probably driven a lot by some of the prevailing Christian - or should I say denominational? - thinking of the time was “Is it Gods will for me to marry?” This could probably be twinned with another question which goes something like this “Does God have a purpose for me that may preclude marriage?”

I agonised over this for a long time. I really wanted to hear/know if God had marriage in mind for me. This was despite my strong desire to be married. It was a long drawn-out period and one I suspect others have or are experiencing. As ever, I thank God I came out of it with deeper understanding, more mature and more solidly grounded. Actually I never actually heard, I understood.

My categorical position is the answer to that question is a resounding “Yes”! I clearly believe that the scriptures show that God made marriage for all, God expects it to be the norm ad it is the default for practically all men and women. So much so, that I believe Gods grace in marriage is beyond mere religion (not to suggest marrying outside one’s faith/worldview, as that will possibly present practical as well as spiritual issues).

Will there be exceptions? Certainly. If it’s God led, in such instances I would expect The Lord to be clear about this in how He ministers to you. Even God mandated preclusion may not be permanent, but rather for a season, until such purpose is served. And it will almost certainly be very clear and apparent why marriage is not expedient at that time. If you have the desire (and understanding) for it, expect, anticipate, prepare and embrace it. I don’t believe you need to ask for it.

The notion that God has some “super ministry” or “other worldly” purpose for us, is easily exaggerated in the minds of many and can lead to doubts and angst regards purpose. It is not helped by the “my ministry” concept prevalent in some institutionalised churches. Believe it or not, for most people and for the most part, Gods purpose - “your ministry” - will be quite mundane and centre primarily around family and immediate community.

Will there be those who because of their lifestyles, philosophies or situations are unable or unwilling too? Sure, but I see those as essentially contrary to Gods purpose. Indeed. I feel that marriage is one of the ways by which God can effect His purpose in us.

God bless
TV


And yes, one unmarried can give advice on marriage. There may be some particulars they would be best not to touch upon, or specifics that are off-limits, but having been on both sides of the divide, I see nothing wrong here.

Purist: And the jungle justice mentality is on display here YET AGAIN. With each passing day, I become more and more convinced that the ALUU incidence is just a microcosm of the larger - and sadly prevalent - Nigerian mentality.

These thirteen people, as of now, are only SUSPECTS, but we have over 95% of Nigerians here already calling for their head. "Burn them!" "Cut off their hands!" "Fry them alive in hot oil!" "Skin them alive!", etc. EXACTLY THE SAME THING the Aluu people did to those four boys who were only suspects at the time, but the people were also eager to "plank them", "burn them", "kill them". Whatever happened to innocent UNTIL proven guilty?

It is a pity that in our attempts to show concern and anger at this barbarism, we have also inadvertently revealed our true UGLY nature in the process. When next you feel compelled to shout and scream, "burn them alive!", "skin and kill them!", go stand in front of a mirror and you might just notice something very, very familiar.

ikonyenwuzor: Omo dat verbal ehhhhhh.......
Na waaa ohhhh

omidan21: Pls ooHh which one be SHL again.I know og G-mat but which one is SHL.and secondly how did u guys do it that u are able to receive emaiols and text messages inviting u for recruitment exams.did u register on deir website before-hand or what.pls I need ur answers plss.

toba: But like she said, dating can be tempting. I advised companionship rather than relationships for guys and ladies that arent ready for marriages now. We dont need to fool ourselves, once u are in a relationship u are going to do this


Avoid relationships if are not ready for marriage

Bélla3: i dnt believe in dating. Too much temptation . So NO, i have never been alone wit my boyfriend.