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Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Amumaigwe: 9:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
Elewokun: Be patient until you die. Then you succeed in passing the unfought battle to your offsprings as most of you cowards do. The OP did the right thing. Living in trepidation in your own house as a man is hellish. No man should be there 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 9:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
Never!!! This is the third day and am not expecting her back. She can married her mom or her mom can look for someone they can control. aklion: 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Graficient: 9:14pm On May 26, 2023 |
Congratulations. Better late than never |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by ladychioma: 9:16pm On May 26, 2023 |
sisisioge:This is the only reasonable comment |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by drsibz66(m): 9:17pm On May 26, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: "Any time you decide to wake up is your morning". Its better late than never. Its not too late as it was something that needed to be done eventually. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by searchlight: 9:18pm On May 26, 2023 |
madridguy:That guy is sick in the head. The brainwashing don really make that one senseless |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by wisdomkid: 9:25pm On May 26, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Never say ever. The perfect time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the next best time is, NOW. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Microwhy: 9:26pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:You gather balls 11 years later to do what you ought to have done 11 years ago and you want us to say something. You better go run after your wife and tell her sorry as usual which you're obviously going to tell her no matter what Nairalanders say to you. The boldness is no in vain though, if the mother want peace for her daughter, she will adjust. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by GVTAsiwaju(m): 9:28pm On May 26, 2023 |
My own left because I confronted her 'boyfriend'... Your own is better 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Victor2707: 9:33pm On May 26, 2023 |
I will rather have a baby mama, than have a wife I have no control over. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 9:33pm On May 26, 2023 |
I was really rude about the confrontation. I was angry and below is why I was angry. Both my in-laws came to our house, though I knew they were coming but I wasn't cool with it because they were with us last year December/January this year then now. My wife knew I wasn't cool with it but she never cares. We were both sleeping on the same bed but weren't talking. We had an issue one night and she went to report me to her parents, but her parents never call me to ask for my side of the story. That made me more angry so I left the house in the middle of the night. Guess what, I was away for 2nights and both my wife and my in-laws were not bother. They didn't even call. That made me more furious. So I spoke to her rudely. chatinent: 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by searchlight: 9:34pm On May 26, 2023 |
aklion:Your first line showed you have no brains. What did you say that hasn't been said over and over again? I thought that when you criticised the comments here that you were going to use Estein's theory of relativism quantum physics to explain the situation. Even a mad man says that everyone is mad. You really dont have sense I must say. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 9:35pm On May 26, 2023 |
I was really rude about the confrontation. I was angry and below is why I was angry. Both my in-laws came to our house, though I knew they were coming but I wasn't cool with it because they were with us last year December/January this year then now. My wife knew I wasn't cool with it but she never cares. We were both sleeping on the same bed but weren't talking. We had an issue one night and she went to report me to her parents, but her parents never call me to ask for my side of the story. That made me more angry so I left the house in the middle of the night. Guess what, I was away for 2nights and both my wife and my in-laws were not bother. They didn't even call. That made me more furious. So I spoke to her rudely. Jayboi: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Exceed15: 9:36pm On May 26, 2023 |
bantilosha: Gbam! |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by CaptainFM1: 9:37pm On May 26, 2023 |
madridguy: Possibly. Don't rule anything out! But 11years is quite a long time. It's always good to set the tone as soon as possible. He waited too long to act. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 9:40pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: SO, U ARE NOW CONFRONTING PEOPLE MOTHER BECAUSE THEY LET YOU MARRY THEIR DAUGHTER? HOW DID YOUR WIFE BROTHERS FEEL LEARNING WHAT YOU DID TO THEIR MOTHER? THIS MARRIAGE THING SHOULD BE HANDLED WITH CARE AND NOT RIGHT. RIGHTS ARE NEVER ABSOLUTE AND WHY SHE LEFT THE HOUSE. INSTEAD OF HER MOTHER, WHY NOT TALK TO YOUR WIFE? WILL YOU LIKE FOR YOUR BROTHER INLAWS TO CONFRONT YOUR OWN MOTHER? EXACTLY! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Exceed15: 9:41pm On May 26, 2023 |
GoodbutBadguy: Beg who |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by mosaicafrique: 9:41pm On May 26, 2023 |
Just let your family know what you did, don't call her or beg her. If her mother call you, don't pick up. Even if it takes your wife 2 years to return home |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 9:42pm On May 26, 2023 |
I have the balls from day one. I was just trying to avoid this kind of issue. I'm also an introvert and I respect people a lot. Microwhy: 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jaxxy(m): 9:42pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: did u disrespect her mum? u can control ur home without disrespecting her mum if u make sure u don't just disagree for the purpose of showing u control ur house bt when it's actually necessary to disagree. also u need to carry ur wife along on this decision to reduce or stop her mums unnecessary interference in ur family so she(ur wife) understands where ure coming from. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by DWJOBScom(m): 9:42pm On May 26, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1: Not enough like for this statement 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by isabi2lof: 9:42pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: Them don open your eyes , if you take everything serious online, you'll continue to have issues in your relationship. |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Camberlo(m): 9:42pm On May 26, 2023 |
Eleven good years controlling your life and you want to put stop to that, it will be a daunting task But you had taken a step and get ready for retaliation from both the mother and daughter. If she dares you, don't waste time to settle with another woman. It is part of their strategic to weak you and make you submit 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by searchlight: 9:43pm On May 26, 2023 |
Elewokun:Prayers don't change situations. If it does why confront the mil instead of going on his knee to pray harder? |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by jessylaurel(f): 9:44pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom: If the reverse was the case now you won't do anything. Yes you disrespected her family |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Nobody: 9:45pm On May 26, 2023 |
Wodu89: You're a wise man |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by isabi2lof: 9:45pm On May 26, 2023 |
iHateFraudsters:Story 😅 |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by hammerT: 9:46pm On May 26, 2023 |
jaxxy: MOST NIGERIANS ARE MAD. THEN YOU HAVE THOSE WITH REHEARSED MADNESS. MEANING THEY ARE ENCOURAGED BY FRIENDS OR WHAT THEY READ TO ASSERT DOMINANCE. SOME, ARE JUST MAD AND WANT TO DOMINATE. SO, THEY ARE NOT RATIONAL OR LOGICAL. IT IS ALL ABOUT, I SAID SO AND WHAT I SAY MUST STAND. CRAZY NIGERIAN MEN! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by Xkale1996(m): 9:46pm On May 26, 2023 |
22rockbottom:you did the right thing Allow your wife to stay at her mother house If she get sense She will come back |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by 22rockbottom: 9:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
I was actually rude about the confrontation. I was angry and below is why I was angry. Both my in-laws came to our house, though I knew they were coming but I wasn't cool with it because they were with us last year December/January this year then now. My wife knew I wasn't cool with it but she never cares. We were both sleeping on the same bed but weren't talking. We had an issue one night and she went to report me to her parents, but her parents never call me to ask for my side of the story. That made me more angry so I left the house in the middle of the night. Guess what, I was away for 2nights and both my wife and my in-laws were not bother. They didn't even call. That made me more furious. So I spoke to her rudely. Note: My wife is a sweet soul without the influence of her mother. sisisioge: |
Re: My Wife Left The House Because I Confronted Her Mother by JeffreyJunior: 9:47pm On May 26, 2023 |
Don't beat yourself too hard, you did the right thing. Though you did it a little bit later but right is right no matter when it's done. If she doesn't wanna come back because of that, do what you currently are doing, survive. They are playing games right now, don't give in at all. They will fight back but stand your ground and see them fumble. I hate subtle manipulation. I'm of the opinion that If you wanna do shit, do it to my face and don't play games. 1 Like |
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