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Investment / Re: Ear 3$ To 15$ Daily On Whatsapp Doing Small Task. by tommy20: 8:25pm On Mar 27
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Investment / Re: Way Forward For Nigeria Crypto Traders by tommy20: 8:12pm On Mar 27
Hello Chief, can i have your digit? I wanna private chat you or send you a mail instead?
Investment / Everything Crypto by tommy20: 12:21pm On Feb 15
Hello guys,

I have heard guys saying they lost a fortune to cryptocurrency trading.

I want to start investing in crypto, what are the things i need to look out for in order not to suffer loss.

I have intention of beginning my crypto currencies journey with LUNO. I heard they charge 2% on deposit and withdrawal.

General advise please.
Travel / Re: NG Eagle Begins Flight Operations With Leased Aircraft by tommy20: 11:42am On Dec 12, 2023
MrDoGood:
Those na regular stories.

My question is

How much is their air fare?


61000. The cheapest amongst them all.
Romance / Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by tommy20: 2:59pm On Aug 10, 2023
Let me give you a secret (if you sleep in the same room). Keep showing him love because if he doesn't love you he wouldn't go ahead with the loans to wed you.

Now to the secret.
1. Tell him you are sorry for everything (even though you may not mean it) but sorry can never be too much & it doesn't reduce our worth in anyway. But a lot of people find it hard to say because of pride

2. Make sure you never deny him of food.

3. Provided you share the same bed, aside of your regular prayer routine, wake up in the midnight to pray foy him that God should help him to offset all the loans he collected. He collected the loan to make you happy and please your parent, God in return should make him happy and restored more than everything he has lost during the wedding. Note: when saying this prayer, you dont need to shout but make sure he (your husband) hears this prayer you are saying.

Belief if or not, some may say its hypocritical prayer, but i can assure you, his heart will be so happy hearing those words coming from you.

Keep doing this for days and see how sorry he will be.

Wish you all the best sis

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Romance / Re: She Wants To Destroy My Home, Can I Sue Her by tommy20: 8:51pm On Aug 26, 2022
Sir, give her time, she will.... Just don't raise the topic again instead, don't be too proud to say sorry to her at every little chances you get. She will definitely come around, above all, you both need each other.

Josepin:


I didn't lie here and I have explained it all to my wife. Just that she still didn't believe me and I can't start lieying to make her believe.

Romance / Re: She Wants To Destroy My Home, Can I Sue Her by tommy20: 8:47pm On Aug 26, 2022
Sir, did you actually sleep with her? If yes, stop talking to her/ helping her. Block her in every Mena's of communicating to you. You are not actually doing all those helpthings for free (if we wanna be sincere).

Beg your woman, shit happen, it's for better for worse & it's not as if she's pregnant for you, your family can never fall apart, she will be mad at you but now quite long.

Good evening sir
Romance / Re: Should I Allow Her Stay In My House Or Say No by tommy20: 8:35pm On Aug 26, 2022
I will say NO. But in other for her not to feel bad, if you know truly she's your ex & you really don't wanna have anything to do with her, look for someone, a female friend you can link her up with.
Romance / Brother's Keeper by tommy20: 8:29pm On Aug 26, 2022
We read daily how people who were depressed kill themselves because they couldn't find someone sincere/serious to talk to.

Please I am pleading with you all that when someone bring up a matter seeking your advise, if you can't give him/her a reasonable advise, just ready & ignore.
A depressed person needs words of encouragement not otherwise or blaming or using them to catch cruise....

Good evening

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Family / Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tommy20: 8:27pm On Aug 26, 2022
We read daily how people who were depressed kill themselves because they couldn't find someone sincere/serious to talk to.

Please I am pleading with you all that when someone bring up a matter seeking your advise, if you can't give him a reasonable advise, just ready& ignore. A depressed person needs words of encouragement not otherwise or blaming or using them to catch cruise....

No one is clean, just pray that God shouldn't slow you to make a costly mistake.

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Family / Re: How I Spend My 63k Monthly Salary Yet I Am Tagged A Bad Boyfriend by tommy20: 8:18pm On Aug 26, 2022
Sir, the relationship was borne out of lust. It's obvious you guys don't love each other at all, I have lost count of how many times you've mentioned 'how much you care for your baby' leaving out the womb that carried him/her.

Sir, love can't be force & it's obvious the relationship was a mistake that eventually birth blessing even though you guys don't see it that way.

This is little advise Sir, you will definitely see your son but I can assure you not very long.

Don't report her to anyone again to human rights/FIDA. Instead, if you have her contact & bank details, just make sure you always sent something to her every month end for her self & the child coz the child can't spend money him/herself.... Let her be for now, it's obvious you are both tired of each other. So don't press further it may worsen the situation. Just keep calm & always send money to her but let her family know that you are sending money for upkeep....

Please exercise alot of patience please sir, this they all agree with THE CHILD IS YOUR BLOOD & you are willing to take 100% of his upkeep but madam is not allowing it. So let her be, if she come to senses, they can help you guys to resolve it. But going by your write-ups, there was no love at all in this scenario.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Teaching Job Of 20k Salary Or Okada Hustle? by tommy20: 3:51pm On Aug 23, 2022
You still care about what people say? Follow your heart, the guy with the cash is the one that earn people Respect.... Sine you have your result intact & it doesn't expire. Luck will definitely come knocking one day, don't stop praying.
Start the okada business for now. Since you like teaching as you claim, you may be doing evening lesson for students. May God bless our hustle bro.

Godsprojectayo:

Thanks boss... I enjoy teaching but the pay isn't encouraging at all & most school owners would always feel like God using the hell out of their staffs
I can afford to get the bike but I'm kinda concerned about what people would say

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Romance / Re: Desire To Get Marry by tommy20: 2:29pm On Aug 22, 2022
How Sir?
Cypress042:
Oga nawa for you cheesy
Romance / Re: Desire To Get Marry by tommy20: 2:28pm On Aug 22, 2022
Ephesians 3:20!
jogsman01:
Hope you've found the real one....
Romance / Re: Please I Need Your Advice! by tommy20: 8:57pm On Aug 21, 2022
Sir, first let me salute your courage to resist the daughter of Jezebel. As funny as it may sound, you can't satisfy her sexually no matter how hard you try because she's is too expose & experience than you. Thank your creator that she disclose her true identity to you otherwise, you will have mistakenly marry someone who will destroy you. As for the second one who demand too much & giving a high condition before she can marry you. I wouldn't blame her but you. Yes you! I am sure you if you haven't give her the impression of big boy, she might not have said yes to you in the first instance.
Maybe your look, dressing or the way you the phone you use or the environment you stay..... Something must have tip her to believe that you can afford a car. But still, thank your dtaucas well that she also declare her intention to you as well that she is after material things.

The two of them shouldn't bother you at all but instead thank your stay for quickly brining you out conditional relationship.
Hold on to your faith, pray for God will, lean not on your understanding, remember the journey to marriage is a journey to the future & the future is clearly known by God alone. He will bring us & connect us with the right one.

Before dating the next one, ensure to pray first & listen to God advise. So many people who marry out of desperation are looking for ways out now.

May the Lord see us through

Good evening.

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Romance / Desire To Get Marry by tommy20: 8:26pm On Aug 21, 2022
Admin, feel free to edit the subject....

Good evening all, this will have been easier if it's oral but what I can do. Will have to type

Finished institution in 2018, while in school there is this lady I met in class & after a little friendship we started dating. The very day she told me yes, she emphatically said 'No sex until marriage' and I joyfully said yes because honestly that's the type of Christian lady I wanted. Despite the fact that we slept today by under one roof either at my place or her place. This was practiced throughout our days at school but we never had sex. Of course we did other form or foul play kissing, smooching but she helped me so well by not giving in for sex & sincerely speaking, I appreciate that because it help my faith alot while in school.
During our courtship/dating in school, she made me promise her that if God revealed to me that she isn't my wife, I shouldn't hesitate to tell her but she's is very convinced that she is my future wife because God has shown her repeatedly.

Down to 2019 during our service year, we got posted to different states. My prayer about our union got serious because my plan was that immediately after NYSC, I want to take her to the altar. After series on intense prayer & consultations, I got a revelation that she isn't God will for me (even the permisve will is not too pure because of her family background). I make consultations, visit different pastors, even send her name to the people that I know that are spiritually sound but what the answer I keep getting is NO
Mhen, it's too hard for me to comprehend the response, even the one I saw myself. Like this lady is too unique for me not to get married to her. Another misery about the thing is that according to her, she prayed by herself, even consult her spiritual fathers, friends even her mum as well, she got a leading that I am her man

I prayed but God had already spoken, it's painful but I had to tell her the revelation I got. It's painful on her end too but we both have to let go. (All this happened before we finished our NYSC program). She stays back in the States she serve while I move to another state for job purposes.

After we path ways, a day can't go buy without me thinking of her. Like, if there is another adjective to qualify how much I loved & adore this lady, guys, you will tell me to go ahead & marry her....
We usually phone each other ones in a while. We both moved on I believe, I met another lady which I will talk about in later thread. But I still love this lady like am insane because she is my perfect picture lady. So it's so hard to just let go of such feeling. Since mid 2019 we parted, and despite still moving on, my heart still yawn for her everyday. Like she's the only one for me in the whole universe.

During her birthday last year, despite the fact that I got a personal revelation that this lady is not mine & knowing fully that she's with another guy, I pull a call through to her to which a happy birthday, apologies & beg her to please give a second chance that I can't live without her. That her thought alone, drives me crazy, blablabla... She plainly told me that she's sorry she already have a boyfriend & she can't cheat on her boyfriend. To me, it's painful (despite the fact I had a leading that this lady is not meant for me but you know that thing called love is too powerful to be control or outsmart by your wisdom, it take the help of God. Love has no respect for age or experience. When you are in love. It's a like a journey of no reverse. Most time you will know that your partner is doing otherwise in a relationship but when you truly in love, it's too difficult to call yourself to other. Mind you, love is a beautiful when you a with the right person.

Back to my story, she said she with someone else, I felt pained but a part of me was happy like 'hahe you forgotten she is not for you'. We moved on or I should say I moved on. We still talk & few months after, she told me indirectly that the new guy doesn't understand her, that they have broke up. I wanted to ask her out again but a spirit was cautioning me not to. So I obey the spirit.

Early 2022, her friend who is also my friend just posted her picture with rip caption �. I couldn't believe my eyes, had to call the lady what happened & she confirm that what I saw was true. Though we haven't spoke in weeks not even chat because I have been trying to wake up to reality that this lady isn't mine so because of that I am limiting the call & chat....

What really cause her death, according to my sources, they said she is sick & no doctor can diogonize the nature of her sickness. They took her to church but.......In a nutshell, she died after few days of battling with this sickness...

While I was still murning her. (She's too perfect to die just like that) you won't believe that her brother & sister that she's very close to moved on so fast than me. Like his brother upload stuff on his Twitter like nothing happened same thing with her sister ( this is the sister they stays together till her demise) she hang out, don't get me wrong, they need to moved on but uploading it on social media..... Haba!!!! That's not potraying the family well.

But the essence of this epistle to y'all is that.....
1. When God says it's not the road, please back out without asking questions, some disappointment are blessing in disguise
2. Don't fall in love if you haven't got a leading by God because it's not always easy ending a relationship. I am not talking or love based or selfish interest, but love based on true commitment to each other.

As for the singles out there, may the spirit of God lead us to our ideal partners. As for those that marry out of love or desperation, may God show mercy on you & blossom your home with everything you needed to enjoy your spouse.

I just feel the urge to share my experience with y'all. Hope you learn one or two things from it.

Remain bless & wishing you all a successful week ahead.

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Romance / Desire To Get Marry by tommy20: 8:19pm On Aug 21, 2022
Admin, feel free to edit the subject....

Good evening all, this will have been easier if it's oral but what I can do. Will have to type

Finished institution in 2018, while in school there is this lady I met in class & after a little friendship we started dating. The very day she told me yes, she emphatically said 'No sex until marriage' and I joyfully said yes because honestly that's the type of Christian lady I wanted. Despite the fact that we slept today by under one roof either at my place or her place. This was practiced throughout our days at school but we never had sex. Of course we did other form or foul play kissing, smooching but she helped me so well by not giving in for sex & sincerely speaking, I appreciate that because it help my faith alot while in school.
During our courtship/dating in school, she made me promise her that if God revealed to me that she isn't my wife, I shouldn't hesitate to tell her but she's is very convinced that she is my future wife because God has shown her repeatedly.

Down to 2019 during our service year, we got posted to different states. My prayer about our union got serious because my plan was that immediately after NYSC, I want to take her to the altar. After series on intense prayer & consultations, I got a revelation that she isn't God will for me (even the permisve will is not too pure because of her family background). I make consultations, visit different pastors, even send her back to the people that I know that are spiritually sound but what I keep getting is no.
Mhen, it's too hard for me to comprehend the response, even the one I saw myself. Like this lady is too unique for me not to get married to her. Another misery about the thing is that according to her, she prayed by herself, even consult her spiritual fathers, friends even her mum as well, she got a leading that I am her man

I prayed but God had already spoken, it's painful but I had to tell her the revelation I got. It's painful on her end too but we both have to let go. (All this happened before we finished our NYSC program). She stays back in the States she serve while I move to another state for job purposes.

After we path ways, a day can't go buy without me thinking of her. Like, if there is another adjective to qualify how much I loved & adore this lady, guys, you will tell me to go ahead & marry her....
We usually phone each other ones in a while. We both moved on I believe, I met another lady which I will talk about in later thread. But I still love this lady like am insane because she is my perfect picture lady. So it's so hard to just let go of such feeling. Since mid 2019 we parted, and despite still moving on, my heart still yawn for her everyday. Like she's the only one for me in the whole universe.

During her birthday last year, despite the fact that I got a personal revelation that this lady is not mine & knowing fully that she's with another guy, I pull a call through to her to which a happy birthday, apologies & beg her to please give a second chance that I can't live without her. That her thought alone, drives me crazy, blablabla... She plainly told me that she's sorry she already have a boyfriend & she can't cheat on her boyfriend. To me, it's painful (despite the fact I had a leading that this lady is not meant for me but you know that thing called love is too powerful to be control or outsmart by your wisdom, it take the help of God. Love has no respect for age or experience. When you are in love. It's a like a journey of no reverse. Most time you will know that your partner is doing otherwise in a relationship but when you truly in love, it's too difficult to call yourself to other. Mind you, love is a beautiful when you a with the right person.

Back to my story, she said she with someone else, I felt pained but a part of me was happy like 'hahe you forgotten she is not for you'. We moved on or I should say I moved on. We still talk & few months after, she told me indirectly that the new guy doesn't understand her, that they have broke up. I wanted to ask her out again but a spirit was cautioning me not to. So I obey the spirit.

Early 2022, her friend who is also my friend just posted her picture with rip caption �. I couldn't believe my eyes, had to call the lady what happened & she confirm that what I saw was true. Though we haven't spoke in weeks not even chat because I have been trying to wake up to reality that this lady isn't mine so because of that I am limiting the call & chat....

What really cause her death, according to my sources, they said she is sick & no doctor can diogonize the nature of her sickness. They took her to church but.......In a nutshell, she died after few days of battling with this sickness...

While I was still murning her. (She's too perfect to die just like that) you won't believe that her brother & sister that she's very close to moved on so fast than me. Like his brother upload stuff on his Twitter like nothing happened same thing with her sister ( this is the sister they stays together till her demise) she hang out, don't get me wrong, they need to moved on but uploading it on social media..... Haba!!!! That's not potraying the family well.

But the essence of this epistle to y'all is that.....
1. When God says it's not the road, please back out without asking questions, some disappointment are blessing in disguise
2. Don't fall in love if you haven't got a leading by God because it's not always easy ending a relationship. I am not talking or love based or selfish interest, but love based on true commitment to each other.

As for the singles out there, may the spirit of God lead us to our ideal partners. As for those that marry out of love or desperation, may God show mercy on you & blossom your home with everything you needed to enjoy your spouse.

I just feel the urge to share my experience with y'all. Hope you learn one or two things from it.

Remain bless & wishing you all a successful week ahead.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Should I Quit My Pastoral Job To Be A Transporter? by tommy20: 2:54pm On Jul 07, 2022
Haha!!
You current pay is N61000 in a church that comes with honorarium gift & you are still undergoing training yet they are paying you to master the 'suppose call you hear from God" & you are considering going for a job with lesser offer N50k?

Sir, are you sure God called you? If yes, master the Craft & still to it.

Shalom

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Family / Re: Is This Monthly Budget Supposed To Be Enough For My Family by tommy20: 1:14pm On Jun 26, 2022
Sir, the problem begins with you Sir, you spoil them all in the house & now you want to reduce it. Nobody has a taste of honey & desires beancake. First, sit your woman down, explain to her the financial challenges( even if you have none presently).
You need to save up at least for other things. Even if you have your own house, you can build more for rentage.

If your in-laws is working, why are you recharging her 10k every month? Yes I know you want to show that you are responsible. But trust me, for giving her a shelter, feeding & accomodation, Sir, there's no need of that. What is she doing with her salary?.

Instead of giving your woman 80k upfront, reduce it to 50k in the first week, 30k second week. She is spending the money the way she sees it.

Sir, this excessive spending begins with you & the correction begin with you & your woman once you are ready. Once you make the move, she will do the adjustment. Provided she want the best for you & her family. _& most importantly, if you don't keep extra-marital affairs & she trust you 101%. Trust me Sir, she will help you adjust.

I hope this helps sir.

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Family / Re: How I Supported My Husband With My First Salary by tommy20: 12:58pm On Jun 26, 2022
God bless you ma, if only you know how happy your man will be without telling you.
Health / Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by tommy20: 11:59am On Jun 09, 2022
First let me congratulate you. I know you may not understand the reason why I am doing that. Couple pays millions to get pregnant, buy babies & visit fake pastors/ make pledges just to have what you guys get easily.
I understand you are not ready neither is the lady. But before you attempt anything, ask the lady, (even though you are not 100% ready to father a child as well) what decision she want, if she's considering abortion, hmmm, I pray it won't boomerang. If she said she don't know, then you step in.

1. You keep the baby, even the father disown her, God never does because by keeping the baby she's doing herself & her future a big favour.....

2. Inform your family of the blessing, they will first insult you but they will never discard you.

3. Let your family members break the news to her family, if they welcome your family, do little intro as a form of honour to the lady & her family.

4. Double your hustle as responsibility is knocking on your door.

5. Always remind the lady that you love her & you will go to any length to make her happy (even though it may appear 100% impossible) don't ever be harsh on her for no reason cause she's expected to be angry for no reason.

6. I wish I can ask you some questions inorder to know the right answers to provide, like what's your source of livelihood? Are you still staying under your parent & so on.

Above all, it is my advice that you keep the baby.

God bless

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Business / Re: Share Your Sunset Pictures And Earn Recharge Cards... by tommy20: 9:52am On Apr 08, 2022
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Family / Re: I Want To Peacefully Divorce My Husband by tommy20: 11:38pm On Mar 05, 2022
Divorcing him is not the option pls. Report him to his family perhaps someone you know he respects so much.
The truth is that he still see himself as a single guy who careless about other.

You know you are already pregnant & I am sorry to say this, I doubt if you ever love this guy(I am sorry if that hurt) Truth be bold, this gambling addiction is one of of his flaws & you have to tread with him softly.


Pls don't ever consider consider divorcing him since he's not abusing you or keeping extra affairs. He only need to be talk to, to wake up to his responsibility.
I pray he change & you enjoy your eternity journey with him.
Family / Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by tommy20: 1:42pm On Dec 27, 2021
This attitude of his has been happening for a long time but you kept quiet coz y'all see him as the king. while serving, you still send him money what for? He never told you, instead he said 'chicken change' & you still worship him.

See, showing love to him is okay but acting gullibly to his wishes is wrong, if he want to be Yahoo Yahoo, let him be, if he choose to be sleeping at home as well also, let him be, some relatives are worst than the enemies we pray against..

I Know you care about him but stop allowing him to ride over you all including your dad, haba, that's so so wrong, your father!!

I will only advice you to keep praying for him & always tell him that whenever he need someone to talk to you are always available & you love him but DONT EVER TRY TALK TO HIM FALSELY OUT OF CONCERN OR WORRY, he's no more a boy Sis. He will be fine. Trust me.

Laslas remember, every man for himself.

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Romance / Re: Please Help Me Judge, Is My Fiancee A Wife Material Or Not . by tommy20: 10:34am On Dec 27, 2021
Follow your mind bro.. because last last. It's all man for himself. But I pray you don't regret your actions.......

No one on this platform know you girl more than you. So if your mind is unstable... Please do the needful.

please don't act because of what people will say, follow your heart to the latter,I pray we all find happiness.

#SeasonGreeting
Religion / Re: Which Position Do You Prefer To Sit In The Church? by tommy20: 9:42am On Nov 21, 2021
Front or second row. I really still don't understand why people run away from the front seat. We aren't in exam Hall now
Car Talk / Kia Rio by tommy20: 11:54pm On Oct 10, 2021
Evening all, how good is Kia Rio for Uber business?

Are the part expensive or scarce?
What about fuel consumption?
Is the car strong enough to be use for Uber?
Which one is the best manual or automatic?

Please I need a serious answer possibly from who is using this card presently either for commercial or private.


Regards
Romance / Re: I Discovered That My Bride Has 3 Children On Our Wedding Day by tommy20: 5:25pm On Oct 09, 2021
God forbid ooo, but its the begining of your nemesis.... The foundation is absolutely faculty...... 3 children!!! boss don't even go there. Forget the court marriage!

That's the only thing you have discovered so far. Don't forget the truth doesn't even come from her but a pastor abi prophet you call ham.


Sir, the journey is far, Wise up bro... All the best
Romance / Re: Please Advice A Brother. by tommy20: 5:17pm On Oct 09, 2021
Don't date her now,you will be trapped, instead as a friend, keep advising her to change, if she does, then you can now ask her out again..........

Ire ooo
Car Talk / Distress Sales!!! by tommy20: 1:58pm On Sep 27, 2021
Please a friend of mine need a car but his budget is low 800k

He needs Camry 2004-2006 model or Honda Civic 2006-2009
*Automatic*
He want to be using it for Uber.

Please if you have any distress sales between that range please hint me���

Location: Abuja
Phone number: 07011721195
Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by tommy20: 7:44am On Mar 26, 2021
Hmmmm, Sir, this is deep I must say, truly you need a lot of time to heal. If possible, I will suggest you take a break like a week or 2 from home.
You need to be alone to think deeply. Truly she hasn't contributed a dime to the upkeep of the house but God hasn't disappoint you. Truly she wasn't sincere with her pay, but you have been taking care of her as if she isn't working at all.

Don't be fool Sir, her family knows everything, how will she buy a land with her father name when she already have a child. That mean she want to keep it a secret.

Sir, you need to think of the good time & the achievement you've achieved ever since you married her. Write a checklist, if her good side outweigh her bad act, then you need to continue the journey, if otherwise, you need to think it through because you guys have children together.

Holy spirit will give you wisdom to handle this wisely. God be with you Sir
Business / Brekete Family Taxi by tommy20: 1:55am On Feb 09, 2021
Morning guys, have anyone partner with Brekete family taxi?

How much is the payment registration?

How is the taxi being run? Hire purchase?

Do they collect second car for hire purchase?


Do their driver default in making payments?

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