rokiatu:

What am telling you is that I am not carrying the world trouble on my head.

sanb: oh i would correct you. the reason that some ladies are not married is not due to the fact that they are waiting for ready made men. have you considered that some of us wants to achieve something for ourselves first i.e having a good education, a good career and job, money to spend etc. they are things that we need so that we are not looked on as gold diggers

2blunt:

so are u saying that for every guy dat approaches a lady, she shod say yes, u must be a joke Mr.

free2ryhme:


lol who wants attention from an old hag ... Ewu meeee

2blunt:

so are u saying that for every guy dat approaches a lady, she shod say yes, u must be a joke Mr.

Shollypopz:
True! My bad

ehie: in the next centuary,there would be probably no use for marriage anymore...if science creates a way where people will live longer,procreate without sex,it will become an asexual society,probably...just a futuristic way of thinking
my thoughts abt marriage is that it is embarked upon with so much fear,and twisted logic with one party benefiting at the expense of another...i dont know,maybe i probably hate men,to me they are a necessary evil,if the world could do without people being unnecessarily foisted together for eternity it would be a welcome development

qualified: @poster, it pisses me off whenever i see immature n insecure chauvinist males like u exhibit ur insensibility to d public. So, men get married cos they are all saints or gods?

I ve alot of reasons i can give why some ladies dont marry 'early' (though i ve no definite definition of d word, early) but I'm too busy 4 that right now

Babzilla:

This shows she is not as crazy as I thot.- my bad too

Shollypopz:
Abeg, SHUT UP!!!

See d olodo calling me old hag, MUMU!!

Anuofia! Attention Seeking Chimpanzee!!

Jabalulsabr: No big deal wit dis thread because, nowaday girls turn dia self to educated ashawoos in d name of friendship alone?can u imagine a girl can have a boifriend bt notin in her is secret to him including her private part(sex) to d extent dat d boifriend hav d right to do everitin wit her..
The question is how do u expect dat same guy to marry uAfterall wen dia is notin hidden dat u hav nt shown him already and u expect him to keep u @ home(tufiakwa)..All his tot will be how many boifriend hav u shared dis pleasure with b4 u met him.......AND SO APPLIES TO HIM WEN HE WANT TO MARRY HE WILL THINK ALL GIRLS ARE THESAME........My advise to girls is""keep ur hidden treasure to urself untill u are married"" because dat d onli value a woman can maintain 2 herself.....SO BE WISE dis is the main reason y dey stay long without marriage

cowgurl: Yeah, they just keep coming...
As the old students are graduating, new ones are enrolling.
The legacy must not die.

legendprac:

And who said, getting married to a man dat will support her career will end dat quest to be a career woman? And have u asked some of those ladies dat pursued their careers and didn't put marriage into consideration how dey feel now?

Personally, I won't get married to a lady that won't be working or handle a business dat I will open for her(personally, I would prefer to open a business for her,so she will be d one in control of her time)
And dia are many men like that who won't want a 'housewife'

For d men dat keep housewives, woo betide u d day u will die and ur wife won't be able to look after ur children... Nor even handle ur business... Not saying dat anybody will die... But my spiritual leader will always say, Peradventure...

dasparrow:

@Bolded

And that is why most Nigerians are and will continue to remain wretched and Nigeria as a country with all God has blessed her with is still a 3rd world poverty stricken crappy country. I currently have quite a few extended family members who are poor but felt the need to get married and bear children they cannot take of. They are waiting for me who is in america to keep sending money, clothes, and what have you. I told them I no send. Since you people in Nigeria have refused to reason with your brains and dig yourselves deeper and deeper into poverty because you are worried of what people and society will say, you will stay in poverty.

I was talking to a friend of mine whose uncle is 70 years old and is struggling because he has 2 wives and 10 kids in Nigeria and most of the kids are unemployed. These unemployed grown folks (my friend's cousins) are now asking this friend of mine to send them money to Nigeria. My friend refused. As for me, I will soon change my number sef because I don't want to hear anything from Nigerians again. You people are not serious with your backward way of thinking even with all the college degrees many of you acquire. Bunch of Jokers!

legendprac: I personally believe that for every lady out there that is aged and still unmarried, that there are series of mistakes she made with respect to men when she was younger, thinking beauty and age will always be on her side...
Fellow nairalanders, what's your take on that?

qualified:

i responded to ur post, not other people's posts. I read it well and it sounded dumb n chauvinistic

i suspect a lady has probably turned u down n here u are whining. Truth be told, human beings have no control over many that happen to them cos God controls them all.

I ve seen 'runs-girls' marry n have kids immediately n virgins praying n fasting that some1 shld atleast say hi, and even when they finally marry n desire for kids, none is forthcoming. Mister, people like u shld stop this Hate for women

Theblessed: [size=16pt]But, when will you get over this ignorance?

When will you ever, get something doing to occupy your lazy brain and leave women, alone!

Again, when did marriage become the Eleventh commandment that must surely, be obeyed?

As for the other Ten Commandments, how many of them have you obeyed, yourself, to make marriage compulsory for women and not for men?

Again, to marry is choice and not a compulsion - so, leave women alone and get on with your lazy and hopeless life, ok!

Leave them alone, and occupy yourself with something tangible - idle.

They are not in your life, they're not eating your food and certainly, not breathing through your nose - get a life, bully!!!!![/size]

GboyegaD:

Why don't you mind your business and face your life rather than debating some other people's lives?

Theblessed: [size=16pt]But, when will you get over this ignorance?

When will you ever, get something doing to occupy your lazy brain and leave women, alone!

Again, when did marriage become the Eleventh commandment that must surely, be obeyed?

As for the other Ten Commandments, how many of them have you obeyed, yourself, to make marriage compulsory for women and not for men?

Again, to marry is choice and not a compulsion - so, leave women alone and get on with your lazy and hopeless life, ok!

Leave them alone, and occupy yourself with something tangible - idle.

They are not in your life, they're not eating your food and certainly, not breathing through your nose - get a life, bully!!!!![/size]

qualified:

i responded to ur post, not other people's posts. I read it well and it sounded dumb n chauvinistic

i suspect a lady has probably turned u down n here u are whining. Truth be told, human beings have no control over many that happen to them cos God controls them all.

I ve seen 'runs-girls' marry n have kids immediately n virgins praying n fasting that some1 shld atleast say hi, and even when they finally marry n desire for kids, none is forthcoming. Mister, people like u shld stop this Hate for women