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| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
slimyem: so,you had FIVE good girls and you let them go for no just cause...Lol. |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by bittyend(m): 5:09pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Viewing this topic based on the society I was raised in, I think men are to be blamed. Young men (esp. black men) need to start taking education/career seriously. And start thinking about their careers and how to attain a higher/better status in the society. There are many good and successful black women out there who're single - not because they've bad attitude/character but because their 'status' intimidates most men. You can't blame a woman who's a barrister for wanting to get married to a barrister, or someone who has a higher status. Women have raised the 'bar', men need to do the same, by meeting them there, or strive to get higher than the 'bar'. No one wants to get married to someone who's below them - it's a new world!! 3 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by techlegs: 5:10pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
It is a thing of destiny, just like you"ll have some men who will never get married. Check those men very well, their ribs are still complete, Intact, there is no woman made for them. To the women who don't eventually get married,m they are often very strong, atheletic, no nonsense ladies, always living alone, depends on no one, can do everything a man can do, just name it,they have all the survival instincts you can think of, such ladies are not meant for any man. Check it out and correct me if I am wrong. We are all learning o. 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 5:12pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
slimyem: so,you had FIVE good girls and you let them go for no just cause... Hey!! Hey !!! Hey !!!!!!! Cool down jor!! Wetin sef?!!  I said good girls not virgin Mary's.. Good girls only meant that irrespective of their shortcomings, I could have still made it work. SHOO!! Na ehn you just decide to rough tackle me anyhow!! Na wah to you o!! No be my own bad pass.. Most of those relationships ended because I had to leave town, or she left town or she realized that I was getting fartherand farther away from God or something like that.. Mind you, I am still very close to all my ex's except one who was crazy! I am a good man.. All of them can attest to me being a good man. The only difference may be that then I was young, a student, unemployed and not quite ready to be married.. However, I never cheated on any of them nor treated them badly.. Thats why they all still love me. No dey tarnish my image with reckless abandon jor!! I belong to the legion of extra-ordinary gentlemen! The last of a dying breed.. My Momma raised me proper..  |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Okija_juju:Tah!! No even tlk am again Perfect gentleman ko, perfect gentleman ni Just so u knw, ur angelic fiancee is going to annoy you to d extent of killing her one day.... Just change that mindset that beating ur wife is an option because u wuld be tempted to. And u just might destroy everything in ur life dat was good |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by bittyend(m): 5:13pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Shollypopz: Naija guys in America need to be commended, but most of the ones in the UK are 'yahoozed' up, all they care about is driving nice cars, women, popping champs in the club, and wearing LV. I know a few are upright, but majority of them don't really go beyond BSc. |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by DonaldGenes(m): 5:13pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Shollypopz:can we marry@shollypozp |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Donalð Genes:Learn to spell my name right first! 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Donalð Genes: |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by vislabraye(m): 5:22pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
You can't always blame the girls. But Some of them may have genuine reasons but I know a lot of them are hustlers. They want to enjoy life have fun but they forget they have expiry date. When they start clocking 30 they start looking for the nearest available guy. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
bittyend:Maybe it's just the ppl i surround myself with or the fact that getting a PhD gets you permanent residency here, lol! Going beyond BSc is very important for Nigerians though, our parents put too much value on education. Don't just talk about d guys, ur girls are also party freaks. When i see pictures of my friends in UK, they all look d same way with that Peruvian/Brazilian weave and nonsensical eyebrows. Don't even get me started, but i jealous d fun they get to have.  |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by slimyem: 5:30pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Okija_juju:lol. Relax... All i'm saying is... There are really good women out there who have just been unlucky with the kind of men they meet through no fault of theirs.. Should they then kill themselves because they are not married?  I have brothers and cousins who have thrown good women away for no reason and only realise it and wish them back when the lady's gone.. You'd agree with me that men are such a confused bunch when it comes to choosing one to spend the rest of their lives with.. Won't you? 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sanb: you are here attacking old ladies not married ehh. most ladies would like to see themselves accomplished before settling down so that men like you don't tag them gold diggers hence a lot of us wait until we have achieved a lot in life and i can class myself as such which means i don't have to wait for a man to do this and that for me okay.... Huh Lolz..... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
@ OP You are partly right. Every woman (no exceptions) has had many men approach her for romance and marriage in her prime i.e. ages 18 to 26. Whoever says otherwise is not being honest. Age swings the mating advantage towards men while it narrows ladies options. Its unfotunate but true. Youth and beauty is a ladys most valuable asset in attracting suitors. Understand that the quality of men you are attracting now that you are in your prime will generally decline as you age. Many ladies are jolted by that brutal realization especially when men that constantly approach her and put up with her attitudes and entitlement mentality dissapear and they begin to find it very tough to attract suitors. Then they start flocking to churches. If marriage is your thing, you must make your hay while your sun is still shining. You think men are kissing your feet now? A time is coming when they will vanish and u will be invisible to them 3 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
ajayi1: I believe some gurls/women faces lot of challenges with guys which turns them out and makes it late. BUT the common one is tht some gurls do shakara too much till the guy wey love them bypass them.fact! |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
@ OP You are partly right. Every woman (no exceptions) has had many men approach her for romance and marriage in her prime i.e. ages 18 to 26. Whoever says otherwise is not being honest. Age swings the mating advantage towards men while it narrows ladies options. Its unfortunate but true. Youth and beauty is a lady's most valuable asset in attracting suitors. Understand that the quality of men you are attracting now that you are in your prime will generally decline as you age. Many ladies are jolted by that brutal realization especially when men that constantly approach her and put up with her attitudes and entitlement mentality dissapear and they begin to find it very tough to attract suitors. Then they start flocking to churches. If marriage is your thing, you must make your hay while your sun is still shining. You think men are kissing your feet now? A time is coming when they will vanish and you will become invisible to them 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:02pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
buJu-234: Did u just say, ' have married male frnds?' Smh |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:03pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
oluking: First it is wrong to think an aged lady has a problem, just because of her single Status.Besides whoever posted this topic don marry? Guess u didn't take ur time to read my subsequent posts... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Obinoscopy(m): 6:05pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
@OP Not true! Not all aged unmarried women are to be blamed for their condition. Some ladies are not lucky with guys. I know of a lady, very nice and beautiful at heart. She's very caring and understanding but she's unlucky with guys. The guys she date either cheats on her or just disappear entirely. She's a great girl to be with, I'd have married her straight away but she way too old for me (6 yrs older actually) Her only misgiving is dat she's a sickler. Now tell me, is being anemic a fault of hers? 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:06pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
HiiiPower: Tell him oo, I even put a question mark in d title of d thread as a way of saying, ' I stand to be corrected' |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:12pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Shollypopz: Didn't dat statement just sum up d whole essence of d thread? Don't worry, wait till u r old enough and u meet dat rich guy... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:19pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sashaa: Read what I said about generalization...... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 6:22pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
legendprac:SHUT UP JO!! To marry na by force.....I don't give a shit about his money, I was just messing wiv him. Oversabi! 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 6:33pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sanb: you are here attacking old ladies not married ehh. most ladies would like to see themselves accomplished before settling down so that men like you don't tag them gold diggers hence a lot of us wait until we have achieved a lot in life and i can class myself as such which means i don't have to wait for a man to do this and that for me okay.... Achieve what? I hardly see anything they achieve oh. |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:41pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Okija_juju: @ Topic... This is d definition of ON POINT |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 6:45pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sashaa: No, am saying D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̴̴̲̣̣͡ should stop being so 'picky'... And while @ it, D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̴̴̲̣̣͡ should also try not to be rude |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 6:59pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
slimyem: lol. There is no denying that many people have been victims of bad relationships.. Infact, one of my ex's keeps calling me up to tell me how I ruined her life and all worth not(however, its not true o).. But I find it difficult to believe that a pretty woman can't find a man after 20 years.. No na.. I'm not saying settle for less, but then rather than become an arse based on bad ex's or become recluse, she can improve her appeal and start mixing in crowds were her ideal man should most likely to be, don't cheapen herself but then don't create a barrier.. Be firm, get an early grip on the relationship and steer it in the direction she wants.. She should also be intelligent enough to knw when she is in an unserious relationship and move on.. All I'm saying is that most aged women who are single either caused it or didn't do enough to attract and keep the right man.. Fairytales are for hollywood, relationship requires work and many of them are not ready to put in work.. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 7:00pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sexkillz: Smh @ some ridiculous comments i am reading. . . Pls, don't shake it too much... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by legendprac(m): 7:03pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
sleekch1c: @@op Dumped ke? U gotta be kidding me.... |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Okijajuju1(m): 7:03pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
Shollypopz: And I still recall telling you that I am not a wife beater.. I don't hit women.. What caused our quarrel was you saying 'Nothing a woman does warrants her being beaten' and I disagreed.. My fiancee knows I will never hit her.. |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
LOL you crack me up with laughter. i tell you mehn go out and investigate and you would find ferdiii: |
| Re: Ladies Are To Be Blamed If They Are Aged And Still Unmarried? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 23, 2012 |
what are you laughing at DailyNews: |
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